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I can't climax - help?
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Hi all,
I just can't manage to climax, and wanted to know if anyone else ever had that problem and if there is anything I can try?
Some women obviously like someone who can go for hours without coming, but my experience is most women get fed up after a while and think they are doing something wrong!!
I'm starting to get a complex about this - help anyone? |
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You could find an understanding woman, who you could learn to trust, and with time you might be able to let yourself go. I have this problem too, and this is what I'm hoping for lol  |
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"You could find an understanding woman, who you could learn to trust, and with time you might be able to let yourself go. I have this problem too, and this is what I'm hoping for lol "
bet I could make you haha  |
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Two points. 1 does the equipment work ok? I.e can you wank to a successful climax? If not, seek medical attention. Seriously. 2. Are you overdoing it with point one? Maybe with help of porn etc, you are simply becoming jaded. I'd recommend a period of total abstinence for at least 3 weeks. |
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"You could find an understanding woman, who you could learn to trust, and with time you might be able to let yourself go. I have this problem too, and this is what I'm hoping for lol bet I could make you haha
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"I can wank ok... have gone two months without sex before too... I just can't seem to finish....???"
Easier said than done, but just try relaxing, lots of foreplay etc. good luck x |
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"I can wank ok... have gone two months without sex before too... I just can't seem to finish....???"
are you enjoying sex? If the answer is yes, then whats the problem? Stop putting so much pressure on yourself. if the woman is complaining, then im sorry, but shallow comes to mind. relax, enjoy, and the rest will cum!  |
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Not to delve to much into your situation but excessive masturbating can reduce a mans ability to ejaculate during penetration. The "hand grip" so to speak, is more intense so can "numb" the ability to climax any other way.
Also excessive porn can result in a person being unable to climax in a real encounter, as their idea of sex is what they see in porn.
Try not to mastubate at all and only climax when you're in a real encounter.
This is a very very common problem in men these days. Hope you get sorted out mate. |
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"Not to delve to much into your situation but excessive masturbating can reduce a mans ability to ejaculate during penetration. The "hand grip" so to speak, is more intense so can "numb" the ability to climax any other way.
Also excessive porn can result in a person being unable to climax in a real encounter, as their idea of sex is what they see in porn.
Try not to mastubate at all and only climax when you're in a real encounter.
This is a very very common problem in men these days. Hope you get sorted out mate. "
I don't disagree with any of the above but if you only get a shag every 3 months that can be tough going!  |
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Hey there, male of the couple typing, I had this problem a few years back. It was a result of a hormonal imbalance coupled with nerve damage from an operation. On paper lasting hours is indeed great but in reality it's not much fun. It did eventually sort itself out although if I'm stressed, etc, it can still happen now.
What you do NEED to do is go to your GP, or a local sexual health clinic, and talk to a professional about it. Health is not something to be sniffed at!
Hope this helps! |
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"You could find an understanding woman, who you could learn to trust, and with time you might be able to let yourself go. I have this problem too, and this is what I'm hoping for lol "
You should never feel pressured to cum, if its going to happen and the Guy should be be prepared to wait and try different things with you :-0 |
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"You could find an understanding woman, who you could learn to trust, and with time you might be able to let yourself go. I have this problem too, and this is what I'm hoping for lol bet I could make you haha
do you have the same problem I'm free all week haha "
Bless your little cottons.
Tbh I'd fall asleep with you trying with your tongue. I'll stick to what does work, and that's not some lad's false promises. |
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"Hi all,
I just can't manage to climax, and wanted to know if anyone else ever had that problem and if there is anything I can try?
Some women obviously like someone who can go for hours without coming, but my experience is most women get fed up after a while and think they are doing something wrong!!
I'm starting to get a complex about this - help anyone?"
Does this only happen when swinging with the pressure that beings or is it every sexual encounter you've had.
P.S. Totally off topic but my god is your body physically my type.....lordy, I've come over all unnecessary.
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Sorry if I missed this in the comments, but do you cum from wanking? I've known a few guys who get so used to a death grip when wanking that the feeling of a wet warm hole is no longer enough for them to get off because they're so desensitised... |
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I rarely ejaculate .There is little need it serves little purpose than please some women and these women are rarely interested in my / your pleasure . I orgasm plenty and an intelligent caring woman would understand x  |
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Are you taking any medication? Around ten years ago I had that problem and it turned out to be a side-effect. If not, it could be stress related whether externally or because of this. |
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