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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To find like minded localish people to socialise and play with? I mean surely it's not too much to ask ! "
Totally agree! All the guys that tick a lot of boxes all seem to be far away from me. The local guys automatically assume that coz I'm local I'll meet at a drop of a hat regardless...trying to find the balance is very difficult |
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By *eno_2004 OP Man
over a year ago
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"To find like minded localish people to socialise and play with? I mean surely it's not too much to ask !
Totally agree! All the guys that tick a lot of boxes all seem to be far away from me. The local guys automatically assume that coz I'm local I'll meet at a drop of a hat regardless...trying to find the balance is very difficult"
Seems to be a recurring theme ..... I know what you mean about locals but then again there is too local |
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try putting a profile picture up for starters, when you got a inbox full of messages those without immediately visable pictures are often going to fade into the back ground. u got a picture on your profile at least set that as your profile and might help a little.
otherwise work on your profile, add more good quality pictures and bit more about yourself,
and just chat to women but the trick is not to chat to them to try and get a meet/fuck out of them quick as you want but rather just chat to them as if you trying to make a friend and have a crack and get to know them and if ya get on good then after a few days minimum when the times right they going to react alot more positve to the idea of meeting
might take more effort and mean you end up chatting to more people and take longer to meet people but i know this works well and you will get alot more meets and theres also a better chance that your meets turn into repeat meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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profile is ok.
your veri is from may last year.
have you really waited since then until now to wonder why its just not happening? lol
that will put some off as its nearly a year inactive.
probably better to start fresh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think the key is understanding the difference between men and women.
I might be generalising a lot here so apologies if anyone is offended, however regardless of whether this is a sex site or not I think women in general enjoy chatting, finding a common ground with someone and feeling like the men talking to them are enjoying their company.
Men tend to enjoy the quick, last minute meet scenario more and can i think at times come across as pushy which can out women off.
Just an observation from my own experience at times. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks, great advice
Profile is minimalist and I'm not too good at the old pics "
You might want to add more pics... The one you have up now looks like you have no hands & one leg. Lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not been a year just not been verified because I prefer to keep things to myself.
Veri is from a very special girl who made me promise to post it"
In all fairness I don't show my verifications either but making your profile more eye catching would definitely do you some favours I think |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To find like minded localish people to socialise and play with? I mean surely it's not too much to ask ! "
There are a lot of guys on here maybe even more than average in your area perhaps. Is it really such an issue to travel a bit? |
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