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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Dunno, I can't see anyone would know the answer unless they have had a mail from you  "
Pretty much the same as I send to.ladies..its a mystery...those that do meet couples...I can't see any difference between those guys and me
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm trying to imagine what I'd like to hear from a guy if I was part of a couple...and I really don't know...ideally I'd like a Cuckold situation and have him watch..but I'm really happy for us to both play with her..I've done it a couple of times before |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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I am not sure if you mean you are flirting etc with the females on a first mail....that probably wouldn't work for couples depending on who is checking the mail...so maybe write a mail saying what you would like from a meet, obviously after checking you match what they are looking for and then you can take it from there. Add a bit of humour and it may help it along
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think saying your straight, may put some men off, I mean cocks will touch!"
No that's true and that's happened before which I'm fine with..but I am straight and this won't change...I'm sure there are straight couples out there |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I am not sure if you mean you are flirting etc with the females on a first mail....that probably wouldn't work for couples depending on who is checking the mail...so maybe write a mail saying what you would like from a meet, obviously after checking you match what they are looking for and then you can take it from there. Add a bit of humour and it may help it along
Good luck. "
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"I think saying your straight, may put some men off, I mean cocks will touch!
No that's true and that's happened before which I'm fine with..but I am straight and this won't change...I'm sure there are straight couples out there"
There are, take no notice, I doubt if being straight will put couples off. |
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always on first mail chat to them both as if there both reading the mail together , i find that works at start off point , i wldnt go in believing i was talking to the female and tell her the sort of things you would to a single lady |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Without knowing the content of your messages its hard to offer advice!
The straight status wont affect anything - there's way more straight males in couples than bi/curious.
One thing i did notice - stating in your text that you're seeking 'attractive' couples may put some off. 'Attractive' is subjective and many people wont contact you for fear of being rejected as not attractive enough for you. Why not just put 'seeking couples' and see what happens.
Oh - and since its not been mentioned yet - clubs and socials?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you address both parties of couples, that can be a common mistake by single women and guys?
Dya reckon its the guys that monitor their profiles?"
I tend to monitor messages as Morrigan prefers to be in chat however we both delete messages that are aimed just at her as we both think it's rude and shows the sender's real intention. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Without knowing the content of your messages its hard to offer advice!
The straight status wont affect anything - there's way more straight males in couples than bi/curious.
One thing i did notice - stating in your text that you're seeking 'attractive' couples may put some off. 'Attractive' is subjective and many people wont contact you for fear of being rejected as not attractive enough for you. Why not just put 'seeking couples' and see what happens.
Oh - and since its not been mentioned yet - clubs and socials? "
Roger that control!! I do go.to clubs with a regular fb..but she's not ready to.meet couples..and don't really like the idea of going as a single guy as they are ten a penny (too many)...al take your advice..thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you address both parties of couples, that can be a common mistake by single women and guys?
Dya reckon its the guys that monitor their profiles?"
I always delete messages that are written just to me. I find it really rude when people fail to acknowledge Reggie. So I would definitely write all messages to both members of the couple. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you address both parties of couples, that can be a common mistake by single women and guys?
Dya reckon its the guys that monitor their profiles?
I always delete messages that are written just to me. I find it really rude when people fail to acknowledge Reggie. So I would definitely write all messages to both members of the couple."
Good point thanks x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think saying your straight, may put some men off, I mean cocks will touch!
No that's true and that's happened before which I'm fine with..but I am straight and this won't change...I'm sure there are straight couples out there"
You have "no single guys" on your profile. Perhaps couples read that and think what can you bring to the bedroom besides wanting the wife alone? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think saying your straight, may put some men off, I mean cocks will touch!
No that's true and that's happened before which I'm fine with..but I am straight and this won't change...I'm sure there are straight couples out there
You have "no single guys" on your profile. Perhaps couples read that and think what can you bring to the bedroom besides wanting the wife alone?"
Yeah I was pestered by single guys when I.first joined...and I.still don't want guys...I make it clear I'm looking for couples and single ladies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think saying your straight, may put some men off, I mean cocks will touch!
No that's true and that's happened before which I'm fine with..but I am straight and this won't change...I'm sure there are straight couples out there
You have "no single guys" on your profile. Perhaps couples read that and think what can you bring to the bedroom besides wanting the wife alone?
Yeah I was pestered by single guys when I.first joined...and I.still don't want guys...I make it clear I'm looking for couples and single ladies"
You may look for a bisexual couple of two women then lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think saying your straight, may put some men off, I mean cocks will touch!
No that's true and that's happened before which I'm fine with..but I am straight and this won't change...I'm sure there are straight couples out there
You have "no single guys" on your profile. Perhaps couples read that and think what can you bring to the bedroom besides wanting the wife alone?
Yeah I was pestered by single guys when I.first joined...and I.still don't want guys...I make it clear I'm looking for couples and single ladies
You may look for a bisexual couple of two women then lol"
Haha isn't that every guys dream? Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think saying your straight, may put some men off, I mean cocks will touch!
No that's true and that's happened before which I'm fine with..but I am straight and this won't change...I'm sure there are straight couples out there
You have "no single guys" on your profile. Perhaps couples read that and think what can you bring to the bedroom besides wanting the wife alone?
Yeah I was pestered by single guys when I.first joined...and I.still don't want guys...I make it clear I'm looking for couples and single ladies
You may look for a bisexual couple of two women then lol
Haha isn't that every guys dream? Lol"
Being bisexual myself I like fucking the female while the husband fucks me same time. Like a sex train, very intense for me. |
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By *andACouple
over a year ago
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You have "no single guys" on your profile. Perhaps couples read that and think what can you bring to the bedroom besides wanting the wife alone?"
I don't see your logic here at all. I'd assume almost all straight guys won't be meeting single guys so I don't see the issue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You have "no single guys" on your profile. Perhaps couples read that and think what can you bring to the bedroom besides wanting the wife alone?
I don't see your logic here at all. I'd assume almost all straight guys won't be meeting single guys so I don't see the issue."
My point is if he is straight fair enough but if he also types "no single guys" could send the message he's not into being around another naked guy which couples tend to have if a 3some occurs. What if the male half of couple touches him and he freaked out? Just an example, not saying the OP guy is like that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You have "no single guys" on your profile. Perhaps couples read that and think what can you bring to the bedroom besides wanting the wife alone?
I don't see your logic here at all. I'd assume almost all straight guys won't be meeting single guys so I don't see the issue.
My point is if he is straight fair enough but if he also types "no single guys" could send the message he's not into being around another naked guy which couples tend to have if a 3some occurs. What if the male half of couple touches him and he freaked out? Just an example, not saying the OP guy is like that."
I see what your saying...and its inevitable that guys touch during a threesome..but its not that kinda touching that bothers someone that is interested in meeting couples. I just don't wanna touch the guy in a sexual.way...I'm straighter than Russell Crowe in Gladiator!! |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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You have "no single guys" on your profile. Perhaps couples read that and think what can you bring to the bedroom besides wanting the wife alone?
I don't see your logic here at all. I'd assume almost all straight guys won't be meeting single guys so I don't see the issue.
My point is if he is straight fair enough but if he also types "no single guys" could send the message he's not into being around another naked guy which couples tend to have if a 3some occurs. What if the male half of couple touches him and he freaked out? Just an example, not saying the OP guy is like that."
We are a couple and wouldn't think this if a man had no single males on his profile |
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By *andACouple
over a year ago
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You have "no single guys" on your profile. Perhaps couples read that and think what can you bring to the bedroom besides wanting the wife alone?
I don't see your logic here at all. I'd assume almost all straight guys won't be meeting single guys so I don't see the issue.
My point is if he is straight fair enough but if he also types "no single guys" could send the message he's not into being around another naked guy which couples tend to have if a 3some occurs. What if the male half of couple touches him and he freaked out? Just an example, not saying the OP guy is like that."
The fact that he's looking to meet couples make it pretty obvious he's happy for another guy to be around.
The only message 'no single guys' sends is that he doesn't want to meet single guys. It's as simple as that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You have "no single guys" on your profile. Perhaps couples read that and think what can you bring to the bedroom besides wanting the wife alone?
I don't see your logic here at all. I'd assume almost all straight guys won't be meeting single guys so I don't see the issue.
My point is if he is straight fair enough but if he also types "no single guys" could send the message he's not into being around another naked guy which couples tend to have if a 3some occurs. What if the male half of couple touches him and he freaked out? Just an example, not saying the OP guy is like that.
I see what your saying...and its inevitable that guys touch during a threesome..but its not that kinda touching that bothers someone that is interested in meeting couples. I just don't wanna touch the guy in a sexual.way...I'm straighter than Russell Crowe in Gladiator!!"
I'm glad you understand what I meant, the rest got defensive. Hopefully you'll get some action after this post you started. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP I get the distinct impression that you are more interested in shagging the female half of a couple than having a 3sum. The fact that you say you don't even know what to say to the male half is the route of your problems.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP I get the distinct impression that you are more interested in shagging the female half of a couple than having a 3sum. The fact that you say you don't even know what to say to the male half is the route of your problems.
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Not quite..the point I'm making is I'm not gay....I've had fun before with couple..I simply don't want to play with him...laugh..banter..fun yeah brill |
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