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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It's the one thing that is a major drama about coming to the site as a male ! Without a personal verification no one believes who you are or message you let alone meet? But without a chat or meet you can't get a verification ????
I know my profile isn't the best but its honest ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks to all who noticed left in as talking point!! NOT ! Joys of poor mobile but glad you got a laugh see this is a site for enjoyment lol  "
Good response well done |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone joins the site without any verifications, so I'm guessing that's not why your not getting any meets!
You've been on here for 3 weeks OP! These things take time! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Socials are the way to go mate
I did so much coffee in my first month on the site that I nearly got caffeine poisoning.
But you then get the verifications and "points make prizes"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think maybe your profile could do with a rewrite, I don't think I have ever seen one where the words life/live/lived/living have been used so often - and without really saying anything - just an observation.
You are 47 so presumably you have had numerous sexual experiences. You may be new to swinging, as were we all once upon a time, but play on your strengths rather than your weaknesses, generally people find confidence sexy.
Photos might help too, thankfully I missed the previous effort(!) but people looking for meets generally like an idea of what the profilee looks like.
Your profile is your selling point so make it work for you.
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Socials are the way to go mate
I did so much coffee in my first month on the site that I nearly got caffeine poisoning.
But you then get the verifications and "points make prizes" "
thats why I drink decaff. No socail meet no second meet x M  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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as has been said, you are nearly 50 so shouldnt be nervous meeting new people.
no one on here is any different than anyone else you will try chatting up anywhere else.
you say you cant accomodate, that will put some off
you describe yourself as ample, that too will put others off (unfortunately but its true)
you now have no pics, thats another X against your name (although judging by the earlier comments, probably better to have none than the one you did have)
basically, what im trying to say, is your fucked lol |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
maybe the lesson learnt is that there are things you can do to help yourself "help yourself"....
its not always the reasons you think that are not helping your chances of getting meets.......... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"as has been said, you are nearly 50 so shouldnt be nervous meeting new people.
no one on here is any different than anyone else you will try chatting up anywhere else.
you say you cant accomodate, that will put some off
you describe yourself as ample, that too will put others off (unfortunately but its true)
you now have no pics, thats another X against your name (although judging by the earlier comments, probably better to have none than the one you did have)
basically, what im trying to say, is your fucked lol"
bit harsh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"as has been said, you are nearly 50 so shouldnt be nervous meeting new people.
no one on here is any different than anyone else you will try chatting up anywhere else.
you say you cant accomodate, that will put some off
you describe yourself as ample, that too will put others off (unfortunately but its true)
you now have no pics, thats another X against your name (although judging by the earlier comments, probably better to have none than the one you did have)
basically, what im trying to say, is your fucked lol
bit harsh"
not at all.
if reality is unpalletable to people then so be it, but no point in sugar coating what is, basically, the problem with the guy getting meets.
this place is, mostly, about fantasy, and not many women i have spoken to, either on here, or at clubs (or indeed in real life tbh) have the fantasy of spending time with an overweight middle aged guy, who may get stage fright, and lives with his parents/wife/friends/whatever.
sure, i know i am the weak link in us meeting and playing with people on here.
reality hurts
lifes a bitch
so on and so forth |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know a few middle aged and overweight guys who get meets and play at clubs. So yes it's more difficult then if your a toned adonis but he's certainly not 'fucked' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know a few middle aged and overweight guys who get meets and play at clubs. So yes it's more difficult then if your a toned adonis but he's certainly not 'fucked'"
tbf, i would have thought the 'lol' would show that last bit of the comment was meant with humour, so im sorry you missed it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's the one thing that is a major drama about coming to the site as a male ! Without a personal verification no one believes who you are or message you let alone meet? But without a chat or meet you can't get a verification ????
I know my profile isn't the best but its honest ! "
This I'm the same |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"It's the one thing that is a major drama about coming to the site as a male ! Without a personal verification no one believes who you are or message you let alone meet? But without a chat or meet you can't get a verification ????
I know my profile isn't the best but its honest !
This I'm the same"
see... but if you have followed the thread.. the OP blamed it only on the fact of no varification... but others then point out other things that made them think... "nope!!"
the common mistake he fell into is he chose the reason that left him blameless...
it may be a multitude of reasons people have for not picking people... some of those reasons may be small.. some are huge |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got my first verification at my first meet took double the time you have been on here.
A social is the easiest way I think.
As for the shit....... words fail me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are an element on the site who let one verification go to their head, make them think that they're better than everyone else on here, and think it gives them the excuse to throw their weight around whoever they want to. Take it from me, it doesn't make you look big, clever, nor superior - completely the opposite; very sad, little people.
The main group of people who fall into the above bracket? Couples. |
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"as has been said, you are nearly 50 so shouldnt be nervous meeting new people.
no one on here is any different than anyone else you will try chatting up anywhere else.
you say you cant accomodate, that will put some off
you describe yourself as ample, that too will put others off (unfortunately but its true)
you now have no pics, thats another X against your name (although judging by the earlier comments, probably better to have none than the one you did have)
basically, what im trying to say, is your fucked lol"
lol...Know what, Hercules? If I were a bird I'd fuck you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"as has been said, you are nearly 50 so shouldnt be nervous meeting new people.
no one on here is any different than anyone else you will try chatting up anywhere else.
you say you cant accomodate, that will put some off
you describe yourself as ample, that too will put others off (unfortunately but its true)
you now have no pics, thats another X against your name (although judging by the earlier comments, probably better to have none than the one you did have)
basically, what im trying to say, is your fucked lol
lol...Know what, Hercules? If I were a bird I'd fuck you "
if i were a bird, i would let you lol |
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i would get rid of the pic and fast 
lol
