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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Can I really be that off putting to people I know I am not good looking and people rather meet someone that has verifications and I do understand why that is. But can people please give me a honest opinion on what is off putting about me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ok for me personally i'm not liking the fact your a smoker, is the table cloth some sort of cannabis poster? if so then thats not my kinda thing either (if not i appologise)
teddy bear on a bed in a purple painted room.. are you attached and not saying anything?
these are just my thoughts and opinions on why you may not appeal to me.. however its not to say these things wont attract others to you.
good luck |
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Firstly... You've been here 3 weeks so if you're getting despondent already I'd give up now. Just because your on a swingers site doesn't mean everyone is shagging 24/7
Secondly... If you were to message me I wouldn't be interested for a few reasons. But there's someone for everyone on here and perseverance, patience and a thick skin is what's needed. |
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"ok for me personally i'm not liking the fact your a smoker, is the table cloth some sort of cannabis poster? if so then thats not my kinda thing either (if not i appologise)
teddy bear on a bed in a purple painted room.. are you attached and not saying anything?
these are just my thoughts and opinions on why you may not appeal to me.. however its not to say these things wont attract others to you.
good luck "
Ok so you have the exact same reasons as me. Lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ok for me personally i'm not liking the fact your a smoker, is the table cloth some sort of cannabis poster? if so then thats not my kinda thing either (if not i appologise)
teddy bear on a bed in a purple painted room.. are you attached and not saying anything?
these are just my thoughts and opinions on why you may not appeal to me.. however its not to say these things wont attract others to you.
good luck
Ok so you have the exact same reasons as me. Lol. "
Thats not to say that if he were to hide that picture id be interested. Distance and physical attraction do play a part in my criteria of what i find attractive.. but as a female i do look beyond profile text and believe a picture (and background) can paint 1000 words |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Also your not looking for SINGLE females, just FF couples and MF couples.. (which is fine if thats what your after)
Also the heading 'Willing to learn'.. speaking as a younger female it would then make me a little uneasy that perhaps sexually you arent the most confident. For my preferences id like to be the more submissive one and expect a man of 30 to know what he is doing.
Of course sex with every new partner is a learning curve to some degree.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Firstly... You've been here 3 weeks so if you're getting despondent already I'd give up now. Just because your on a swingers site doesn't mean everyone is shagging 24/7
Secondly... If you were to message me I wouldn't be interested for a few reasons. But there's someone for everyone on here and perseverance, patience and a thick skin is what's needed. "
Correction " Rhino skin" required ,as I will think you will find as this thread progresses |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You are wallowing in self pity and you need to snap out of it and not take it all so seriously
Have a laugh and enjoy the site with no real high expectations,anything you get back will be a nice bonus  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I understand your comments and thank you but that picture was at a mates house before we went out for the evening. I was attached but am now single."
Oh perhaps a gallery of new pix may be the answer then??? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I agree every sexual experience os a learning curve but was with my last partner for over 10 years and our sex life was not adventurous at all thats why I put willing to learn. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Firstly... You've been here 3 weeks so if you're getting despondent already I'd give up now. Just because your on a swingers site doesn't mean everyone is shagging 24/7
Secondly... If you were to message me I wouldn't be interested for a few reasons. But there's someone for everyone on here and perseverance, patience and a thick skin is what's needed. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think it's that there is anything off putting at all .
However you don't stand out from the crowd at all . Just an average guy which is not a bad thing , but frustrating when you want some fun !
Try a social if there are any nearby and be more positive  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you I do believe I have had high expectations which I have no longer got. And I will try to update my profile and my pics as I am aware the ones I have may seem off putting to alot of people. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you I do believe I have had high expectations which I have no longer got. And I will try to update my profile and my pics as I am aware the ones I have may seem off putting to alot of people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What advice could you give some9ne like me to help stand out more. And I will keep my eye out for some socail meets in the area thank you"
you don't need to explain why you need to upload new pics. Explain why you're here, what you're into sexually, any hobbies, what you look for in a woman etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What advice could you give some9ne like me to help stand out more. And I will keep my eye out for some socail meets in the area thank you"
and be realistic about about age preference. Would you really play with someone in their 60's? They'd be old enough to be your mum/ grandma |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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make your profile text more readable.
the content may be fine, i dont know, but just having one huge block of text isnt very inviting.
you cant accommodate, whatever the reason it suggests you have something to hide. we wouldnt invite someone into our home if they wouldnt be prepared to reciprocate.
the pics on the bedsit are dingy, get some nicer brighter ones taken, as your mates place isnt the most welcoming either |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you for your views. As for accommodation I am waiting to get a place of my own since splitting with my ex partner as soon as I get a place I will be more than happy to accommodate. I have updated my profile not sure if its quite up to scatch and I will be updating my profile pics to when I get the chance. So thank you once again for your advice |
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By *thlete0Couple
over a year ago
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"ok for me personally i'm not liking the fact your a smoker, is the table cloth some sort of cannabis poster? if so then thats not my kinda thing either (if not i appologise)
teddy bear on a bed in a purple painted room.. are you attached and not saying anything?
wow you noticed so many things ...should be in the police
these are just my thoughts and opinions on why you may not appeal to me.. however its not to say these things wont attract others to you.
good luck "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I will accommodate when I have a place and I am sorry about the room the pics was taken in but that is where I was stayingbat the time but I will update pics when I get the chance to take some decent ones. And thank you for the advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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smile in the face pics, ideally get someone else to take them if you can so you don't have to be staring at the screen (or use the timer)
ditch the cig, the beer and the stuff.
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"What advice could you give some9ne like me to help stand out more. And I will keep my eye out for some socail meets in the area thank you"
The same advice you asked for a we're given two weeks ago when you asked  |
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