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By *alda OP Man
over a year ago
ashby |
Hi,Im looking for any genuine dom masters to offer a beginner some advice and tips.
I have recently got back with my first love after a 22 year a gap,though our feelings have'nt changed,our sexual tastes have.My girl is desperate to be a sub with a master she can trust,me.
Any tips/advice for a novice would be great,also any tips on being a master from afar as well as when we are together. many thanks |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
"thanks bondagebabe,no she's not on here,not her thing,and she dosnt know im on here,though i dont think she will mind."
Has she any sub experience or does she have any idea as to what she likes or dislikes or what her limits might be? Also have you and dom experience at all or would you say you are closer to sub yourself? J
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you are totally inexperienced don't kid yourself that you are a Master...
The best advice is go to munches and meet people. Experienced doms will happily share their knowledge and potentially mentor you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Start off with simple things like blindfolding her, tieing her hands and teasing her. Its a case of you being in charge and not pushing anything too quickly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"thanks bondagebabe,no she's not on here,not her thing,and she dosnt know im on here,though i dont think she will mind."
You're best telling her dude, honesty is the best policy!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Start off with simple things like blindfolding her, tieing her hands and teasing her. Its a case of you being in charge and not pushing anything too quickly"
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Has she read "50 Shades of Grey" recently?
If that is where she is getting her 'sub' ideas from, then you are best off reading that then playing out any scenes from there, rather than talking to an experienced Dom.
Talk to her. Find out what she wants from a Master or Dom. She is as much, if not more, in control as you are. You need to find out her expectations. Talk to her.
Oh and talk to her again. |
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You could always look for somewhere that is for people looking to lead a FET LIFE
You know, search the internet or something.
Also try attending fetish nights at your local club at get chatting to people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"thanks bondagebabe,no she's not on here,not her thing,and she dosnt know im on here,though i dont think she will mind."
First off is trust and honesty
So u need to do that and tell her about fab
A sub will put all her trust in you and it's important you give her your devotion |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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OP - talk to her first. Ask her lots of questions. Find out exactly what she is wants, what she would like to do, what would be a definate no no. It may be only a bit of role play.
If it's more, as stated above, there is a dedicated site full of people willing to help. I find the fet scene very welcoming and you can learn a lot. But you also should be clear about what you want.  |
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