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By *ol944 OP Man over a year ago

caerphilly

what can I do to pursuade my partner to have a mmf 3sum in private. She loves it in a club but not in a house or hotel.Im sure she would love it. Any advise

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By *ucy and CarlCouple over a year ago

Broadstairs

Don't push her in to anything she don't want to do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Try a meet at a pub with a guy and so how it goes give her time and when she feels comfortable and the right guy comes along I am sure she will xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"what can I do to pursuade my partner to have a mmf 3sum in private. She loves it in a club but not in a house or hotel.Im sure she would love it. Any advise"

My advice would be to respect her choices

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's a simple answer. YOU DON'T. You let her decide if/when she wants to do it in private. Respect her boundaries. x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

let her look at your profile and tell her to take her pick from yours friends list or verifications.

that ought do it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't push her in to anything she don't want to do. "

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By *RYBBWCouple over a year ago

Leeds.

"what can I do to pursuade my partner to have a mmf 3sum in private. She loves it in a club but not in a house or hotel.Im sure she would love it. Any advise"

Sounds like it's more for your satisfaction than hers.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a simple answer. YOU DON'T. You let her decide if/when she wants to do it in private. Respect her boundaries. x"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The more you push the more she'll not want it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why not ask her. Just a thought.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"what can I do to pursuade my partner to have a mmf 3sum in private. She loves it in a club but not in a house or hotel.Im sure she would love it. Any advise"

You can't be sure she would love it.

My advice to you would be stop asking a bunch of strangers how to persuade someone to so something they don't want to.....so disrespectful to her.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe she likes it at a club etc as she does out... does that and comes home to 'normal' life and doesnt want to mix the 2?

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By *lleyCat1969Man over a year ago

Folkestone

"what can I do to pursuade my partner to have a mmf 3sum in private. She loves it in a club but not in a house or hotel.Im sure she would love it. Any advise"

It sounds like you've already tried, and failed, to persuade her, in which case I would leave it at that.

If she doesn't want to, she doesn't want to; if she loves it in a club then just enjoy that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What they said.....

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By *ndykayMan over a year ago

Falkirk

"Maybe she likes it at a club etc as she does out... does that and comes home to 'normal' life and doesnt want to mix the 2?"

This

Plus, she may like the attention from voyeurs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"what can I do to pursuade my partner to have a mmf 3sum in private. She loves it in a club but not in a house or hotel.Im sure she would love it. Any advise

You can't be sure she would love it.

My advice to you would be stop asking a bunch of strangers how to persuade someone to so something they don't want to.....so disrespectful to her."

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