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It baffles me that couples say they can"t get a meet.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Am I the only one surprised by this?? I understand the odds are really stacked against single guys but surely a couple can easily pick a guy at least from the many singles available. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"we find it quite difficult but put it down to location as we very remote and few around here on here x  "
See this is the part I find strange, you have great pics and an Interesting profile surely single guys will find you or you can meet halfway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we find it quite difficult but put it down to location as we very remote and few around here on here x
See this is the part I find strange, you have great pics and an Interesting profile surely single guys will find you or you can meet halfway. "
we have sorted meets on many occasions and been let down many times at our expense,thank for kind words xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if people were just after fresh meat then yes, we would all be doing anything that walks, but we personally want a connection as we dont just close the door behind us and get naked.
there has to be something there.
conversation
interest
if thats missing then no matter on looks or cock size, it aint gonna happen.
you would be suprised how many times i have gotten on well with a bloke through messaging, and instead of letting it get natural, by the time the 5th or 6th message is exchanged, it suddenly goes to 'i would love to fuck your missus'
seems the horn just takes over mid conversation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if people were just after fresh meat then yes, we would all be doing anything that walks, but we personally want a connection as we dont just close the door behind us and get naked.
there has to be something there.
conversation
interest
if thats missing then no matter on looks or cock size, it aint gonna happen.
you would be suprised how many times i have gotten on well with a bloke through messaging, and instead of letting it get natural, by the time the 5th or 6th message is exchanged, it suddenly goes to 'i would love to fuck your missus'
seems the horn just takes over mid conversation"
this is so very true in many chats xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we find it quite difficult but put it down to location as we very remote and few around here on here x "
Paula can meet a different guy every 15 seconds a day that just wants a 1 on 1 with her,
Plenty of single guys out there, but to be honest most single guys here just don't do it for her .
After all she already has her perfect man it's me  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"if people were just after fresh meat then yes, we would all be doing anything that walks, but we personally want a connection as we dont just close the door behind us and get naked.
there has to be something there.
conversation
interest
if thats missing then no matter on looks or cock size, it aint gonna happen.
you would be suprised how many times i have gotten on well with a bloke through messaging, and instead of letting it get natural, by the time the 5th or 6th message is exchanged, it suddenly goes to 'i would love to fuck your missus'
seems the horn just takes over mid conversation"
Now see, I totally agree and is the reason I struggle as well, most men just can't have a conservation, as soon as they get a response, it's straight to the point of when are we meeting then?
It totally pisses me off and makes me feel as I'm just meant to be some unpaid prostitute!   |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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I think part of it is because of numbers... a lot of couples think they can sit back and wait on people to come to them....
wait on the mountain to come to them.... rather than put in some legwork and find guys themselves
but the popular guys are going to be popular... they are already out there and networking and probably dont have to do so much of the first messaging thing...
playing for me is very much a two way process.... I have to be as interested in them, and they have to be in me.... so give me a reason to want to meet you! 
there is a perception that couples always have the upper hand, and can make the guys jump thru hoops.... that only works if the guys let them... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It totally pisses me off and makes me feel as I'm just meant to be some unpaid prostitute! "
I feel that some single guys think my lady is a unpaid prostitute .
It costs a lot time and money to go on a meet , we have to bribe teenage kids, pay taxis, Paula always wants a new dress etc .
To sit there in a pub and get stood up or cancelled at the last minute . Or even worse find out the guy is a creepy weirdo who is 40 and still a virgin and has no idea how to communicate in reall life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unrealistic expectations , thinking that they're better in some way than everyone else, and also just the ones who talk the talk without walking the walk. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Unrealistic expectations , thinking that they're better in some way than everyone else, and also just the ones who talk the talk without walking the walk. "
maybe this is your perception of why you cant get meets, but not ours.
we put the legwork in when we want to meet.
we know what kind of men we would like to share our time with, and those that dont fit in have a chance to sway us with conversation and humour.
they shoot themselves in the arse by jumping straight in with both feet and their dick. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think part of it is because of numbers... a lot of couples think they can sit back and wait on people to come to them....
wait on the mountain to come to them.... rather than put in some legwork and find guys themselves
but the popular guys are going to be popular... they are already out there and networking and probably dont have to do so much of the first messaging thing...
playing for me is very much a two way process.... I have to be as interested in them, and they have to be in me.... so give me a reason to want to meet you!
there is a perception that couples always have the upper hand, and can make the guys jump thru hoops.... that only works if the guys let them..."
This! 
I suspect its often just as hard for any site user - single of either sex or couple - to arrange meets.
Unless the have few preferences of course and aren't fussy! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"if people were just after fresh meat then yes, we would all be doing anything that walks, but we personally want a connection as we dont just close the door behind us and get naked.
there has to be something there.
conversation
interest
if thats missing then no matter on looks or cock size, it aint gonna happen.
you would be suprised how many times i have gotten on well with a bloke through messaging, and instead of letting it get natural, by the time the 5th or 6th message is exchanged, it suddenly goes to 'i would love to fuck your missus'
seems the horn just takes over mid conversation
Now see, I totally agree and is the reason I struggle as well, most men just can't have a conservation, as soon as they get a response, it's straight to the point of when are we meeting then?
It totally pisses me off and makes me feel as I'm just meant to be some unpaid prostitute! "
I totally get your point here mutual respect needs to be achieved believe me us single guys get treated the same"hi mate wanna fuck the mrs?" that ticks me right off |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"if people were just after fresh meat then yes, we would all be doing anything that walks, but we personally want a connection as we dont just close the door behind us and get naked.
there has to be something there.
conversation
interest
if thats missing then no matter on looks or cock size, it aint gonna happen.
you would be suprised how many times i have gotten on well with a bloke through messaging, and instead of letting it get natural, by the time the 5th or 6th message is exchanged, it suddenly goes to 'i would love to fuck your missus'
seems the horn just takes over mid conversation
Now see, I totally agree and is the reason I struggle as well, most men just can't have a conservation, as soon as they get a response, it's straight to the point of when are we meeting then?
It totally pisses me off and makes me feel as I'm just meant to be some unpaid prostitute! "
I totally get your point here mutual respect needs to be achieved believe me us single guys get treated the same"hi mate wanna fuck the mrs?" that ticks me right off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Unrealistic expectations , thinking that they're better in some way than everyone else, and also just the ones who talk the talk without walking the walk.
maybe this is your perception of why you cant get meets, but not ours.
we put the legwork in when we want to meet.
we know what kind of men we would like to share our time with, and those that dont fit in have a chance to sway us with conversation and humour.
they shoot themselves in the arse by jumping straight in with both feet and their dick."
Bless you! We have no trouble at all! Lol I was answering the OP. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if people were just after fresh meat then yes, we would all be doing anything that walks, but we personally want a connection as we dont just close the door behind us and get naked.
there has to be something there.
conversation
interest
if thats missing then no matter on looks or cock size, it aint gonna happen.
you would be suprised how many times i have gotten on well with a bloke through messaging, and instead of letting it get natural, by the time the 5th or 6th message is exchanged, it suddenly goes to 'i would love to fuck your missus'
seems the horn just takes over mid conversation"
Thats about the jist of it with us aswell |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
"if people were just after fresh meat then yes, we would all be doing anything that walks, but we personally want a connection as we dont just close the door behind us and get naked.
there has to be something there.
conversation
interest
if thats missing then no matter on looks or cock size, it aint gonna happen.
you would be suprised how many times i have gotten on well with a bloke through messaging, and instead of letting it get natural, by the time the 5th or 6th message is exchanged, it suddenly goes to 'i would love to fuck your missus'
seems the horn just takes over mid conversation"
Like sexual Tourettes.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if people were just after fresh meat then yes, we would all be doing anything that walks, but we personally want a connection as we dont just close the door behind us and get naked.
there has to be something there.
conversation
interest
if thats missing then no matter on looks or cock size, it aint gonna happen.
you would be suprised how many times i have gotten on well with a bloke through messaging, and instead of letting it get natural, by the time the 5th or 6th message is exchanged, it suddenly goes to 'i would love to fuck your missus'
seems the horn just takes over mid conversation
Now see, I totally agree and is the reason I struggle as well, most men just can't have a conservation, as soon as they get a response, it's straight to the point of when are we meeting then?
It totally pisses me off and makes me feel as I'm just meant to be some unpaid prostitute! "
I totally agree with that. It's why I gave up meeting, I was sick of people treating me like I was an unpaid prostitute. Lots of nice people but the arseholes just made it not fun at all.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if people were just after fresh meat then yes, we would all be doing anything that walks, but we personally want a connection as we dont just close the door behind us and get naked.
there has to be something there.
conversation
interest
if thats missing then no matter on looks or cock size, it aint gonna happen.
you would be suprised how many times i have gotten on well with a bloke through messaging, and instead of letting it get natural, by the time the 5th or 6th message is exchanged, it suddenly goes to 'i would love to fuck your missus'
seems the horn just takes over mid conversation
Like sexual Tourettes..... "
you wouldnt believe how close to the truth you are.
conversation starts off about football, or whatever, within 3 messages its 'your missus has great tits'
lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think part of it is because of numbers... a lot of couples think they can sit back and wait on people to come to them....
wait on the mountain to come to them.... rather than put in some legwork and find guys themselves
but the popular guys are going to be popular... they are already out there and networking and probably dont have to do so much of the first messaging thing...
playing for me is very much a two way process.... I have to be as interested in them, and they have to be in me.... so give me a reason to want to meet you!
there is a perception that couples always have the upper hand, and can make the guys jump thru hoops.... that only works if the guys let them..."
Good points. I think a couple meeting me is every bit as lucky as I am meeting them, and some should give more thought to the guy giving up his time , effort and fuel money....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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the reason couples cant get a meet is becauce most of the single guys dont turn up and half the time if they do, they look fook all like the pic suggests!!
most single guys on here are armchair warriors who have a quick wank whilst messaging and looking at your pics!
that sir, is why couples moan they cant get a meet! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"the reason couples cant get a meet is becauce most of the single guys dont turn up and half the time if they do, they look fook all like the pic suggests!!
most single guys on here are armchair warriors who have a quick wank whilst messaging and looking at your pics!
that sir, is why couples moan they cant get a meet!"
Sadly true in many cases but not all. I cant get my head round these "thrill of the chase types" who dont cross the threshold..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"the reason couples cant get a meet is becauce most of the single guys dont turn up and half the time if they do, they look fook all like the pic suggests!!
most single guys on here are armchair warriors who have a quick wank whilst messaging and looking at your pics!
that sir, is why couples moan they cant get a meet!"
I'd suggest that displays as much evidence of poor selection by the couples concerned as it does poor behaviour by the men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Incidentally this single turned down a potential meet today as he knows the staff in hotel in question. He kept the couple informed and was honest from the outset. He just didn't vanish.like snow off a dyke.....( the wall kind ! ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find it hard enough to find a guy I want to meet. Must be twice as hard to find one that 2 people want to meet! "
Blocking males possibly doesn't help mind...... ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's no doubt the idiots spoil it for the quieter, friendly guys like myself who prefer to chat and build up some sort of relationship. However, I'm also of the opinion that there are quite a lot of couples that are completely full of themselves and display terrible attitudes and manners. There are also many couples who can't hold intelligent conversations as well as single men |
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We struggle with getting single guys as most that message us pressume they are only chatting to the wife and can be quite disrespectful with their initial message. Fancy a fuck or nice tits doesnt go down well when addressing both the husband and wife. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if people were just after fresh meat then yes, we would all be doing anything that walks, but we personally want a connection as we dont just close the door behind us and get naked.
there has to be something there.
conversation
interest
if thats missing then no matter on looks or cock size, it aint gonna happen.
you would be suprised how many times i have gotten on well with a bloke through messaging, and instead of letting it get natural, by the time the 5th or 6th message is exchanged, it suddenly goes to 'i would love to fuck your missus'
seems the horn just takes over mid conversation
Like sexual Tourettes.....
you wouldnt believe how close to the truth you are.
conversation starts off about football, or whatever, within 3 messages its 'your missus has great tits'
lol"
Because it's a swinging site, not a football site maybe?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Still looking for our first meet, and we will continue to look until the right playmates come along. Not willing to meet with any old tom dick or sally. Of which there are an abundance. Having played as singles we both understand the dynamics of fab and won't be rushing it just to pop the cherry. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"most single guys on here are armchair warriors who have a quick wank whilst messaging and looking at your pics!"
I think that is a bit generalistic, and for the most part entirely untrue!
While I'm sure there are plenty of idiots on here, don't tar all single blokes with the same brush |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"the reason couples cant get a meet is becauce most of the single guys dont turn up and half the time if they do, they look fook all like the pic suggests!!
most single guys on here are armchair warriors who have a quick wank whilst messaging and looking at your pics!
that sir, is why couples moan they cant get a meet!
I'd suggest that displays as much evidence of poor selection by the couples concerned as it does poor behaviour by the men. "
which is my point.... if you are looking for something, then why it is only one sides fault.... and i do wonder about ppl being proactive and their selection process! (no, waiting for someone to come to you doesn't count as having a selection process!) |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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Like sexual Tourettes.....
you wouldnt believe how close to the truth you are.
conversation starts off about football, or whatever, within 3 messages its 'your missus has great tits'
lol
Because it's a swinging site, not a football site maybe?
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just because its a swinging site not every conversation has to be about swinging....
maybe the thing is you can find out more in a normal conversation then you do is a sex ladened one..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I the only one surprised by this?? I understand the odds are really stacked against single guys but surely a couple can easily pick a guy at least from the many singles available. "
Perhaps they should read "Cannot get a match to our requirements" |
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this is one reason why we are going to clubs to try and organise our first meet , so much easier to try and break the ice chatting to couples and within a few minutes you have some idea if there is a spark of chemistry present , for me being an ugly fecker I still need to know the couple find me interesting and I dont repulse them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Like sexual Tourettes.....
you wouldnt believe how close to the truth you are.
conversation starts off about football, or whatever, within 3 messages its 'your missus has great tits'
lol
Because it's a swinging site, not a football site maybe?
just because its a swinging site not every conversation has to be about swinging....
maybe the thing is you can find out more in a normal conversation then you do is a sex ladened one....."
I guess if a guy started talking to us about football we'd know he's not for us straight away! Where as if he complemented a physical attribute at least we'd know he was attracted. Should guys really beat around the bush (oo er) like a dishonest salesman trying to pretend he's not trying to sell you a time share? |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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Like sexual Tourettes.....
you wouldnt believe how close to the truth you are.
conversation starts off about football, or whatever, within 3 messages its 'your missus has great tits'
lol
Because it's a swinging site, not a football site maybe?
just because its a swinging site not every conversation has to be about swinging....
maybe the thing is you can find out more in a normal conversation then you do is a sex ladened one.....
I guess if a guy started talking to us about football we'd know he's not for us straight away! Where as if he complemented a physical attribute at least we'd know he was attracted. Should guys really beat around the bush (oo er) like a dishonest salesman trying to pretend he's not trying to sell you a time share?"
whereas I don't see every conversation that isn't about sex as wasted conversation..... it is about getting to know the people better.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Like sexual Tourettes.....
you wouldnt believe how close to the truth you are.
conversation starts off about football, or whatever, within 3 messages its 'your missus has great tits'
lol
Because it's a swinging site, not a football site maybe?
just because its a swinging site not every conversation has to be about swinging....
maybe the thing is you can find out more in a normal conversation then you do is a sex ladened one.....
I guess if a guy started talking to us about football we'd know he's not for us straight away! Where as if he complemented a physical attribute at least we'd know he was attracted. Should guys really beat around the bush (oo er) like a dishonest salesman trying to pretend he's not trying to sell you a time share?
whereas I don't see every conversation that isn't about sex as wasted conversation..... it is about getting to know the people better...."
........before moving in for the kill! You sly dawg you! |
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By *D40Couple
over a year ago
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"I find it hard enough to find a guy I want to meet. Must be twice as hard to find one that 2 people want to meet! "
We only meet couples & it's kind of unsaid if we both don't wanna fuck the other couple then neither of us fucks anyone apart from each other... Luckily after taking 'one for the team' on one occasion i let him know it wouldn't happen again & he was mortified i'd done it in the first place. So yes twice as hard! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think I prefer it when guys say "hey lovely pics, nice profile, lets get to know each other eh?" Rather than "The trouble with Arsenal is they always try and walk it in. would do you think?"
I'd think what's the point of all these lovely profile pics if all he wants to talk about is football, the weather, boxing day sales etc. Be honest, I fancy you, your profile shows you have a mind, lets see if we have a common ground. Yes/no job done. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if the couples decide to make the singles jump through hoops folk will get bored believe it or not this happens and i aint that desperate.
Thanlfully only come across three like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good points. I think a couple meeting me is every bit as lucky as I am meeting them, and some should give more thought to the guy giving up his time , effort and fuel money.... "
Totally agree with this point, its a 3 way thing and all 3 should turn up and be happy to be there and leave happy and satisfied, thats where its difficult as just because a couple are a couple they are still individuals so getting a 3 way match isnt as simple as first imagined |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think part of it is because of numbers... a lot of couples think they can sit back and wait on people to come to them....
wait on the mountain to come to them.... rather than put in some legwork and find guys themselves
but the popular guys are going to be popular... they are already out there and networking and probably dont have to do so much of the first messaging thing...
playing for me is very much a two way process.... I have to be as interested in them, and they have to be in me.... so give me a reason to want to meet you!
there is a perception that couples always have the upper hand, and can make the guys jump thru hoops.... that only works if the guys let them..."
But Fabio you say yourself "I have to be interested in them and they have to be in me"... You are right there are say 5 single guys to 1 couple - couples can pick and chose but somewhere there has to be a "click".
Also we have noticed, that many single guys "vanish", or get to the 5th message on Fab and drop into "I will fuck ur missus"...
We do meet single guys, but found that from 10, 3 turn up 2 are real and nice and great fun and 1 is such an **** , that it ruins it for all the other single guys and back go the blocks...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"if the couples decide to make the singles jump through hoops folk will get bored believe it or not this happens and i aint that desperate.
Thanlfully only come across three like that."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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let me start by saying I do not just drop in the fuck ur missus line .
but isn't that the reason the site is for?? so after a few messages why is it rude fot the guy to state his interest? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Single bloke meets have never been a difficulty on here, even at the very last minute. If you choose to complicate things then expect them to be more complex! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"let me start by saying I do not just drop in the fuck ur missus line .
but isn't that the reason the site is for?? so after a few messages why is it rude fot the guy to state his interest? "
I agree with that. Why would a guy want to chat about football for endless messages? At some point he has to ask if the couple are interested.
Not sure the "so can I fuck yer missus" line is the best though. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Think I prefer it when guys say "hey lovely pics, nice profile, lets get to know each other eh?" Rather than "The trouble with Arsenal is they always try and walk it in. would do you think?"
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Irony being if they said the 2nd one.. it means they have probably done some homework and background on me...
had a lovely lady send me a pm the other day about american football.. impressed me no end!!!
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I'd think what's the point of all these lovely profile pics if all he wants to talk about is football, the weather, boxing day sales etc. Be honest, I fancy you, your profile shows you have a mind, lets see if we have a common ground. Yes/no job done. "
I suppose it depends on the pace someone wants to go at... for me I try to be friends first, and if anything comes from that it is a bonus....
for me friendships make the sex better because you have some idea of what makes the people tick.... |
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"Am I the only one surprised by this?? I understand the odds are really stacked against single guys but surely a couple can easily pick a guy at least from the many singles available. "
Its easy, start with a list of nos, add a list of demands (include something that most will refuse to do), then further reduce your chances by restricting the age range. Soon the only people who will meet the high standards required are others with just the same sort of profiles who the first couple will not quite match up to!
Of course it always helps if you demand professional people with high standards because you can afford to be choosy!
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We do find our location plays a major part in our lack of meets and as we can't travel far it does seem to make it more difficult too,so not a great deal of hope for us at all really. |
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"if people were just after fresh meat then yes, we would all be doing anything that walks, but we personally want a connection as we dont just close the door behind us and get naked.
there has to be something there.
conversation
interest
if thats missing then no matter on looks or cock size, it aint gonna happen.
you would be suprised how many times i have gotten on well with a bloke through messaging, and instead of letting it get natural, by the time the 5th or 6th message is exchanged, it suddenly goes to 'i would love to fuck your missus'
seems the horn just takes over mid conversation
Now see, I totally agree and is the reason I struggle as well, most men just can't have a conservation, as soon as they get a response, it's straight to the point of when are we meeting then?
It totally pisses me off and makes me feel as I'm just meant to be some unpaid prostitute! "
I think this is the problem with a whole bunch of the single men on here, they don't get its a swinging site and think its a cheap brothel.
Adult Friend Finder is the find a fuck site, but that is expensive. For me swinging is about friends, chemistry and meeting often to chat and more. Nothing cheap about it.
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"We do find our location plays a major part in our lack of meets and as we can't travel far it does seem to make it more difficult too,so not a great deal of hope for us at all really. "
Oh dear, there is always hope and a giggle. I am supposed to be in Martlesham every three months for a couple of days ... Perhaps if I get my arse in gear  Happy New Year x
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"We do find our location plays a major part in our lack of meets and as we can't travel far it does seem to make it more difficult too,so not a great deal of hope for us at all really.
Oh dear, there is always hope and a giggle. I am supposed to be in Martlesham every three months for a couple of days ... Perhaps if I get my arse in gear Happy New Year x
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Ok well if and when you find yourself this way then drop us a message and we'll see if we can sort something out. x |
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