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Not sure if this is in the right category,. But was just wondering as this popped up in conversation,..
Saw it on Shameless as daft as it sounds,.. on there mimi gave her partner a prostate massage & he seemed to enjoy it,.. Quite alot,.. Lol
& also seen it mentioned on sexcerera (on sky living) that alot of couples try/do this too,...
& was just wondering,....
Has any couples , or straight guys on here tried it ?
Did it hurt at all ?
But mainly - Did it 'do the job'? - or just feel 'weird' ?
And for couples,.. Was it something the guy tried alone - or did she 'lend a hand' ?
What was used for the job ?
As in finger, dildo, prostate massager ?
& would you do it again ?
Like we say,.. Strange question,.. Probably in the wrong topic / category,... but please satisfy the curiosity ? Lol |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
Not a strange question at all.
I like giving them to partners.
Some men like it, some don't. Some like fingers, some prefer toys. It shouldn't hurt. If you have long fingernails it is probably best to avoid doing it.
It's best to put latex gloves on (to protect the delicate anal/rectal area from rough nails and to protect you if you have any small cuts or open skin on your hands). Wait until he's already turned on. Use plenty of lube and proceed slowly and gently.
There's plenty of info on the web but the basic way to start is to insert a finger, with the palm towards the man's front and make a "come here" gesture slowly with the finger, against the front wall of the rectum where the prostate is.
Vary pressure and movement in accordance with the feedback and response from the subject |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had it done to me once. The lady "lent a hand"....well, a finger...... And it definitely lead to a more explosive highly charged orgasm. Full recommendation from me   |
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The first lady I met when I joined fabs gave me a prostate finger massage, its a definite G spot area as it gave me the most amazing orgasm and I also shot a surprisingly big load considering I had already cum 4 times during our meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tend to do it myself when I wank, it's intense!
Love it personally. Had girls do it. Slow at first, no nails, lube... So as a woman think of it this way, how would I like my pussy treated? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really want to try this but I confess to being squeamish about putting fingers up there. Someone suggested wearing latex gloves. Do most people do that? Makes it seem like a medical procedure... What do people think? Turn off? No issue?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really want to try this but I confess to being squeamish about putting fingers up there. Someone suggested wearing latex gloves. Do most people do that? Makes it seem like a medical procedure... What do people think? Turn off? No issue?? |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"I really want to try this but I confess to being squeamish about putting fingers up there. Someone suggested wearing latex gloves. Do most people do that? Makes it seem like a medical procedure... What do people think? Turn off? No issue??"
Use a douche or give him an enema first. I'm usually told it feels better with latex gloves on though.
Some people like it to feel medical and invasive. It takes all sorts!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dont think Manchester is into it....yet to find anyone who suggests it nearby...the ex mrs did it now and then and I must say what a great feeling it is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My first time was a meet with one of the women on this site. She asked if she could play with my bum and not really knowoing what was in store I said yes Wow, it was amazing...made me cum in spurts..muxh more so than usual. I love it just need to find other partners who love doing it too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dont think Manchester is into it....yet to find anyone who suggests it nearby...the ex mrs did it now and then and I must say what a great feeling it is "
Oh yes there are some in the Manchester area. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you find it off it ok if your partner out on gloves first?? 
I meant 'odd or ok'"
It would be ok. Safer especially if she doesn't want short nails  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The OH is very skilled in this area has the perfect toy for the job. I was very wary of this before but in skilled hands it's mind blowing be prepared to cum buckets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had it a few times, if you are relaxed and open minded, try it whilst receiving a warm oil handjob. The orgasm is incredibly intense. The problem now is finding women who will do this for me! lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I really want to try this but I confess to being squeamish about putting fingers up there. Someone suggested wearing latex gloves. Do most people do that? Makes it seem like a medical procedure... What do people think? Turn off? No issue??"
You can always slip a condom over a finger or two. I personally found the feeling a bit weird, but as the other guys here have found, it creates a huge ejaculation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First time I had this she was next to me wanking my cock and her hands were rubbing my balls when she brushed my arse cheeks.
Feeling very horny I told her to slip a finger in, the sensation was so overwhelming I shot instantly literally over the top of both of us to the wall behind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I tried it, but must have done it wrong. Couldn't find/feel the spot, and A didn't 'feel' anything special, apart from finding it pleasant. No ejaculation 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dont think Manchester is into it....yet to find anyone who suggests it nearby...the ex mrs did it now and then and I must say what a great feeling it is
Oh yes there are some in the Manchester area."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dont think Manchester is into it....yet to find anyone who suggests it nearby...the ex mrs did it now and then and I must say what a great feeling it is
Oh yes there are some in the Manchester area."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm intrigued by this ... Would it be weird to ask a woman to do or would you just have to wait and see if she does "
ask and you shall recieve! Lol. me and my partner love it. i started it without asking, although he was slightly shocked initially, he totally loved it, and so did i!! He shot the biggest load i had ever seen. mmmmm xx |
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"I'm intrigued by this ... Would it be weird to ask a woman to do or would you just have to wait and see if she does "
ask and you shall recieve! Lol. me and my partner love it. i started it without asking, although he was slightly shocked initially, he totally loved it, and so did i!! He shot the biggest load i had ever seen. mmmmm xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is something I have only been able to do to myself. I have an aneros massager which I bought fir this, but does not quite hit the spot. Instead I find firm(ish) downward strokes results in a weird/unique/amazing sensation.
My partner finds this weird and won't go there. Which is fair enough, but a bit if a shame. |
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By *ackqqqqMan
over a year ago
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It is very amazing. Must be relaxed though and spread nicely to get nice fingers deep. Makes me cum beautifully too. I find women rarely like giving though. The best is when I do it to the woman simultaneously. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Bought Mr D an anal hook which he can use himself or when playing with me, sits in exactly the right spot definitely a toy for the men liking prostrate massaging  xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bought Mr D an anal hook which he can use himself or when playing with me, sits in exactly the right spot definitely a toy for the men liking prostrate massaging xx"
What's an anal hook? X |
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"Bought Mr D an anal hook which he can use himself or when playing with me, sits in exactly the right spot definitely a toy for the men liking prostrate massaging xx"
We have one but never thought to use it for that! Will try it |
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