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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ok so I'm feeling kinda curious but I want to meet a couple and get used to it gently one question

HOW

No one seems to be interested in curious !!!

Help

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By *inaTitzTV/TS over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Frankly, when it comes to their first meet, Curious guys are difficult. They tend to be a bag of nerves, have panic attacks and wish to back out at some point.

Generally speaking, they then calm down and have a cracking night.

I'd recommend that you go to a dogging spot and see if it is for you, first.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Cheers for that will give it ago

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman over a year ago

kinky land

Would it not be easier to explore with someone you are comfortable with?

Ie meet with a couple, play straight, decide you fancy him, speak with them both, agree to experiment with your bi side and take it slow, steady and see how you feel?

Or is my old age showing through again??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

problem I have found with curious guys are most of them aren't curious at all

I have a single bi male friend I have a profile on here with and met bi guys with and the amount of men who mail us saying they are curious but not sure how it will go so if they meet us and change their mind can they still shag me

I think a lot of couples see guys claiming to be curious as them using it as a way to get to meet a woman and would sooner meet bi guys verified by men because they know they will play with both

of course there are some genuine curious guys out there but a lot arnt

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I was straight until I met a couple where the guy was bi...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I have had a meet with a group and was staring a cock in my face while I was playing with wife and was tempted to give it a kiss per say but he said was straight

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I have had a meet with a group and was staring a cock in my face while I was playing with wife and was tempted to give it a kiss per say but he said was straight "

Similar situation to me but it was mmf and he was bi.

Maybe you could meet a bi couple, explain in advance and see what happens. No big deal either way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Will give it a try cheers

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Pudding I been trying to meet said couple but not many risking a curious lad

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are a few out there who like us bi guys

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes we want Bi males but the "curious" ones can sometimes be the ones who use it just to play with the woman then suddenly turn straight when it comes to playing with the male.

They are slightley up the scale from the "genuine" "straight" guys who contact us and say they cant put bi on their profile as their freinds are one here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ah I remember my first gay experience, met a guy, he sucked my penis for a bit then I startled and ran out the door

To be 17 again

I'm still a little confused about my sexuality, I've enjoyed sexual experiences with men, yet I will NEVER fancy a guy. So does that make me bi-curious? I wouldn't consider myself properly bisexual.

I don't want to meet men on here so I set myself as straight.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ah I remember my first gay experience, met a guy, he sucked my penis for a bit then I startled and ran out the door

To be 17 again

I'm still a little confused about my sexuality, I've enjoyed sexual experiences with men, yet I will NEVER fancy a guy. So does that make me bi-curious? I wouldn't consider myself properly bisexual.

I don't want to meet men on here so I set myself as straight."

On the basis of what you have said, if you contacted us with a straight profile and admitted the above, we'd more than likely block and delete you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ah I remember my first gay experience, met a guy, he sucked my penis for a bit then I startled and ran out the door

To be 17 again

I'm still a little confused about my sexuality, I've enjoyed sexual experiences with men, yet I will NEVER fancy a guy. So does that make me bi-curious? I wouldn't consider myself properly bisexual.

I don't want to meet men on here so I set myself as straight.

On the basis of what you have said, if you contacted us with a straight profile and admitted the above, we'd more than likely block and delete you."

Your choice. I have no compulsion to contact you though, so it's a moot point

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ah I remember my first gay experience, met a guy, he sucked my penis for a bit then I startled and ran out the door

To be 17 again

I'm still a little confused about my sexuality, I've enjoyed sexual experiences with men, yet I will NEVER fancy a guy. So does that make me bi-curious? I wouldn't consider myself properly bisexual.

I don't want to meet men on here so I set myself as straight.

On the basis of what you have said, if you contacted us with a straight profile and admitted the above, we'd more than likely block and delete you.

Your choice. I have no compulsion to contact you though, so it's a moot point"

there's no need to get personal

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ah I remember my first gay experience, met a guy, he sucked my penis for a bit then I startled and ran out the door

To be 17 again

I'm still a little confused about my sexuality, I've enjoyed sexual experiences with men, yet I will NEVER fancy a guy. So does that make me bi-curious? I wouldn't consider myself properly bisexual.

I don't want to meet men on here so I set myself as straight.

On the basis of what you have said, if you contacted us with a straight profile and admitted the above, we'd more than likely block and delete you.

Your choice. I have no compulsion to contact you though, so it's a moot point

there's no need to get personal

I didn't

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

The op would be better considering what it is that he wants to get from being curious and experimenting. Playing with 1 person can mean that you have good, poor or no sex, but doesnt give you a definitive answer on sexuality - mainly just feedback on how it was for the 2 of you. First get clear what type of sex youre interested in exploring and also what type of guys you would likely want to play with. If you will only play in the confines of mf play, then many could feel like they are your lab rats, so will back off, as we are all here to be more sexually satisfied. Some may meet you. If youre clearer about what you want, then introduce your own flexibility into how you may achieve this. Whilst many might fancy a night with an olympic swimmer, your luck would likely be better if you explored places where you could meet guys, for no strings exploration. Some clubs have bi nights, there are bi and gay play places, such as saunas etc. There are many places where you wont inconvenience people too much if you try it, or watch play, and move on. Its a different ball game to a couple investing hours into a slow build up social and then sexual meet that no-one may enjoy. I think this is all about you making the investment of your time, thought processes and flexibility to achieve what you want, without getting others to have to do the same. If this is to make yourself more marketable on fab to bi couples, then consider that others may fathom whats going on. If it is about you having some man play, then look at all the ways you could do this. Just as with swinging, it doesnt have to be effected via fab. Think, understand yourself, decide and plan, then go for it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I too am Bi-curious, hand and oral. Not sure if a 1 on 1 or with a couple best starting place. I'd be happy to watch, touch and lick without me getting a fuck. Or have the lady teach me oral skills.

Quite a few offer then just stop communicating.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love bi sex.

Love helen watching as a man fucks me from behind.

Happy days!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

See I fancy trying oral and hand job but would never rule anything out if I enjoy it !!!

But finding a couple is causing problems 1-1 I would be uncomfortable and nervous

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ah I remember my first gay experience, met a guy, he sucked my penis for a bit then I startled and ran out the door

To be 17 again

I'm still a little confused about my sexuality, I've enjoyed sexual experiences with men, yet I will NEVER fancy a guy. So does that make me bi-curious? I wouldn't consider myself properly bisexual.

I don't want to meet men on here so I set myself as straight."

Your sexuality is your business. Do what makes you happy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Love bi sex.

Love helen watching as a man fucks me from behind.

Happy days!

I prefer it on my back with my legs round my ears.... look 'em in the eye and encourage them to really 'fuck me'!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Love bi sex.

Love helen watching as a man fucks me from behind.

Happy days!

I prefer it on my back with my legs round my ears.... look 'em in the eye and encourage them to really 'fuck me'!

"
kinky boy lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"problem I have found with curious guys are most of them aren't curious at all

I think a lot of couples see guys claiming to be curious as them using it as a way to get to meet a woman and would sooner meet bi guys verified by men because they know they will play with both

of course there are some genuine curious guys out there but a lot arnt"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok so I'm feeling kinda curious but I want to meet a couple and get used to it gently one question

HOW

No one seems to be interested in curious !!!

Help

Having a bareback pic on your profile wont help.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Love bi sex.

Love helen watching as a man fucks me from behind.

Happy days!

I prefer it on my back with my legs round my ears.... look 'em in the eye and encourage them to really 'fuck me'!

kinky boy lol

Sometimes I'm a kinky girl too

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