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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all,
I have been approached by a couple in there early 20's. They contacted me out of ye blue proposing a dogging meet, in a secluded area...
Now my worry is this is not in my local.
It's a area unknown to me and I am to come alone.
I am a little weary with gang crime on the rise entering a secluded most likely woodland area, alone to meet a young (uncertified I might add) couple.
They were very blunt when approaching, "no talking, chatting, kissing or fucking! Just sucking! "Was one line I got ha sounds almost too good to be true.
I raised my concerns suggesting a hotel meet. It being our first meet with very little prior contact. With me offering to pay for the room: "outside or nothing" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sure how other couples play but we would never do this. If we want to meet new people we put an advert up for a meet and see who replies to us. So OP how many times do you get couples messaging you first asking for a meet ?
In short it sounds iffy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not sure how other couples play but we would never do this. If we want to meet new people we put an advert up for a meet and see who replies to us. So OP how many times do you get couples messaging you first asking for a meet ?
In short it sounds iffy. "
My thoughts exactly!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if you insist on going, get the very early and scope out the area.
find exits and such.
if there is only 1 way in and out, then go home, or park up close by and see if they turn up before entering the area.
be last in a nd park nearest the exit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it sounds too good to be true it usually is ask to meet for a drink in pub local first if they say no then you do same
Also ask to speak to the fem on fone and see on cam if a no same applies forget it just for a bj mate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If it sounds too good to be true it usually is ask to meet for a drink in pub local first if they say no then you do same
Also ask to speak to the fem on fone and see on cam if a no same applies forget it just for a bj mate"
Heard stories where they use a fem to lure guys to places - it's no guarantee.
Stay safe OP  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My mantra has always been "if it don't feel right..........walk away"
Trust your intuition. We've had intuition for millions of years. It's there for a reason. |
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im guess your not sure if your just nervious or if your instinks are screaming NO.
if I was you i would check out the venue in the daylight if you can. then return early eve so see it if changes. if you feel ok with the venue then just aproch the meet with caution -Dont take any money or other valubales, id or home door keys with you.
Good luck. |
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It may be perfectly safe, but your instincts is flagging something, so I'd not go, unless accompanied, or they'd meet you elsewhere. Probably overall I definitely would not go.
I like to have the right connection with the people I meet, not just a physical type connection, like making a plumbing system work. If mentally it's not right, you deserve the best and right for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If you feel something is not right you don't go ... Easy . You say the things that could go on in the woods if you go and if not a sex meet it sounds like a horror film jack the ripper film your minds maybe playing games maybe as you're new to this maybe and looking at all the different things that could go on. I have to know the people I meet well ...... that way I feel safe but meeting strangers is high risk as they are people you don't know. |
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Seriously though OP, intuition (or fear) is telling you no. 
All kidding aside, stay at home or make alternative arrangements. 
