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Hard to get a reply ?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hi all I've been on here a few days now and already met a lovely lady which I adore much

Now I have sent many messages to many people after reading there profile and wording my message with a lot of time and effort. And then I check if they get read and most get a delete with no reply.

Do many others find this or is it just my self possibly my age ?

Sorry if it sounds I'm ranting I'm not just feel people could take the time to at least reply after taking the time to write a message to them

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

You havent been here long, if you have had a meet within a week of joining you are doing well...patience ....good luck. xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do you really expect people to want to reply and meet you based on a photo of your cock?

Too many think this is insta shag and that flopping a cock out will entice women in their hundreds x

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By *innamon!Woman over a year ago

no matter

Its cos you have a cock pic on your avatar and the same one on the profile..

Lousy way to introduce yourself to anyone dont you think..

plonks cock on table says .. this is me !

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By *innamon!Woman over a year ago

no matter

LOL snap !!

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By *phroditeWoman over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

At 19 you are young and new to the scene and site. Give it time, patience works wonders. Try and establish some online "relationships" or friendships. See what other people put in their profiles... watch and observe... you ll be cool!

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By *ssexguy69Man over a year ago

thurrock Essex

iv had the same , no need for people to be ignorant , a no thanks would be fine

ill always reply to messages even if its a no thanks, but im not a ignorant guy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There is no verification on your profile lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There is no verification on your profile lol."

Looks like he's not showing the text, but he has the tick & it's on his veri summary.

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By *odareyouMan over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

What difference would a no thanks serve,,? serious question guys what purpose,?

The message you sent was to indicate an interest in the other person (s) profile, hopefully leading to further communication and having some fun,

So,,

A message receives no reply,,, no further communication no fun

A message receives a reply saying no thanks same result no further communications and no fun

Think of the time you re spending reading the no thanks messages a smooth dude ( like me,,,

) might be messaging the very person that would have replied to you instead they strike up communications with me, I m having the fun youre still frustrated cos you re still reading its thanks but no thanks,,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There is no verification on your profile lol.

Looks like he's not showing the text, but he has the tick & it's on his veri summary."
I see yes that can mean 2 things, if it went good or bad.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Why would anyone write a bad verification? They would know it wouldn't get displayed and would be a waste of time.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"There is no verification on your profile lol."

So what? Some people don't write verifications for others, some people don't want them and some choose not to display them.

Whether he has a verification has nothing to do with his post and the question asked.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think you have a very nice cock, I want to mother it, and make it grow.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im also new ......i have a face pic as avatar.....but one of my pics is my cock.

Thinking its a good idea to remove.

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By *B9 QueenWoman over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"iv had the same , no need for people to be ignorant , a no thanks would be fine

ill always reply to messages even if its a no thanks, but im not a ignorant guy "

And then when people send a polite no thanks they get either abuse or told that if they aren't interested they shouldn't reply as it makes them a timewaster. So damned if you do and damned if you don't.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You've had a meet and a veri from a lady within 1 week of joining.....whatever you said to her, say it to someone else

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By *teviliciousMan over a year ago

london/ Wisbech

You're extremely lucky to have had a meet so soon after joining, I've been here over a year & still hope on getting a response to my messages!

I've given full description what I'm hoping to find & always send a facial picture! Very rarely I'll get a reply! I think it's worse when you do your best to get the persons attention & they don't even bother to read it!

A no thanks or Not for me, even P' off at least you'll know where you stand & can't be accused of hassling someone if you message them more than once!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah ive had quite a few meets but recently its becoming a chore to get a reply from people after wording messages based on peoples profiles and preferences whilst also including several recent face pics.

Im running out of people to message that I like the look of ha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

if you're having to ask stuff like that, its most likely because of your age or your profile is shit which is why you don't get a reply

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good messages get a reply. Bad or just plain lazy just get binned.

We are all for being polite but if someone does not bother to write a decent enough message to us then you are not getting one back simple.

Op ditch the cock pic perhaps a torso shot. Keeping a cock picture in your photos is fine however an abundance of pics is not needed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You've had a meet and a veri from a lady within 1 week of joining.....whatever you said to her, say it to someone else

spot on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you really expect people to want to reply and meet you based on a photo of your cock?

Too many think this is insta shag and that flopping a cock out will entice women in their hundreds x"

Confused, I don't understand

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why do woman ignore my messages

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By *itty9899Man over a year ago

Craggy Island

"Why do woman ignore my messages "

I have no idea.

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple over a year ago

London

"Why do woman ignore my messages

I have no idea.

I do

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By *essica jamiesonWoman over a year ago

edinburgh

Dont take it personal u dont know these females who dont read/ read & dont reply! If u dont recieve a reply theres no interest so u move on and read another females profile its fab this site shudnt get ur knickers in a twist ever!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *eriousGuyABCMan over a year ago

( WEST OF ) Chippenham ish

From Faqs page - It's not rude not to reply.

Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?

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