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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
If I'm honest, I'm wondering why you are actually on the site ?
You state you only do social meets at clubs! What benefit do you get from Fab? Surely you can just turn up at a club and socialise to your hearts content. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i dont know what you want people to say to it lol.
it says what you want.
i would be suprised if you get any messages....no i wouoldnt. your a single woman lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I'm honest, I'm wondering why you are actually on the site ?
You state you only do social meets at clubs! What benefit do you get from Fab? Surely you can just turn up at a club and socialise to your hearts content. "
because it's not all about sex??????? the social side is very important, playing is just an added bonus. I have every right to be on here as much as the next person |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i dont know what you want people to say to it lol.
it says what you want.
i would be suprised if you get any messages....no i wouoldnt. your a single woman lol"
I do but from a lot of men who have read my profile but still want to play with me when it specifically says I don't do playing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i dont know what you want people to say to it lol.
it says what you want.
i would be suprised if you get any messages....no i wouoldnt. your a single woman lol
I do but from a lot of men who have read my profile but still want to play with me when it specifically says I don't do playing"
then, maybe, just hide your profile if you arent interested in playing.
if you are getting messages from people that arent bothered by its content, then why have it |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"If I'm honest, I'm wondering why you are actually on the site ?
You state you only do social meets at clubs! What benefit do you get from Fab? Surely you can just turn up at a club and socialise to your hearts content.
because it's not all about sex??????? the social side is very important, playing is just an added bonus. I have every right to be on here as much as the next person"
You asked for feedback. I gave it. That's how it comes across to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I'm honest, I'm wondering why you are actually on the site ?
You state you only do social meets at clubs! What benefit do you get from Fab? Surely you can just turn up at a club and socialise to your hearts content.
because it's not all about sex??????? the social side is very important, playing is just an added bonus. I have every right to be on here as much as the next person"
Ouch. It's not all about sex, I like to socialise too but not in clubs as I can't. But there isn't much of either at the moment |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I'm honest, I'm wondering why you are actually on the site ?
You state you only do social meets at clubs! What benefit do you get from Fab? Surely you can just turn up at a club and socialise to your hearts content.
because it's not all about sex??????? the social side is very important, playing is just an added bonus. I have every right to be on here as much as the next person
You asked for feedback. I gave it. That's how it comes across to me. "
Yes but you're basically saying I shouldn't be here if I don't play |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i dont know what you want people to say to it lol.
it says what you want.
i would be suprised if you get any messages....no i wouoldnt. your a single woman lol
I do but from a lot of men who have read my profile but still want to play with me when it specifically says I don't do playing
then, maybe, just hide your profile if you arent interested in playing.
if you are getting messages from people that arent bothered by its content, then why have it"
I will just block the men that haven't read my profile |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"If I'm honest, I'm wondering why you are actually on the site ?
You state you only do social meets at clubs! What benefit do you get from Fab? Surely you can just turn up at a club and socialise to your hearts content.
because it's not all about sex??????? the social side is very important, playing is just an added bonus. I have every right to be on here as much as the next person
You asked for feedback. I gave it. That's how it comes across to me.
Yes but you're basically saying I shouldn't be here if I don't play"
I didn't say you SHOULDNT be here. I said I don't see what you get out of being here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I'm honest, I'm wondering why you are actually on the site ?
You state you only do social meets at clubs! What benefit do you get from Fab? Surely you can just turn up at a club and socialise to your hearts content.
because it's not all about sex??????? the social side is very important, playing is just an added bonus. I have every right to be on here as much as the next person
You asked for feedback. I gave it. That's how it comes across to me.
Yes but you're basically saying I shouldn't be here if I don't play
I didn't say you SHOULDNT be here. I said I don't see what you get out of being here. "
Because I'm making friends on here before I meet them in person |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My first impression is that it comes across as loaded with attitude, which doesn't reflect well, and I doubt you're like that. I'd say soften it up abit, state what you want in a softer tone and post a few more pics.
My profile is far from perfect as well but just stating how it came across to me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My first impression is that it comes across as loaded with attitude, which doesn't reflect well, and I doubt you're like that. I'd say soften it up abit, state what you want in a softer tone and post a few more pics.
My profile is far from perfect as well but just stating how it came across to me. "
I've loaded it up with attitude so men know what I'm looking for and because a lot of men don't bother reading it so that is my attitude and it is what I'm really like if I'm pissed off |
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"Jumping on the bad wagon lol what do you all think? "
Well, your profile clearly states: you're 21 years of age; looking for men aged 21 - 30; only want to socialise with these men; the socialising will only occur in swingers clubs; there will be no sex; whenever you do have sex, presumably not with anyone you've met via this site, genitals will come into contact with mouths.
Do I get a prize? |
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"Jumping on the bad wagon lol what do you all think?
Well, your profile clearly states: you're 21 years of age; looking for men aged 21 - 30; only want to socialise with these men; the socialising will only occur in swingers clubs; there will be no sex; whenever you do have sex, presumably not with anyone you've met via this site, genitals will* come into contact with mouths.
Do I get a prize? "
Genitals will NOT come into contact with mouths |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Jumping on the bad wagon lol what do you all think?
Well, your profile clearly states: you're 21 years of age; looking for men aged 21 - 30; only want to socialise with these men; the socialising will only occur in swingers clubs; there will be no sex; whenever you do have sex, presumably not with anyone you've met via this site, genitals will* come into contact with mouths.
Do I get a prize?
Genitals will NOT come into contact with mouths"
no they won't be doing lol |
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"Jumping on the bad wagon lol what do you all think?
Well, your profile clearly states: you're 21 years of age; looking for men aged 21 - 30; only want to socialise with these men; the socialising will only occur in swingers clubs; there will be no sex; whenever you do have sex, presumably not with anyone you've met via this site, genitals will* come into contact with mouths.
Do I get a prize?
Genitals will NOT come into contact with mouths
no they won't be doing lol"
So what you're after is to meet guys from here in clubs and then...... nothing? Is that correct? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Jumping on the bad wagon lol what do you all think?
Well, your profile clearly states: you're 21 years of age; looking for men aged 21 - 30; only want to socialise with these men; the socialising will only occur in swingers clubs; there will be no sex; whenever you do have sex, presumably not with anyone you've met via this site, genitals will* come into contact with mouths.
Do I get a prize?
Genitals will NOT come into contact with mouths
no they won't be doing lol
So what you're after is to meet guys from here in clubs and then...... nothing? Is that correct? "
socialising is not nothing.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why not join a knitting club, running club, Social club, or another club that has no sexual conatations. That way you won't get hassled by people wanting pleasures of the flesh? Just a thought. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why not join a knitting club, running club, Social club, or another club that has no sexual conatations. That way you won't get hassled by people wanting pleasures of the flesh? Just a thought."
Or the women's institute like me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People on here are into playing most get to know person first with the intention on playing if theres a connection if playing is totally out for you then why are you on a sex site |
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"Jumping on the bad wagon lol what do you all think?
Well, your profile clearly states: you're 21 years of age; looking for men aged 21 - 30; only want to socialise with these men; the socialising will only occur in swingers clubs; there will be no sex; whenever you do have sex, presumably not with anyone you've met via this site, genitals will* come into contact with mouths.
Do I get a prize?
Genitals will NOT come into contact with mouths
no they won't be doing lol
So what you're after is to meet guys from here in clubs and then...... nothing? Is that correct?
socialising is not nothing...."
In your 6 months on this site how many men have you found that have met up with you in a club and then have not tried it on with you? Just happy to sit there chatting away? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Jumping on the bad wagon lol what do you all think?
Well, your profile clearly states: you're 21 years of age; looking for men aged 21 - 30; only want to socialise with these men; the socialising will only occur in swingers clubs; there will be no sex; whenever you do have sex, presumably not with anyone you've met via this site, genitals will* come into contact with mouths.
Do I get a prize?
Genitals will NOT come into contact with mouths
no they won't be doing lol
So what you're after is to meet guys from here in clubs and then...... nothing? Is that correct?
socialising is not nothing....
In your 6 months on this site how many men have you found that have met up with you in a club and then have not tried it on with you? Just happy to sit there chatting away?"
quite a few actually |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jumping on the bad wagon lol what do you all think?
Well, your profile clearly states: you're 21 years of age; looking for men aged 21 - 30; only want to socialise with these men; the socialising will only occur in swingers clubs; there will be no sex; whenever you do have sex, presumably not with anyone you've met via this site, genitals will* come into contact with mouths.
Do I get a prize?
Genitals will NOT come into contact with mouths
no they won't be doing lol
So what you're after is to meet guys from here in clubs and then...... nothing? Is that correct?
socialising is not nothing....
In your 6 months on this site how many men have you found that have met up with you in a club and then have not tried it on with you? Just happy to sit there chatting away?"
i would do.
sometimes its just nice to go for a drink with someone with nothing else.
however i wouldnt be paying an entrance fee to a club for the pleasure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ive been told single guys have too pay to get in these clubs where as single females mainly dont .do you go halfs with the guys you arrange too meet inside ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"ive been told single guys have too pay to get in these clubs where as single females mainly dont .do you go halfs with the guys you arrange too meet inside ?"
neither. i meet them inside, but the night that I go its free entry until 10.30 |
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"My first impression is that it comes across as loaded with attitude, which doesn't reflect well, and I doubt you're like that. I'd say soften it up abit, state what you want in a softer tone and post a few more pics.
My profile is far from perfect as well but just stating how it came across to me. "
I'm inclined to agree. Read the OPs profile and ran a mile.  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Jumping on the bad wagon lol what do you all think?
Well, your profile clearly states: you're 21 years of age; looking for men aged 21 - 30; only want to socialise with these men; the socialising will only occur in swingers clubs; there will be no sex; whenever you do have sex, presumably not with anyone you've met via this site, genitals will* come into contact with mouths.
Do I get a prize?
Genitals will NOT come into contact with mouths
no they won't be doing lol
So what you're after is to meet guys from here in clubs and then...... nothing? Is that correct?
socialising is not nothing....
In your 6 months on this site how many men have you found that have met up with you in a club and then have not tried it on with you? Just happy to sit there chatting away?
quite a few actually"
Then your profile is fine for you.  |
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"I understand your here for socialising only but I do find your profile quite angry "
I don't think she understands what people are saying. She seems to be quite defensive, and of course it's all the fault of men.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I understand your here for socialising only but I do find your profile quite angry
I don't think she understands what people are saying. She seems to be quite defensive, and of course it's all the fault of men.
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because I've had men ask the same questions over and over again so I have put it on my profile. I'm not angry I've just made certain text stand out |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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I'm inclined to agree. Read the OPs profile and ran a mile. "
even if i was in the OP range... I wouldn't go near that profile...
it may get the point across, there are ways of doing that, that can be friendly, and there is being forceful and agressive...
this is the latter for me....
I want to have fun and meet like minded people... and first impressions do a long way, but for me it is way too forceful and demanding and agressive
there are probably lots of people replying to it... but I bet there are a whole lot of nice people that would be what you are after that are running in the other direction |
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"Jumping on the bad wagon lol what do you all think?
Well, your profile clearly states: you're 21 years of age; looking for men aged 21 - 30; only want to socialise with these men; the socialising will only occur in swingers clubs; there will be no sex; whenever you do have sex, presumably not with anyone you've met via this site, genitals will* come into contact with mouths.
Do I get a prize?
Genitals will NOT come into contact with mouths
no they won't be doing lol
So what you're after is to meet guys from here in clubs and then...... nothing? Is that correct?
socialising is not nothing....
In your 6 months on this site how many men have you found that have met up with you in a club and then have not tried it on with you? Just happy to sit there chatting away?
quite a few actually"
Well I'm honestly surprised that any man would pay the entrance fee to have a pre-arranged meet in a swingers club with no expectation of anything other than chat. Maybe I'm too cynical.
Oh, what are your feelings on these men going off to play with other people in between chats? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Jumping on the bad wagon lol what do you all think?
Well, your profile clearly states: you're 21 years of age; looking for men aged 21 - 30; only want to socialise with these men; the socialising will only occur in swingers clubs; there will be no sex; whenever you do have sex, presumably not with anyone you've met via this site, genitals will* come into contact with mouths.
Do I get a prize?
Genitals will NOT come into contact with mouths
no they won't be doing lol
So what you're after is to meet guys from here in clubs and then...... nothing? Is that correct?
socialising is not nothing....
In your 6 months on this site how many men have you found that have met up with you in a club and then have not tried it on with you? Just happy to sit there chatting away?
quite a few actually
Well I'm honestly surprised that any man would pay the entrance fee to have a pre-arranged meet in a swingers club with no expectation of anything other than chat. Maybe I'm too cynical.
Oh, what are your feelings on these men going off to play with other people in between chats? "
I just said before that its free entrance on the night that I go but they will have to pay to stay at half 10 which is when I leave. They can't play while we chat as the playrooms aren't open |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Well I'm honestly surprised that any man would pay the entrance fee to have a pre-arranged meet in a swingers club with no expectation of anything other than chat. Maybe I'm too cynical.
Oh, what are your feelings on these men going off to play with other people in between chats? "
Serious question from me. Would you rather meet someone socially at a free club with no play? Or pay to get into a club with someone and play? |
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"Jumping on the bad wagon lol what do you all think?
Well, your profile clearly states: you're 21 years of age; looking for men aged 21 - 30; only want to socialise with these men; the socialising will only occur in swingers clubs; there will be no sex; whenever you do have sex, presumably not with anyone you've met via this site, genitals will* come into contact with mouths.
Do I get a prize?
Genitals will NOT come into contact with mouths
no they won't be doing lol
So what you're after is to meet guys from here in clubs and then...... nothing? Is that correct?
socialising is not nothing....
In your 6 months on this site how many men have you found that have met up with you in a club and then have not tried it on with you? Just happy to sit there chatting away?
quite a few actually
Well I'm honestly surprised that any man would pay the entrance fee to have a pre-arranged meet in a swingers club with no expectation of anything other than chat. Maybe I'm too cynical.
Oh, what are your feelings on these men going off to play with other people in between chats?
I just said before that its free entrance on the night that I go but they will have to pay to stay at half 10 which is when I leave. They can't play while we chat as the playrooms aren't open"
Sorry, didn't see your post about free entry.
Well, all I can say is if it works for you then it works for you. Can't help thinking though that the guys who agree to your conditions are probably hoping for a different outcome. |
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"Well I'm honestly surprised that any man would pay the entrance fee to have a pre-arranged meet in a swingers club with no expectation of anything other than chat. Maybe I'm too cynical.
Oh, what are your feelings on these men going off to play with other people in between chats?
Serious question from me. Would you rather meet someone socially at a free club with no play? Or pay to get into a club with someone and play?"
The latter, no doubt. Though play without pay is a more desirable option  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Well I'm honestly surprised that any man would pay the entrance fee to have a pre-arranged meet in a swingers club with no expectation of anything other than chat. Maybe I'm too cynical.
Oh, what are your feelings on these men going off to play with other people in between chats?
Serious question from me. Would you rather meet someone socially at a free club with no play? Or pay to get into a club with someone and play?
The latter, no doubt. Though play without pay is a more desirable option "
Oh yes, definitely. However I must say I would be disappointed if I went to a club, free or otherwise, where there was not some sexy fun.
I always think pubs are great for socialising without expectations of sex, whereas the atmosphere in a swinging club would certainly give me ideas!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to avoid profiles with lots of capitals in them. Not because I have a pathological fear of capital letters lol, but because they seem a little annoyed or angry. People tend to put in lots of capitals because they are getting annoyed with the idiots and time wasters. |
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"Well I'm honestly surprised that any man would pay the entrance fee to have a pre-arranged meet in a swingers club with no expectation of anything other than chat. Maybe I'm too cynical.
Oh, what are your feelings on these men going off to play with other people in between chats?
Serious question from me. Would you rather meet someone socially at a free club with no play? Or pay to get into a club with someone and play?
The latter, no doubt. Though play without pay is a more desirable option
Oh yes, definitely. However I must say I would be disappointed if I went to a club, free or otherwise, where there was not some sexy fun.
I always think pubs are great for socialising without expectations of sex, whereas the atmosphere in a swinging club would certainly give me ideas! "
Agreed. But the reason I find the OP's profile so strange is it appears these socials are not a prelude to possible future sexual meets. Or am I missing something? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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already been said but why join a swingers web site if you have no intention of doing any swinging, there are loads of clubs you can get into for free to chat with people. I would have thought most people are on here for the swinging as well as the social side, with quite a few hedging more towards the sexual side (esp blokes lol). Maybe you just get off on the attention? After all, who doesn't like being flirted with. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Agreed. But the reason I find the OP's profile so strange is it appears these socials are not a prelude to possible future sexual meets. Or am I missing something? "
No you're not, or if you are then so am I.
I have no objection to how the OP chooses to arrange her meets (each to their own etc) but personally, if I was meeting for socialising only, no sex, I would meet in a pub. Meeting in a swinger club certainly gives the impression that play will follow. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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looks ok but I thought you were a couple now as you had met someone special.
not a problem but maybe refer to any new couple profile if you are looking for couples etc.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"People on here are into playing most get to know person first with the intention on playing if theres a connection if playing is totally out for you then why are you on a sex site"
Where does it say anywhere that it's a sex site?  nowhere, it's a swinging site mate |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Agreed. But the reason I find the OP's profile so strange is it appears these socials are not a prelude to possible future sexual meets. Or am I missing something?
No you're not, or if you are then so am I.
I have no objection to how the OP chooses to arrange her meets (each to their own etc) but personally, if I was meeting for socialising only, no sex, I would meet in a pub. Meeting in a swinger club certainly gives the impression that play will follow."
If you want to know the reason why I only meet in swingers clubs then feel free to message me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"already been said but why join a swingers web site if you have no intention of doing any swinging, there are loads of clubs you can get into for free to chat with people. I would have thought most people are on here for the swinging as well as the social side, with quite a few hedging more towards the sexual side (esp blokes lol). Maybe you just get off on the attention? After all, who doesn't like being flirted with."
No I don't get off on the attention. I'm not interested in shagging every Tom, dick and Harry, I only want to be shagging one person, who hasn't showed up yet |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Gotta agree with most of the others, not a very welcoming profile at all.
Does it matter though I thought you were deleting it to start up your couples profile soon?? "
No he fucked me off. Cut off all contact without giving a reason |
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"One of many cock teasers on here.like the attention but no action "
I think as long as someone makes it clear on their profile what they want that it fair enough. Not cock teasing if you don't lead anyone on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think almost every part of your profile is very negative, very 'SHOUTY' with all the upper case and very unwelcoming. We, individually or as a couple wouldn't be attracted to it but good luck x |
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"Agreed. But the reason I find the OP's profile so strange is it appears these socials are not a prelude to possible future sexual meets. Or am I missing something?
No you're not, or if you are then so am I.
I have no objection to how the OP chooses to arrange her meets (each to their own etc) but personally, if I was meeting for socialising only, no sex, I would meet in a pub. Meeting in a swinger club certainly gives the impression that play will follow.
If you want to know the reason why I only meet in swingers clubs then feel free to message me"
I'd love to know but can't message you to satisfy my curiosity. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Agreed. But the reason I find the OP's profile so strange is it appears these socials are not a prelude to possible future sexual meets. Or am I missing something?
No you're not, or if you are then so am I.
I have no objection to how the OP chooses to arrange her meets (each to their own etc) but personally, if I was meeting for socialising only, no sex, I would meet in a pub. Meeting in a swinger club certainly gives the impression that play will follow.
If you want to know the reason why I only meet in swingers clubs then feel free to message me
I'd love to know but can't message you to satisfy my curiosity."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry OP but your profile reads like it is been written by a sulky, petulant 21 year old who for some strange reason is only willingly meet in a sex club and is not actually after sex
Have you tried Facebook ? |
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"Agreed. But the reason I find the OP's profile so strange is it appears these socials are not a prelude to possible future sexual meets. Or am I missing something?
No you're not, or if you are then so am I.
I have no objection to how the OP chooses to arrange her meets (each to their own etc) but personally, if I was meeting for socialising only, no sex, I would meet in a pub. Meeting in a swinger club certainly gives the impression that play will follow.
If you want to know the reason why I only meet in swingers clubs then feel free to message me
I'd love to know but can't message you to satisfy my curiosity.
Then you shall never know "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sorry OP but your profile reads like it is been written by a sulky, petulant 21 year old who for some strange reason is only willingly meet in a sex club and is not actually after sex
Have you tried Facebook ? "
I don't want to shag every single guy on here. I haven't met the right person to be having sex with and if you want to know why I only meet at clubs then feel free to message me |
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"Sorry OP but your profile reads like it is been written by a sulky, petulant 21 year old who for some strange reason is only willingly meet in a sex club and is not actually after sex
Have you tried Facebook ?
I don't want to shag every single guy on here. I haven't met the right person to be having sex with and if you want to know why I only meet at clubs then feel free to message me"
Are you just looking for one partner? If so you might be best mentioning that on your profile so blokes know what the score is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry OP but your profile reads like it is been written by a sulky, petulant 21 year old who for some strange reason is only willingly meet in a sex club and is not actually after sex
Have you tried Facebook ?
I don't want to shag every single guy on here. I haven't met the right person to be having sex with and if you want to know why I only meet at clubs then feel free to message me"
No one wants to shag every guy on here lol
And the fact you say haven't met the right person yet emphasises what people are saying - it reads like you are looking for a relationship and this site is not really about that (although I realise people have met partners on here) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sorry OP but your profile reads like it is been written by a sulky, petulant 21 year old who for some strange reason is only willingly meet in a sex club and is not actually after sex
Have you tried Facebook ?
I don't want to shag every single guy on here. I haven't met the right person to be having sex with and if you want to know why I only meet at clubs then feel free to message me
No one wants to shag every guy on here lol
And the fact you say haven't met the right person yet emphasises what people are saying - it reads like you are looking for a relationship and this site is not really about that (although I realise people have met partners on here)"
I'm not looking for a relationship at all, I just want to find the right person to have sex with, someone who I'm attracted and have a connection with |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sorry OP but your profile reads like it is been written by a sulky, petulant 21 year old who for some strange reason is only willingly meet in a sex club and is not actually after sex
Have you tried Facebook ?
I don't want to shag every single guy on here. I haven't met the right person to be having sex with and if you want to know why I only meet at clubs then feel free to message me
Are you just looking for one partner? If so you might be best mentioning that on your profile so blokes know what the score is "
thanks yeah I will put that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I'm honest, I'm wondering why you are actually on the site ?
You state you only do social meets at clubs! What benefit do you get from Fab? Surely you can just turn up at a club and socialise to your hearts content. "
We all have choices how we meet and how we use the site. Surely going to clubs and being on this site is called being part of the swinging community. It's not all about being inundated with cock pics and 'wanna fuck messages'......or maybe I'm missing something? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I'm honest, I'm wondering why you are actually on the site ?
You state you only do social meets at clubs! What benefit do you get from Fab? Surely you can just turn up at a club and socialise to your hearts content.
We all have choices how we meet and how we use the site. Surely going to clubs and being on this site is called being part of the swinging community. It's not all about being inundated with cock pics and 'wanna fuck messages'......or maybe I'm missing something?"
You're spot on hun |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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"If I'm honest, I'm wondering why you are actually on the site ?
You state you only do social meets at clubs! What benefit do you get from Fab? Surely you can just turn up at a club and socialise to your hearts content.
We all have choices how we meet and how we use the site. Surely going to clubs and being on this site is called being part of the swinging community. It's not all about being inundated with cock pics and 'wanna fuck messages'......or maybe I'm missing something?"
She asked for feedback on her profile. After reading it, that was my thoughts. It was a genuine question as to what she gets out of the site.
Whatever it is. If it works, then fair play |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry OP but your profile reads like it is been written by a sulky, petulant 21 year old who for some strange reason is only willingly meet in a sex club and is not actually after sex
Have you tried Facebook ? "
Lol someone had to say it. Agreed. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sorry OP but your profile reads like it is been written by a sulky, petulant 21 year old who for some strange reason is only willingly meet in a sex club and is not actually after sex
Have you tried Facebook ?
Lol someone had to say it. Agreed."
don't need facebook..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP - I find your profile very confusing. Yes, and angry, but that's already been stipulated by the target group.
You state as your preferences "Blindfolds, DP, Safe Sex, SM, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs"
Now, as far as I can see, for blindfolds and spanking no cocknitive penetration is required. However, please feel free to enlighten me as for how the remainder fits in with your idea that men should NOT get the notion that sex is on the menu.
You wanted people's opinion on your profile? Bin it, rewrite it, and be scrupulously clear on what you want. And leave them upper cases under the Shift Key.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP - I find your profile very confusing. Yes, and angry, but that's already been stipulated by the target group.
You state as your preferences "Blindfolds, DP, Safe Sex, SM, Soft Swing, Spanking, Swingers Clubs"
Now, as far as I can see, for blindfolds and spanking no cocknitive penetration is required. However, please feel free to enlighten me as for how the remainder fits in with your idea that men should NOT get the notion that sex is on the menu.
You wanted people's opinion on your profile? Bin it, rewrite it, and be scrupulously clear on what you want. And leave them upper cases under the Shift Key.
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because men always ask what I am into which is why they are on my profile. I will be keeping my profile as it is and will be keeping the upper cases too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Which is your perfect right.
But all in all I feel this entire thread is a waste of everybody's time, as you are asking for advice which is freely given and one after the other is wiped off the table.
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Which is your perfect right.
But all in all I feel this entire thread is a waste of everybody's time, as you are asking for advice which is freely given and one after the other is wiped off the table.
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Which is why I've stopped doing profile re_iews, just a waste of my breath |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't think you know the true understanding of swinging ???"
well duh of course I do, otherwise I wouldn't be on here. I'm looking for only 1 guy to have sex with, no one else. |
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"Don't think you know the true understanding of swinging ???
well duh of course I do, otherwise I wouldn't be on here. I'm looking for only 1 guy to have sex with, no one else."
Just out of curiosity when you find this one guy will it need to be a mutually exclusive thing? Or can he still meet others if he wishes?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Which is perfectly OK. But the way you wrote your profile is entirely misleading
and a smoke screen for your real wishes. Why don't you just delete the
whole thing and only go to clubs, where you can socialise at your leisure
and see who blows your frock/bath towel up? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't think you know the true understanding of swinging ???
well duh of course I do, otherwise I wouldn't be on here. I'm looking for only 1 guy to have sex with, no one else."
i get what your saying but why meet in a sex club ,why not a M&S cafe or some place if its a security thing |
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over a year ago
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"People on here are into playing most get to know person first with the intention on playing if theres a connection if playing is totally out for you then why are you on a sex site
Where does it say anywhere that it's a sex site? nowhere, it's a swinging site mate"
And the definition of swinging is the act of swapping sexual partners.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Havnt read all of the replies but my initial thoughts are that this is probably the wrong site for you. Friend finder is prob a better site as people on there wont be expecting to put their genitles near you.
Your prof sounds angry and bitter toward anyone who dare take a sexual liking toward you. I fail to see the benefit of even meeting you at a club, what is in offer other than a chat? I can go to the pub for a chit chat!
Sorry if my reply offends |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My profile was a bit demanding and angry I got told recently when I asked for opinions in forum so I changed it as I realised they were right. I've got a couple of new friends but no actual contact yet but am being patient I'm not everyone's cup of tea but am hopeful |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My profile was a bit demanding and angry I got told recently when I asked for opinions in forum so I changed it as I realised they were right. I've got a couple of new friends but no actual contact yet but am being patient I'm not everyone's cup of tea but am hopeful "
wrong smiley |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you have a sense of humour, instil a little into your profile. IE try ranting with a humorous dig (it won't have everyone running for the hills then).
If meeting at a particular club is your comfort zone, then put that. You don't have to privately justify more than that.
Use the site how you wish, albeit within the site's rules. However do take on people's points of _iew. |
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"If I'm honest, I'm wondering why you are actually on the site ?
You state you only do social meets at clubs! What benefit do you get from Fab? Surely you can just turn up at a club and socialise to your hearts content.
because it's not all about sex??????? the social side is very important, playing is just an added bonus. I have every right to be on here as much as the next person"
Finally!! Someone who agrees! Lol! I prefer the social side! |
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"Sorry OP but your profile reads like it is been written by a sulky, petulant 21 year old who for some strange reason is only willingly meet in a sex club and is not actually after sex
Have you tried Facebook ? "
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I'm not keen on shouty capitals or Passwords in subject headers. It's all about what you don't want and not about what you want. At your age you should be out in the real world doing your exploring and experimenting without any need for a site like this.
This site is full of exciting attractive mature people, not necessarily in age, and they don't really want some baby laying the law down. We've all been there already. There are also a whole lot of blokes who don't give a shit who or what they fuck. Your profile will only put off the people who you would probably learn most from.
And that's before we get to the no pics part. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That was an interesting read,you did ask for advice about your profile
As it stands it does look like a teenager with attitude,if rewritten in a positive way you may not get such a hard time. Attitude brings attitude
The choice is yours how u run your profile and choose to use the site,just being friendly will help get what u require,you seek a fb most the good ones would walk by your profile as wouldn't want there head bitten off |
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