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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Once again after a bit of a chat I sent my face pic and saw message deleted with no reply.
Face pic is now visible to everyone so please have a look at tell me what is wrong with it. If I look rough then that's fine as nothing I can do about that but if it's a bad pic then any advice would be much appreciated.
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"Once again after a bit of a chat I sent my face pic and saw message deleted with no reply.
Face pic is now visible to everyone so please have a look at tell me what is wrong with it. If I look rough then that's fine as nothing I can do about that but if it's a bad pic then any advice would be much appreciated.
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I've seen this happen in the chat rooms - the comment from the person viewing the blokes face on cam was quite rude (IMHO). No other explanation was forthcoming. Maybe they wanted a Quasimodo rather than an Adonis. Who knows? Just don't let it worry you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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some just dont like beards.
that said, you look a little smug, no idea if its a look you meant, or if its an unfortunate circumstance, but maybe thats what they are seeing
you aint overtly ugly so i wouldnt worry too much |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"some just dont like beards.
that said, you look a little smug, no idea if its a look you meant, or if its an unfortunate circumstance, but maybe thats what they are seeing
you aint overtly ugly so i wouldnt worry too much"
I didn't see smug, I saw nervous smile. And for what little worth my opinion is, if I received it I would be happy, so don't let it get you down. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is the the only one you have? I'm just thinking if you approached me I would be very, very pleased with the body shots, but surprised at the face that went with it. I'm always cautious who I invite into my home so I do gauge people by their expressions. You probably have better pics, but in this one your smile doesn't reach your eyes. It would make me wary. Does that help a bit? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing is wrong with you mate. The fact is there is way high unbalanced competition here. may be a 100 guyfor every woman. Which gives them the opportunity to be fussy demnding rejective many r unconsiderate rude and use the site to boost their ego. The one that has rejected u might be struggling in real life and dating websites to find a decent guy for a serious relationship. I get that all the time. Some say have the decencey to reply politely with no thanks or thx but not my type others says I look gorgious. So everyones tasre is different. This is no place to take rejection seriousely coz it means nothing mate. Be patient and move on n u u'll get rewarded with what u deserve.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good set of photos..just looking at your face pic and seen it was taken in 2011. Maybe take a more recent one?
We get blocked by a lot of people at the photo swapping stage as well so its not just you.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks fine to me mate, your definately not ugly. Everybody has a different thing they look for in a face. As mentioned above you could probably do with smiling more in any new face pics. Woman tent to go for a nice smile. Everybody gets rejected, I've certainly have been. I've also said not my type a few times as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe you just weren't their type? No one one this site appeals to every single member, doesnt make you ugly. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder as the saying goes.
This is why I ask for a face pic before anything because there's no point chatting to someone and then you get the face pic and it does nothing for you, there has to be that draw/spark/attraction unless your the type who doesnt care what you look like its just about fucking regardless as to whether you fancy them or not. But to most, attraction is very very important.
Ive chatted to peeps and ive been attracted to the countless body pics they send and then I get the face pic and that's it the attraction is gone, the face doesnt match the body.
It happens an awful lot on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As flame princess said above its the perception some might have have of your face to go with your body. . Happened to me before.
Its still very rude and shallow
Average face on a hot body was what one girl politely said. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"some just dont like beards.
that said, you look a little smug, no idea if its a look you meant, or if its an unfortunate circumstance, but maybe thats what they are seeing
you aint overtly ugly so i wouldnt worry too much
I didn't see smug, I saw nervous smile. And for what little worth my opinion is, if I received it I would be happy, so don't let it get you down. "
every person will see something different in everything |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As flame princess said above its the perception some might have have of your face to go with your body. . Happened to me before.
Its still very rude and shallow
Average face on a hot body was what one girl politely said."
What the girl said to you was very rude! She could.of just said sorry your not my type instead of insulting you.
But attraction is attraction and if you see a face and don't feel it then I don't agree that's shallow. |
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