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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Is it ok to message you with a cut and paste job if edit it slightly/re-tailor it specifically to your needs and requirements?

It's just, I'm basically saying more or less the same thing each time I message women on here so it would be quicker and more efficient to do that. My keyboard is a bit sticky these days and needs replaced, so it's mainly to avoid repeating any unneccessary typos.

Also, could you please teach me how to spell the word unneccessary?

lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Unnecessary.

I would not reply to an obviously cut & paste message (leaving someone elses name in there, saying 'Hi guys' when there is only one of me) but if you are careful, how would I know?

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

If it's a decent message and has been tailored to me....possibly could over look it, however, many a faux par I've received in the past has been:

1) Addressed to - A couple

2) Addressed to - A different profile name

3) Mentioned something not in my profile!

I think it is a very dangerous game to use copy and paste as these simple errors are very easy to make, and once made? You cannot back track....well, with me you can't

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

OK thanks. How much should I write? A couple of paragraphs, or something short and quirky?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'd never reply to a copy and paste message, especially if they send the exact same message a few hours later or the next day. I'd know if it was a copy and paste if they didn,t put "fabtastic" in the header so I know they've read my profile, asking for NSA when I'm not interested in that kind of stuff at the moment and not mentioning anything about me (if they have read my profile)

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"OK thanks. How much should I write? A couple of paragraphs, or something short and quirky?"

Oh blimey, I'm not going to help you write a copy & paste message! If you're going to do that then at least make it your own work.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OK thanks. How much should I write? A couple of paragraphs, or something short and quirky?"

never short and never a paragraph, never send "how are you?" messages and don't send one liners

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"OK thanks. How much should I write? A couple of paragraphs, or something short and quirky?"

I don't think you need to have a couple of paragraphs, but definitely not too short and quirky, there is a very fine line, as long as it show's my profile has been read and leaves me with something to respond to, I think that is the main thing.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'd also get rid of the whole time travel and saying you're someone from one direction if you ever send it in a message, just sounds ridiculous

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If the first message does not contain the required answers as stated in my profile, then I would know the sender has not read it, which makes it a lot easier to decide what to do next.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Surely each woman,/couple you mail deserve a cpl minutes of your time writing them a personal mail?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Whatever you do some people will like it, some won't. How about you just do what you think and then you're more likely to appeal to the people who will appreciate you.

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By *ruitWoman  over a year ago

near kings lynn

Copy and paste messages are not for me thanks x

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By *ighland_RoseCouple  over a year ago

Brigadoon

I see nothing wrong with copying part of your message. The part where you describe yourself and what you are looking for isn't going to change depending on who you are sending it to so why should it be typed out again and again. You should preface it with a personal message to the recipient though.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Surely each woman,/couple you mail deserve a cpl minutes of your time writing them a personal mail?

"

Plus 5-10 mn reading and analising their profile to find out its just the same usual rant and what u r been told to do and not to do in a a shape of rude eules. then u have to be original and creative in your message which defo takes more than 2 mn. After all that effor your message will be lost amongst the 500 messages they got waiting in their mail box which often they balk delete coz they simply dont have the time to get through them all but still dont give a shit about you giving u task that if u apply u find yourself doing a part time job going through profiles and contacting them (with conditions). Single guys are treated like candidates for jobs and women consider them themselves like the boss emplolyer who will treat any way he wants. What kinda world r u living in guys?! this is a mutual pleasure request. I will just say hi. If u r smart go n check my profile if u find a pktential come back have the decency to say hi in return. Only then I will take u seeiously and give u some of my precious time

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple  over a year ago

midlands

Wow so what about those of us that don't rant/demand or ask for certain subject lines and what not?

The only ones i delete are 'how's u?'

'your wife is stunning'. 'amazing pics' or any other combination of clearly not even glanced at my profile.

I also keep the text section of my profile shorter than my veris. (on my phone screen)

And couples can also send rubbish messages, i had 2 today, demanding to know what I've got planned nye!! No previous anything but desperate to start the new year with a mff. Instant delete & block

Epics not needed, just thought & effort

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Depends on what the message said. If it was a funny/ interesting copy and paste message I'd be a happy chicken. I understand very well that there's no point writing a brand new mail every time when it will mostly get ignored or deleted!!

If it had someone else's name on it I might laugh or I might be pissed off. Depends on what the rest of the message said. I'm easy to please.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I got asked if I work out ? Have you seen my arse !!! Been called hi guys and I've would love to meet a black chick. definitely a copy and paste !

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Surely each woman,/couple you mail deserve a cpl minutes of your time writing them a personal mail?

Plus 5-10 mn reading and analising their profile to find out its just the same usual rant and what u r been told to do and not to do in a a shape of rude eules. then u have to be original and creative in your message which defo takes more than 2 mn. After all that effor your message will be lost amongst the 500 messages they got waiting in their mail box which often they balk delete coz they simply dont have the time to get through them all but still dont give a shit about you giving u task that if u apply u find yourself doing a part time job going through profiles and contacting them (with conditions). Single guys are treated like candidates for jobs and women consider them themselves like the boss emplolyer who will treat any way he wants. What kinda world r u living in guys?! this is a mutual pleasure request. I will just say hi. If u r smart go n check my profile if u find a pktential come back have the decency to say hi in return. Only then I will take u seeiously and give u some of my precious time"

I don't have do's and don't on my profile, but I do state who not to contact me, not quite the same! Tends to get ignored anyway, but WOW if that is what you message people and it works for you? Carry on!, but it certainly would not compel me to reply! So WOW again

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've been taking the time to message people with a succinct and topic relevant messages but unfortunately responses are low. I think it's all a bit hit and miss really. Maybe some people have accounts without the intention to take it further and others have specific requirements. Either way, I think individual messages are better.

Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It works sometimes. Guys also look for quality ppl

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Ha Bloody Ha!!!

And you know who you are!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Im completely different - I only need - hi - here are my pics - its hard enough for guys as it is - let alone making them read every profile and tailor a message. This site is about attraction - if I message back and say " you look great etx " then I expect my profile to be read as chat starts x

I find cut and paste messages cringy !

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Im completely different - I only need - hi - here are my pics - its hard enough for guys as it is - let alone making them read every profile and tailor a message. This site is about attraction - if I message back and say " you look great etx " then I expect my profile to be read as chat starts x

I find cut and paste messages cringy !

"

Thats what I call a sensible aproach. Mmwah. If u find the guys profile interesting and reply then u can blame him if he doesnt read your profile x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If it's a decent message and has been tailored to me....possibly could over look it, however, many a faux par I've received in the past has been:

1) Addressed to - A couple

2) Addressed to - A different profile name

3) Mentioned something not in my profile!

I think it is a very dangerous game to use copy and paste as these simple errors are very easy to make, and once made? You cannot back track....well, with me you can't

"

You missed out...

Addressed to a haggis

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"If it's a decent message and has been tailored to me....possibly could over look it, however, many a faux par I've received in the past has been:

1) Addressed to - A couple

2) Addressed to - A different profile name

3) Mentioned something not in my profile!

I think it is a very dangerous game to use copy and paste as these simple errors are very easy to make, and once made? You cannot back track....well, with me you can't

You missed out...

Addressed to a haggis "

Your right! Coz I am 1/2 n 1/2

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By *uited staffs guyMan  over a year ago

staffordshire

If you're sending out 100 'fancy a shag' messages a day then I suppose it does save time copying and pasting them?

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By *r Mahogany70Man  over a year ago

Leicester


"...My keyboard is a bit sticky these days and needs replaced, so it's mainly to avoid repeating any unneccessary typos.

"

Aim away, fella. Aim away......

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

So what am i supposed to say..because i get zero replies

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By *odareyouMan  over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"Surely each woman,/couple you mail deserve a cpl minutes of your time writing them a personal mail?

Plus 5-10 mn reading and analising their profile to find out its just the same usual rant and what u r been told to do and not to do in a a shape of rude eules. then u have to be original and creative in your message which defo takes more than 2 mn. After all that effor your message will be lost amongst the 500 messages they got waiting in their mail box which often they balk delete coz they simply dont have the time to get through them all but still dont give a shit about you giving u task that if u apply u find yourself doing a part time job going through profiles and contacting them (with conditions). Single guys are treated like candidates for jobs and women consider them themselves like the boss emplolyer who will treat any way he wants. What kinda world r u living in guys?! this is a mutual pleasure request. I will just say hi. If u r smart go n check my profile if u find a pktential come back have the decency to say hi in return. Only then I will take u seeiously and give u some of my precious time"

Blimey 5 - 10 mins how slow do you read, surely if the profile doesn t tick your boxes you stop reading,?

My suggestion op Be original, be creative the effort Will be worth it,

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By *r Mahogany70Man  over a year ago

Leicester


"So what am i supposed to say..because i get zero replies"

Your profile wording is way too long. Say less about yourself and let any interested parties ask you anything they wish to know.

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"So what am i supposed to say..because i get zero replies"

No wonder! Have you looked at your profile??????

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By *am123Man  over a year ago

essex chelmsford

how do u cut and paste

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By *ebsCoupleCouple  over a year ago

Orpington/london


"Copy and paste messages are not for me thanks x"

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"how do u cut and paste "

Yeah right!

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By *empting Devil.Woman  over a year ago

Sheffield


"So what am i supposed to say..because i get zero replies

Your profile wording is way too long. Say less about yourself and let any interested parties ask you anything they wish to know. "

That won't work for me! If I have to ask something most put in their profile then I won't bother.

Most women read profiles. Often before we even open the message. So if you don't match what I'm looking for then you will get a reply from me but it might be sarcastic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Im completely different - I only need - hi - here are my pics - its hard enough for guys as it is - let alone making them read every profile and tailor a message. This site is about attraction - if I message back and say " you look great etx " then I expect my profile to be read as chat starts x "

Refreshingly positive attitude.

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By *empting Devil.Woman  over a year ago

Sheffield


"Im completely different - I only need - hi - here are my pics - its hard enough for guys as it is - let alone making them read every profile and tailor a message. This site is about attraction - if I message back and say " you look great etx " then I expect my profile to be read as chat starts x

Refreshingly positive attitude. "

I also reply to brief messages. My rule is: if they said it to me in a bar and I'd reply then I reply on here. If you follow this rule then the cut and paste fantasy "what I'll do to you" messages would be greeted with a curl of the lip and a walk away from the weirdo!

But a hello how are you from Will get a reply, though if you don't meet my preferences you won't be encouraged and may get sarcasm.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"...My keyboard is a bit sticky these days and needs replaced, so it's mainly to avoid repeating any unneccessary typos.

Aim away, fella. Aim away......"

Ha ha ha.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


"Is it ok to message you with a cut and paste job if edit it slightly/re-tailor it specifically to your needs and requirements?

It's just, I'm basically saying more or less the same thing each time I message women on here so it would be quicker and more efficient to do that. My keyboard is a bit sticky these days and needs replaced, so it's mainly to avoid repeating any unneccessary typos.

Also, could you please teach me how to spell the word unneccessary?

lol

"

unnecessary...think of it as a shirt one collar and two sleeves (One c two s)

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


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unnecessary...think of it as a shirt one collar and two sleeves (One c two s)"

What about the r and the double nn though?

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


"

unnecessary...think of it as a shirt one collar and two sleeves (One c two s)

What about the r and the double nn though?"

you just have to remember them. I just realised I shouldn't have answered anyway because I'm not a single gal, so my answer doesn't count

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By *teveanddebsCouple  over a year ago

Norwich


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Plus 5-10 mn reading and analising their profile to find out its just the same usual rant and what u r been told to do and not to do in a a shape of rude eules. then u have to be original and creative in your message which defo takes more than 2 mn. After all that effor your message will be lost amongst the 500 messages they got waiting in their mail box which often they balk delete coz they simply dont have the time to get through them all but still dont give a shit about you giving u task that if u apply u find yourself doing a part time job going through profiles and contacting them (with conditions). Single guys are treated like candidates for jobs and women consider them themselves like the boss emplolyer who will treat any way he wants. What kinda world r u living in guys?! this is a mutual pleasure request. I will just say hi. If u r smart go n check my profile if u find a pktential come back have the decency to say hi in return. Only then I will take u seeiously and give u some of my precious time"

Why would you message people you obviously hold in such contempt?

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By *uthTVDerbysTV/TS  over a year ago

Derby

Anyone with a name like Wand Erection will be struggling from the outset!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

if i like the pics. i reply.

if i dont. i wont.

the message is less important.

its all about the visual. but thats just me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Copy and paste. Lazy plain and simple. Its hard work and a pain in the.arse if you go to the trouble of messaging.and it gets ignored/ deleted.

But it does work on occasion . You get out what you put in ( no pun intended )

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