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How to attrract the "right" type of people...?
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HI Guys, we have a small issue, where we have pics and validations on the profile, face pics in the private album, always offer to cam, or verify we are a genuine couple on the phone etc.
Social meet 1st, but still seem to attract single guys and couples out of our age ranges......
Any suggestions on how we attract the right sort of people..?
Any help appreciated.
The Voodoo'z xx |
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could i suggest a name change,, some ppl might not go for the name,,no offence just a thought ,, it caught my attention ,,I'm a S/Guy but maybe something more sutler,,  |
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I think everyone has that problem, clearly people dont read ones profile and just message on the basis of the profile picture and the strapline as i had last week when it was something on the lines of "not sleeping well at all" had numerous messages from 20 yr old boys wanting to if i wanted them to come round 
I think your profile is fine and the name is great, catches ones eye |
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"HI Guys, we have a small issue, where we have pics and validations on the profile, face pics in the private album, always offer to cam, or verify we are a genuine couple on the phone etc.
Social meet 1st, but still seem to attract single guys and couples out of our age ranges......
Any suggestions on how we attract the right sort of people..?
Any help appreciated.
The Voodoo'z xx"
there is no way of attraction the right people, no matter what you put on your profile people your not looking for will still contact you
I get daily, couples messaging me, guy out of my age range messaging me, guys asking if they can come here, guys asking me to meet them miles away etc all of which is clearly stated on my profile im not after
you just have to ignor them and reply to the people you do like, cause you not stop them lol |
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"HI Guys, we have a small issue, where we have pics and validations on the profile, face pics in the private album, always offer to cam, or verify we are a genuine couple on the phone etc.
Social meet 1st, but still seem to attract single guys and couples out of our age ranges......
Any suggestions on how we attract the right sort of people..?
Any help appreciated.
The Voodoo'z xx
there is no way of attraction the right people, no matter what you put on your profile people your not looking for will still contact you
I get daily, couples messaging me, guy out of my age range messaging me, guys asking if they can come here, guys asking me to meet them miles away etc all of which is clearly stated on my profile im not after
you just have to ignor them and reply to the people you do like, cause you not stop them lol"
I agree, there's not a lot you can do I'm afraid - we all get messages from people we don't want: it's got to the stage that I've hidden my profile for a while! 
As for your name: love it - it does catch the eye.
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Profile looks about right to us so it has to be folks just not reading it first or such like.
Must say we make a point of replying to every contact we get but thats just our way i guess.
It can be quite maddening when the folks messaging you are 200 miles away and nothing like what your looking for.
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"HI Guys, we have a small issue, where we have pics and validations on the profile, face pics in the private album, always offer to cam, or verify we are a genuine couple on the phone etc.
Social meet 1st, but still seem to attract single guys and couples out of our age ranges......
Any suggestions on how we attract the right sort of people..?
Any help appreciated.
The Voodoo'z xx"
As a point of view... your searching profiles... I find yours say... start reading about a party... (they seem up for it and open?) Then the SHOUTING AT THE READER WE DON@T THIS AND THAT... (um.. yeah yeah... boring skip that bit) Then start then reading about your body builds your size of tits... (yawns?) Have to now start to scroll down... (visually the text looks broken... its sentences not paragraphs... its hard to keeptrackofwhat you've read... getting bored now...)
Then finally Pictures... (WHAM!... photo's... the guy looks like he is having fun... the women looks slim and youthful... seriuosly you look younger than your age... mid twenties? Nice picture... thoughts on the nice atrractive woman... she must be up for it... having seen her being nailed by the big guy over the bar... I'll message her... with any real thoughts tha your a couple...)
um... only my thoughts (in the brackets)
I'd have a think about moving your party details towards the end more... I'm not worried about the size of your tits and how slim in size you are... or that your a rugby player size... I can see all those details in effect from your profile pictures... so edit those out... and join the sentences together into a couple of paragraphs for reading... less is sometime more... peeps get bored reading stuff and think fuck it... lets message them and see where I stand...I might get lucky... They've looked at your profile... but they've not taken it in? if that makes sense...
only my numpty thoughts... I shut up?! eek!
But you are a very slim and attractive woman and youthful looking so maybe get some worse pictures? lol
And yeah my profile is crap... I know!!! tee hee  |
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