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Just wondering what's people's views are on rudeness when you take the time to read someone's or couple profile.
It quite clearly states no picture no reply and you add a picture and still no reply.
So why say that on your profile if your going to hold up your end of bargain |
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"Just wondering what's people's views are on rudeness when you take the time to read someone's or couple profile.
It quite clearly states no picture no reply and you add a picture and still no reply.
So why say that on your profile if your going to hold up your end of bargain "
This: rassssssssssssssssssssssspppppppppppppppppppppppppppbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrryyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy they don't need to reply! get over it. Z |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't let it worry you,move on to the next  |
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"Just wondering what's people's views are on rudeness when you take the time to read someone's or couple profile.
It quite clearly states no picture no reply and you add a picture and still no reply.
So why say that on your profile if your going to hold up your end of bargain "
they saw your pic and didn't want to reply? Z |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some of the women and couples on here get 100 plus messages a day. They would need a PA to answer them all
Myself, I get 3 or 4. Makes me feel sad  but at least I don't need a PA  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondering what's people's views are on rudeness when you take the time to read someone's or couple profile.
It quite clearly states no picture no reply and you add a picture and still no reply.
So why say that on your profile if your going to hold up your end of bargain "
ok, they reply with "don't want to meet", they get messaged back with "why not, I have a cock, and pictures of it"... they then have to try and justify why they don't want to meet.....
if things like this bother you so much then this sites not really for you  |
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It does not bother me just don't understand when people say it but don't mean it.
Why say it in the first place |
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"It does not bother me just don't understand when people say it but don't mean it.
Why say it in the first place"
they ask for a pic - that doesn't mean they will meet Z |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's not rude. A reply saying 'Sorry, you're minging' would be rude. |
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But I am not on about met I am on about it says no pic no reply.
That to me means they will reply to you if you show a pic of you.
But some don't |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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does it say no pic no reply,or send a pic for a definate reply? there is a difference!
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"But I am not on about met I am on about it says no pic no reply.
That to me means they will reply to you if you show a pic of you.
But some don't"
clutching at straws? why worry? Z |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But I am not on about met I am on about it says no pic no reply.
That to me means they will reply to you if you show a pic of you.
But some don't"
To me that means if you don't send a pic you definitely wont get a reply. It doesn't promise one to everyone that does send a pic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In fairness I never message anybody that demands a photo, or a code word or anything similar as it comes across as rude and arrogant.
So I have a weeny bit of sympathy that it's maybe irritating when people make grand demands but don't respond to people that try to meet their criteria. |
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"It does not bother me just don't understand when people say it but don't mean it.
Why say it in the first place"
What they actually mean is
"no picture no reply but a picture is no guarantee of a reply either" |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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Just take it as they mean thank you but no thank you....
I'm replying on their behalf. They are not interested so put your time into the next couple who may be..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You send us a message with a picture, we don't find you attractive enough to want to meet, we have no intention of pursuing conversation further so why should we send a pic in return?
Answers on a postcard please  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think it's rude not replying, they just hold all the cards,
Like people always say women/couples get hundreds of messages a day, they can't reply to everyone,
But if you are going to reply pick me,
Good or bad it's better then getting blanked |
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I think the responses on here mate tell you everything you need to know lol
Maybe they have just hot listed you for later on and one day you will get like 200 meet today requests! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But I am not on about met I am on about it says no pic no reply.
That to me means they will reply to you if you show a pic of you.
But some don't"
That's where you are wrong then.
Their telling people if they don't get a pic with a message then they will not reply at all but send a pic and they might, end of. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think the responses on here mate tell you everything you need to know lol
Maybe they have just hot listed you for later on and one day you will get like 200 meet today requests!"
or not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get lots of messages everyday, its impossible to reply to all of them. sometimes i miss messages from friends. dont take it to heart, its all about fun. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Op go into 'sent messages'
Check the messages status on the right hand column.
If it says either 'read' or 'deleted' and you haven't heard anything, accept it.
Do what I do, block them so they don't soil your search results again.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Op,
Ignore your sent folder completely and concentrate on your inbox only.
We read, discuss and respond to messages when we want. Not to someone else's time frame.
If we dont get round to discussing some random message or profile for 3 or 4 days..... so what?
Life, work, and everything else comes first. Nsa, fits in with our lives so as and when suits  |
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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago
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"Just wondering what's people's views are on rudeness when you take the time to read someone's or couple profile.
It quite clearly states no picture no reply and you add a picture and still no reply.
So why say that on your profile if your going to hold up your end of bargain "
Op we are with you a little bit on this one. We understand that some people do get a lot of mail which some of them could stop if they really wanted to by way of their profile text the photos that they use and filters, but that's another matter, We think they could make it clearer what they mean by a few choose words in their profile text. Then that way it would not come across as rude if they did not reply, Then everyone would be happy and happy is good  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Op,
Ignore your sent folder completely and concentrate on your inbox only.
We read, discuss and respond to messages when we want. Not to someone else's time frame.
If we dont get round to discussing some random message or profile for 3 or 4 days..... so what?
Life, work, and everything else comes first. Nsa, fits in with our lives so as and when suits "
Oh right yeah.
Silly op, he mustn't have a life so he can wait the three or four days while you decide wether or not to respond to him though...
All about the sent box op, as I say, block those who have read or deleted your mail.
That way you don't waste any browse time on those people in the future. |
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