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"If you go to a bar or pub that you know is frequented by swingers how do you let others know that you are also a swinger"
You accept that swingers are not swingers all the time and leave it at that. We would hate to be approached if we were just out for a quiet drink. |
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over a year ago
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Easy fella easy! !
All you need to do is walk around the room any woman you see with nothing in her hand example a drink just walk behind her get your cock out and place it in her hand it always works .
good luck happy swinging  |
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over a year ago
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"If you go to a bar or pub that you know is frequented by swingers how do you let others know that you are also a swinger"
If your talking about the places advertised locally and just gate crashing rather than messaging first and getting an invite
Most people will think its rude and creepy and very stalkerish |
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"No personal experience but I think I would just talk and flirt, see how it evolves. "
 I was in a pub Saturday night and a guy came in with a tshirt on, with a lady on the front and the word swingers on it. I asked him does it mean what I think. he said no. Anyone ever seen one? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They will smell of travelodge soap 
It has no smell  There we go then !!! If they don't smell there swingers "
Oi you lol. I smell lovely when I turn up for my meets |
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"No personal experience but I think I would just talk and flirt, see how it evolves.
I was in a pub Saturday night and a guy came in with a tshirt on, with a lady on the front and the word swingers on it. I asked him does it mean what I think. he said no. Anyone ever seen one?"
Yes I know a golfer with one I presumed it meant he was a cock .
Even if you go to the places swingers go, unless you are known chances are you won't meet anyone as we don't advertise it and never met other swingers who do .
I think to sum it up in a sentence , " swingers look like normal people who are out with their friends "
Hence the reason why the op made the post he did |
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"No personal experience but I think I would just talk and flirt, see how it evolves.
I was in a pub Saturday night and a guy came in with a tshirt on, with a lady on the front and the word swingers on it. I asked him does it mean what I think. he said no. Anyone ever seen one?
Yes I know a golfer with one I presumed it meant he was a cock .
Even if you go to the places swingers go, unless you are known chances are you won't meet anyone as we don't advertise it and never met other swingers who do .
I think to sum it up in a sentence , " swingers look like normal people who are out with their friends "
Hence the reason why the op made the post he did "
Swingers look like normal people  this is where I've been going wrong |
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"No personal experience but I think I would just talk and flirt, see how it evolves.
I was in a pub Saturday night and a guy came in with a tshirt on, with a lady on the front and the word swingers on it. I asked him does it mean what I think. he said no. Anyone ever seen one?
Yes I know a golfer with one I presumed it meant he was a cock .
Even if you go to the places swingers go, unless you are known chances are you won't meet anyone as we don't advertise it and never met other swingers who do .
I think to sum it up in a sentence , " swingers look like normal people who are out with their friends "
Hence the reason why the op made the post he did "
Yeah I wouldn't know a swinger unless they said hello and i recognised them free
from here. This was a ordinary pub. Quite a few of these pubs in Southampton |
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"If you go to a bar or pub that you know is frequented by swingers how do you let others know that you are also a swinger"
I stand there naked with a white towel wrapped around my waste and then spend the rest of the night following couples until the bouncers chuck me out  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When I am in a swinging club walking around in lingerie I am swinging.
When I am out in a bar with friends I am not swinging.
I may go to swinging clubs and indeed am on this site, however I am not defined by swinging. I am not interested in sex with strangers all the time, I do not want to be approached in bars, supermarket's, at work etc.
Surprising as this may sound, im not driven by sex or permanently horny.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I am in a swinging club walking around in lingerie I am swinging.
When I am out in a bar with friends I am not swinging.
I may go to swinging clubs and indeed am on this site, however I am not defined by swinging. I am not interested in sex with strangers all the time, I do not want to be approached in bars, supermarket's, at work etc.
Surprising as this may sound, im not driven by sex or permanently horny.
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We posted a social meet for a couple at the pub that is in question in this thread , actually naming the pub, as many couples do in southampton. Bearing in mind single guys and women are not usually invited
We had a single guy , who miraculously knew we were swingers, who got really shitty because we would not play with him. Long story , but we left
He had never met us before or messaged us before obviously looked at our status and thought he would try his luck .
Hence why we have no face pictures up anymore
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I am in a swinging club walking around in lingerie I am swinging.
When I am out in a bar with friends I am not swinging.
I may go to swinging clubs and indeed am on this site, however I am not defined by swinging. I am not interested in sex with strangers all the time, I do not want to be approached in bars, supermarket's, at work etc.
Surprising as this may sound, im not driven by sex or permanently horny.
We posted a social meet for a couple at the pub that is in question in this thread , actually naming the pub, as many couples do in southampton. Bearing in mind single guys and women are not usually invited
We had a single guy , who miraculously knew we were swingers, who got really shitty because we would not play with him. Long story , but we left
He had never met us before or messaged us before obviously looked at our status and thought he would try his luck .
Hence why we have no face pictures up anymore
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My pub is from the W chain of pubs. I didnt want to name specific pub as I wasnt sure if it was allowed. |
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By *i015 OP Man
over a year ago
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"If you go to a bar or pub that you know is frequented by swingers how do you let others know that you are also a swinger
If your talking about the places advertised locally and just gate crashing rather than messaging first and getting an invite
Most people will think its rude and creepy and very stalkerish "
I don't particularly go when someone had posted that they are going to meet, I was just wondering how you'd let others know that you are a swinger As the places are frequented by swingers. I know that some single guys can be pushy and get shitty when you turn them down, I just like to mingle but would be too nervous to actually approach others in case I get it wrong about what they are looking for and would rather have them approach me if they were interested. |
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Of course the other well known option is you sidle up beside them, and plonk your car keys into their drink. Don't worry it they react badly, they may just be worried this was indeed an accident and don't want to give the game away! |
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My pub is from the W chain of pubs. I didnt want to name specific pub as I wasnt sure if it was allowed.
That explains the tee shirt lol "
Ok being thick here but how does it?  |
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"No personal experience but I think I would just talk and flirt, see how it evolves.
I was in a pub Saturday night and a guy came in with a tshirt on, with a lady on the front and the word swingers on it. I asked him does it mean what I think. he said no. Anyone ever seen one?"
I have a tee-shirt with 4 very large and brightly coloured dildoes on the front. That normally gets folk talking! |
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"No personal experience but I think I would just talk and flirt, see how it evolves.
I was in a pub Saturday night and a guy came in with a tshirt on, with a lady on the front and the word swingers on it. I asked him does it mean what I think. he said no. Anyone ever seen one?
I have a tee-shirt with 4 very large and brightly coloured dildoes on the front. That normally gets folk talking!"
I'd be laughing hysterically |
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"No personal experience but I think I would just talk and flirt, see how it evolves.
I was in a pub Saturday night and a guy came in with a tshirt on, with a lady on the front and the word swingers on it. I asked him does it mean what I think. he said no. Anyone ever seen one?
I have a tee-shirt with 4 very large and brightly coloured dildoes on the front. That normally gets folk talking!"
Is there a suburb called Shirley in your home town lol |
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"No personal experience but I think I would just talk and flirt, see how it evolves.
I was in a pub Saturday night and a guy came in with a tshirt on, with a lady on the front and the word swingers on it. I asked him does it mean what I think. he said no. Anyone ever seen one?
I have a tee-shirt with 4 very large and brightly coloured dildoes on the front. That normally gets folk talking!
Is there a suburb called Shirley in your home town lol "
Yes, but I don't like that particular pub anymore. It used to be nice. Sometimes I get the odd coffee there but tend to go across the road now |
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"No personal experience but I think I would just talk and flirt, see how it evolves.
I was in a pub Saturday night and a guy came in with a tshirt on, with a lady on the front and the word swingers on it. I asked him does it mean what I think. he said no. Anyone ever seen one?
I have a tee-shirt with 4 very large and brightly coloured dildoes on the front. That normally gets folk talking!
Is there a suburb called Shirley in your home town lol
Yes, but I don't like that particular pub anymore. It used to be nice. Sometimes I get the odd coffee there but tend to go across the road now "
I Always mcdonalds in Shirley easy to do a runner from
Paula x |
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"No personal experience but I think I would just talk and flirt, see how it evolves.
I was in a pub Saturday night and a guy came in with a tshirt on, with a lady on the front and the word swingers on it. I asked him does it mean what I think. he said no. Anyone ever seen one?
I have a tee-shirt with 4 very large and brightly coloured dildoes on the front. That normally gets folk talking!
Is there a suburb called Shirley in your home town lol
Yes, but I don't like that particular pub anymore. It used to be nice. Sometimes I get the odd coffee there but tend to go across the road now
I Always mcdonalds in Shirley easy to do a runner from
Paula x"
True but I would be in danger of seeing people I know there. I tend to meet in the bar in Shirley or there are a couple of places in town where I feel safe |
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