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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all,
Just wondering if anyone could offer us some advice.
We're looking for a bi lady to join us for some fun sexy times, but dont seem to be having much luck pinning down meets.
We're really honest on our profile, we read the profiles of others properly and when we message we always include face pics and ensure we personalise each message - usually something has stood out to us about that profile and talk or ask about that. We dont expect a reply straight away and get the no reply = no interest thing and we're fine with it.
What we're really confused by is when we do get a positive (and sometimes emphatic!) response and start engaging, then we suddenly get radio silence a few messages in.
We're not pushy and try to get to know the person a bit before we start asking the 'shall we meet' question. Sometimes we don't get that far, other times we ask and never get a reply...we're honestly fine if someone decides they dont want to meet but no response is quite frustrating when there has been some interest shown.
Is there a secret formula to this? A time when it's acceptable to get down to the nitty gritty? How many times should you message if someone goes quiet? Do you think us not having veri's at the moment is a problem?
We're not actually new to swinging, but we have previously had regular fun with people from our social group, but we decided to try fab to widen our circle and meet some new friends (we're also planning a visit to townhouse in April... yay!)
Anyway - any thoughts on the above or anything we can do to make our profile more appealing are appreciated!
Thanks
G & D x |
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