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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey guys,
I want to try my first Bi MMF, the couples I have spoke to do not really want to meet as either they think I am pretending to be bi just to get with the female or they simple want someone with experience. Both I understand.
I just want to try this and wondering the best way to get this arranged. Find a Bi male is quite easy, but finding a girl to join seems tricky!
Has anyone had the same problem? or any suggestions the best way to try and organise one?
Thanks guys! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Come to Ireland I gave had 3 bi couples and couples really want to try it here. One piece of advice try meet a mature couple if they can help they will. |
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"Hey guys,
I want to try my first Bi MMF, the couples I have spoke to do not really want to meet as either they think I am pretending to be bi just to get with the female or they simple want someone with experience. Both I understand.
I just want to try this and wondering the best way to get this arranged. Find a Bi male is quite easy, but finding a girl to join seems tricky!
Has anyone had the same problem? or any suggestions the best way to try and organise one?
Thanks guys!"
Same here buddy. Ive had one experience and would love more |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just embrace it. Youll never be the same again.. all for the right reasons
Me to... So agreed and I bet you could make it work with people on this thread possibly too.....
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Pretty easily |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This thread is so frustrating - so many gorgeous people living so far away !
Can you all move closer to us please x
Hey I like to travel lol x
hmmmmm where lol  "
Ive never been to cork.... x |
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By *i_garyMan
over a year ago
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To be honest, guys can be a problem too.
I was supposed to be having a bi 4some a while back with 2 fems and a guy. Everyone turned up except the other guy so we just ended up having a 3some (not that I was complaining  ). I think some guys just get off on the fantasy of it all and aren't really bi. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be honest, guys can be a problem too.
I was supposed to be having a bi 4some a while back with 2 fems and a guy. Everyone turned up except the other guy so we just ended up having a 3some (not that I was complaining ). I think some guys just get off on the fantasy of it all and aren't really bi. "
I think there probably is an element of that at times, but in fairness the guys who (on here) put themselves as bi are normally good value for there money (so to speak) I know I am hehe |
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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago
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"This thread is so frustrating - so many gorgeous people living so far away !
Can you all move closer to us please x
Hey I like to travel lol x
hmmmmm where lol
Ive never been to cork.... x"
ohhhhhh maybe u should visit Cork , i hear it has a good swinging scene here cough cough  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This thread is so frustrating - so many gorgeous people living so far away !
Can you all move closer to us please x
Hey I like to travel lol x
hmmmmm where lol
Ive never been to cork.... x
ohhhhhh maybe u should visit Cork , i hear it has a good swinging scene here cough cough "
I'm going to take that as an invite. if serious message me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah the ones listed as bi sexual are usually genuine as they know putting that will.actually cost them more meets with women and couples than it gains"
Not always. Having 'curious' as my status and clear text in my profile has never affected my life on here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah the ones listed as bi sexual are usually genuine as they know putting that will.actually cost them more meets with women and couples than it gains
Not always. Having 'curious' as my status and clear text in my profile has never affected my life on here! "
i'm bi and i have been on and off here for some time and i agree it hasn't affected my meets with those i find attractive and those that like me, of any gender or persuasion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Still a major stigma attached it seems to putting 'Bi' or 'bi curious' on your profile, even on swinging sites.
It seems the straight couples seem to think husband is Julian clary's twin brother, or will jump on them at the drop of a hat...doesn't quite work like that!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Still a major stigma attached it seems to putting 'Bi' or 'bi curious' on your profile, even on swinging sites.
It seems the straight couples seem to think husband is Julian clary's twin brother, or will jump on them at the drop of a hat...doesn't quite work like that!!
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No you are so right... becauae im bi im instantly going to be humping the guy like a dog and ignoring the lady... thats what ive been told.. people just dont grasp its ok as bloke to fancy men and women and not always act on that.
But we digress. If the OP wants a bi mmf its easy. Club nights on designated bi play are good. Or find a nice couple like the one above . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do love it!! I started out with straight couples and then I had my first bi male couple a few years ago and never looked back! ! Bi couples all the way for me! ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Enjoyed my bi mmmf last year. Was meant to be 8 bi guys but only. 3 showed up. X
expect 50% no show if I don't know them"
Totally agree. The thought was there. Wanted 8 guys sucking before gang banging me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Still a major stigma attached it seems to putting 'Bi' or 'bi curious' on your profile, even on swinging sites.
It seems the straight couples seem to think husband is Julian clary's twin brother, or will jump on them at the drop of a hat...doesn't quite work like that!!
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We're always keen to meet bi guys. However, the OP's profile says he is bisexual, but in the text he admits he's never tried it, so is actually only bi-curious. It's this mixed message that would put us off meeting. However, if he was at a club bi night.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey! Thanks for all the responses guys! and if anyone is interested, couples or singles, and live quite local just send me a message
I think I will look into going along to a club as well, seems a good option :D
thanks again, and those who did message me I will get back to you!! xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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this is easy to get sorted in the 2 weeks we have been meeting we have had 2 successful bi mmfs which ain't bad taking we can only meet 1 day a week really. But its the most fun sexually we have ever had |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive been trying to arrange this for ages ! Ive had gang bangs with orally bi guys but I want two fully bi guys and me ! X "
Well if you're ever in Cheshire area I'd love to help out, could provide one of my bi fuck buddies too :p |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"this is easy to get sorted in the 2 weeks we have been meeting we have had 2 successful bi mmfs which ain't bad taking we can only meet 1 day a week really. But its the most fun sexually we have ever had "
But you already have a piece of the puzzle at home . Its getting two bi guys that I find difficult - oh loads and loads of offers that tend to just .....disappear lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"this is easy to get sorted in the 2 weeks we have been meeting we have had 2 successful bi mmfs which ain't bad taking we can only meet 1 day a week really. But its the most fun sexually we have ever had
But you already have a piece of the puzzle at home . Its getting two bi guys that I find difficult - oh loads and loads of offers that tend to just .....disappear lol x "
if your ever around our area message us im sure we could arrange enough bi guys for both of you
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We dont all disappear.. some of us are the real deal x"
Its the type I'm looking for I guess - twinki around 20 with a certain look - which is why its so hard x lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"this is easy to get sorted in the 2 weeks we have been meeting we have had 2 successful bi mmfs which ain't bad taking we can only meet 1 day a week really. But its the most fun sexually we have ever had
But you already have a piece of the puzzle at home . Its getting two bi guys that I find difficult - oh loads and loads of offers that tend to just .....disappear lol x
if your ever around our area message us im sure we could arrange enough bi guys for both of you
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Im in West Bromwich 8-11 Jan -I will xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We dont all disappear.. some of us are the real deal x
Its the type I'm looking for I guess - twinki around 20 with a certain look - which is why its so hard x lol "
Hehe its a favoured look of mine too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd love to further me experiences with bi couples! So anybody looking let me know I'm traveling all the time with work and always looking for some fun!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The best meets we have ever had, have been with a single bi male, the lady gets spoilt and the boys get to play too, everyone is happy; but finding one close to us that fits what we are looking for has proven difficult recently. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If finding it difficult to find a couple to break your bi cherry, try a club on a bi day. Chameleons on a Monday is always fun - bi/bi friendly only. Plenty of bi couples available to lend a helping hand or mouth xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Reading this thread its good and nice so much positive confident feedback. I am in the same situation would love to give it a try. Planning on going to chams on a Monday do you need membership? Also local people interested to me or around the area please feel free to inbox x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As has been mentioned before, try the bi nights at either chams or Xtasia... Lots of visual delights, and if you're feeling brave, dip your toes in.
Check the websites for the respective clubs, collect your courage and go enjoy yourself!
There are times when I have such urges...perhaps in the future... |
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