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Are we missing something?
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"It's not just the run up to Christmas! It's been slow since we moved south! "remember you saying. and i remember begging you to come home too lol | |||
"It's not just the run up to Christmas! It's been slow since we moved south! "I have a single female friend that said the very same thing  | |||
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"I'm too scared. Your strap-on suggestions make me lock my door and hide under the duvet. "There's no mention of strap ons in our profile  | |||
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"I'm too scared. Your strap-on suggestions make me lock my door and hide under the duvet.
There's no mention of strap ons in our profile "In da forum! | |||
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" I hope your not sending out one line fancy a fuck mails with pics of Luke's cock attached?? "Ahhhh this is where we going wrong!! Lol! | |||
" I hope your not sending out one line fancy a fuck mails with pics of Luke's cock attached??
Ahhhh this is where we going wrong!!
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"I do wonder if it is just the wrong time of year, people are busy or don't want to venture out in the cold xx" I could understand if it was just a recent thing! But it's been like it since we moved down south! | |||
 he d put it so much more eloquently than I,,
Wheres the fanny pic's,,?
Apart from the jokey comment its a good profile, you might be out of most peoples leagues, well thats what I say to myself when I get no interest,,
I know there is Leeds castle in Kent, come to the proper Leeds theres at least one reason to,, his names Harvey
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How about moving again  ... on a lighter note maybe your area is not a hot bed for swinging lol Im stumped at the lack of meets maybe after the new year people will be banging your doors down for a meet ( waits for the back doors comments ) ... | |||
"Ok we have been in here for a couple of years now.... Changed our profile text a month or so ago... Pics are up to date! But we don't seem to get a lot of interest! If we are looking for a meet we will and have sent out messages, but why are we getting any messages from new people that we haven't met? Is there something scary on our profile? Is it off putting? Feed back greatly received "We are having difficulty with meets as well | |||
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"Ok we have been in here for a couple of years now.... Is there something scary on our profile? Is it off putting? Feed back greatly received "Yuor profile looks exactly right to us. Absolutely not a critisism nor any other judgemental comment but the amount of verifications you have could suggest you already have enough friends to choose from and make you look very experienced. This may scare a few people off. | |||
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"I do wonder if it is just the wrong time of year, people are busy or don't want to venture out in the cold xx I could understand if it was just a recent thing! But it's been like it since we moved down south! " Come to Peterborough im not having much luck either x we could help each other out x | |||
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"We have been on and off here for 2 years too . Undoubtedly the amount of veris can be an issue for some . But are those that judge you for that who you want to meet ? Why be surreptitious to get a meet ? If you guys are struggling then God help us all ! It's more likely the area you have moved to and the fact you may not be familiar with the scene in Kent . "I like this post and it makes sense... So I have changed my mind, I'm not going to hide any veris! Perhaps we need to start our own scene down south? I'm more for the moving option though x | |||
I know the grass is always greener.... | |||
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Looking at it through 'fresh eyes' your profile looks good to me. Pics of both of you, just the right amount of text. I didn't look at the veri's but the number didn't put me off. (It might have put me off a year ago though.)
You have to move to Manchester. | |||
"Ok we have been in here for a couple of years now.... Changed our profile text a month or so ago... Pics are up to date! But we don't seem to get a lot of interest! If we are looking for a meet we will and have sent out messages, but why are we getting any messages from new people that we haven't met? Is there something scary on our profile? Is it off putting? Feed back greatly received "Erm....is this a piss take on those sort of threads??? Because if you two are having trouble then I may as well go and hide under a rock. Xx | |||
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"Ok we have been in here for a couple of years now.... Changed our profile text a month or so ago... Pics are up to date! But we don't seem to get a lot of interest! If we are looking for a meet we will and have sent out messages, but why are we getting any messages from new people that we haven't met? Is there something scary on our profile? Is it off putting? Feed back greatly received
Erm....is this a piss take on those sort of threads??? Because if you two are having trouble then I may as well go and hide under a rock. Xx"It's not a piss take at all!! We genuinely don't recieve much mail! We are now putting it down to the location | |||
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"Ok we have been in here for a couple of years now.... Changed our profile text a month or so ago... Pics are up to date! But we don't seem to get a lot of interest! If we are looking for a meet we will and have sent out messages, but why are we getting any messages from new people that we haven't met? Is there something scary on our profile? Is it off putting? Feed back greatly received "You have over 20 veris from the LAST THREE MONTHS. Seriously, wtf is this post about? | |||
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"you seem to be doing fine but maybe watch who are you messaging - you messaged us ten months ago but your 270 miles away - very flattered and if you were closer we would definately meet you -but not likely " We probably didn't message you for a meet, seeing as your 270 miles away! We may have just been mentioning something that you may have posted on the forums!! I can't tell as I no longer have that message. | |||
"We would! Maybe you should organize a local Social, and get to know the... erm... locals lol!" Did that in September | |||
"Ok we have been in here for a couple of years now.... Changed our profile text a month or so ago... Pics are up to date! But we don't seem to get a lot of interest! If we are looking for a meet we will and have sent out messages, but why are we getting any messages from new people that we haven't met? Is there something scary on our profile? Is it off putting? Feed back greatly received
You have over 20 veris from the LAST THREE MONTHS.
Seriously, wtf is this post about?"As already said, they are all social meets! Not playing meets | |||
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"you seem to be doing fine but maybe watch who are you messaging - you messaged us ten months ago but your 270 miles away - very flattered and if you were closer we would definately meet you -but not likely We probably didn't message you for a meet, seeing as your 270 miles away! We may have just been mentioning something that you may have posted on the forums!! I can't tell as I no longer have that message. "Might have been about the Cupids social? | |||
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"Most of our verifications are from mass socials!! Only a small no are play meets!! But will take that on Board "Dont change anything its great. theres no problem with your veris. we have loads for thesame reason as youy we used to old parties , dosent mean we went with everyone they were just kind enough to leave good feedback. good fabbers will read your veris and deduce that themselves anyway. its swings and roundabouts on here, sometimes youll hea othing then just lie london buses 10 cme along all at once lol All tghe best nice profile and pics, be patient | |||
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"Great profile, great pics, you both look like you'd be good fun. Minor criticism, too many veri's showing, i'd select your best and have 5 - 10 at most showing. It would put me off, but only a little lol x " Can I just ask as I'm genuinely curious what is off putting about the veris?? | |||
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"people just don't want to shag somebody who has had more cocks than john waynes gun." And this is exactly why I've asked the question above. Anyone who reads the OP's veris can see they aren't all play meets. Mostly from socials and people they have met at parties from what I can see | |||
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"people just don't want to shag somebody who has had more cocks than john waynes gun." That's a huge assumption!! Very judgemental indeed | |||
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"You guys have a fab profile with some wonderfully erotic pics. You say what you want, what you like, and are verified. Maybe us Southerners are shy and don't like making the first move... " | |||
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"you asked for opinions and i gave mine. You're right it is an assumption based on first impressions of your profile which is what most people see. Nice pics by the ways "Yes we did ask for opinions! But saying that I have had more cocks than john Wayne isn't really helpful critisism and judgemental! And thank you! | |||
"people just don't want to shag somebody who has had more cocks than john waynes gun. That's a huge assumption!! Very judgemental indeed "We are on a site where judgements are made all the time on the slightest of information. I know how you can increase your contacts and meets though: set up a new single female profile and when you have hooked them direct them to SOTB for the meet. | |||
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"Don't feel bad! We haven't had any meets yet either, but have been to clubs and had a laugh with some lovely people. Nobody seems to want to meet us either! But we won't give up hope, its just one of those things! It takes time I guess! C xx" Lol we can't believe that your lush if only you where closer x | |||
"you asked for opinions and i gave mine. You're right it is an assumption based on first impressions of your profile which is what most people see. Nice pics by the ways
Yes we did ask for opinions!
But saying that I have had more cocks than john Wayne isn't really helpful critisism and judgemental!
And thank you! "you learn something every day , we didn't realize john wayne was gay | |||
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"If I was actively seeking couples the thing that would put me off from messaging you is the apparent length of time it would take from initial contact to actual play. You say you'd like to message for a bit on here first, then phone conversations, then a social and finally, if all parties are happy, let play commence. Though I totally acknowledge it's your choice how you wish to operate it just appears to me to be quite a lengthy process and I know just from the messages I receive there are plenty of other couples where play would occur a lot quicker. " Ah yes we totally get this! It was what we agreed on when we first started!! But a very good point! We may adjust that bit! As it does make it sound like a lengthy process! Thanks for the feedback | |||
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"If I was actively seeking couples the thing that would put me off from messaging you is the apparent length of time it would take from initial contact to actual play. You say you'd like to message for a bit on here first, then phone conversations, then a social and finally, if all parties are happy, let play commence. Though I totally acknowledge it's your choice how you wish to operate it just appears to me to be quite a lengthy process and I know just from the messages I receive there are plenty of other couples where play would occur a lot quicker. Ah yes we totally get this! It was what we agreed on when we first started!! But a very good point! We may adjust that bit! As it does make it sound like a lengthy process! Thanks for the feedback "You're welcome. And thank you for taking the constructive criticism in the spirit it was meant, a fair few would have become defensive. Good luck | |||
"sorry if you took offence, just a bit of humour. Well you've had enough people say its the number of verifies to know what the problem is now so its any easy fix "its nothing to do with the amount of veris they have and yes it was offensive and clearly you either cant read properly or you didnt read their veris or youd have known most of them were from socials !! | |||
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"sorry if you took offence, just a bit of humour. Well you've had enough people say its the number of verifies to know what the problem is now so its any easy fix
its nothing to do with the amount of veris they have and yes it was offensive and clearly you either cant read properly or you didnt read their veris or youd have known most of them were from socials !!" | |||
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