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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Many years ago I used to cross dress at home alone im now almost 50 my wife has no interest in lingerie or making sex fun I was thinking of dressing tonight as home alone but before I became quite addicted to it so my question is any cds tvs regret starting any advice welcome |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"only thing I regret is not starting earlier.Gawd... when I think of the things I could've worn in my early twenties when I was slim!!"
Ohhhhhhhh yes. I would have been a slim, svelte 10 in my younger days. Instead i am "statuesqe" 14 (yes, a 14) 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it feels good, do it. Never feel guilty about it. And if you eventually get a nice little collection of clothes you like to wear, don't throw them away out of guilt or fear like I did once or twice, just step away from it until you are ready to dress again. Embrace it and enjoy it for for what it is x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My ex husband was a crossdresser from the early days of us meeting back in 1993, right up until we split in 2009. He suddenly decided he didn't want to do it anymore and told me to take all our amassed cd clothes with me when I left. His reasoning was that he wanted to be normal. Such a shame that he couldn't embrace who he was, instead of considering it abnormal.
I often wonder if he will be something of a 'latent cd' or begin crossdressing in secret because sixteen years is a long time to be doing something and enjoying it, to suddenly stop. |
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It's not impossible he has quit for good, but the odds aren't good.
It is not uncommon, perhaps it is even the usual situation, for people to go in cycles where they give up for a time, but the urge nearly always comes back.
Quite often people do give up out of guilt, or shame, but that just causes other health problems through stress in many cases.
It is amazing how many of my TV friends say the main reason they dress is because it calms them. Many are told they are much nicer people as their female selves than their male alter ego.
What a shame society (in general) for so long has made so many of us feel so dreadful for wanting to wear different clothes and make up. Thankfully things are gradually changing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I only dress when I'm in Chams on a monday... it doesn't turn me on dressing; what it does for me is put me into a different frame of mind. Combined with the amazing atmosphere of a Bi night in Chams and all the attention you get if you are wearing a really nice pair of shoes and bingo! |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
"I only dress when I'm in Chams on a monday... it doesn't turn me on dressing; what it does for me is put me into a different frame of mind. Combined with the amazing atmosphere of a Bi night in Chams and all the attention you get if you are wearing a really nice pair of shoes and bingo!"
Sounds good fun. J x |
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"I only dress when I'm in Chams on a monday... it doesn't turn me on dressing; what it does for me is put me into a different frame of mind. Combined with the amazing atmosphere of a Bi night in Chams and all the attention you get if you are wearing a really nice pair of shoes and bingo!"
I know what you mean about a different mindset. I'm into all sorts of naughty things when I'm dressed that I would never dream of doing in guy mode.  |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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"I only dress when I'm in Chams on a monday... it doesn't turn me on dressing; what it does for me is put me into a different frame of mind. Combined with the amazing atmosphere of a Bi night in Chams and all the attention you get if you are wearing a really nice pair of shoes and bingo!
I know what you mean about a different mindset. I'm into all sorts of naughty things when I'm dressed that I would never dream of doing in guy mode. "
And some lovely lingerie you do wear too Abi. J x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I only dress when I'm in Chams on a monday... it doesn't turn me on dressing; what it does for me is put me into a different frame of mind. Combined with the amazing atmosphere of a Bi night in Chams and all the attention you get if you are wearing a really nice pair of shoes and bingo!
I know what you mean about a different mindset. I'm into all sorts of naughty things when I'm dressed that I would never dream of doing in guy mode. And some lovely lingerie you do wear too Abi. J x"
Yeah; hot stuff |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
"I only dress when I'm in Chams on a monday... it doesn't turn me on dressing; what it does for me is put me into a different frame of mind. Combined with the amazing atmosphere of a Bi night in Chams and all the attention you get if you are wearing a really nice pair of shoes and bingo!
I know what you mean about a different mindset. I'm into all sorts of naughty things when I'm dressed that I would never dream of doing in guy mode. And some lovely lingerie you do wear too Abi. J x
Yeah; hot stuff"
You got some hot stuff yourself!! That short skirt! mmm J x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I did try a Monday dressed in a towel same as most of the other guys but I just didn't feel confident.
Naked in a room with a guy and my lady was great but I just get sooo much more attention when I'm swinging my hips and full of confidence.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I only dress when I'm in Chams on a monday... it doesn't turn me on dressing; what it does for me is put me into a different frame of mind. Combined with the amazing atmosphere of a Bi night in Chams and all the attention you get if you are wearing a really nice pair of shoes and bingo!
I know what you mean about a different mindset. I'm into all sorts of naughty things when I'm dressed that I would never dream of doing in guy mode. And some lovely lingerie you do wear too Abi. J x
Yeah; hot stuff You got some hot stuff yourself!! That short skirt! mmm J x"
Thank you  We'd make a great team in Chams.... |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
"I only dress when I'm in Chams on a monday... it doesn't turn me on dressing; what it does for me is put me into a different frame of mind. Combined with the amazing atmosphere of a Bi night in Chams and all the attention you get if you are wearing a really nice pair of shoes and bingo!
I know what you mean about a different mindset. I'm into all sorts of naughty things when I'm dressed that I would never dream of doing in guy mode. And some lovely lingerie you do wear too Abi. J x
Yeah; hot stuff You got some hot stuff yourself!! That short skirt! mmm J x
Thank you We'd make a great team in Chams...."
I think we would. You sub when you dress? Msg me if you fancy a chat or am in chat room if you fancy a chat there. J x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes. I'm very sub when I dress. I become a slut too. Just want to be used and drowned in cum. Pinned down and have my mouth and ass fucked hard....
You know the kinda thing! |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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"Yes. I'm very sub when I dress. I become a slut too. Just want to be used and drowned in cum. Pinned down and have my mouth and ass fucked hard....
You know the kinda thing!"
I do! A complete sub cum slut!! mmmmm J |
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"I only dress when I'm in Chams on a monday... it doesn't turn me on dressing; what it does for me is put me into a different frame of mind. Combined with the amazing atmosphere of a Bi night in Chams and all the attention you get if you are wearing a really nice pair of shoes and bingo!
I know what you mean about a different mindset. I'm into all sorts of naughty things when I'm dressed that I would never dream of doing in guy mode. And some lovely lingerie you do wear too Abi. J x"
Thanks |
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By *ast_jjMan
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Dublin and London |
"I only dress when I'm in Chams on a monday... it doesn't turn me on dressing; what it does for me is put me into a different frame of mind. Combined with the amazing atmosphere of a Bi night in Chams and all the attention you get if you are wearing a really nice pair of shoes and bingo!
I know what you mean about a different mindset. I'm into all sorts of naughty things when I'm dressed that I would never dream of doing in guy mode. And some lovely lingerie you do wear too Abi. J x
Thanks"
You are very welcome. Not out tonight? J x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Many years ago I used to cross dress at home alone im now almost 50 my wife has no interest in lingerie or making sex fun I was thinking of dressing tonight as home alone but before I became quite addicted to it so my question is any cds tvs regret starting any advice welcome"
i have no regrets been doing it for years and still enjoy it just as much today as when i first started |
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