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Gave some advice

By *insfordcouple OP Couple over a year ago

winsford cheshire

We suggested to a new cpl to get photo verified and put photos up we do it to all newbies who look at us to offer advice and they block us with no answer or a thank you. how rude.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We suggested to a new cpl to get photo verified and put photos up we do it to all newbies who look at us to offer advice and they block us with no answer or a thank you. how rude."

They may have been one of the single male couples that are here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We suggested to a new cpl to get photo verified and put photos up we do it to all newbies who look at us to offer advice and they block us with no answer or a thank you. how rude.

They may have been one of the single male couples that are here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How is it rude? Did they ask for your opinion or advice?...we might all be given advice but dont have to use it do we?

Maybe the way they want to use the site is not the same as you do

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

You were trying to help but they might not have wanted your advice.

If someone sent me advice on how to manage my profile Id probably think they were interfering and it was none of their business. I wouldnt block them but I certainly wouldnt reply and thank them either.

Just goes to show how people use the site in different ways but it doesnt make it wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We suggested to a new cpl to get photo verified and put photos up we do it to all newbies who look at us to offer advice and they block us with no answer or a thank you. how rude."

maybe they didn't want your advice that's why they didn't ask for it, maybe they saw you as rude, maybe they are thinking of opening a thread saying

we looked at a couples profile next thing they was mailing us telling us to get photo verified, we was only having a nose round the site, how rude

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

their loss

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

had that with a couple that actually asked how they could improve their profile.

made suggestions, they deleted the message and didnt make any changes, and still moan about getting nowhere lol

takes all sorts

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

maybe they blocked because they werent interested?-and maybe took the advice..but I suppose u'll never know..unless ur sneaky lol

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By *issHottieBottieWoman over a year ago

Kent

Id think it was a bit strange if someone messaged me out of the blue with advice.

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

If someone messaged me out of the blue to offer advise on my profile when I hadn't asked for it? I'd tell them to do one!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How very very dare they.

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By *ev-PMan over a year ago

Hampshire

If anyone wants to message me with constructive advice on my profile ...feel free, give me something to read away from this thread

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"their loss"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All advice welcome here. Out of the blue or inside the blue infact the bluer the better.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im not photoverified and wouldn't appreciate it being suggested I was. I may get round to doing it and I may not. Its everyones choice how we use the site as been said. Ive got pics I can send or I will skype

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By *issHottieBottieWoman over a year ago

Kent

"All advice welcome here. Out of the blue or inside the blue infact the bluer the better. "

Here's some advice for you...

Sort out my picture!!!!

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By *ev-PMan over a year ago

Hampshire

"All advice welcome here. Out of the blue or inside the blue infact the bluer the better. "

Bugger off ...too late, me first

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We suggested to a new cpl to get photo verified and put photos up we do it to all newbies who look at us to offer advice and they block us with no answer or a thank you. how rude."

Not genuine I would imagine

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"All advice welcome here. Out of the blue or inside the blue infact the bluer the better.

Here's some advice for you...

Sort out my picture!!!!

Haha, next saturday i'll sort you a picture!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Giving out unwanted advice will sometimes evoke unwanted reactions

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Id think it was a bit strange if someone messaged me out of the blue with advice. "

I'd think wtf?!!

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By *teveanddebsCouple over a year ago

Norwich

"their loss"

I don't understand this, they obviously don't want to meet the op so what have they lost?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So you offered them advice that they hadn't asked for and you've taken exception that they chose to ignore it? Seriously...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We suggested to a new cpl to get photo verified and put photos up we do it to all newbies who look at us to offer advice and they block us with no answer or a thank you. how rude.

Not genuine I would imagine "

Genuine but didn't ask for unsolicited advice I would imagine.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"their loss

I don't understand this, they obviously don't want to meet the op so what have they lost?"

their keys...somewhere in the black bowl of swinging

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We

suggested to a new cpl to get photo verified and put photos up we do it

to all newbies who look at us to offer advice and they block us with no

answer or a thank you. how rude."

did they aask for advice? if not they may have felt patronised

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sounds as though they know the site well enough to prevent unwanted advice. And you don't have to worry about them anymore.

Win, win.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman over a year ago

Kent

"Id think it was a bit strange if someone messaged me out of the blue with advice.

I'd think wtf?!!

That too

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By *hitedukeMan over a year ago

derby

"Id think it was a bit strange if someone messaged me out of the blue with advice.

I'd think wtf?!!

That too

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By *insfordcouple OP Couple over a year ago

winsford cheshire

They where new and asked for help.

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By *p4u77Woman over a year ago

Norwich

"How is it rude? Did they ask for your opinion or advice?...we might all be given advice but dont have to use it do we?

Maybe the way they want to use the site is not the same as you do

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"They where new and asked for help."

aaaaaaa... well... open season then hehehe.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So what am I doing wrong?

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"We suggested to a new cpl to get photo verified and put photos up we do it to all newbies who look at us to offer advice and they block us with no answer or a thank you. how rude."

If they hadn't asked for your advice, why should they say thank you.

They might have found you rude for telling them how to manage their profile.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We suggested to a new cpl to get photo verified and put photos up we do it to all newbies who look at us to offer advice and they block us with no answer or a thank you. how rude."

If i am not mistaken the O.P was approached for advice and they were good enough to give it, so whats with all the "out of the blue" post's that are on this thread?

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"We suggested to a new cpl to get photo verified and put photos up we do it to all newbies who look at us to offer advice and they block us with no answer or a thank you. how rude.

If i am not mistaken the O.P was approached for advice and they were good enough to give it, so whats with all the "out of the blue" post's that are on this thread?"

The impression I got from reading the OP post was that the new profile looked at them, not contacted them asking for advice.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"They where new and asked for help."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We suggested to a new cpl to get photo verified and put photos up we do it to all newbies who look at us to offer advice and they block us with no answer or a thank you. how rude.

If i am not mistaken the O.P was approached for advice and they were good enough to give it, so whats with all the "out of the blue" post's that are on this thread?

The impression I got from reading the OP post was that the new profile looked at them, not contacted them asking for advice.

Mmm i suppose it could read that way

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