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Hi and thanks for looking
I am just starting to look at starting my journey of exploration into my bi-curious side, I'm wondering if anyone can give me some advice on how to start as it were, so as not to get put off by going the wrong route.
I love my lovely lady using a strap on on me but I suppose because of the usual male hang ups I'm not totally sure about another man going there.
Any advice or experiences you can give me would be gratefully accepted.
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over a year ago
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Decide what you think you are comfortable with, choose someone carefully who'll respect boundaries, be clear what you want, and be prepared to say no, and then just go for it!  |
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Make sure you say what you're looking for in your profile, communicate effectively with any potential sexual partner and relax and see how it goes. You can always say no if you change your mind even on the point of impact, as it were. |
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Talk before you play and let them know what's a yes, what's a no and what you think you might do but are unsure.
The first couple of times I was fucked I had to hold my hand up to stop after only a few minutes because I got tense and tightened again and, although it didn't hurt, it was uncomfortable. Both times then stopped straight away.
I find taking it while on my back easier with my knees round my ears.  |
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I'm not fully bi if there is such a thing am really not into anal with guys giving or taking don't kiss guys either. But am happy with cock fun and guys sucking me alone or in group guys or mixed mf group. What I am trying to say is bi is a very broad spectrum |
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"I'm not fully bi if there is such a thing am really not into anal with guys giving or taking don't kiss guys either. But am happy with cock fun and guys sucking me alone or in group guys or mixed mf group. What I am trying to say is bi is a very broad spectrum"
Yes I have noticed that Bi for mainly us guys can mean many different things lol
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tricky one were after same a bi mmf but hard to find right guy plus want it a club meet as then there's no pressure suppose just keep looking and you'll find it ? .. don't wanna rush it and maybe hit it up with wrong person that could spoil it ?? |
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Let her use strap on first since your used to it and then she will guide his cock in you later on and kiss her and the pleasure you receive from him transfer it through kissing to her. It's such a passionate moment you will share with her. She will sense your pleasure from your kiss  |
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What's with all the labels of straight gay and bisexual. The man likes his ass to be fucked....does it matter who's behind the cock shagging him?????
It's a form of sex he gets pleasure from. |
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Start slow and build up (wank, oral and so on). Meet some bi guys and just hang out. Then when you feel ready you can build up to whatever you're wanting from a guy. |
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By *corcherMan
over a year ago
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"Start slow and build up (wank, oral and so on). Meet some bi guys and just hang out. Then when you feel ready you can build up to whatever you're wanting from a guy."
Pretty much this. Get comfortable with being with another man naked before you move on to other stuff. If you're up front about your limits you'll find the right guy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi and thanks for looking
I am just starting to look at starting my journey of exploration into my bi-curious side, I'm wondering if anyone can give me some advice on how to start as it were, so as not to get put off by going the wrong route.
I love my lovely lady using a strap on on me but I suppose because of the usual male hang ups I'm not totally sure about another man going there.
Any advice or experiences you can give me would be gratefully accepted.
Elf"
A man from goole after some goolies |
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never liked recieving myself but doggy is a good position to try first or you cowboy (yeeha) so you can control the depth. take it really slow and pick somebody who isn't going to pump away like mad within the first couple of minutes lol. |
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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago
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"Let her use strap on first since your used to it and then she will guide his cock in you later on and kiss her and the pleasure you receive from him transfer it through kissing to her. It's such a passionate moment you will share with her. She will sense your pleasure from your kiss "
Ok i'm seriously fucking horny now!  |
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Make the trip to a club that does do Bi nights and give it a whirl. The advantage is you can dip in and out (for want of a better phrase) without feeling any obligations. |
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"Make the trip to a club that does do Bi nights and give it a whirl. The advantage is you can dip in and out (for want of a better phrase) without feeling any obligations. "
Absolutely agree with this. By far the best place to sit and discuss how you feel without any kind of obligation. OP if you would like to pm me, feel free. D |
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"I'm not fully bi if there is such a thing am really not into anal with guys giving or taking don't kiss guys either. But am happy with cock fun and guys sucking me alone or in group guys or mixed mf group. What I am trying to say is bi is a very broad spectrum"
Mr N is exactly the same.. He has only taken my strap on and has no desire to try the real deal!! Explore your sexuality slowly and it will become apparent what your boundaries are x |
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Thank you all for the advice.
Think it boils down to the following
Go slow don't rush
talk to the other male a lot
make sure I'm comfortable with everything
take it one step at a time
then possibly just go for it lol
main thing is find a guy or couple that will want to play and we want to play with lol |
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"What's with all the labels of straight gay and bisexual. The man likes his ass to be fucked....does it matter who's behind the cock shagging him?????
It's a form of sex he gets pleasure from. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thank you all for the advice.
Think it boils down to the following
Go slow don't rush
talk to the other male a lot
make sure I'm comfortable with everything
take it one step at a time
then possibly just go for it lol
main thing is find a guy or couple that will want to play and we want to play with lol"
It's the last part that's the tricky part! |
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