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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi..
A few more photos would be great ..not cock ones though and tell us in your profile why you can't accommodate? ...  "
Thank you for the help much obliged will get snapping and updating |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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The whole 18 to 99 age setting was the standard setting when I joined I hadn't realised that I hadn't changed it but thanks for pointing it out and it has now bee amended |
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"The verification was from someone who has now left the site unfortunately she was a very lovely lady "
I mean your profile saying "because I havent been verified by anyone" when your veri summary shows you have one meet verification..
If you haven't bothered even trying to update your profile in the 5 months since the verification... will you bother with any advice you're given |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The verification was from someone who has now left the site unfortunately she was a very lovely lady
I mean your profile saying "because I havent been verified by anyone" when your veri summary shows you have one meet verification..
If you haven't bothered even trying to update your profile in the 5 months since the verification... will you bother with any advice you're given "
Didn't realise that I could remove old verifications from people who had left the site now removed and starting from scratch |
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"The verification was from someone who has now left the site unfortunately she was a very lovely lady
I mean your profile saying "because I havent been verified by anyone" when your veri summary shows you have one meet verification..
If you haven't bothered even trying to update your profile in the 5 months since the verification... will you bother with any advice you're given
Didn't realise that I could remove old verifications from people who had left the site now removed and starting from scratch "
You cant remove verifications.
The text will disappear if the other person leaves or blocks you but you keep the verification tick and can continue to show the verification summary..
You seem to be missing my point though. Your profile states you are not verified, yet you have been verified for 5 months.
What efforts have you made to update your profile yourself before asking others for help  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The verification was from someone who has now left the site unfortunately she was a very lovely lady
I mean your profile saying "because I havent been verified by anyone" when your veri summary shows you have one meet verification..
If you haven't bothered even trying to update your profile in the 5 months since the verification... will you bother with any advice you're given
Didn't realise that I could remove old verifications from people who had left the site now removed and starting from scratch
You cant remove verifications.
The text will disappear if the other person leaves or blocks you but you keep the verification tick and can continue to show the verification summary..
You seem to be missing my point though. Your profile states you are not verified, yet you have been verified for 5 months.
What efforts have you made to update your profile yourself before asking others for help "
I have updated profile text and have changed the photo I had here quite a few times |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The verification was from someone who has now left the site unfortunately she was a very lovely lady
I mean your profile saying "because I havent been verified by anyone" when your veri summary shows you have one meet verification..
If you haven't bothered even trying to update your profile in the 5 months since the verification... will you bother with any advice you're given
Didn't realise that I could remove old verifications from people who had left the site now removed and starting from scratch
You cant remove verifications.
The text will disappear if the other person leaves or blocks you but you keep the verification tick and can continue to show the verification summary..
You seem to be missing my point though. Your profile states you are not verified, yet you have been verified for 5 months.
What efforts have you made to update your profile yourself before asking others for help :-
I have updated profile text and have changed the photo I had here quite a few times "
Just took a look at your profile and altho you have updated it, it still says you haven't been verified but your profile shows you have?
The text is quite negative I think which will put a lot of people off and a bit "garbled" which makes it hard to follow. There are 1000s of single men and your profile needs to stand out from the rest if you hope to be successful - if not people will simply move on to another. Maybe try another revamp, good luck |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The verification was from someone who has now left the site unfortunately she was a very lovely lady
I mean your profile saying "because I havent been verified by anyone" when your veri summary shows you have one meet verification..
If you haven't bothered even trying to update your profile in the 5 months since the verification... will you bother with any advice you're given
Didn't realise that I could remove old verifications from people who had left the site now removed and starting from scratch
You cant remove verifications.
The text will disappear if the other person leaves or blocks you but you keep the verification tick and can continue to show the verification summary..
You seem to be missing my point though. Your profile states you are not verified, yet you have been verified for 5 months.
What efforts have you made to update your profile yourself before asking others for help :-
I have updated profile text and have changed the photo I had here quite a few times
Just took a look at your profile and altho you have updated it, it still says you haven't been verified but your profile shows you have?
The text is quite negative I think which will put a lot of people off and a bit "garbled" which makes it hard to follow. There are 1000s of single men and your profile needs to stand out from the rest if you hope to be successful - if not people will simply move on to another. Maybe try another revamp, good luck "
Have done a bit of a revamp vie en rouge would love you're input please |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The verification was from someone who has now left the site unfortunately she was a very lovely lady
I mean your profile saying "because I havent been verified by anyone" when your veri summary shows you have one meet verification..
If you haven't bothered even trying to update your profile in the 5 months since the verification... will you bother with any advice you're given
Didn't realise that I could remove old verifications from people who had left the site now removed and starting from scratch
You cant remove verifications.
The text will disappear if the other person leaves or blocks you but you keep the verification tick and can continue to show the verification summary..
You seem to be missing my point though. Your profile states you are not verified, yet you have been verified for 5 months.
What efforts have you made to update your profile yourself before asking others for help :-
I have updated profile text and have changed the photo I had here quite a few times
Just took a look at your profile and altho you have updated it, it still says you haven't been verified but your profile shows you have?
The text is quite negative I think which will put a lot of people off and a bit "garbled" which makes it hard to follow. There are 1000s of single men and your profile needs to stand out from the rest if you hope to be successful - if not people will simply move on to another. Maybe try another revamp, good luck
Have done a bit of a revamp vie en rouge would love you're input please "
I'm no expert but its much better than it was - to my mind! I would lose the first line tho, its your profile, your shop window by which you sell yourself to other fabbers - you dont want everyone to think you needed advice on how to write it!!
Add in a bit about why you can't accommodate, as has already been mentioned I think it makes people question whether you are genuinely single. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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it's the area matey... I'm not to far from you and I'm afraid to say there's not much about in the way of genuine single fems or couples who meet single guys.
in all my time on here... and in the last week I have contacted about 50 and not had one positive response. before you ask, yes I made sure I read the ads and was inside the age groups etc etc. the best Ive had back is a couple messages saying things like " your message made me smile" and the like.
the only thing you can do is move to a different area where the women and couples are more genuine
good luck though... you will need it
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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More pics, but not cock.. Torso, bum, chest etc.. Little more info, what your looking for, what you expect, what you can offer.. have a look at some of the regular posters on here to get an idea of how to present yourself. Good luck!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"it's the area matey... I'm not to far from you and I'm afraid to say there's not much about in the way of genuine single fems or couples who meet single guys.
in all my time on here... and in the last week I have contacted about 50 and not had one positive response. before you ask, yes I made sure I read the ads and was inside the age groups etc etc. the best Ive had back is a couple messages saying things like " your message made me smile" and the like.
the only thing you can do is move to a different area where the women and couples are more genuine
good luck though... you will need it
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don't focus on you're area, branch out, I'd hate to meet someone local, especially if it was someone who had the same friends as me, like a guy a few miles from me who I knew, you wouldn't want to be outed as a swinger would you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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lol... I get what you mean but Ive tried up to about 30 miles... then you get told you are too far away....lol... I have to say ive had a better response from the area where my static caravan is situated but the site doesn't open for 4 weeks..lol |
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