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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
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Your young age and the fact that you can't accommodate will always narrow down the amount of potential meets I'm afraid. You have been here 3 months and had one meet....there are some guys been here over a year and not had a meet yet! You have clear face and torso pics which is good. Make sure your messages are always polite and friendly. ...and keep at it! Good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your doing really well, it will take about 5 or 6 years before you meet a lot of peoples age requirements, you could of course use a fab age, I mean whats a little white lie to get a shag? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hello people im new to this , so any advice yous could off would be greatfull, thanks "
change your name, get rid of the tattoo and check your spelling, besides this you will do well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hello people im new to this , so any advice yous could off would be greatfull, thanks "
Get rid of the cock pics, you can't accommodate so will assume you're married (although I think youwhen yyou're only wanting afternoon shags while the wife is out) or you're living with parents and your profile took 5 seconds to write. None of this will get you far |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good advice to anyone would be
SEARCH THE FORUM
This question has been asked so many times and do you know what?
The advice doesn't change much."
They don't have any common sense or imagination which is why they rely on forums |
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You can't get rid of the tattoo, you could however, get rid of the 5 pictures containing it.
Too many cock pics, no effort in writing the profile, can't accommodate, can't travel, just wanting a quick suck before the wife comes home, all added together isn't going to get you far. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Daft question, but what sort of things should you put in messages? I talk about interests we have in common but get hardly any replies."
Common sense and imagination...not "hi how are you?" |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So mines alright then?
Yours isn't too bad, you are a little young and skinny for me, but depending on the type of message you send I'd reply to you. "
If only I new what put |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So mines alright then?
Yours isn't too bad, you are a little young and skinny for me, but depending on the type of message you send I'd reply to you.
If only I new what put"
use your imagination and common sense, never send "hi how are you?" messages, they never work |
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"Daft question, but what sort of things should you put in messages? I talk about interests we have in common but get hardly any replies."
You'll get more interest through being interactive and positive in the forums than sending out messages. Letting everybody know that you don't know what to put in a message isn't an approach I'd take. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm in the same boat am I doing something wrong? Any advice would help.."
Can't accommodate so will assume you're married or living with parents. What type of messages are you sending? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Guys just be yourself!!!!! Dont give it all the macho talk .have a face pic as well as a willy pic.Also u will find it goes in fits and starts on here ...but I have to disagree with some posts on here in regards to not accommodating. ..not all guys on fab are cheating ..im a single parent so my kids are often at home so I cant always accom ...As to living at home again bring it on haha. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Equally in the same boat as a lot of other guys, been on a couple of months but no joy, I'm always polite and try to be respectful and not to coarse but seem to have no response, it does get a little bit frustrating. And I haven't put one cock pic on as most the women on hear say "face pics only, seen enough cock pics to last a life time" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If people handing out profile advice ... Is mine any good? Haha"
get rid of trackie bottom pic and try a pair of trousers lots of women like a man who dresses smart  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So mines alright then?
Yours isn't too bad, you are a little young and skinny for me, but depending on the type of message you send I'd reply to you.
If only I new what put"
a short introduction along with what u like and what your looking for and a cpl of pics with the message, if they're interested they should reply  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been on here before. Was on here for a couple of years took a while to get a meet but once I started meeting people, i had very good verifications. I had no problems getting a meet. Be respectful even tho its a swingers site lol people still do expect manners to a certain level. If you do meet someone, make a good impression. Turn up on time, dress smart, smell nice and dont do a Quicky lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hello people im new to this , so any advice yous could off would be greatfull, thanks
change your name, get rid of the tattoo and check your spelling, besides this you will do well "
Since you can't get rid of the tattoo i'd get rid of the pic ... Keep in private gallery so if someone wants to see it they can... Profile name is a horrible one... I know it's true but it's... Well Something different would do loads better and a few more sentences in your profile wouldn't hurt. Good you have a face pic
Best of luck to ya! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If people handing out profile advice ... Is mine any good? Haha"
Your profile looks decent and you can actually accommodate and travel both pluses could be your approach Ann messaging! The general consensus on here's is the single guys have a hard time. So be patient! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So does anyone have any advice for me on what I might be doing wrong?"
Having your username as black country boy when aren't even black is offensive!!! Change it asap!!!! Youalso cannot aaccommodate so will assume you're married or living with parents |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So does anyone have any advice for me on what I might be doing wrong?
Having your username as black country boy when aren't even black is offensive!!! Change it asap!!!! Youalso cannot aaccommodate so will assume you're married or living with parents"
Have to disagree Black Country boy user name is fine and has nothing to do with race, it's a place in the midlands rekowned for industry in years gone by!
Hope that clears that up.
Also as previously mentioned if you can't accommodate as a single male doesn't mean your cheating when the wife or girlfriends out, could be any number of reasons.
Agree be yourself use common sense, it all takes time, good luck to you.
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"So does anyone have any advice for me on what I might be doing wrong?
Having your username as black country boy when aren't even black is offensive!!! Change it asap!!!! Youalso cannot aaccommodate so will assume you're married or living with parents"
Black Country is the legitimate name for the west Midlands areas such as Birmingham/ Dudley, and as his profile says west mids it's safe to say his name is based on location and nothing to do with race!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So does anyone have any advice for me on what I might be doing wrong?
Having your username as black country boy when aren't even black is offensive!!! Change it asap!!!! Youalso cannot aaccommodate so will assume you're married or living with parents
Black Country is the legitimate name for the west Midlands areas such as Birmingham/ Dudley, and as his profile says west mids it's safe to say his name is based on location and nothing to do with race! "
Maybe she needs some geographical lessons!!!!
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Also on a general note I imagine it's very hard for a single man on here (as the saying goes one bad Apple spoils the cart). From a personal perspective (even though we are currently only looking for bi singles) a message from a man would have to fit the same criteria as a couple - we like the look, the message is coherent and we feel there's something that would click. So I don't think there is a right or wrong message to send, just be yourselves and there will be people that are interested.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The black country is birmingham....erm no it aint... I guess its ppl that think that who do a yam yam accent. Thats the black country and say thats a brummie accent  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So does anyone have any advice for me on what I might be doing wrong?
Having your username as black country boy when aren't even black is offensive!!! Change it asap!!!! Youalso cannot aaccommodate so will assume you're married or living with parents"
You seem to have a real issue with the words 'cannot accommodate'. 
As has been said many, many, many, many, many (could go on forever!!  ) times - assuming gets you nowhere.
Or should we assume you're married as you 'cannot accommodate' ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So does anyone have any advice for me on what I might be doing wrong?
Having your username as black country boy when aren't even black is offensive!!! Change it asap!!!! Youalso cannot aaccommodate so will assume you're married or living with parents"
this as to be the most stupid comment i have ever read on these forums lmfao |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So does anyone have any advice for me on what I might be doing wrong?
Having your username as black country boy when aren't even black is offensive!!! Change it asap!!!! Youalso cannot aaccommodate so will assume you're married or living with parents
You seem to have a real issue with the words 'cannot accommodate'.
As has been said many, many, many, many, many (could go on forever!! ) times - assuming gets you nowhere.
Or should we assume you're married as you 'cannot accommodate' ? "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So does anyone have any advice for me on what I might be doing wrong?
Having your username as black country boy when aren't even black is offensive!!! Change it asap!!!! Youalso cannot aaccommodate so will assume you're married or living with parents
Black Country is the legitimate name for the west Midlands areas such as Birmingham/ Dudley, and as his profile says west mids it's safe to say his name is based on location and nothing to do with race!
Maybe she needs some geographical lessons!!!!
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Maybe some need to nut up or shut up!!!
I did not know what that meant so I do apologise, but maybe people who aren't brummy will get the wrong end of the stick. He said west mids, that could be anywhere!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So does anyone have any advice for me on what I might be doing wrong?
Having your username as black country boy when aren't even black is offensive!!! Change it asap!!!! Youalso cannot aaccommodate so will assume you're married or living with parents
You seem to have a real issue with the words 'cannot accommodate'.
As has been said many, many, many, many, many (could go on forever!! ) times - assuming gets you nowhere.
Or should we assume you're married as you 'cannot accommodate' ? "
Coz I'm really gonna get married at my age, I don't accommodate coz there are some weirdos on here and I live with my parents. They asked for advice so I gave it them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So does anyone have any advice for me on what I might be doing wrong?
Having your username as black country boy when aren't even black is offensive!!! Change it asap!!!! Youalso cannot aaccommodate so will assume you're married or living with parents
You seem to have a real issue with the words 'cannot accommodate'.
As has been said many, many, many, many, many (could go on forever!! ) times - assuming gets you nowhere.
Or should we assume you're married as you 'cannot accommodate' ?
Coz I'm really gonna get married at my age, I don't accommodate coz there are some weirdos on here and I live with my parents. They asked for advice so I gave it them"
But you don't explain that in your profile - so many could 'assume' you're married! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So does anyone have any advice for me on what I might be doing wrong?
Having your username as black country boy when aren't even black is offensive!!! Change it asap!!!! Youalso cannot aaccommodate so will assume you're married or living with parents
this as to be the most stupid comment i have ever read on these forums lmfao"
Oh well I'm sooooooo sorry I had to go to a special needs school and didn't learn much about brummy history (which was absolutely zero) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So does anyone have any advice for me on what I might be doing wrong?
Having your username as black country boy when aren't even black is offensive!!! Change it asap!!!! Youalso cannot aaccommodate so will assume you're married or living with parents
this as to be the most stupid comment i have ever read on these forums lmfao"
Oh well I'm sooooooo sorry I had to go to a special needs school and didn't learn much about brummy history (which was absolutely zero) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So does anyone have any advice for me on what I might be doing wrong?
Having your username as black country boy when aren't even black is offensive!!! Change it asap!!!! Youalso cannot aaccommodate so will assume you're married or living with parents
You seem to have a real issue with the words 'cannot accommodate'.
As has been said many, many, many, many, many (could go on forever!! ) times - assuming gets you nowhere.
Or should we assume you're married as you 'cannot accommodate' ?
Coz I'm really gonna get married at my age, I don't accommodate coz there are some weirdos on here and I live with my parents. They asked for advice so I gave it them
But you don't explain that in your profile - so many could 'assume' you're married! "
I never arrange meets so a bit pointless |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So does anyone have any advice for me on what I might be doing wrong?
Having your username as black country boy when aren't even black is offensive!!! Change it asap!!!! Youalso cannot aaccommodate so will assume you're married or living with parents
Black Country is the legitimate name for the west Midlands areas such as Birmingham/ Dudley, and as his profile says west mids it's safe to say his name is based on location and nothing to do with race!
Maybe she needs some geographical lessons!!!!
Maybe some need to nut up or shut up!!!
I did not know what that meant so I do apologise, but maybe people who aren't brummy will get the wrong end of the stick. He said west mids, that could be anywhere!!"
You seem quite aggressive in your posts I've noticed.
If your going to give advice ESP on a delicate matter of race, just suggesting do your homework.
As for the accommodation issue, you've answered that yourself now, so best not to condemn anyone else as to reasons why they can not.
It's personal reasons as are yours.
Have a great day.
Thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So does anyone have any advice for me on what I might be doing wrong?
Having your username as black country boy when aren't even black is offensive!!! Change it asap!!!! Youalso cannot aaccommodate so will assume you're married or living with parents
this as to be the most stupid comment i have ever read on these forums lmfao
Oh well I'm sooooooo sorry I had to go to a special needs school and didn't learn much about brummy history (which was absolutely zero)"
No im being serious.ty for that comment.really made me laugh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So does anyone have any advice for me on what I might be doing wrong?
Having your username as black country boy when aren't even black is offensive!!! Change it asap!!!! Youalso cannot aaccommodate so will assume you're married or living with parents
this as to be the most stupid comment i have ever read on these forums lmfao
Oh well I'm sooooooo sorry I had to go to a special needs school and didn't learn much about brummy history (which was absolutely zero)
No im being serious.ty for that comment.really made me laugh. "
and as for brum history i wouldnt expect you to know about it since you dont even know where it is |
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"So does anyone have any advice for me on what I might be doing wrong?
Having your username as black country boy when aren't even black is offensive!!! Change it asap!!!! Youalso cannot aaccommodate so will assume you're married or living with parents
this as to be the most stupid comment i have ever read on these forums lmfao
Oh well I'm sooooooo sorry I had to go to a special needs school and didn't learn much about brummy history (which was absolutely zero)"
Before making accusations, it would be as well to check your facts, even though you say you have special needs you are able to use the internet and google !!! |
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"So does anyone have any advice for me on what I might be doing wrong?
Having your username as black country boy when aren't even black is offensive!!! Change it asap!!!! Youalso cannot aaccommodate so will assume you're married or living with parents
this as to be the most stupid comment i have ever read on these forums lmfao
Oh well I'm sooooooo sorry I had to go to a special needs school and didn't learn much about brummy history (which was absolutely zero)
No im being serious.ty for that comment.really made me laugh.
and as for brum history i wouldnt expect you to know about it since you dont even know where it is "
And as for the special school comment. Very low.. I think your showing ppl the real person you are with that nasty line.well done |
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"So does anyone have any advice for me on what I might be doing wrong?
Having your username as black country boy when aren't even black is offensive!!! Change it asap!!!! Youalso cannot aaccommodate so will assume you're married or living with parents
Black Country is the legitimate name for the west Midlands areas such as Birmingham/ Dudley, and as his profile says west mids it's safe to say his name is based on location and nothing to do with race!
Maybe she needs some geographical lessons!!!!
Maybe some need to nut up or shut up!!!
I did not know what that meant so I do apologise, but maybe people who aren't brummy will get the wrong end of the stick. He said west mids, that could be anywhere!!
You seem quite aggressive in your posts I've noticed.
If your going to give advice ESP on a delicate matter of race, just suggesting do your homework.
As for the accommodation issue, you've answered that yourself now, so best not to condemn anyone else as to reasons why they can not.
It's personal reasons as are yours.
Have a great day.
Thanks. "
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"So does anyone have any advice for me on what I might be doing wrong?
Having your username as black country boy when aren't even black is offensive!!! Change it asap!!!! Youalso cannot aaccommodate so will assume you're married or living with parents
this as to be the most stupid comment i have ever read on these forums lmfao
Oh well I'm sooooooo sorry I had to go to a special needs school and didn't learn much about brummy history (which was absolutely zero)
No im being serious.ty for that comment.really made me laugh.
and as for brum history i wouldnt expect you to know about it since you dont even know where it is
And as for the special school comment. Very low.. I think your showing ppl the real person you are with that nasty line.well done"
I know the threads gone a little pear shaped to say the least.
This lady has commented on a few previous posts and always adopts a know everything approach mixed with aggression.
She's in her own world though I must say always entertains me..... Popcorn anyone.
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"So does anyone have any advice for me on what I might be doing wrong?
Having your username as black country boy when aren't even black is offensive!!! Change it asap!!!! Youalso cannot aaccommodate so will assume you're married or living with parents
this as to be the most stupid comment i have ever read on these forums lmfao
Oh well I'm sooooooo sorry I had to go to a special needs school and didn't learn much about brummy history (which was absolutely zero)
No im being serious.ty for that comment.really made me laugh.
and as for brum history i wouldnt expect you to know about it since you dont even know where it is
And as for the special school comment. Very low.. I think your showing ppl the real person you are with that nasty line.well done"
Please explain how I am being low? I have a learning difficulty which I cannot help so I am not the brightest spark. I'd rather people knew about it rather than to criticise me and put me down by calling me stupid |
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"So does anyone have any advice for me on what I might be doing wrong?
Having your username as black country boy when aren't even black is offensive!!! Change it asap!!!! Youalso cannot aaccommodate so will assume you're married or living with parents
this as to be the most stupid comment i have ever read on these forums lmfao
Oh well I'm sooooooo sorry I had to go to a special needs school and didn't learn much about brummy history (which was absolutely zero)
No im being serious.ty for that comment.really made me laugh.
and as for brum history i wouldnt expect you to know about it since you dont even know where it is
And as for the special school comment. Very low.. I think your showing ppl the real person you are with that nasty line.well done
I know the threads gone a little pear shaped to say the least.
This lady has commented on a few previous posts and always adopts a know everything approach mixed with aggression.
She's in her own world though I must say always entertains me..... Popcorn anyone.
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Please explain. I have my popcorn ready |
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"So does anyone have any advice for me on what I might be doing wrong?
Having your username as black country boy when aren't even black is offensive!!! Change it asap!!!! Youalso cannot aaccommodate so will assume you're married or living with parents
this as to be the most stupid comment i have ever read on these forums lmfao
Oh well I'm sooooooo sorry I had to go to a special needs school and didn't learn much about brummy history (which was absolutely zero)
No im being serious.ty for that comment.really made me laugh.
and as for brum history i wouldnt expect you to know about it since you dont even know where it is
And as for the special school comment. Very low.. I think your showing ppl the real person you are with that nasty line.well done
Please explain how I am being low? I have a learning difficulty which I cannot help so I am not the brightest spark. I'd rather people knew about it rather than to criticise me and put me down by calling me stupid"
just because you or someone goes to a special school dont make them stupid. It just means you/they need a little extra help. |
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"So does anyone have any advice for me on what I might be doing wrong?
Having your username as black country boy when aren't even black is offensive!!! Change it asap!!!! Youalso cannot aaccommodate so will assume you're married or living with parents
this as to be the most stupid comment i have ever read on these forums lmfao
Oh well I'm sooooooo sorry I had to go to a special needs school and didn't learn much about brummy history (which was absolutely zero)
No im being serious.ty for that comment.really made me laugh.
and as for brum history i wouldnt expect you to know about it since you dont even know where it is "
I do know where it is....I've been... |
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"So does anyone have any advice for me on what I might be doing wrong?
Having your username as black country boy when aren't even black is offensive!!! Change it asap!!!! Youalso cannot aaccommodate so will assume you're married or living with parents
this as to be the most stupid comment i have ever read on these forums lmfao
Oh well I'm sooooooo sorry I had to go to a special needs school and didn't learn much about brummy history (which was absolutely zero)
No im being serious.ty for that comment.really made me laugh.
and as for brum history i wouldnt expect you to know about it since you dont even know where it is
And as for the special school comment. Very low.. I think your showing ppl the real person you are with that nasty line.well done
Please explain how I am being low? I have a learning difficulty which I cannot help so I am not the brightest spark. I'd rather people knew about it rather than to criticise me and put me down by calling me stupid
just because you or someone goes to a special school dont make them stupid. It just means you/they need a little extra help. "
I needed a lot of extra help, I still do today which makes me even more worried to meet people due to being discriminated |
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"So does anyone have any advice for me on what I might be doing wrong?
Having your username as black country boy when aren't even black is offensive!!! Change it asap!!!! Youalso cannot aaccommodate so will assume you're married or living with parents
this as to be the most stupid comment i have ever read on these forums lmfao
Oh well I'm sooooooo sorry I had to go to a special needs school and didn't learn much about brummy history (which was absolutely zero)
Before making accusations, it would be as well to check your facts, even though you say you have special needs you are able to use the internet and google !!!"
Not very well tbh |
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Try not to worry about what other ppl think. While there judging you etc there giving someone else a break. Will allways be ppl out there that have to belittle ppl to make themselves feel better |
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"Try not to worry about what other ppl think. While there judging you etc there giving someone else a break. Will allways be ppl out there that have to belittle ppl to make themselves feel better"
That is true. I was once told off by an old woman for sitting in a disabled seat on a public bus because my disability isn't physical |
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"Try not to worry about what other ppl think. While there judging you etc there giving someone else a break. Will allways be ppl out there that have to belittle ppl to make themselves feel better
That is true. I was once told off by an old woman for sitting in a disabled seat on a public bus because my disability isn't physical"
Ok genuine question, not bitching or discriminating - (which I wasn't doing earlier either by the way just letting you know what he meant) I don't understand why you mention sitting in a disabled seat on the bus?Aren't these seats for the infirm/ physically disabled because they cannot walk far and would struggle to walk to the back. Any kind of mental disability does not hinder you walking to the back of the bus??
Confused?
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"Try not to worry about what other ppl think. While there judging you etc there giving someone else a break. Will allways be ppl out there that have to belittle ppl to make themselves feel better
That is true. I was once told off by an old woman for sitting in a disabled seat on a public bus because my disability isn't physical
Ok genuine question, not bitching or discriminating - (which I wasn't doing earlier either by the way just letting you know what he meant) I don't understand why you mention sitting in a disabled seat on the bus?Aren't these seats for the infirm/ physically disabled because they cannot walk far and would struggle to walk to the back. Any kind of mental disability does not hinder you walking to the back of the bus??
Confused?
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these are the ones that can't be folded up, but they do have an area for people who are in a wheelchair, but all it says on the sticker is for disabled people and the elderly, does that mean people with cerebal palsy or down syndrome shouldn't sit there too? I'm confused too, maybe they should have a T&C on the sticker to say which people with disabilities should sit there, I thought if you were disabled you'd have the right to sit in a disabled spot |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Try not to worry about what other ppl think. While there judging you etc there giving someone else a break. Will allways be ppl out there that have to belittle ppl to make themselves feel better
That is true. I was once told off by an old woman for sitting in a disabled seat on a public bus because my disability isn't physical
Ok genuine question, not bitching or discriminating - (which I wasn't doing earlier either by the way just letting you know what he meant) I don't understand why you mention sitting in a disabled seat on the bus?Aren't these seats for the infirm/ physically disabled because they cannot walk far and would struggle to walk to the back. Any kind of mental disability does not hinder you walking to the back of the bus??
Confused?
these are the ones that can't be folded up, but they do have an area for people who are in a wheelchair, but all it says on the sticker is for disabled people and the elderly, does that mean people with cerebal palsy or down syndrome shouldn't sit there too? I'm confused too, maybe they should have a T&C on the sticker to say which people with disabilities should sit there, I thought if you were disabled you'd have the right to sit in a disabled spot"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So does anyone have any advice for me on what I might be doing wrong?
Having your username as black country boy when aren't even black is offensive!!! Change it asap!!!! Youalso cannot aaccommodate so will assume you're married or living with parents"
Black Country is the name given to the region I come from, it's reference to the old steel and coal industry but I take your point on board. Can't accommodate as I work away all week and when I'm home I have my son. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So does anyone have any advice for me on what I might be doing wrong?
Having your username as black country boy when aren't even black is offensive!!! Change it asap!!!! Youalso cannot aaccommodate so will assume you're married or living with parents
Black Country is the name given to the region I come from, it's reference to the old steel and coal industry but I take your point on board. Can't accommodate as I work away all week and when I'm home I have my son. "
I wondered why you had such a name but didn't want to ask. |
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"So does anyone have any advice for me on what I might be doing wrong?
Having your username as black country boy when aren't even black is offensive!!! Change it asap!!!! Youalso cannot aaccommodate so will assume you're married or living with parents
Black Country is the name given to the region I come from, it's reference to the old steel and coal industry but I take your point on board. Can't accommodate as I work away all week and when I'm home I have my son.
I wondered why you had such a name but didn't want to ask. "
No problem. Reading back up the responses it looks like it's started a bit of a discussion about the Black Country. Putting us on the map. (High five myself) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if you both weren't married you'd get somewhere....most people don't want to meet them because they tend to think with their cocks and not their heads which is why they're still hurting their wives by not divorcing them....there is no valid excuse to cheat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now that the "Black Country" issue has been resolved does anyone have any helpful tips or advice please? No squabbling though. "
Explaining why you can't accom and lose the tighty whitey pants pics lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Now that the "Black Country" issue has been resolved does anyone have any helpful tips or advice please? No squabbling though.
Explaining why you can't accom and lose the tighty whitey pants pics lol "
I'm a long distance van driver so I'm out all week, when I eventually get home of the weekend I spend what little time I have with my son. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Now that the "Black Country" issue has been resolved does anyone have any helpful tips or advice please? No squabbling though.
Explaining why you can't accom and lose the tighty whitey pants pics lol
I'm a long distance van driver so I'm out all week, when I eventually get home of the weekend I spend what little time I have with my son. "
Maybe put that on your profile to explain. A lot of people assume, wrongly in some instances, that men who can't accommodate are married or attached. Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Now that the "Black Country" issue has been resolved does anyone have any helpful tips or advice please? No squabbling though.
Explaining why you can't accom and lose the tighty whitey pants pics lol
I'm a long distance van driver so I'm out all week, when I eventually get home of the weekend I spend what little time I have with my son. "
There seem to be quite a few on here that like meeting truckers as they pass through so being a long distance driver might Work in your favour.
Get "who's near" turned on on your mobile an add the van this.f to the profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are a couple and are getting no where just bored any advice
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Yep. Same as everyone gets!
Patience.
A week on site is far too soon to be getting bored - what were you expecting? Daily orgies? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your doing really well, it will take about 5 or 6 years before you meet a lot of peoples age requirements, you could of course use a fab age, I mean whats a little white lie to get a shag?"
I lie about my age; I just reverse it so it's easy to remember. Doesn't seem to help though... I'm 44!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are a couple and are getting no where just bored any advice
Yep. Same as everyone gets!
Patience.
A week on site is far too soon to be getting bored - what were you expecting? Daily orgies? "
yea true but not much interest either tbh |
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"We are a couple and are getting no where just bored any advice
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Your pics aren't ever so imaginative to be honest and whilst you have a lot of info in your profile a few paragraph breaks here and there would make it easier to read. |
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"We are a couple and are getting no where just bored any advice
Yep. Same as everyone gets!
Patience.
A week on site is far too soon to be getting bored - what were you expecting? Daily orgies? "
I joined fabguys; daily orgies if you want them there! |
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"We are a couple and are getting no where just bored any advice
Yep. Same as everyone gets!
Patience.
A week on site is far too soon to be getting bored - what were you expecting? Daily orgies?
I joined fabguys; daily orgies if you want them there!"
What I want to know is why is there not a fab girls?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are a couple and are getting no where just bored any advice
Yep. Same as everyone gets!
Patience.
A week on site is far too soon to be getting bored - what were you expecting? Daily orgies?
I joined fabguys; daily orgies if you want them there!
What I want to know is why is there not a fab girls?? "
Actually; that's a fair point.... Admin?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been on here a while and only managed one meet can someone offer me advice on where am going wrong and how to improve so I have more joy thanks "
Being straight must be a handicap, maybe a little white lie would help |
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"We are a couple and are getting no where just bored any advice
Yep. Same as everyone gets!
Patience.
A week on site is far too soon to be getting bored - what were you expecting? Daily orgies?
I joined fabguys; daily orgies if you want them there!
What I want to know is why is there not a fab girls??
Actually; that's a fair point.... Admin? "
I presume it's because most fems on here are listed as bi and its likely that more men on here may be funny about bi/ gay men (despite it being 2014 chaps!)
The problem for me is I/ we would love to meet a genuine fully bi woman but because every woman is listed as bi it's hard to work out the fully bi from the 'ill kiss you and maybe let you touch me a bit because it'll get my hubby off' ones. Generally men are quite clear on if they're bi and their levels to avoid an awkward situation later.
Wouldn't it be more convenient too to be able to link this profile into fab guys/ girls too if you want to browse rather than have to set a new profile? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it can be tough for single males  x
It's tough for married males.  "
Not that easy for married females either, although I have had meets it's still difficult to fit round things |
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"if you both weren't married you'd get somewhere....most people don't want to meet them because they tend to think with their cocks and not their heads which is why they're still hurting their wives by not divorcing them....there is no valid
excuse to cheat"
I've met some married men (waiting for the backlash) and no they don't think with their cocks as I've had socials with them and had some good conversations, hasn't always ended up in the bedroom |
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"if you both weren't married you'd get somewhere....most people don't want to meet them because they tend to think with their cocks and not their heads which is why they're still hurting their wives by not divorcing them....there is no valid
excuse to cheat
I've met some married men (waiting for the backlash) and no they don't think with their cocks as I've had socials with them and had some good conversations, hasn't always ended up in the bedroom "
The old married=cheating=no excuse=thinking with dick=hurting partner etc judgement is getting so tedious. Everyone's circumstances are different and if not directly involved one cannot know what they are and therefore cannot be in a position to judge. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Lots of mixed advice on here...sime good and some not so.
Seriously if you want tips then look at a profile with lots of meets and veris. They must be doing something right. Nick ideas - the best ones are usually stolen.
Feel free to check my profile - as long as you think 100+ veris aint too much. |
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"Been on here a while and only managed one meet can someone offer me advice on where am going wrong and how to improve so I have more joy thanks "
Reading the profiles of people will help. You messaged me a month ago despite my profile (when visible) saying my min age is 24. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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socials are a good place to meet people.
and the chat rooms are a good way to get noticed.
just be yourself in chat rooms.
talk to people, have a laugh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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sorry about high jacking your post but, Just a quick intro, Its my second week on here, and i am enjoying it up to now, Usually found in the northern chat room chatting or just watching the chat go bye, Straight male just looking for a bit of fun, Looking forward to getting to know some of you. |
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