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How to prepare for anal

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I love anal sex but I'm still very tight what ways is there for me to prepare for taking bigger cocks Ie butt plugs and stuff

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Try an anal pump

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lube.

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And keep on lubing up.

And take it slow. Also, better to do it on your side as that allows for easier access and a more gentle penetration....as long as you have lubed up well.

Did i mention lube????

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lube.

And keep on lubing up.

And take it slow. Also, better to do it on your side as that allows for easier access and a more gentle penetration....as long as you have lubed up well.

Did i mention lube????"

Once or twice

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lube.

And keep on lubing up.

And take it slow. Also, better to do it on your side as that allows for easier access and a more gentle penetration....as long as you have lubed up well.

Did i mention lube????"

Lube will not I guarantee make you less tight..... Learning to consciously relax your ring helps a great deal..... And i think it's more about learning to take something big not being stretched bigger..... Stretching in my experience springs back !!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lube lube lube ..... xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Lube.

And keep on lubing up.

And take it slow. Also, better to do it on your side as that allows for easier access and a more gentle penetration....as long as you have lubed up well.

Did i mention lube????"

Lol think you forgot to mention lube honey

I always use a douch and lots of lube anything else you can suggest

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple over a year ago

wirral

You can buy anal dilators

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And relax !!! Embrace it ...it sooo lush x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lube.

And keep on lubing up.

And take it slow. Also, better to do it on your side as that allows for easier access and a more gentle penetration....as long as you have lubed up well.

Did i mention lube????

Lol think you forgot to mention lube honey

I always use a douch and lots of lube anything else you can suggest

try a butt plug open you up. keep it in place for an hour or so before you meet, that might help.

Mind you, i seem to open up quite easily so never have a problem......(lost my anal virginity to an 8.5 inch cock, lol)

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"And relax !!! Embrace it ...it sooo lush x "

I so want to embrace it cos when it happens it's heaven I love sucking and taking cock I'm sure I should have been born a girl.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

lube, relaxed mood, considerate partner (and poppers so I am told if mot on heart meds )

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You can buy anal dilators"

I'll have to get myself one any idea how much and where from xx

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple over a year ago

wirral

not sure, but if you get a few sizes of butt plugs and wear the smallest for a while every day and work your way up t a bigger size over a few weeks??

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"not sure, but if you get a few sizes of butt plugs and wear the smallest for a while every day and work your way up t a bigger size over a few weeks??"

How do you mean wear one do you insert ione during the day

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By *ickingFantasticMan over a year ago

Fareham

butt plugs can help you learn to understand your reaction to items up your bum, and thus relax more and be more accommodating. Start small with plenty of lube until you are comfortable with it, work your way up. If your goal is taking a cock, then thats a realistic size toy to end up feeling comfortable taking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

How long do you leave the butt plug in for? I can manage to take it sometimes I always use loads of lube and poppers but still can't manage to take a larger sized cock.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Douche first makes it more comfy also I like to cum a few times before anal is attempted as I am much more relaxed that way, lots of lube, considerate partner

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By *encarolCouple over a year ago

Tyneside

The price of lube at tescos has gone up 95p since xmas , woulder why ?????????????????????????

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How long do you leave the butt plug in for? I can manage to take it sometimes I always use loads of lube and poppers but still can't manage to take a larger sized cock.

I never take poppers or any other drugs. I've been using toys for years tho and so my bum has learned to open up when I want to let something in.

Having said that ; I have found if I don't play for a month or two that I take some persuading to open up properly. Practice seems the key. Dialators help you get used to bigger girth.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I once fucked a guy with his big black dildo. I was really amazed how much he took in. It was easily 10-12". It was at a gay sauna. We had quite a few spectators by the end. He was a total sub slut.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I once fucked a guy with his big black dildo. I was really amazed how much he took in. It was easily 10-12". It was at a gay sauna. We had quite a few spectators by the end. He was a total sub slut. "

Good god I don't think I could ever take that much BUT I'D LIKE TO TRY DOES THAT MAKE ME A SLUT OR JUST COCK HUNGRY LOL

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A cock hungry slut!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Surely one of the best ways to prepare is to get very very very very very very d*unk

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Surely one of the best ways to prepare is to get very very very very very very d*unk

Just want to sleep when I get d*unk lol

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By *mma_j_cdTV/TS over a year ago

chester

I have used a dildo over the past few weeks to get used to having something of a reasonable size inside me. It seems to be working

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I've bought a inflatable butt plug ad managed to do ten pumps on it before it started hurting inside so deflated it and left the plug in so I can get used to it. Which is the best for leaving in during a working day?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How long do you leave the butt plug in for? I can manage to take it sometimes I always use loads of lube and poppers but still can't manage to take a larger sized cock.

Wear a plug for as long as comfortable. Remember the long it's in the more lube you will absorb so don't leave it in so long it's painful to remove

Once you get used to slipping one in and out without discomfort , buy a bigger one and repeat

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally I just spit, it kinda helps to slide it in better x.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bend over and grit your teeth lm going in!!

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By *histler21Man over a year ago

Ipswich

If you want to relax/spread your anal sphincter - you could always have a dump beforehand...

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By *rednkatieCouple over a year ago

orlando

not sure if anyone mentioned LUBE.....lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Bend over and grit your teeth lm going in!!"

Yes fucking please

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple over a year ago

wirral

"I've bought a inflatable butt plug ad managed to do ten pumps on it before it started hurting inside so deflated it and left the plug in so I can get used to it. Which is the best for leaving in during a working day?

that's what I did too haha .....works great

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ah, anal. Its just the best.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I love anal but struggle with larger men would love to be able to do double penetration one day. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I love anal sex but I'm still very tight what ways is there for me to prepare for taking bigger cocks Ie butt plugs and stuff

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Just clean yourself out properly and, yes....LUBE!!

XXX

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lots of lube and lots of patience

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For me, first attempt didn't work but second was good. Slim built guy though. Just wondering if I want to attempt again what is the best douche to use please?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"For me, first attempt didn't work but second was good. Slim built guy though. Just wondering if I want to attempt again what is the best douche to use please?

I'd like to now that too

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By *londeCazWoman over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"Lube.

And keep on lubing up.

And take it slow. Also, better to do it on your side as that allows for easier access and a more gentle penetration....as long as you have lubed up well.

Did i mention lube????"

Spam, spam, spam, spam, spam, spam, spam...

Oh, sorry - that was something completely different - I meant lube

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If all else fails....

.... learn to scream nicely..!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If all else fails....

.... learn to scream nicely..!!!

I can scream really nice lol especial if someone pushes something long hard deep down my throat mmmmmm which I can do.

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By *ick-brown27Man over a year ago

worsley

lube helps but for me if im on the receiving end of toys or a strapon having my ass tease with fingers and a tongue never fails to make me relax

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For me, first attempt didn't work but second was good. Slim built guy though. Just wondering if I want to attempt again what is the best douche to use please?

I'd like to now that too

I've got one from lovehoney. It's got a red squeeze bulb. Cheap and works.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"For me, first attempt didn't work but second was good. Slim built guy though. Just wondering if I want to attempt again what is the best douche to use please?

I'd like to now that too

I've got one from lovehoney. It's got a red squeeze bulb. Cheap and works.

I've got the same type as you, but have seen a larger one that has holes up the shaft so you get more spar rather than a jet been told there quite good.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For me, first attempt didn't work but second was good. Slim built guy though. Just wondering if I want to attempt again what is the best douche to use please?

I'd like to now that too

I've got one from lovehoney. It's got a red squeeze bulb. Cheap and works.

Would be my first time using one, so this sounds better. thank you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bend over and grit your teeth lm going in!!"

and thats the reason I'm scared of anal play now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you order from lovehoney I'm guessing it gets delivered without their name on?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All their packages are totally anonymous

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"All their packages are totally anonymous "

I've orderd stuff from them always comes in discreet package also if you've got a NICE'N'NAUGHTY shop by you. You can order on line and have it delieverys to that store for collection that's what I do so now my postie doesn't now I'm ordering toys

) for myself

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By *iNw69Man over a year ago

Manchester

Poppers & lube..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Poppers & lube.. "

Think you forgot a nice hard DICK

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By *vaneTV/TS over a year ago

Manchester