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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You have three pictures and they're all rather unflattering pics of your clock.
How the hell is someone meant to know if you're attractive to them from that?
I didn't bother to read the profile text tbh |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
To be blunt - 3 unattractive cock pics and a whiny self-pitying profile text. You need to revamp your profile and say what you can offer and what you are looking for in a more positive and upbeat way.
Whining on a profile will get you nothing. Not even a pity shag. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh now I read it. Not very informative, a bit whiney and kinda desperate.
Tbh put yourself in someone else's shoe's would you meet you based on your profile? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you for that.
What do you think would help.
Open to polite suggestions. "
Body, bum, back and face pictures can keep face on friends if your concerned.
Then the text is really just why you're here what you like and what you'd like to do really.
Don't use it as a trying to appeal to everyone just be honest an not full of billshit and you'll get good quality meets with people your compatible with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What is your body build,no one can make out the build of your body.Are you hairy are you smooth?? 3 close ups of your cock doesn't send any messages out to me.Show your full body (minus your head) to give people an idea. |
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"To be blunt - 3 unattractive cock pics and a whiny self-pitying profile text. You need to revamp your profile and say what you can offer and what you are looking for in a more positive and upbeat way.
Whining on a profile will get you nothing. Not even a pity shag. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pics are crap. Even for cock pics.
And you say you're a bull, but want quiet intimate meets?
Now do you just mean you're a larger guy, or big build? As there's a difference and it's nothing to do with being a bull.
Of course if you had decent body pics we could see that for ourselves. |
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Spend some time looking at mens profiles....... Till you understand what looks and sounds good!
Then follow their example when redoing your own profile!
And..........
Whats in it for the girl?
You tell her what YOU want.....no good!
Tell her what she can hope to enjoy by meeting you!
Get some proper photos done by a photographer.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Best advice I can give is look at some of the other guys profiles see what they have written and how they have set the profiles up and what type of pictures they have used, then add your own style to what you have seen and take it from there. Good luck mate hang on in there.
Or you could always try going to the socials and make friends there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why will no one meet me. What am I doing wrong 
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Are you trying to say your a bull because you believe your cocks massive or you're just a big possibly overweight guy or you're into the cuckold scene and you play as a bull ???????? |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"Why will no one meet me. What am I doing wrong
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Theres countless threads that have asked the same question and will offer the same generic advice to you,
You know yourself better than anyone else you need to capture yourself in words and pictures whats your unique selling point if not you re likely to be lost in the thousands of other guys profiles
I call it the triple H factor. One of them is you must be Hung like a horse*
I can give yyou the magic profile pill, however before I can start you ll need to send me your personal bank details
* as most men are nt you ll need to concentrate / focus on your other H factors,
Have fun,  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Another woe is me story ,,, come in forums and expect people to read their " what's wrong with my profile" profile ,,,, how many times forumists have you read a thread like this lol  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You have no profile picture and your photos are for friends only... No one has any idea what you look like  "
I was advised to remove them - can't win..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have no profile picture and your photos are for friends only... No one has any idea what you look like
I was advised to remove them - can't win....."
thats cos the pics you had were all bad cock pics from what ive read |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You have no profile picture and your photos are for friends only... No one has any idea what you look like
I was advised to remove them - can't win.....
thats cos the pics you had were all bad cock pics from what ive read "
GOOD POINT. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not fat, I am big. 54 inch chest and 38inch waist.
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I'm 6'2 also, but 40 inch chest and 34 waist. And I'm toned.
So your stats tell me a different story.
Just put up some decent pics of yourself and let people judge for themselves. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Any better now......"
if you are not "into large groups" or "large socials" then as a single bloke you are cutting down 2 of the best ways of actually getting yourself known as in Clubs and Socials.....
we dont know you... you know you!!! so sell YOU!!!!
I don't give out specifics because if you are changing something to increase your chances then it isn't you.. its a projection of what you think will work...
if you think your profile reflects the best in you..... keep it
if it doesn't.... pen, pad, piece of paper, write something down.. change it!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Any better now......
if you are not "into large groups" or "large socials" then as a single bloke you are cutting down 2 of the best ways of actually getting yourself known as in Clubs and Socials.....
we dont know you... you know you!!! so sell YOU!!!!
Thank you.
I don't give out specifics because if you are changing something to increase your chances then it isn't you.. its a projection of what you think will work...
if you think your profile reflects the best in you..... keep it
if it doesn't.... pen, pad, piece of paper, write something down.. change it!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your shy but into gangbangs, dogging and adult parties. I think someone is telling porky pies 
Take some proper photos and put your cock away it's not helping. |
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"Any better now......
I nearly choked on my tea. The cock pic is back and the text hasn't changed. So yeah massive improvement there!!"
Dude, if you don't want to show your face, put a pair of sunglasses above your cock and draw a smile on ya balls. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any better now......
I nearly choked on my tea. The cock pic is back and the text hasn't changed. So yeah massive improvement there!!
Dude, if you don't want to show your face, put a pair of sunglasses above your cock and draw a smile on ya balls. "
LOL! |
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Don't dismiss socials. they are a great way to meet a variety of people with no pressure to play and you should walk away with some verifications (it's often difficult for single men to get their first veri and it can make a difference).
Now that you've found the forums keep an eye on the Meet Requests and Parties and the UK forums for socials local to you. There are all kinds from pub ones (see the Sheffield Pub Social on Saturday) to socials held in Clubs. Some people even arrange coffee shop socials (popular North of the border I believe).
And join in with the forums. It will raise your profile amongst the forumites and will give your personality an opportunity to show through. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't dismiss socials. they are a great way to meet a variety of people with no pressure to play and you should walk away with some verifications (it's often difficult for single men to get their first veri and it can make a difference).
Now that you've found the forums keep an eye on the Meet Requests and Parties and the UK forums for socials local to you. There are all kinds from pub ones (see the Sheffield Pub Social on Saturday) to socials held in Clubs. Some people even arrange coffee shop socials (popular North of the border I believe).
And join in with the forums. It will raise your profile amongst the forumites and will give your personality an opportunity to show through."
Thank you for the sound advice and for being helpful. Really appreciate it x |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
I looked at your profile yesterday, I don t see a big difference,
No one can write ' your ' profile for you There is a search feature on the forums read the previous threads they ll offer similar advice as this one its up to 'you' to interpret the generic advice given such as 'what you can offer,' at the moment I d say you profile isn t one that stands out,
Have fun, |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Still not sorted pictures out...."
I'm going to start attending the socials then people can decide for themselves. My personality will come across better in the flesh than in words - I think .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Still not sorted pictures out....
I'm going to start attending the socials then people can decide for themselves. My personality will come across better in the flesh than in words - I think ...."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Still not sorted pictures out....
I'm going to start attending the socials then people can decide for themselves. My personality will come across better in the flesh than in words - I think ....
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I'm slowly getting there. The elephant man got more interest. Lol. Xx |
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