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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok boring I know but if anyone has the time or inclination could you read my profile and give me some honest opinions on it. As recently I am wondering if it is me or my profile putting people off. Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can understand where you might be coming from, with your profile.
But all your Don'ts are before your Do's. Which might put off the genuine guys.
How many actually read all your profile, probably not many 
So I'd keep the "warnings" to a single line of you can, and then tell us how wonderful you are   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Married being the obvious one, but also it comes across quite angry about timewasters. I would change the feel of it to be less angry and more focusing on the positives. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile is ok, tells the reader what you are looking for.
I suspect a bunch on here are not wanting friendship, just a cheap brothel and a fuck.
The swingers are into making friends and having fun so perhaps going to some clubs would help you make and find connections rather than trying to "pull" on here.
I tried to PM you but apparently I am too old.
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It's a bit negative. I think that timewasters and ne'er do wells will target profiles that mention timewasters. A little shorter and a little more about what you like. You can out what you don't like when chatting and if they can chat, and have good veris and pics, meet for a coffee and go from there. Your profile is only the first tool in your tool box. Happy swinging!  |
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Well I got as far as Right and stopped. As people have said its negative and a bit ranty and I know that this site is frustrating at times but don't let it get to you. Go cheer yourself up and have a rewrite in a more positive frame of mind I'd say |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Morning, yes I agree with most in here it does start on a negative and seems a bit scary, all your positives do come across as you read through it but as its obvious you have been troubled by timewasters I think some genuine people will worry they may be judged as such.
Your right though there are genuine single men out there who do read profiles, me for one.
Good luck and let us know when you have changed it.
Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cut about 30,000 words out, you can't accommodate, fine, no need to waffle on about taxis and the like. Don't use fifty words when five will do.
It's an intro to you and not war and peace.
Nice pics by the way, when can we meet?  |
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"Ok boring I know but if anyone has the time or inclination could you read my profile and give me some honest opinions on it. As recently I am wondering if it is me or my profile putting people off. Thanks "
I'm not your target market, but sorry I didn't read it all as ranty negative profiles are off putting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok boring I know but if anyone has the time or inclination could you read my profile and give me some honest opinions on it. As recently I am wondering if it is me or my profile putting people off. Thanks "
I wouldn't know... you've blocked me, even though we've never met\talked\messaged  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I read it all and it is very repetitive and hard work reading, very negative and certainly not alluring.
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nice picture though wouldn't mind meet you sill |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I read it all and it is very repetitive and hard work reading, very negative and certainly not alluring.
nice picture though wouldn't mind meet you sill"
Thanks but too young sorry |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I agree with the above comments. However, I do approve of any lady who wears leopard print.
As people have said, lighten it up, be more positive, throw in some funnies "
I'll try but I'm not good at funny stuff |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I read the entire profile... I know your a bit annoyed or upset at the moment not being able to find genuine people, but it comes through on your profile it almost reads as an add to keep people away in general!
I think without being as wordy tell them what you like, and how you like it! Do's and donts or turn ons and offs are fine I have them on mine, but I tried to keep them shorter because my profile is long enough.
Best of luck to ya |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Miles better now xxx
Looks good to me, except I would get rid of the poor out of focus and samey pics
Then move north  "
Sorry you think they are poor etc. Not easy taking them myself |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"you have pictures of the top of your head 
Just showing my hair colour as I can't show face publicly
you have several pictures of the top of your head "
2 pics? |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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My two penneth worth - the profile text is now good My only suggestion would be to download a timer app for your phone. This will enable you to get away from the close up selfie, and give you a wider range of options.
Ps cut the label out of your knickers |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My two penneth worth - the profile text is now good My only suggestion would be to download a timer app for your phone. This will enable you to get away from the close up selfie, and give you a wider range of options.
Ps cut the label out of your knickers "
They were taken on my camera and I've deleted the knicker shot, I didn't realise so thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Miles better now xxx
Looks good to me, except I would get rid of the poor out of focus and samey pics
Then move north
Sorry you think they are poor etc. Not easy taking them myself "
Its the focus and I know its difficult when your taking them yourself, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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just read it and its nice.
think you may scare some men off because you arent just after sex, but friendship too.
that said, people will say mass to get what they want, so they will tell you they are after friendship too.
but yeah, its decent now. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"just read it and its nice.
think you may scare some men off because you arent just after sex, but friendship too.
that said, people will say mass to get what they want, so they will tell you they are after friendship too.
but yeah, its decent now."
I appreciate your comments. thank you |
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