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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi guys
I been working for a place as a temp.I work out places aswell. So I not always there abs I work all different hrs. I got talking to one the lady's there. She seems quiet sexaully charged. We went out for a drink a few weeks back I found out she married and he don't show much attention in bedroom. Anyway I really like. She 9 yrs older then me. We spoke SnD she wants have affair with me. I tried meet up with few times and on the day we meant to meet up she say can't meet up now for some reason or another. It been going a a least a month like this. This it was a friend or died. Last week is she was scared I said about blind folding her in my car so she didn't know where I live and I could touch her up in the car and heighten her senses. Week before it was something else. I work as a chef so my evenings off are like gold dust. Don't want waste them. What does anyone think I need to do.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What i think you need do is empty your dirty water then tell the Lady in question that you have been Fantasizing over her..Whats a Ladle in the face between friends  |
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She's leading you on, using you for the attention she doesn't get at home with no intention of taking things any further...always assuming what she's told you about get husband is true. Cool off and she'll come running until she's hooked you again. Leave her alone unless a fantasy relationship is what you want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Should you have an affair with a married person - NO. Can't believe you needed to ask.
Plus she IS stringing you along and you are playing to it.
You will end up looking like a fool or a bastard with this one!! |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"Stop bothering, she is stringing you along nothing more  "
I've had that, you only learn from experience. You end up wasting a rediculous amount of time and it comes to nothing but frustration and disappointment. A month is a month, if she's interedted she'd have met by now. It's probably a bloke! Try phoning her????? |
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"Stop bothering, she is stringing you along nothing more
I've had that, you only learn from experience. You end up wasting a rediculous amount of time and it comes to nothing but frustration and disappointment. A month is a month, if she's interedted she'd have met by now. It's probably a bloke! Try phoning her?????"
He's been for a drink with her!!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Stop bothering, she is stringing you along nothing more
I've had that, you only learn from experience. You end up wasting a rediculous amount of time and it comes to nothing but frustration and disappointment. A month is a month, if she's interedted she'd have met by now. It's probably a bloke! Try phoning her?????
He's been for a drink with her!!!!
Why do people put their answer without reading the question?"
because they can  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi guys
I been working for a place as a temp.I work out places aswell. So I not always there abs I work all different hrs. I got talking to one the lady's there. She seems quiet sexaully charged. We went out for a drink a few weeks back I found out she married and he don't show much attention in bedroom. Anyway I really like. She 9 yrs older then me. We spoke SnD she wants have affair with me. I tried meet up with few times and on the day we meant to meet up she say can't meet up now for some reason or another. It been going a a least a month like this. This it was a friend or died. Last week is she was scared I said about blind folding her in my car so she didn't know where I live and I could touch her up in the car and heighten her senses. Week before it was something else. I work as a chef so my evenings off are like gold dust. Don't want waste them. What does anyone think I need to do.
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Try to not be "so available" women really don't find this an attractive quality |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If you really want this woman, dont be such a pushover!! Women like the chase too. nothing more unattractive than a desperate man. if she REALLY wants you, she will come running. however, i lf it was me, it would be telling her where to go! Good luck hunnie xx |
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"could not understand a word what the op was saying  "
oh please come on now it's not that hard to READ and workout what his saying
a small error here and there get over it (i will never get why people bother with such comments) 
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"could not understand a word what the op was saying
oh please come on now it's not that hard to READ and workout what his saying
a small error here and there get over it (i will never get why people bother with such comments)
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Because it makes them feel superior and is probably the only chance they get.
And I think you meant he's not his 
(couldn't resist that  ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi guys
I been working for a place as a temp.I work out places aswell. So I not always there abs I work all different hrs. I got talking to one the lady's there. She seems quiet sexaully charged. We went out for a drink a few weeks back I found out she married and he don't show much attention in bedroom. Anyway I really like. She 9 yrs older then me. We spoke SnD she wants have affair with me. I tried meet up with few times and on the day we meant to meet up she say can't meet up now for some reason or another. It been going a a least a month like this. This it was a friend or died. Last week is she was scared I said about blind folding her in my car so she didn't know where I live and I could touch her up in the car and heighten her senses. Week before it was something else. I work as a chef so my evenings off are like gold dust. Don't want waste them. What does anyone think I need to do.
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Sounds like your wasting your gold dust - surely you dont need to ask!?
You can answer it for yourself, if you haven't already with the original post!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First issue is that she is married. Second issue is she is married. Walk away before people get hurt. As a single guy, you should not chase married women in my view. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"could not understand a word what the op was saying
oh please come on now it's not that hard to READ and workout what his saying
a small error here and there get over it (i will never get why people bother with such comments)
Because it makes them feel superior and is probably the only chance they get.
And I think you meant he's not his
(couldn't resist that )"
Could only grasp a few words -.- people need to check grammar and spelling before writing posts |
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"Could only grasp a few words -.- people need to check grammar and spelling before writing posts"
ok fair enough you don't understand it (everybody else did ) so just move on instead of posting pointless negative comments
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By (user no longer on site)
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"could not understand a word what the op was saying
Oh and its "a word that the op was saying".
Now what was that you were saying about checking grammar? "
My grammar is perfectly fine |
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"could not understand a word what the op was saying
Oh and its "a word that the op was saying".
Now what was that you were saying about checking grammar?
My grammar is perfectly fine "
absolutely sure about that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"could not understand a word what the op was saying
Oh and its "a word that the op was saying".
Now what was that you were saying about checking grammar?
My grammar is perfectly fine
absolutely sure about that? "
Absolutely! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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".... Last week is she was scared I said about blind folding her in my car so she didn't know where I live and I could touch her up in the car and heighten her senses....."
Can I just check.... this is vanilla friend that you're talking about? My personal opinion is that most vanilla ladies would not embrace this kind of Fab 'fantasy', from someone who is a drinks-buddy, no more.
Take a couple of steps back, and wait to see if she wants to take things further.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From the looks of it, you must have wasted enough gold dust already.
As a piece of advice, don't waste any more!
Conclusion; she's enjoying the attention or chase while you are living on hope it might happen making it seem like a vicious cycle... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Perhaps the suggestion of blindfolding her in your car has put her off !! A long shot I know , but possible
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Just goesmto show how staid some non fab women are - I mean it's not like you suggested she be bound in her suspenders in the boot of your car with a pair of your hipsters used as a gag! Lol. Seriously though I think tne blindfold idea may have been prematurely introduced. If she is married, whats the pronlem kn knowing where you live?
Backing off, finding someone here and maybe leving her your number when you leave your temporary post are three suggestions. Take what you like and, leave the rest.... |
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