"To be honest I would not know were to start with it.
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I'll be honest with you then. The first requirement for a couple to swing is total honesty and if you can't bring yourself to even mention it to her there is work to be done. Mention it to her as a fantasy maybe while you make love and see how she responds, ask her if she has ever thought about having sex with another man introduce it slowly. Before you do any of these things remove your profile from here. |
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Apart from the frying pan 
I don't really know I never played away but I look at peoples photos read the reviews on socials and swinging clubs and I would just like to spice things up.
I would find it a big turn on for my other half to be fucked by another man as I watch as well. |
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"Apart from the frying pan
I don't really know I never played away but I look at peoples photos read the reviews on socials and swinging clubs and I would just like to spice things up.
I would find it a big turn on for my other half to be fucked by another man as I watch as well."
see you should be telling her this. I feel very uncomfortable when people start talking about their partners when they aren't here, I know you want advice but imagine her having a conversation with strangers about you and your sex life. Get a bottle of good wine, switch the telly off, send any kids to grandmas, tell her you love her and want to talk then start the conversation, listen to what she has to say and ask that she listens to you, do this frequently and even if you don't end up as a couple on here you might gain a new openess that will lead to spicing things up. Good luck |
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