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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey guys I have been on here for a while and very rarely get a message! Any suggestions as to what I can do to my profile to spice it up or any reasons why u think I ain't getting messages? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're attached so that will be a turn off for many. You can't accommodate which is also a turn off. It's tough enough on here for single men who can accommodate so I think you're climbing a up hill battle.
I've no sympathy for cheaters though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Many are cheaters on here
Thing is
You need to talk to ladies first
I'm old fashioned and never text a guy first!! Also be happy ladies dont want to hear about your miserable sex life or how much u love your kids
Beeee freeeee and swinnnggg xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok I get that but I've also read somewhere basic short profiles are pretty shite and that more detail is better.
Which is correct so you ladies look at longer profile text or shorter? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok I get that but I've also read somewhere basic short profiles are pretty shite and that more detail is better.
Which is correct so you ladies look at longer profile text or shorter?"
Your profile doesn't have detail. Just waffle. Short profiles are crap as are longer ones that say nothing. Your profile needs to sell you. |
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You're either happy with your profile and it works well for you and in which case leave it as it is, or you're not happy with it and it's not getting you views or messages, in which case change it. It might not be your profile, it might be what you write in messages. Whatever you choose to do, everyone on here will give their own advice, and as you've already seen with the long/short profile comment, all will be different. You can't appeal to everyone and if you try, you wot attract anyone. Lose the height bit, it clearly states your height in your stats. You can't change that so women will either love it or hate it, so don't waste space justifying it. It makes it sound like you're really hung up on it. Don't be at all negative and show more of your personality. At the mo, it's a trifle bland. |
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Profile text (and pics) are like a shop window - that's what's going to attract people - imo profiles should have a reasonable length and a bit of humour so you can gauge something about the person. You don't need to justify why you're playing away - just state you're in a relationship and people will either not be interested at that point or not mind - the reasons why you're playing away are - usually - irrelevant.
As to pics, I never mind if there is , say, only one pic on main profile as long as it looks like there are others available (eg in friends) - I don't have any revealing/ identifying public shots myself  |
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