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Hi,..
We've seen loads of posts / comments / topics on here about the guy watching his girl have sex with another guy,.. & either sitting back n watching or taking pics,..
& have tried this ourselves on a few occasions 
But just wondering,.. Where are all the posts / comments / topics about her sitting back and watching him with another woman,.. Not necessarily joining in,. But just watching or taking pics,..
As we are keen to try this next 
But sadly,.. Not having much joy? Is here the wrong place ?
Someone suggested going to a club but its not really our cup of tea 
Any suggestions/help appreciated xx |
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Well single women on here are notoriously tricky to introduce yourself to and build a rapport with largely because they are so swamped with crap from most people.
I would say you are going to really need to make them feel comfortable. Maybe start by removing things like 'put pink sheep in the subject title' etc. Your profile is good, v fair, but quite wordy. Maybe simplify it and make your desire to meet a single woman even clearer. Make it as easy as possible for them.
Also Lucy your two public pics are quite seductive. Dale's are more full on dick pics. Perhaps try something a bit cheekier of him? Less tends to be more.
Ultimately I think it's just patience. Do you actually approach many women? As you will realistically have to do a good amount of that.
You both look and sound good from what I can tell just make the most of things and keep at it! I know I'd have messaged you by now if I was but 1 year older lol
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Yeah I'd make it clear on profile and subtly but in first message. I delete messages if I see bi women couples as I just assume its wanting a fem to join both - not my thing.
I have a lady set me up with her fella in a couple of weeks. I asked if she wanted to meet or watch but she didnt x |
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"Hi,..
We've seen loads of posts / comments / topics on here about the guy watching his girl have sex with another guy,.. & either sitting back n watching or taking pics,..
& have tried this ourselves on a few occasions
But just wondering,.. Where are all the posts / comments / topics about her sitting back and watching him with another woman,.. Not necessarily joining in,. But just watching or taking pics,..
As we are keen to try this next
But sadly,.. Not having much joy? Is here the wrong place ?
Someone suggested going to a club but its not really our cup of tea
Any suggestions/help appreciated xx"
Night out at a bar as brother and sister works |
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"Hi,..
We've seen loads of posts / comments / topics on here about the guy watching his girl have sex with another guy,.. & either sitting back n watching or taking pics,..
& have tried this ourselves on a few occasions
But just wondering,.. Where are all the posts / comments / topics about her sitting back and watching him with another woman,.. Not necessarily joining in,. But just watching or taking pics,..
As we are keen to try this next
But sadly,.. Not having much joy? Is here the wrong place ?
Someone suggested going to a club but its not really our cup of tea
Any suggestions/help appreciated xx"
We've done this and I absolutely loved it. Watching my man with another woman was just about the horniest thing I've seen, the sex we were having for days after was amazing
It took a very long time to find and even then it was from another site. Definitely looking to do this again! |
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I (minnie) love watching my hubby with another sexy woman
I want him to meet on his own too but this is proving difficult to arrange
My advice would be be patient and honest and it will happen eventually. We've meet 3 orr 4 sexy ladys from this site and we are by no means super model material xx |
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Absolutely one of my horniest things on my wish list. We have played a few different ways but never had the opportunity to try this and it is one of my biggest turn on's 
We'll keep looking and hoping
D
Xxxxx |
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This is the direction we're currently taking right now.
I (MissD) being a Cuckquean take great pleasure from seeing Silk play with other women. It wasn't what we wanted when we started out on this journey but has slowly progressed up to this point.
It's a huge turn on for me and the sex after a meet is always mind blowing.
We've met quite a few couples (some with hubbies which allow their wives to meet alone) and single women to fulfil my desires and we'll continue to do so in the foreseeable future.
It can be difficult finding women to watch your hubby have fun with but they are out there so you have to be patient.
MissD x |
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"* just want to watch this thread*
Drop us a message if you're interested  "
Im bi & am not 'a show/unicorn/treat'
Wouldn't this be better with straight females & those into voyerism? (is that a word?) |
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"* just want to watch this thread*
Drop us a message if you're interested
Im bi & am not 'a show/unicorn/treat'
Wouldn't this be better with straight females & those into voyerism? (is that a word?) "
Voyeurism? Yes it is a word luv
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"* just want to watch this thread*
Drop us a message if you're interested
Im bi & am not 'a show/unicorn/treat'
Wouldn't this be better with straight females & those into voyerism? (is that a word?)
Voyeurism? Yes it is a word luv
MissD "
Smart phone lol. I'll teach it new words |
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We posted something in the fantasy/ meet section a while ago about wanting to be a voyeur wife... Think it's such a turn on but not had much luck at all in out search ..  |
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very happy to be the other woman in such a scenario
I just get worried that I don't do a good job....it can be a little nerve-wrecking having the partner watching....interesting for me being on the "other side" though!!  |
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"very happy to be the other woman in such a scenario
I just get worried that I don't do a good job....it can be a little nerve-wrecking having the partner watching....interesting for me being on the "other side" though!! "
Im thinking the best way to deal with the scenario is to blank the wife out (not an offensive way) pretend its just you and the bloke and focus on him rather than the there being another person there.
Don't know whether this works yet as im soon to try and find out. |
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"very happy to be the other woman in such a scenario
I just get worried that I don't do a good job....it can be a little nerve-wrecking having the partner watching....interesting for me being on the "other side" though!!
Im thinking the best way to deal with the scenario is to blank the wife out (not an offensive way) pretend its just you and the bloke and focus on him rather than the there being another person there.
Don't know whether this works yet as im soon to try and find out. "
But the thought that she is there watching and enjoying is quite a turn on and spurs me on to put on a performance...... |
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"very happy to be the other woman in such a scenario
I just get worried that I don't do a good job....it can be a little nerve-wrecking having the partner watching....interesting for me being on the "other side" though!!
Im thinking the best way to deal with the scenario is to blank the wife out (not an offensive way) pretend its just you and the bloke and focus on him rather than the there being another person there.
Don't know whether this works yet as im soon to try and find out.
But the thought that she is there watching and enjoying is quite a turn on and spurs me on to put on a performance......"
And what a performance it was. being the voyeur in the situation I would prefer not to be blanked. I love a bit of eye contact and conversation.
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Ive posted about this before too, have got messages saying im the guy as i want this in fact hes nervous of doing it, id so love to send him off and maybe hear him on phone or listen to storeys when he get back and def like to watch him with another women.
I suppose im a voyeur as much as anything else and i love my man i just want to share him lol |
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"Ive posted about this before too, have got messages saying im the guy as i want this in fact hes nervous of doing it, id so love to send him off and maybe hear him on phone or listen to storeys when he get back and def like to watch him with another women.
I suppose im a voyeur as much as anything else and i love my man i just want to share him lol"
This is exsctly how I feel.
Minnie xx |
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"very happy to be the other woman in such a scenario
I just get worried that I don't do a good job....it can be a little nerve-wrecking having the partner watching....interesting for me being on the "other side" though!!
Im thinking the best way to deal with the scenario is to blank the wife out (not an offensive way) pretend its just you and the bloke and focus on him rather than the there being another person there.
Don't know whether this works yet as im soon to try and find out.
But the thought that she is there watching and enjoying is quite a turn on and spurs me on to put on a performance......
And what a performance it was. being the voyeur in the situation I would prefer not to be blanked. I love a bit of eye contact and conversation.
MissD "
That's exactly it. Love interacting with hubby and another fem but not touching, although as I'm bi I also do get very involved at other times. But I get turned on watching hubby pleasure a fem and her pleasure him. I am not looking for a "good" performance just two people having some fun together. |
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"Ive posted about this before too, have got messages saying im the guy as i want this in fact hes nervous of doing it, id so love to send him off and maybe hear him on phone or listen to storeys when he get back and def like to watch him with another women.
I suppose im a voyeur as much as anything else and i love my man i just want to share him lol
This is exsctly how I feel.
Minnie xx"
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"Ive posted about this before too, have got messages saying im the guy as i want this in fact hes nervous of doing it, id so love to send him off and maybe hear him on phone or listen to storeys when he get back and def like to watch him with another women.
I suppose im a voyeur as much as anything else and i love my man i just want to share him lol
This is exsctly how I feel.
Minnie xx "
If only you were closer xx |
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