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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Same boat dear, but been told on these here forums we have "no chance" but never given a reason! Bit pot luck!
Just keep on trying, nothing happens over night! C x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Same boat dear, but been told on these here forums we have "no chance" but never given a reason! Bit pot luck!
Just keep on trying, nothing happens over night! C x"
thanks btw you both look gawjus. Shame not close or can you travel little bit?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Same boat dear, but been told on these here forums we have "no chance" but never given a reason! Bit pot luck!
Just keep on trying, nothing happens over night! C x"
why have you been told you have no chance? I cant see a problem |
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"Same boat dear, but been told on these here forums we have "no chance" but never given a reason! Bit pot luck!
Just keep on trying, nothing happens over night! C x"
was it by one of the forum trolls? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Might be, mostly other women  C x
shame xx
Can not understand why you guys can not get any meets, try going to one of the socials near you "
people just read messages n delete lol. Very rude.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Whenever we send a message, we will make sure its polite, not too long but not too short. People don't want your life story, but they don't want "hey" either.
Always check that what they say in their profile too. Some people want you to give a certain point, like say "My balls are made of cabbage" as the title of the message. Odd, sure, but its a way of making sure people have read their profile in the first place.
The only tricky one is when people say they wont reply to messages with no face pics... This one comes down to you and how you feel about having your pic sent out. As a rule, we dont send faces unless asked, because of our jobs. But we have no problem... IF the person seems legit.
As for our lack of meets, well, thats something we are working on, we are doing swinging clubs soon, and we hope to be on cam tonight as well for a little play and things to try and at least get people to see we are real. The problem couples have, is the same problem a lot of people have... We could just b one guy sat here in his pants, taking pics from the net. Theres no real way of showing we are real. Thats where the cams come into it. Its not a full on "meet" as such, no... But it at least proves that you are BOTH real, and BOTH willing. C x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Whenever we send a message, we will make sure its polite, not too long but not too short. People don't want your life story, but they don't want "hey" either.
Always check that what they say in their profile too. Some people want you to give a certain point, like say "My balls are made of cabbage" as the title of the message. Odd, sure, but its a way of making sure people have read their profile in the first place.
The only tricky one is when people say they wont reply to messages with no face pics... This one comes down to you and how you feel about having your pic sent out. As a rule, we dont send faces unless asked, because of our jobs. But we have no problem... IF the person seems legit.
As for our lack of meets, well, thats something we are working on, we are doing swinging clubs soon, and we hope to be on cam tonight as well for a little play and things to try and at least get people to see we are real. The problem couples have, is the same problem a lot of people have... We could just b one guy sat here in his pants, taking pics from the net. Theres no real way of showing we are real. Thats where the cams come into it. Its not a full on "meet" as such, no... But it at least proves that you are BOTH real, and BOTH willing. C x"
or do the pub thing first and foremost.
if the meet turns up and there is only a guy sat there, then about face and go home.
plenty of lovely couples in telford, when you start meeting  lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Whenever we send a message, we will make sure its polite, not too long but not too short. People don't want your life story, but they don't want "hey" either.
Always check that what they say in their profile too. Some people want you to give a certain point, like say "My balls are made of cabbage" as the title of the message. Odd, sure, but its a way of making sure people have read their profile in the first place.
The only tricky one is when people say they wont reply to messages with no face pics... This one comes down to you and how you feel about having your pic sent out. As a rule, we dont send faces unless asked, because of our jobs. But we have no problem... IF the person seems legit.
As for our lack of meets, well, thats something we are working on, we are doing swinging clubs soon, and we hope to be on cam tonight as well for a little play and things to try and at least get people to see we are real. The problem couples have, is the same problem a lot of people have... We could just b one guy sat here in his pants, taking pics from the net. Theres no real way of showing we are real. Thats where the cams come into it. Its not a full on "meet" as such, no... But it at least proves that you are BOTH real, and BOTH willing. C x"
shame your not closer. Your just what were looking for |
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"Ahh, we are looking for the ever elusive single girl! So not couples as yet Its a bit of a bugger because there isn't many around! C x"
That's why people tell you no chance! Not for any other reason, a gen single woman seems to be as rare as rocking horse shit. We almost never get replies when we approach or, as usually happens, she turns out to be part of a couple or the profile just disappears!
We keep thinking we've found her, then we haven't! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Insatiable, yeah, pretty much the problem. But we are hitting the swinging clubs soon to try and break the spell. Not a lot more to do, don't think we can improve the profile/pics but tips are always welcome! C x |
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It is always important to temper expectations with reality in whatever you do in life, swinging is no different to this.
If your entire search is for single females then understand the numbers of these that are real, attractive, young, actually single and meet couples is so small on this site and indeed within the community you might never meet one.
Temper expectations  you will get far less frustrated at the site if you do so |
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"Ahh, we are looking for the ever elusive single girl! So not couples as yet Its a bit of a bugger because there isn't many around! C x
That's why people tell you no chance! Not for any other reason, a gen single woman seems to be as rare as rocking horse shit. We almost never get replies when we approach or, as usually happens, she turns out to be part of a couple or the profile just disappears!
We keep thinking we've found her, then we haven't!"
Rare as rocking horse shit? I think not! I'm a genuine single female and love meeting on here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ahh, we are looking for the ever elusive single girl! So not couples as yet Its a bit of a bugger because there isn't many around! C x
That's why people tell you no chance! Not for any other reason, a gen single woman seems to be as rare as rocking horse
shit. We almost never get replies when we approach or, as usually happens, she turns out to be part of a couple or the profile just disappears!
We keep thinking we've found her, then we haven't!
Rare as rocking horse shit? I think not! I'm a genuine single female and love meeting on here"
you look so sexy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whenever we send a message, we will make sure its polite, not too long but not too short. People don't want your life story, but they don't want "hey" either.
Always check that what they say in their profile too. Some people want you to give a certain point, like say "My balls are made of cabbage" as the title of the message. Odd, sure, but its a way of making sure people have read their profile in the first place.
The only tricky one is when people say they wont reply to messages with no face pics... This one comes down to you and how you feel about having your pic sent out. As a rule, we dont send faces unless asked, because of our jobs. But we have no problem... IF the person seems legit.
As for our lack of meets, well, thats something we are working on, we are doing swinging clubs soon, and we hope to be on cam tonight as well for a little play and things to try and at least get people to see we are real. The problem couples have, is the same problem a lot of people have... We could just b one guy sat here in his pants, taking pics from the net. Theres no real way of showing we are real. Thats where the cams come into it. Its not a full on "meet" as such, no... But it at least proves that you are BOTH real, and BOTH willing. C x
shame your not closer. Your just what were looking for "
I suspect that if you think a couple who are quite clearly just looking for single females "are just what you are looking for", there may be a clue here as to why you are getting your messages deleted... 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I suspect that if you think a couple who are quite clearly just looking for single females "are just what you are looking for", there may be a clue here as to why you are getting your messages deleted...
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Were not just looking for single females.. we have messaged loads of couples
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By (user no longer on site)
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I suspect that if you think a couple whoaare quite clearly just looking for single females "are just what you are looking for", there may be a clue here as to why you are getting your messages deleted...
Were not just looking for single females.. we have messaged loads of couples
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I think you are missing the point. It's not all about you. Did you even consider the other couple's preferences before saying what a good match they were? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I suspect that if you think a couple whoaare quite clearly just looking for single females "are just what you are looking for", there may be a clue here as to why you are getting your messages deleted...
Were not just looking for single females.. we have messaged loads of couples
I think you are missing the point. It's not all about you. Did you even consider the other couple's preferences before saying what a good match they were? "
I think there problem is the ages and age range, 20 and 24 and 10 to 30, that has got to limit there target group |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I suspect that if you think a couple whoaare quite clearly just looking for single females "are just what you are looking for", there may be a clue here as to why you are getting your messages deleted...
Were not just looking for single females.. we have messaged loads of couples
I think you are missing the point. It's not all about you. Did you even consider the other couple's preferences before saying what a good match they were? "
yep |
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To the OP
I think I know why your messages are being deleted.
You winked us even though we are way out of your age range.
We wink back because not everyone's is set in stone so why not.
Then you message us, with a one liner asking if the mrs plays alone.
Good luck with that approach |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We lost our swinging virginity last week at chams. It was brilliant! X"
bet that was good. We wana go too one but dont know what one and where too start lol x |
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"We lost our swinging virginity last week at chams. It was brilliant! X
bet that was good. We wana go too one but dont know what one and where too start lol x"
well from cambridge you have a great choice of clubs to try that are not far away.... Tease2 @ huntingdon.... Jaydees about 10 miles further than tease and Vanilla Alternative just on the A1 from you ... look in the clubs section on here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We lost our swinging virginity last week at chams. It was brilliant! X
bet that was good. We wana go too one but dont know what one and where too start lol x
well from cambridge you have a great choice of clubs to try that are not far away.... Tease2 @ huntingdon.... Jaydees about 10 miles further than tease and Vanilla Alternative just on the A1 from you ... look in the clubs section on here "
ok thanks. Wanna take us x |
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"Whenever we send a message, we will make sure its polite, not too long but not too short. People don't want your life story, but they don't want "hey" either.
Always check that what they say in their profile too. Some people want you to give a certain point, like say "My balls are made of cabbage" as the title of the message. Odd, sure, but its a way of making sure people have read their profile in the first place.
The only tricky one is when people say they wont reply to messages with no face pics... This one comes down to you and how you feel about having your pic sent out. As a rule, we dont send faces unless asked, because of our jobs. But we have no problem... IF the person seems legit.
As for our lack of meets, well, thats something we are working on, we are doing swinging clubs soon, and we hope to be on cam tonight as well for a little play and things to try and at least get people to see we are real. The problem couples have, is the same problem a lot of people have... We could just b one guy sat here in his pants, taking pics from the net. Theres no real way of showing we are real. Thats where the cams come into it. Its not a full on "meet" as such, no... But it at least proves that you are BOTH real, and BOTH willing. C x
shame your not closer. Your just what were looking for
I suspect that if you think a couple who are quite clearly just looking for single females "are just what you are looking for", there may be a clue here as to why you are getting your messages deleted...
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I was just thinking that. .. |
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I suspect that if you think a couple whoaare quite clearly just looking for single females "are just what you are looking for", there may be a clue here as to why you are getting your messages deleted...
Were not just looking for single females.. we have messaged loads of couples
I think you are missing the point. It's not all about you. Did you even consider the other couple's preferences before saying what a good match they were?
yep"
Clearly not, as the couple you have been hitting on in a public forum aren't even looking for couples. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I suspect that if you think a couple whoaare quite clearly just looking for single females "are just what you are looking for", there may be a clue here as to why you are getting your messages deleted...
e not just looking for single females.. we have messaged loads of couples
I think you are missing the point. It's not all about you. Did you even consider the other couple's preferences before saying what a good match they were?
yep
Clearly not, as the couple you have been hitting on in a public forum aren't even looking for couples. "
cant see profile. It hidden |
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I suspect that if you think a couple whoaare quite clearly just looking for single females "are just what you are looking for", there may be a clue here as to why you are getting your messages deleted...
e not just looking for single females.. we have messaged loads of couples
I think you are missing the point. It's not all about you. Did you even consider the other couple's preferences before saying what a good match they were?
yep
Clearly not, as the couple you have been hitting on in a public forum aren't even looking for couples.
cant see profile. It hidden"
Telfordcouple's profile is not hidden. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hello people.
were new too this and cant wait too get stuck in. Who wants to take our swinging virginity x
Hang in there guys, it's worth the wait "
thanks |
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I suspect that if you think a couple whoaare quite clearly just looking for single females "are just what you are looking for", there may be a clue here as to why you are getting your messages deleted...
Were not just looking for single females.. we have messaged loads of couples
I think you are missing the point. It's not all about you. Did you even consider the other couple's preferences before saying what a good match they were?
yep
Clearly not, as the couple you have been hitting on in a public forum aren't even looking for couples. "
Have you asked all the couples if the mrs meets alone as you did us?
Is your mrs even involved in this? |
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By *D40Couple
over a year ago
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"Whenever we send a message, we will make sure its polite, not too long but not too short. People don't want your life story, but they don't want "hey" either.
Always check that what they say in their profile too. Some people want you to give a certain point, like say "My balls are made of cabbage" as the title of the message. Odd, sure, but its a way of making sure people have read their profile in the first place.
The only tricky one is when people say they wont reply to messages with no face pics... This one comes down to you and how you feel about having your pic sent out. As a rule, we dont send faces unless asked, because of our jobs. But we have no problem... IF the person seems legit.
As for our lack of meets, well, thats something we are working on, we are doing swinging clubs soon, and we hope to be on cam tonight as well for a little play and things to try and at least get people to see we are real. The problem couples have, is the same problem a lot of people have... We could just b one guy sat here in his pants, taking pics from the net. Theres no real way of showing we are real. Thats where the cams come into it. Its not a full on "meet" as such, no... But it at least proves that you are BOTH real, and BOTH willing. C x"
Sorry I'm confused. You don't send face pics but you cam? |
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Sorry but you both come across as very immature. I know you're young but you can be young and mature. Swinging requires a certain level of maturity to cope with the complex emotions you are likely to feel when you see your partner fucking another person for the first time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sorry but you both come across as very immature. I know you're young but you can be young and mature. Swinging requires a certain level of maturity to cope with the complex emotions you are likely to feel when you see your partner fucking another person for the first time. "
ok thanks. Happy swinging |
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"Sorry but you both come across as very immature. I know you're young but you can be young and mature. Swinging requires a certain level of maturity to cope with the complex emotions you are likely to feel when you see your partner fucking another person for the first time.
ok thanks. Happy swinging"
Lights on , no one in |
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"We lost our swinging virginity last week at chams. It was brilliant! X
bet that was good. We wana go too one but dont know what one and where too start lol x
well from cambridge you have a great choice of clubs to try that are not far away.... Tease2 @ huntingdon.... Jaydees about 10 miles further than tease and Vanilla Alternative just on the A1 from you ... look in the clubs section on here
ok thanks. Wanna take us x"
love to but sadly we are well above your age range |
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