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My wife went out and had fun last night and it was the first time I wasn't there, just a bit of advice from people, how did they feel say waiting for them to come back..I know I had butterflies etc waiting, once she did (eventually) come back the sex was good but just felt a little awkward afterwards... |
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"My wife went out and had fun last night and it was the first time I wasn't there, just a bit of advice from people, how did they feel say waiting for them to come back..I know I had butterflies etc waiting, once she did (eventually) come back the sex was good but just felt a little awkward afterwards..."
Talk to her about it. If either of you feels awkward that doesn't sound good. You might need to change how you do things so you are both happy. Don't do anything else until you're both absolutely sure you're ok with it. Your relationship is much more important. x |
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"It gets better, one day she wont come back 
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That will be the best day of your life, only one draw back you need to do your own washing up and washing,
Best bet is to get a dishwasher and take the laundry to a launderette for a service wash,
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"My wife went out and had fun last night and it was the first time I wasn't there, just a bit of advice from people, how did they feel say waiting for them to come back..I know I had butterflies etc waiting, once she did (eventually) come back the sex was good but just felt a little awkward afterwards..."
I used to meet someone - and she told him all about what we got up to in minute detail. He got a real kick out of it and she told me that their sex was much more enjoyable. She said I gave her a different sexual experience that her other half couldn't do (I couldn't give her the sort of experience he did) - so she saw it as a win-win.
It all comes down to how you feel about it. Do you get turned on by knowing others have had sex with her. Are you happy that she enjoys/gets a real kick out of something extra.
As long as you talk about it/know when/who she is meeting - is that enough to keep you content?
These are things you need to discuss to make sure you are both happy about things |
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It's totally normal to become anxious (cuckold angst) I had it the first time my wife played alone. She was glowing when I returned home but looked sensational. It's something you learn to use that will drive your libido, I know it does with me. |
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By *ussiesCouple
over a year ago
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Its not for everyone, but it worked for us, we went through exactly what you are doing now, but for us, it brought us closer, realised how much we love each other, and the level of trust between us is unreal,
we found feelings and mental state, we never thought we could reach,
from the few days build up, to a night of me pacing up and down the living room, clock watching, then the return of my beautiful wife back home to me, Phew
then the fun starts Haha
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It gets better, one day she wont come back
That will be the best day of your life, only one draw back you need to do your own washing up and washing,
Best bet is to get a dishwasher and take the laundry to a launderette for a service wash,
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good luck wiv ur new life mate, best days of ur life to come yet, be happy an grateful she going and soon to b gone!! |
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"It's totally normal to become anxious (cuckold angst) I had it the first time my wife played alone. She was glowing when I returned home but looked sensational. It's something you learn to use that will drive your libido, I know it does with me."
Very much something that Rachel would like to do. A big step, but we are ready.
Certainly understand the cuckold angst bit. When we talk about it I get butterflies and a massive hardon. |
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I play with a fabulous couple and have done for 2 years . They trust me so much that quite often I play with the lady alone , but .........we always video it which she takes back to him , and he absolutely loves this . |
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"I play with a fabulous couple and have done for 2 years . They trust me so much that quite often I play with the lady alone , but .........we always video it which she takes back to him , and he absolutely loves this . "
Or as they used to say on Bulls Eye "super, smashing, great!" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I play with a fabulous couple and have done for 2 years . They trust me so much that quite often I play with the lady alone , but .........we always video it which she takes back to him , and he absolutely loves this .
Or as they used to say on Bulls Eye "super, smashing, great!""
you guys do that as well do you ? |
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Done this before, wife sent pics of them having car sex, she brought him back came upstairs, kissed n thanked me then went down to fuck him more, made me watch, eventually got to sample her used body, Awsome experience, want those butterflies again lol |
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"My wife went out and had fun last night and it was the first time I wasn't there, just a bit of advice from people, how did they feel say waiting for them to come back..I know I had butterflies etc waiting, once she did (eventually) come back the sex was good but just felt a little awkward afterwards...
Talk to her about it. If either of you feels awkward that doesn't sound good. You might need to change how you do things so you are both happy. Don't do anything else until you're both absolutely sure you're ok with it. Your relationship is much more important. x"
this..
excellent advice..
communication is an absolute must with this aspect of folks sex lives, even moreso with what you are starting to explore.. |
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