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What's wrong with my profile?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's nothing wrong with your profile or your pics in my opinion. You may be too young for a lot of people but I'm sure you're within the age range for plenty of others. You've only been here two months, which isn't long for a single man really. Joining in the Forums is a good way to get noticed. Don't be disheartened. Keep massaging and good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It's a shame I can't pm you  xx would have loved to spoken like most people face to face on skype or something. And as sneaky as it sounds I'm not like the disrespectful guys on here whom I seem to be fighting a losing battle with |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lusty if only we could meet!  xx
youre a bit too young for me x "
I'm deemed very mature for my age missy! Wouldn't be tempted at maybe a coffee or something to swing your choice x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As single bloke profiles go, it's not too bad. There's a bit if substance to the text, decent enough pictures, verified. Play the patience game and your rewards will no doubt follow  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a shame I can't pm you xx would have loved to spoken like most people face to face on skype or something. And as sneaky as it sounds I'm not like the disrespectful guys on here whom I seem to be fighting a losing battle with"
Yet you still try to angle for a cheeky skype wank because she gives you the reply you hoped for?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile is great. Lovely slim body, tall, nice pics, decent content. As previously said the age range of many excludes you but there are lots looking for younger guys.
Having a good attitude and getting your personality across will be key as it's what may set you apart in a crowded market.
If you're patient it should then happen hopefully.
Good luck.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a shame I can't pm you xx would have loved to spoken like most people face to face on skype or something. And as sneaky as it sounds I'm not like the disrespectful guys on here whom I seem to be fighting a losing battle with"
Slagging off your peer group and bmaming them for your lack of success is not an appealing trait.
I haven't read your profile but your response to the ladies that have responded on this thread comes across as both needy and pushy. |
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"It's a shame I can't pm you xx would have loved to spoken like most people face to face on skype or something. And as sneaky as it sounds I'm not like the disrespectful guys on here whom I seem to be fighting a losing battle with
Yet you still try to angle for a cheeky skype wank because she gives you the reply you hoped for?
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brutal but unerringly accurate one suspects |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dude, just be you and don't worry about what you perceive as fighting a battle against the timewasters.....the good folk of fab seem to be pretty good at sorting the wheat from the chaff and I'm sure you'll fall into the category you deserve to.....and don't try to push for anything in the forums either, it doesent reflect well.......be yourself, use the social side of the site to make friends and you will find your own place on here naturally I'm sure
Best of luck |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks guys for the responses I guess patience does come into it, but as like most of us can get easily carried away when looking through certain profiles. The skype offer was a mear joke and was a friendly conversation offer which I did clearly state.
Good luck to all and I hope to attend a party although am extremely nervous about going alone, perhaps their is someone viewing this whose in London that could show me? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Teeny bit of constructive criticism, if I was looking for single guys...I would personally like to see a clearer face pic. Also, the part in your profile where it's says about 'lots of variety' would personally be a no go for me. But that is just my opinion. I'm sure the ladies will be round soon x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks guys for the responses I guess patience does come into it, but as like most of us can get easily carried away when looking through certain profiles. The skype offer was a mear joke and was a friendly conversation offer which I did clearly state.
Good luck to all and I hope to attend a party although am extremely nervous about going alone, perhaps their is someone viewing this whose in London that could show me?"
Why don't you check out the parties / events section in the forums for ideas ~ for example there are forum social events at Xtasia & Jaydees both in June and one closer to you in a few weeks at OP4F for the London social. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You can't plan these things unfortunately
I'tll happen when it happens
Chin up Dude
Guess it didn't happen for this user?!!  ciao "
Maybe his wife got home....or he found a nice girl on on here and decided to settle down in the last couple of hours....who really knows? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You can't plan these things unfortunately
I'tll happen when it happens
Chin up Dude
Guess it didn't happen for this user?!! ciao
Maybe his wife got home....or he found a nice girl on on here and decided to settle down in the last couple of hours....who really knows? "
Alas it's a mystery  |
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By *onacletonyCouple
over a year ago
Brighton, Greater London |
"You can't plan these things unfortunately
I'tll happen when it happens
Chin up Dude
Guess it didn't happen for this user?!! ciao "
Yes! How funny to post something like that then close your account! I always feel a little sad when someone sends us a message and then is 'no longer on Fab' within a few hours... it's as if our lack of an instant reply was that final straw... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You can't plan these things unfortunately
I'tll happen when it happens
Chin up Dude
Guess it didn't happen for this user?!! ciao
Maybe his wife got home....or he found a nice girl on on here and decided to settle down in the last couple of hours....who really knows? "
Haha could you imagine! Haha what a tit! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"its this place. there arent enough women and too many blokes
That old chestnut eh  "
yeh that old chestnut. if ur picky you need all the choice you can get
if i`d shag anything with a pulse i`d be knee deep onhere  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"its this place. there arent enough women and too many blokes
That old chestnut eh
yeh that old chestnut. if ur picky you need all the choice you can get
if i`d shag anything with a pulse i`d be knee deep onhere "
Same applies to all dudes on here though surely?
Meh.....we all have a different experience of the place I guess |
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"It's a shame I can't pm you xx would have loved to spoken like most people face to face on skype or something. And as sneaky as it sounds I'm not like the disrespectful guys on here whom I seem to be fighting a losing battle with
Yet you still try to angle for a cheeky skype wank because she gives you the reply you hoped for?
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Coming across as a little desperate n'est pas?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a shame I can't pm you xx would have loved to spoken like most people face to face on skype or something. And as sneaky as it sounds I'm not like the disrespectful guys on here whom I seem to be fighting a losing battle with
Yet you still try to angle for a cheeky skype wank because she gives you the reply you hoped for?
Coming across as a little desperate n'est pas? "
Multilingual? |
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"its this place. there arent enough women and too many blokes
That old chestnut eh
yeh that old chestnut. if ur picky you need all the choice you can get
if i`d shag anything with a pulse i`d be knee deep onhere "
Such an attractive attitude. |
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"It's a shame I can't pm you xx would have loved to spoken like most people face to face on skype or something. And as sneaky as it sounds I'm not like the disrespectful guys on here whom I seem to be fighting a losing battle with
Yet you still try to angle for a cheeky skype wank because she gives you the reply you hoped for?
Coming across as a little desperate n'est pas?
Multilingual? "
Cunnilingual ... Or I would be if I could reach. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a shame I can't pm you xx would have loved to spoken like most people face to face on skype or something. And as sneaky as it sounds I'm not like the disrespectful guys on here whom I seem to be fighting a losing battle with
Yet you still try to angle for a cheeky skype wank because she gives you the reply you hoped for?
Coming across as a little desperate n'est pas?
Multilingual?
Cunnilingual ... Or I would be if I could reach. "
A cunning linguist....of that I'm sure my queen |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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Slagging off your peer group and bmaming them for your lack of success is not an appealing trait.
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bingo!!!... there is being the best "you" you can be and bigging that up... and there is taking a big old bus and running over those who may stand between you and a meet....
the latter does you no favours......
they don't stand between you and a meet... you determine your own fate....
if you think your profile reflects you the best you can... keep it
if not... change it!!!!
simple as that.... concentrate on you!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Slagging off your peer group and bmaming them for your lack of success is not an appealing trait.
bingo!!!... there is being the best "you" you can be and bigging that up... ando there is taking a big old bus and running over those who may stand between you and a meet....
the latter does you no favours......
they don't stand between you and a meet... you determine your own fate....
if you think your profile reflects you the best you can... keep it
if not... change it!!!!
simple as that.... concentrate on you!!"
Wisdom as always Fabio...... |
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"It's a shame I can't pm you xx would have loved to spoken like most people face to face on skype or something. And as sneaky as it sounds I'm not like the disrespectful guys on here whom I seem to be fighting a losing battle with
Yet you still try to angle for a cheeky skype wank because she gives you the reply you hoped for?
Coming across as a little desperate n'est pas?
Multilingual?
Cunnilingual ... Or I would be if I could reach.
A cunning linguist....of that I'm sure my queen "
So if you are King, who will give and who will take ...?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a shame I can't pm you xx would have loved to spoken like most people face to face on skype or something. And as sneaky as it sounds I'm not like the disrespectful guys on here whom I seem to be fighting a losing battle with
Yet you still try to angle for a cheeky skype wank because she gives you the reply you hoped for?
Coming across as a little desperate n'est pas?
Multilingual?
Cunnilingual ... Or I would be if I could reach.
A cunning linguist....of that I'm sure my queen
So if you are King, who will give and who will take ...? "
A lady doesent have to make the decision, but she must take the decision as to weather the make the decision...so the decision is yours my lady....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP It might help if you decide whether you are straight or bi curious since your personal details contradict your profile text. Nothing wrong with being either but it can be misleading. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I spend such long time preparing my messages and pics but nothing comes good please kind Fabsters give me some advice x"
Are you sending these well crafted messages to people who's criteria you fit? |
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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago
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Your profile & pics wil no doubt appeal to members on here.
As the male of the couple though the likes of _abio and a few other forumites impress me the most. Respectful and a great attitude and persona.
Against huge numbers ratio women and couples may look for these stand out attributes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your profile & pics wil no doubt appeal to members on here.
As the male of the couple though the likes of _abio and a few other forumites impress me the most. Respectful and a great attitude and persona.
Against huge numbers ratio women and couples may look for these stand out attributes."
Fabio is chock full of wisdom....I keep nicking what he says and passing off at as my own.....but shhhh! Don't tell him  |
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