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How to address women
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Open question really, how do women like to be addressed on here Seriously, (pre-empting all the bitch, slut, whore gags )when they don't have a name on their profile. I know some don't like being called babe, I'm uncomfortable with hun (bit too like the German military for me), I have had an icy response to babe, for me it implies a gorgeous woman, not a Disney pig! Loves a bit old fashioned just. wondered what the preferred etiquette was? answers on a postcard (or you can just reply - saves the environment). Consider me curious  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of men say hello sexy..... A young man I see calls me dear, I know I'm old but blimey. The only name I really don't like is Miss/Mistress. Anything else I just see as small talk |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have my name on my profile so it impresses me if a man uses it
I dont get the hump when called babe,sexy,Hun etc i just let them know my name at some point |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot don't use a name and just say Hi, how are you but I get called Legs quite often which is fine by me. I'm not overly keen on babes but I wouldn't hold it against anyone  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A lot don't use a name and just say Hi, how are you but I get called Legs quite often which is fine by me. I'm not overly keen on babes but I wouldn't hold it against anyone "
If i told you, you had gorgeous legs. Would you hold it against me?
(Hehe, couldn't resist. You were asking for it haha and i had to cease the moment)
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hmmm now that we've addressed an appropriate manner to address a woman lets move swiftly on to how to best to undress a woman hmmm do you ladies like to be undressed slowly and sensually or do you like it hard and fast with your clothes ripped from your body in a horny frenzy? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You don't necessarily need to use a name:
"Hi there, how are you" is a perfectly acceptable opening sentence. "
I dunno lots of women's profiles say asking how are you will get you blocked lol |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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"Use their profile name then...i get Missy a lot or Miss D
It does really tickle me when im addressed as Madame though!  "
I get DB9 or Queen which is fine by me. Not keen on 'hun'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You don't necessarily need to use a name:
"Hi there, how are you" is a perfectly acceptable opening sentence. "
ohh those words are banned reading profiles loads moan it's not inventive enough to get a reply. Wtf!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A lot don't use a name and just say Hi, how are you but I get called Legs quite often which is fine by me. I'm not overly keen on babes but I wouldn't hold it against anyone
If i told you, you had gorgeous legs. Would you hold it against me?
(Hehe, couldn't resist. You were asking for it haha and i had to cease the moment)
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You sweet talker Pops  |
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"You don't necessarily need to use a name:
"Hi there, how are you" is a perfectly acceptable opening sentence.
ohh those words are banned reading profiles loads moan it's not inventive enough to get a reply. Wtf!!"
I think most people will agree it's an acceptable OPENING sentence. If it's the only sentence it then becomes unacceptable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Even though I have my name on my profile it very rarely gets used,probably because lots of people don't use their real names anyway
Most people will call me something referring to the username which is fine by me,unless someone is told that certain terms of address are unacceptable they won't know so I think its unfair to get huffy about it,I hate the term dear but don't go bonkers about it if its used |
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"You don't necessarily need to use a name:
"Hi there, how are you" is a perfectly acceptable opening sentence.
ohh those words are banned reading profiles loads moan it's not inventive enough to get a reply. Wtf!!"
Not by me!
Mind you, after I've said "I'm fine thanks" I do expect something with a little more thought.
Messages like "Hi hun wanna fuck" are the ones that annoy me. Along with the long descriptions of what they intend to do with me before they've even said hello or swapped pics.  |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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"You don't necessarily need to use a name:
"Hi there, how are you" is a perfectly acceptable opening sentence.
ohh those words are banned reading profiles loads moan it's not inventive enough to get a reply. Wtf!!"
I love those messages. When I have the time I tell them - in great lengthy detail.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me I'm not bothered if i'm called babe, hun, sexy etc.
What makes the difference for me is the content of the message.
If a first message is sleazy or particularly graphic then I'm not interested, I'd like to think that a guy is interested in getting to know me a little and is happy to engage in some friendly conversation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me I'm not bothered if i'm called babe, hun, sexy etc.
What makes the difference for me is the content of the message.
If a first message is sleazy or particularly graphic then I'm not interested, I'd like to think that a guy is interested in getting to know me a little and is happy to engage in some friendly conversation. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to say babes.
Its a complimentary address I think, I know some people feel its disingenuous, but it is what I naturally write.
Its much friendlier than just "hi" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dearest darling snookyookums honeybunch.......
I'd usually say your my huni bun sugar plum something something your my sweetie pie
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Something something=
Pumpy umpyumpkin..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dearest darling snookyookums honeybunch.......
I'd usually say your my huni bun sugar plum something something your my sweetie pie
Something something=
Pumpy umpyumpkin..... "
Where you been hiding my whole life? Lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dearest darling snookyookums honeybunch.......
I'd usually say your my huni bun sugar plum something something your my sweetie pie
Something something=
Pumpy umpyumpkin.....
Where you been hiding my whole life? Lol
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Haven't been hiding precious.....just waiting!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You don't necessarily need to use a name:
"Hi there, how are you" is a perfectly acceptable opening sentence. "
Noooooo. Not how are you! !. I get so many messages every day asking me how I am. I hate them lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dearest darling snookyookums honeybunch.......
I'd usually say your my huni bun sugar plum something something your my sweetie pie
Something something=
Pumpy umpyumpkin.....
Where you been hiding my whole life? Lol
Haven't been hiding precious.....just waiting!!!! "
....well, guess no need to wait any longer
[Adds to hotlist]
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't like Hun or babe or indeed anything overly familiar in an introductory message. My profile name will do nicely until I'm ready to divulge my real name. But by then you will have learned to call me your highness ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Open question really, how do women like to be addressed on here Seriously, (pre-empting all the bitch, slut, whore gags)when they don't have a name on their profile. I know some don't like being called babe, I'm uncomfortable with hun (bit too like the German military for me), I have had an icy response to babe, for me it implies a gorgeous woman, not a Disney pig! Loves a bit old fashioned just. wondered what the preferred etiquette was? answers on a postcard (or you can just reply - saves the environment). Consider me curious "
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"Dear Ms" .... works for me
as does "Hi, pretty woman"
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Almost every message I have ever received with babe, huni, sweet (insert any other cringeworthy name) has been from someone with a poor profile and very little other content in the message, let alone one worth reading.
Don't get me started on 'bbe'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Jools hates being called babe, hun, sweetie, darling etc.....
Jools is just fine .
Don't like guys being to familiar, once we chatted and got to know people.
But there are deffo regional terms of endearment that people in other parts of county don't understand.
Ex.
Pet( as in alreet pet)
Chick or chicken( as in how do chick)
Babes or treacle( Alwight treacle)
Etc...
Feel free to add or amended.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Shelley works for me .. babe honey and things like that don't upset me I dont like "hen" though ! "
With you on that one Shelley...not keen on 'pal' either..or 'doll'.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really don't give a rats arse, you can even call me a rats arse.
One guy calls me Karl Pilkington.
Another makes extensive use of sweetie.
Around these ere parts im often a bab.
If something isn't said with malicious intent I really do not care, address me how you wish and feel comfortable.
Trying not to cause offence to anyone must be like negotiating a particularly tricky assault course, on stilts......and trying not to break all the eggshells.
I'm off for a valium and a long lie down. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I really don't give a rats arse, you can even call me a rats arse.
One guy calls me Karl Pilkington.
Another makes extensive use of sweetie.
Around these ere parts im often a bab.
If something isn't said with malicious intent I really do not care, address me how you wish and feel comfortable.
Trying not to cause offence to anyone must be like negotiating a particularly tricky assault course, on stilts......and trying not to break all the eggshells.
I'm off for a valium and a long lie down."
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't mind any term that's intended to convey a pleasant attitude. Babe, Hun, sweetie, goddess etc, that's better than a rude, cute message. I don't admire a coarse opening gambit one bit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Address people the same way that you would in any social situation...
Honestly, if you were introduced to a stranger in a social setting, would you really open with "Hi Sexy, nice tits! Wot u up 2?"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't mind any term that's intended to convey a pleasant attitude. Babe, Hun, sweetie, goddess etc, that's better than a rude, cute message. I don't admire a coarse opening gambit one bit. "
A mate always called his wife Babe when she pissed him off, as she reminded him of a pig. Might not be a good idea for babe now maybe.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Open question really, how do women like to be addressed on here Seriously, (pre-empting all the bitch, slut, whore gags)when they don't have a name on their profile. I know some don't like being called babe, I'm uncomfortable with hun (bit too like the German military for me), I have had an icy response to babe, for me it implies a gorgeous woman, not a Disney pig! Loves a bit old fashioned just. wondered what the preferred etiquette was? answers on a postcard (or you can just reply - saves the environment). Consider me curious "
Mate, this is a swinging website, but you're not sure how to address women?
No offence meant at all, but if you need tips ...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mate, this is a swinging website, but you're not sure how to address women?
No offence meant at all, but if you need tips ...
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Oh go on then - I'm burning with desire to know how an expert would do it.. |
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