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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey all,
we have been on here for about 2 months now and the only solid offer we have had is from single guys. While that is great we would really like to meet a couple but most of the time we start chatting and they disappear.
What are we doing wrong. Any advise would be great.
As you can see from our profile we are hot, polite and reasonably educated and would love to meet similar!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You winked us 2 months ago and had you bothered to message us we may have replied but winks rarely get a response unless you are clearly very much what we are looking for.
To be honest your profile reads like you want a single female to be your plaything. And that couples may offer am easier option but are very much second best. Bi-curious also put us off mainly in the context of you appearing to want a plaything to fulfill your fantasises. Dozens of pictures of her and the nearest to one of him being his cock in some of them adds to the impression that this is all about girl on girl. And the impression that you only want a female is further compounded by the fact only crystal is in your prefered age range. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You winked us 2 months ago and had you bothered to message us we may have replied but winks rarely get a response unless you are clearly very much what we are looking for.
To be honest your profile reads like you want a single female to be your plaything. And that couples may offer am easier option but are very much second best. Bi-curious also put us off mainly in the context of you appearing to want a plaything to fulfill your fantasises. Dozens of pictures of her and the nearest to one of him being his cock in some of them adds to the impression that this is all about girl on girl. And the impression that you only want a female is further compounded by the fact only crystal is in your prefered age range. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You are most definitely hot with a nicely written profile. However the only pics of A seem to be his cock. I imagine couples and single women would like to see some similarly well taken pics of him. You might consider advertising for meets. Engaging in the fora and chatrooms will also help if you don't do much of that yet. There are also alot of hot couples and ladies in their 40s and 50s who may be interested too! Good luck! |
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I guess your bloke is kept for private pics??? You've put up a lot of 'wank fodder' In my opinion, so I guess the single men will enjoy that.
If you are happy with your profile, carry on. If it isn't working for you (in attracting the groups you want to attract) try thinking what you have to offer and put it on display or within the text. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You winked us 2 months ago and had you bothered to message us we may have replied but winks rarely get a response unless you are clearly very much what we are looking for.
To be honest your profile reads like you want a single female to be your plaything. And that couples may offer am easier option but are very much second best. Bi-curious also put us off mainly in the context of you appearing to want a plaything to fulfill your fantasises. Dozens of pictures of her and the nearest to one of him being his cock in some of them adds to the impression that this is all about girl on girl. And the impression that you only want a female is further compounded by the fact only crystal is in your prefered age range."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I guess your bloke is kept for private pics??? You've put up a lot of 'wank fodder' In my opinion, so I guess the single men will enjoy that.
If you are happy with your profile, carry on. If it isn't working for you (in attracting the groups you want to attract) try thinking what you have to offer and put it on display or within the text. "
What kind if pics do you consider not to be wank fodder? It's a sex site at the end of the day. And we prefer not to
Show our faces in none private pics. We have plenty of normal pictures but they are kept for private.
How would you advise our profile should be written? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You winked us 2 months ago and had you bothered to message us we may have replied but winks rarely get a response unless you are clearly very much what we are looking for.
To be honest your profile reads like you want a single female to be your plaything. And that couples may offer am easier option but are very much second best. Bi-curious also put us off mainly in the context of you appearing to want a plaything to fulfill your fantasises. Dozens of pictures of her and the nearest to one of him being his cock in some of them adds to the impression that this is all about girl on girl. And the impression that you only want a female is further compounded by the fact only crystal is in your prefered age range."
You seem offended by the fact that we didn't message you? We were just asking advise...no need to take it so personally mate! |
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"I guess your bloke is kept for private pics??? You've put up a lot of 'wank fodder' In my opinion, so I guess the single men will enjoy that.
If you are happy with your profile, carry on. If it isn't working for you (in attracting the groups you want to attract) try thinking what you have to offer and put it on display or within the text.
What kind if pics do you consider not to be wank fodder? It's a sex site at the end of the day. And we prefer not to
Show our faces in none private pics. We have plenty of normal pictures but they are kept for private.
How would you advise our profile should be written? "
I think it should be written to reflect you, so it's perfect.
I also think this is a swingers site, as the big letters across the top would imply. Which to me, is very different to a sex site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Here are a few more considered thoughts.
The main focus of your profile text is about fulfilling the fantasy of girl on girl sex. Couples are kind of sandwiched between that fantasy and the single male after thought bit.
You may wish to give each as much attention in terms of describing what you looking for.
It is important that a couple come across as a couple to attract both the elusive bifem and other couples. There are lots of ways of taking couple pics and male OH pics that will attract more wanted attention. This can be done without showing faces. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You winked us 2 months ago and had you bothered to message us we may have replied but winks rarely get a response unless you are clearly very much what we are looking for.
To be honest your profile reads like you want a single female to be your plaything. And that couples may offer am easier option but are very much second best. Bi-curious also put us off mainly in the context of you appearing to want a plaything to fulfill your fantasises. Dozens of pictures of her and the nearest to one of him being his cock in some of them adds to the impression that this is all about girl on girl. And the impression that you only want a female is further compounded by the fact only crystal is in your prefered age range.
You seem offended by the fact that we didn't message you? We were just asking advise...no need to take it so personally mate! "
Not offended at all. The tone of this reply speaks volumes. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for all the advise guys.
Sorry we did not mean to come off as rude simply a bit surprised by how direct some of the comments were.
We have edited the profile to your suggestions and hopefully it will work a little better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some of the most sensual and erotic pics I have seen on any profile, maybe talk about what you are both looking for and want. fantasies you might like etc.
remember one thing.
You will never please everybody here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No worries. You can expect quite direct feedback on the forum. Worth remembering the forum is an important tool for us to both express our own and discover each other's personalities. It is all part of the shop window if you get my drift.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No worries. You can expect quite direct feedback on the forum. Worth remembering the forum is an important tool for us to both express our own and discover each other's personalities. It is all part of the shop window if you get my drift.. "
This is the second time we have posted in here...Seems like there is a lot of trolling that goes on. As we said though, thanks for the advise and hopefully our update will read a little better.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Doubt you're doing anything 'wrong'. It's a bit of a crappy time of year for planning filthy fun especially for young family types.
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Yes, we had considered the time of year. Thanks for the advise. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Some of the most sensual and erotic pics I have seen on any profile, maybe talk about what you are both looking for and want. fantasies you might like etc.
remember one thing.
You will never please everybody here. "
Thanks, glad you like the pics. We were worried some of them were too arty for the audience here. Obvious graphic sex seems to be more popular. Good to have some positive feedback though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No worries. You can expect quite direct feedback on the forum. Worth remembering the forum is an important tool for us to both express our own and discover each other's personalities. It is all part of the shop window if you get my drift..
This is the second time we have posted in here...Seems like there is a lot of trolling that goes on. As we said though, thanks for the advise and hopefully our update will read a little better. "
That reads better to me but I'm not one of your target groups. I still advise some more variety in the pics with a few nice couple shots and a couple of shots of the male half of the couple. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"No worries. You can expect quite direct feedback on the forum. Worth remembering the forum is an important tool for us to both express our own and discover each other's personalities. It is all part of the shop window if you get my drift..
This is the second time we have posted in here...Seems like there is a lot of trolling that goes on. As we said though, thanks for the advise and hopefully our update will read a little better.
That reads better to me but I'm not one of your target groups. I still advise some more variety in the pics with a few nice couple shots and a couple of shots of the male half of the couple."
Thanks again. I doubt that we will do that though. If people want to see more then we will send them 'couple' pics privately. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some of the most sensual and erotic pics I have seen on any profile, maybe talk about what you are both looking for and want. fantasies you might like etc.
remember one thing.
You will never please everybody here.
Thanks, glad you like the pics. We were worried some of them were too arty for the audience here. Obvious graphic sex seems to be more popular. Good to have some positive feedback though. "
Anything you want to know, ask away |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You winked us 2 months ago and had you bothered to message us we may have replied but winks rarely get a response unless you are clearly very much what we are looking for.
To be honest your profile reads like you want a single female to be your plaything. And that couples may offer am easier option but are very much second best. Bi-curious also put us off mainly in the context of you appearing to want a plaything to fulfill your fantasises. Dozens of pictures of her and the nearest to one of him being his cock in some of them adds to the impression that this is all about girl on girl. And the impression that you only want a female is further compounded by the fact only crystal is in your prefered age range."
Pretty much agree with this.. we have been winked too, yet our profile asks people to message, so our profile clearly hasn't been read = off putting.
The lack of guy pics (and the fact you have to go looking for them on the profile, as they are not in the first 8).
If it is girl-girl then girl girl with a couples will mean a guy is going to be present - so would need to be seen - it may put off playing with the girl if he is shrek like.. however if there are no pics to say otherwise, who's to know?
bi curious tag would also mean the female is not fully bisexual, and we know guys normally put that their girl is bi curious to hedge all bets and try to push her into bi play - which is not fun for anyone, been there got the t shirt.
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By *ex.IncCouple
over a year ago
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"I still advise some more variety in the pics with a few nice couple shots and a couple of shots of the male half of the couple."
Agreed. A cock would not interest us from the outset. Fab is a learning curve. |
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Keeping the blokes pics private means that people have to ask to see them, which takes effort and makes people think you have something to hide! Much better to show proper body shots of both to give people the chance to see if they think you are for them. Otherwise most will just pass you by and go for the profiles that show both.
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"No worries. You can expect quite direct feedback on the forum. Worth remembering the forum is an important tool for us to both express our own and discover each other's personalities. It is all part of the shop window if you get my drift..
This is the second time we have posted in here...Seems like there is a lot of trolling that goes on. As we said though, thanks for the advise and hopefully our update will read a little better.
That reads better to me but I'm not one of your target groups. I still advise some more variety in the pics with a few nice couple shots and a couple of shots of the male half of the couple.
Thanks again. I doubt that we will do that though. If people want to see more then we will send them 'couple' pics privately. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No worries. You can expect quite direct feedback on the forum. Worth remembering the forum is an important tool for us to both express our own and discover each other's personalities. It is all part of the shop window if you get my drift..
This is the second time we have posted in here...Seems like there is a lot of trolling that goes on. As we said though, thanks for the advise and hopefully our update will read a little better.
That reads better to me but I'm not one of your target groups. I still advise some more variety in the pics with a few nice couple shots and a couple of shots of the male half of the couple.
Thanks again. I doubt that we will do that though. If people want to see more then we will send them 'couple' pics privately. "
You're welcome. Good luck and have fun |
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"No worries. You can expect quite direct feedback on the forum. Worth remembering the forum is an important tool for us to both express our own and discover each other's personalities. It is all part of the shop window if you get my drift..
This is the second time we have posted in here...Seems like there is a lot of trolling that goes on. As we said though, thanks for the advise and hopefully our update will read a little better. "
Trolling?!!  You ask for advise and people have given it: mainly, if you're seeking couples with no joy it could because there's no pics of the male half.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You winked us 2 months ago and had you bothered to message us we may have replied but winks rarely get a response unless you are clearly very much what we are looking for.
To be honest your profile reads like you want a single female to be your plaything. And that couples may offer am easier option but are very much second best. Bi-curious also put us off mainly in the context of you appearing to want a plaything to fulfill your fantasises. Dozens of pictures of her and the nearest to one of him being his cock in some of them adds to the impression that this is all about girl on girl. And the impression that you only want a female is further compounded by the fact only crystal is in your prefered age range.
Pretty much agree with this.. we have been winked too, yet our profile asks people to message, so our profile clearly hasn't been read = off putting.
The lack of guy pics (and the fact you have to go looking for them on the profile, as they are not in the first 8).
If it is girl-girl then girl girl with a couples will mean a guy is going to be present - so would need to be seen - it may put off playing with the girl if he is shrek like.. however if there are no pics to say otherwise, who's to know?
bi curious tag would also mean the female is not fully bisexual, and we know guys normally put that their girl is bi curious to hedge all bets and try to push her into bi play - which is not fun for anyone, been there got the t shirt.
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Can assure you there is no pushing going on from either side. Bi-curious is there as it it the truth as S has never been with a woman and wants to explore. Ie curious.
Apologies for not reading all the way down your profile.
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"No worries. You can expect quite direct feedback on the forum. Worth remembering the forum is an important tool for us to both express our own and discover each other's personalities. It is all part of the shop window if you get my drift..
This is the second time we have posted in here...Seems like there is a lot of trolling that goes on. As we said though, thanks for the advise and hopefully our update will read a little better.
That reads better to me but I'm not one of your target groups. I still advise some more variety in the pics with a few nice couple shots and a couple of shots of the male half of the couple.
Thanks again. I doubt that we will do that though. If people want to see more then we will send them 'couple' pics privately. "
The problem with this is for any couples browsing profiles they may well pass you by in favour of couples that have both parties shown in the public pics.
I know this has been the case for me previously. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Great profile , great pics .
It is a crappy time if the year , but even so , if we were nearer Kettering we would be very happy to meet you !
The site can be whatever you want it to be , so ignore anything said regarding it not being a sex site .
Are there any clubs near you ?
If there are then that's the way forward .
Good luck and have fun
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Just echoing what others have said really.
Cock shots don't tell us anything, body shots are far more interesting. Doesn't have to include faces, they can be easily blurred out.
The profile does read like you guys are primarily looking for a female to play with. That'll make some of the males of any potential playmates feel maybe they'll be playing the spare wheel. Which is not going to be fun.
It would definitely help you if you changed those things.
Also it is much easier in the real would than the Internet. Clubs are really worth considering. |
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hi wink as much as you like, we just delete them, a message first with face photo we think is the best way to go..as to Kettering try being marooned on a island trying to meet like mined people, easy in the summer with tourist but winter forget it ..Connie x marry Christmas |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Interesting how many have a disdain for winks but would welcome a message.
We don't mind winks but do sometimes forget them. Although sometimes forget messages too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You winked us 2 months ago and had you bothered to message us we may have replied but winks rarely get a response unless you are clearly very much what we are looking for.
To be honest your profile reads like you want a single female to be your plaything. And that couples may offer am easier option but are very much second best. Bi-curious also put us off mainly in the context of you appearing to want a plaything to fulfill your fantasises. Dozens of pictures of her and the nearest to one of him being his cock in some of them adds to the impression that this is all about girl on girl. And the impression that you only want a female is further compounded by the fact only crystal is in your prefered age range."
I wont criticise first couple but a very good point has been raised. Why oh why oh why cant couples be more balanced in their photosets. You are meant to be an equal partnership(mostly) I have no great need to see cocks but if I am meeting a couple forewarned is fore armed. I dont feel like getting naked next to a guy with a gut bucket and face like a welders bench.... Well done those couples who quite literally have the balls to.show she AND he. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A profile on fab or other sites is all when and good, but we find we do much better at clubs/parties and network and meet others there.
Just sayin' - dont put all your eggs into your online profile basket - get out meet others.
doors open up, that wouldn't open if just doing the online thing.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm sorry it's the yellow sofa for us. It would clash with my coat."
Ha. You're ok in that. It was a rental apartment in Amsterdam. Our sofa is a much more tasteful grey! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A profile on fab or other sites is all when and good, but we find we do much better at clubs/parties and network and meet others there.
Just sayin' - dont put all your eggs into your online profile basket - get out meet others.
doors open up, that wouldn't open if just doing the online thing.
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This!! Works for Fox and I.
And whilst i like the pics - creative is always better than mundane - it is perfectly possible to get images of both of you to give people a better idea of BOTH of you, without posting face pics. Even a clothed shot of you both with the heads cut off would be a benefit!
But clubs are certainly your best bet! Pop up the road to the social in Feb! |
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Plenty probably too many highly erotic pics (which are very nice to be fair) and just one cock pic. Male seems to be an afterthought ...for the quest for girl on girl fun ...expand the what you really want section of the profile ..good luck in your search |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hey all,
we have been on here for about 2 months now and the only solid offer we have had is from single guys. While that is great we would really like to meet a couple but most of the time we start chatting and they disappear.
What are we doing wrong. Any advise would be great.
As you can see from our profile we are hot, polite and reasonably educated and would love to meet similar!
Thanks"
Because couples have kids responsibility etc they have to juggle babysitters etc not easy
Whereas single guys either leave kids at home with wifey or don't usually have kids
Kids= responsibility
No kids = go out when you like |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My top would be get the woman to write the profile an do the messages for a bit.
It reads very much like the bloke is the driving force wanting his misuss to go with another girl, an if he can't get that he'll tolerate another bloke in the room while it happens
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we have to agree, a club is a great place to get to chat to other genuine swingers. We started at the VA, did not play 1st time but helped us realise that we were really comfortable with couple as had only had ffm previously
Ps. Off to the VA tomorrow night, can't wait |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hey all,
we have been on here for about 2 months now and the only solid offer we have had is from single guys. While that is great we would really like to meet a couple but most of the time we start chatting and they disappear.
What are we doing wrong. Any advise would be great.
As you can see from our profile we are hot, polite and reasonably educated and would love to meet similar!
Nothing as far as I can see profile great n pictures are very very sexy luv the facial expressions lol just bear with it x
Thanks"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hey all,
we have been on here for about 2 months now and the only solid offer we have had is from single guys. While that is great we would really like to meet a couple but most of the time we start chatting and they disappear.
What are we doing wrong. Any advise would be great.
As you can see from our profile we are hot, polite and reasonably educated and would love to meet similar!
Nothing as far as I can see profile great n pictures are very very sexy luv the facial expressions lol just bear with it x
Thanks"
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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Bit late to this, but as a single Bi fem (we are not a rare occurrence at all BTW), I would pass your profile by (even if I was close enough to play)
Lose the time wasters as your status - the only ones that allow anyone to waste your time are you. Its been said many times on here - check your criteria, and selection process if you find time wasters. I've been on here over a year (some active times, some less so) and never once had my time wasted.
As for the rest of the profile - No pictures of the male - its not blind date, and I won't bother asking, as there are loads of couples who put the effort in to that as part of their profile. It reads as its the man writing it, and pushing the agenda.
Personally, hotness is for other people to decide, so I would avoid both for the user name and the sense of entitlement. You may well think you are hot - but beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all that. Comes across as a bit full of yourselves IMHO  But then I'm more into the complete package.
You don't actually say what you offer anyone else, its all about what you both want and fulfilling your fantasies. The line about sharing "his woman" I also find peculiar. I am very submissive to my other half (he's not on here but I knows I am) but even he doesn't refer to me as his!
Also try to inject a little humour, and share a little more about yourselves. My shopping list has more personality!
But good luck, and hope you find what you want - and at the end of the day - its YOUR profile, and should be written how you think. |
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By *ex.IncCouple
over a year ago
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"Bit late to this, but as a single Bi fem (we are not a rare occurrence at all BTW), I would pass your profile by (even if I was close enough to play)
Lose the time wasters as your status - the only ones that allow anyone to waste your time are you. Its been said many times on here - check your criteria, and selection process if you find time wasters. I've been on here over a year (some active times, some less so) and never once had my time wasted.
As for the rest of the profile - No pictures of the male - its not blind date, and I won't bother asking, as there are loads of couples who put the effort in to that as part of their profile. It reads as its the man writing it, and pushing the agenda.
Personally, hotness is for other people to decide, so I would avoid both for the user name and the sense of entitlement. You may well think you are hot - but beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all that. Comes across as a bit full of yourselves IMHO But then I'm more into the complete package.
You don't actually say what you offer anyone else, its all about what you both want and fulfilling your fantasies. The line about sharing "his woman" I also find peculiar. I am very submissive to my other half (he's not on here but I knows I am) but even he doesn't refer to me as his!
Also try to inject a little humour, and share a little more about yourselves. My shopping list has more personality!
But good luck, and hope you find what you want - and at the end of the day - its YOUR profile, and should be written how you think."
Probably the most informative, constructive and helpful reply I have read this year |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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as has been said.
you call yourself hot and reasonably educated, suggests you put looks above anything else.
we would rather have good conversation and substance over those that feel they are great looking.
as we would rather be the judge of whether someone is hot, rather than being told what to think
and i dont know what people are talking about your pics.
they are nice and all, but no hotter than many others.
they are confusing and all seems to be closeups of the same body parts.
would rather see some nice, semi distance full body things of you both.
as has been said, however, it reflects yourselves, and always will |
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"As you can see from our profile we are hot, polite and reasonably educated and would love to meet similar! "
Are you that modest when you speak to them??? |
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over a year ago
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"You winked us 2 months ago and had you bothered to message us we may have replied but winks rarely get a response unless you are clearly very much what we are looking for.
To be honest your profile reads like you want a single female to be your plaything. And that couples may offer am easier option but are very much second best. Bi-curious also put us off mainly in the context of you appearing to want a plaything to fulfill your fantasises. Dozens of pictures of her and the nearest to one of him being his cock in some of them adds to the impression that this is all about girl on girl. And the impression that you only want a female is further compounded by the fact only crystal is in your prefered age range.
You seem offended by the fact that we didn't message you? We were just asking advise...no need to take it so personally mate!
Not offended at all. The tone of this reply speaks volumes. "
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over a year ago
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"I'm sorry it's the yellow sofa for us. It would clash with my coat.
Ha. You're ok in that. It was a rental apartment in Amsterdam. Our sofa is a much more tasteful grey! "
Just so long as its a tasteful grey 
I think 90% of the suggestions given are tosh (apart from the yellow sofa thing of course). Some people spend way too much time analysing what others do on this site. It seems to go in waves on here, regardless of what you do. |
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over a year ago
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"I'm sorry it's the yellow sofa for us. It would clash with my coat.
Ha. You're ok in that. It was a rental apartment in Amsterdam. Our sofa is a much more tasteful grey!
Just so long as its a tasteful grey
I think 90% of the suggestions given are tosh (apart from the yellow sofa thing of course). Some people spend way too much time analysing what others do on this site. It seems to go in waves on here, regardless of what you do."
the thing is, you are always asking for opinions, and anyone can only give someone an opinion on what they do, and dont like.
someone could guess what everyone else will like, but lets be honest, its never going to end well |
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over a year ago
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We like your profile, enough to be interested, however as others have mentioned if once you get past the profile and your are vain self interested we wouldn't go further.
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over a year ago
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"Hey all,
we have been on here for about 2 months now and the only solid offer we have had is from single guys. While that is great we would really like to meet a couple but most of the time we start chatting and they disappear.
What are we doing wrong. Any advise would be great.
As you can see from our profile we are hot, polite and reasonably educated and would love to meet similar!
Thanks"
Doing nothing wrong. It takes time and patience. |
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"oh lol now i'm blocked, guess he didn't like my suggestion? "
ha ha very Funny but also very perceptive of you, But isnt that the case with about 90% of profiles on here ?? We are amazed just how many are clearly written by the bloke while pretending they are the woman or putting their "ladys" point of view for them. cant they see just how transparent it is ?? I mean, havent you noticed that about 99.9% of women in couples on here are "Bi Curious" While about 99.9999% of the men in couples are so straight that they would make Arnold Schwarzenegger look like Mrs Mop Hmmmmm Something dont stack up somwhere !!  |
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"oh lol now i'm blocked, guess he didn't like my suggestion?
ha ha very Funny but also very perceptive of you, But isnt that the case with about 90% of profiles on here ?? We are amazed just how many are clearly written by the bloke while pretending they are the woman or putting their "ladys" point of view for them. cant they see just how transparent it is ?? I mean, havent you noticed that about 99.9% of women in couples on here are "Bi Curious" While about 99.9999% of the men in couples are so straight that they would make Arnold Schwarzenegger look like Mrs Mop Hmmmmm Something dont stack up somwhere !! "
ok, i dont get what you are trying to say here.
are you suggesting that because a guy writes the profile, and he is straight and the woman is bi or curious, they are in some way fake? |
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"oh lol now i'm blocked, guess he didn't like my suggestion?
ha ha very Funny but also very perceptive of you, But isnt that the case with about 90% of profiles on here ?? We are amazed just how many are clearly written by the bloke while pretending they are the woman or putting their "ladys" point of view for them. cant they see just how transparent it is ?? I mean, havent you noticed that about 99.9% of women in couples on here are "Bi Curious" While about 99.9999% of the men in couples are so straight that they would make Arnold Schwarzenegger look like Mrs Mop Hmmmmm Something dont stack up somwhere !!
ok, i dont get what you are trying to say here.
are you suggesting that because a guy writes the profile, and he is straight and the woman is bi or curious, they are in some way fake?"
No but usually you can tell if the bloke is kinda pushing the girl into it more than maybe she wants. I used to be on here as a couple and we met some where it was very very obvious the girl was only playing bi to please her fella, I imagine you've probably net a few too. It's not a very fun meet as it's quite awkward, when you can tell. |
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"oh lol now i'm blocked, guess he didn't like my suggestion?
ha ha very Funny but also very perceptive of you, But isnt that the case with about 90% of profiles on here ?? We are amazed just how many are clearly written by the bloke while pretending they are the woman or putting their "ladys" point of view for them. cant they see just how transparent it is ?? I mean, havent you noticed that about 99.9% of women in couples on here are "Bi Curious" While about 99.9999% of the men in couples are so straight that they would make Arnold Schwarzenegger look like Mrs Mop Hmmmmm Something dont stack up somwhere !!
ok, i dont get what you are trying to say here.
are you suggesting that because a guy writes the profile, and he is straight and the woman is bi or curious, they are in some way fake?
No but usually you can tell if the bloke is kinda pushing the girl into it more than maybe she wants. I used to be on here as a couple and we met some where it was very very obvious the girl was only playing bi to please her fella, I imagine you've probably net a few too. It's not a very fun meet as it's quite awkward, when you can tell."
we have actually found there are more the other way round |
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Your profile looks great and you both look hot , keep going you'll get there xx