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Are people here real?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it might be your age sweetie. Your pics are good, profile is short but informative. You haven't mailed me but I'm not looking to meet bi cur/bi guys or anyone at the moment so I can't judge.
If I were local and looking to meet and you were straight, I'd be interested. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You have been on here for a very short time. For many you are too young for us..
Patience and remember to respect others... And yes people meet off here.. but it takes time x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do ppl actually hook up on here? Haven't had any luck yet. Is it my profile or my messages?"
Not met anyone from the site yet - been on here a over 2 years.
But we have met up with peeps we have met at clubs and now know on here.
Patience is key - and get out more to clubs and/or socials.
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Do ppl actually hook up on here? Haven't had any luck yet. Is it my profile or my messages?"
time, patience, time, basic common sense, patience, time, patience.....
5 weeks isn't a whole bunch of time..... |
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Rather than just expecting a shag why not chat to people in messages or join in the forums. It's a good way to get to know people- had one of my best meets following a pm about forum banter.
I would be concerned about how young you are so wouldn't be interested unless I felt you had a great personality.
Ruby x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like everyone has said, being young will stop a lot of people meeting you as a lot of member here have children around your age or even older, I am in the same situation being 18.. Although I haven't exactly found it that hard here to find possible meets, you just have to communicate, have a think skin and not be bothered about what people say or if they ignore you as a lot of people will do so, but that just means that you aren't their type so try chatting to someone else.
Good luck.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do ppl actually hook up on here? Haven't had any luck yet. Is it my profile or my messages?"
I understand your frustrations matey - it's near on impossible for men to get meets here quickly - I've been back for several months and have only achieved two!
Don't worry about your age ...there's always someone suitable for everyone - it's just a matter of two paths crossing.
If it was me - I head over to more 'vanilla' sites ..usually takes me a day or two max, to meet someone in that realm
People are much more picky here and they have a right to be, of course.
Just stick around ..you'll get there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I missing something he is 34?
Put some effort in and you might get somewhere.
Good luck
He's 20  "
Though his user name suggests 21 which would be enough of an inconsistency to make us pass the OP by. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm beginning to think I'd a figment of my own imagination, as I am not getting much luck these days either!"
I doubt if you are a Figment of anyones imagination, If I can get meets here I am sure you can |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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"OP you seem to have become straight now.
This site isn't about telling people what you think they want to hear.
You have to show yourself to your best advantage but show the real you."
Not another I will be honest about my sexuality until it gets me nowhere quick so will change it to straight.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You are down the road from two clubs that would be happy for you to go when you reach 21.
We use this site as a way of keeping in touch with people we meet in clubs and then arranging further meets.
That's not to say we don't also use it to meet new people it's just rare as it's hard to arrange a convenient time for all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Haven't had any genuine replies, thought it could be course of that.
So u sure i need to change it back?"
Depends. Do you think lying, or at the very least misleading people is a good idea?
But I doubt that is the reason you are struggling to get a meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well, so far I messaged all single females near me ... and zero replies"
Great idea!! Mail everyone in the hope one replies!
Not!!
The concept of bulk mailing what are probably cut and paste messages, changing your sexuality because someone hints it may get you more meets - and the general disbelief you seem to have that you've not managed to meet after a mere 5 weeks, suggests to me you haven't really thought through what this site is all about! 
Oh - and ignore anyone who says single guys are ignored. It's the usual shout of those who for various reasons struggle to engage in a respectful and sensible way with other site members.
Type 'feedback' into the search box on the forums - you may well learn a lot! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do ppl actually hook up on here? Haven't had any luck yet. Is it my profile or my messages?"
Single males make up a big chunk of the site. As a couple meeting couples, we do fine and have met some lovely people. As a single, hubby has yet to have a meet arranged through fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"K, I do personalise each msgs though.
TBH since I am new here still have to learn a lot about the site."
you need to add more interests other than the obvious |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So how should a single guy stand out? Experience in swinging helps but that's catch 22"
well how do you think they should stand out? Add more pics, more interests, what you're looking for and more info about yourself, check grammar and spelling |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So how should a single guy stand out? Experience in swinging helps but that's catch 22"
so make up for it in other ways, a well written profile, good pictures, join in the forums, chat rooms etc etc.....
you have to put the work in to get the reward however long that may take!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"usually single men are instantly written of here as women are most after couples lol. 
errrr not this woman lol ~ I'm after men!"
lol nice one, lucky guy x. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably 2 things going against you, the fact you are a student, could possibly mean you are short of cash, most women like to be spoilt.
secondly, you have a lot going for you in the real world, unlike a lot of people, who have kids, jobs, family.commitments, so maybe dating would be the best way forward |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well you are certainly holding your own ( not literally lol ) on this thread - which shows a good ability to converse and discuss - which are key things in the world of swinging. If you have a similar looking mate - go to a club together. There are many MILFS that look out for young guys or a pair of guys x
Always send face pixs with first message. If I dont get a face pic conveniently attached to the message - if I am busy or have a lot of messages in - I wont even bother to look at the profile if nothing sparks my interest x ive got quite a few " frequently asked questions" on my profile - personal view of mine - but might assist xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Speaking from experience, as i joined the site the same age as you.
Try and go in to the chatrooms and speak to people and make friends in there. Forums may be a good place too but I just discovered the forums recently so can't comment much on that.
Our age may put many off but there is always someone out there for you. You just have to be yourself, be respectful and things will go from there. Once people get to know you, then you will see what fab has to offer.
You just have to find a way to stand out from the rest of the crowd and decide what it is you want from fab. And take it from there really...
Wish you all the best and good luck on fab.
Happy swinging. |
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It's a pity you had a knee jerk reaction and changed from bi to straight. When people are looking for someone to have sex with in their own homes, they often put a lot of effort into researching the right sort of person. Part of that research will be looking at the little green arrow by your name and from there thy will see you changed from bi to straight. Some might consider that to be dishonest and not choose you on that basis. |
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"It's a pity you had a knee jerk reaction and changed from bi to straight. When people are looking for someone to have sex with in their own homes, they often put a lot of effort into researching the right sort of person. Part of that research will be looking at the little green arrow by your name and from there thy will see you changed from bi to straight. Some might consider that to be dishonest and not choose you on that basis. "
^^^^^This!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us guys who use text speak or can not grasp simple spelling or basic grammar is a massive turn off when such a vast choice of men is avalible to us. And always send a nice clear face picture with your messages rather than a cock shot, or a face pic from 30m away in the dark in fancy dress in a sand storm 10 years ago! Hope this helps. There is plenty of fun to be had on this site as a single guy and I know as have done it for myself! Good luck and happy swinging! |
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By *xaratvTV/TS
over a year ago
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Hi hot guy Well if your under the impression you have probelsm then try being a tv and then look at how many couples say theyre into crossdressing but not man like to meet a tv out in the public view and you will see your a lucky guy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP you seem to have become straight now.
This site isn't about telling people what you think they want to hear.
You have to show yourself to your best advantage but show the real you."
I was just scrolling down to see if anyone else had mentioned you turning straight all of a sudden.
If you're Bi just keep it as Bi. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a pity you had a knee jerk reaction and changed from bi to straight. When people are looking for someone to have sex with in their own homes, they often put a lot of effort into researching the right sort of person. Part of that research will be looking at the little green arrow by your name and from there thy will see you changed from bi to straight. Some might consider that to be dishonest and not choose you on that basis. "
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