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over a year ago
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No of course not.
Set our what you like/what you don't feel comfortable doing before a meet and if they want you to do something you don't like during politely decline
Never feel pressured |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know how you feel,
However all is not lost, turn it around and see it as you using men,
1ST rule is to make sure you ALWAYS come first, as soon as a man comes, guilt kicks in, and he cant wait to get away, back to the wifey! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know how you feel,
However all is not lost, turn it around and see it as you using men,
1ST rule is to make sure you ALWAYS come first, as soon as a man comes, guilt kicks in, and he cant wait to get away, back to the wifey!"
Or just don't meet married men?
Meet people who you like and are attracted to and who also want a good time with you rather than people just wanting to spunk an run.
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its prob i have with single guy from another site getting funny with me,saying i should do stuff that guys want me to for their pleasure , he always wants to cum in my mouth even tho he not like it says that as he licks me and i cum then i should return the favour . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Spot ir back in his face, he'll never ask again :p
Or pretend to swallow ir and then kiss him and give him a snowball lol.
I notice your profile says you had trouble getting meets, I would say your she range is quite small though so you're probably losing a lot of Interest there, but it is what you like so might be for the best.
it is important to remember you can always say no, if they don't respect what you like and dislike how are you ever going to have good sex? |
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i was messaging him last night and i said fed up of guys not having any respect for me so he says if you mean me then i'm not going to like that, but as he was slating me he not respect my wishes x
(guy is on another site) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Id say its simple as this if he cant accept there some things that you just dont like doing then show him the door.
Respect is earned not something that comes as standard |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The guy clearly has no respect for you, I would block him stop all contact.
No one should feel they should do things they are not comfortable with, if I didn't want to do something I wouldn't do it just to please another man.
You are not swinging just for a mans pleasure it should be mutual and it's for your pleasure too.
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I would tell him to fuck off too, and I am always blunt when it comes to arseholes !!
You are a lady on fab, you will have many people wanting to meet you who will do what YOU want, or at least what is mutually enjoyable...
Get rid of contact with this idiot and do what you enjoy.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tell him you have this condition, that when a guy has come in your mouth you automatically clamp your teeth into the cock.
Tell blood and cum aren't a good mix . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i was messaging him last night and i said fed up of guys not having any respect for me so he says if you mean me then i'm not going to like that, but as he was slating me he not respect my wishes x
(guy is on another site)"
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Just tell him to fuck off and get a life. You have the choice of many if you wanted. The fact is it is YOUR choice that matters |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Females have the power in the swinging scene,not the men.
Tell him to get fucked and never forget you're in control,not some tit who is obviously deluded  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Agreed with all above - get rid of this waster and find someone who doesn't put you under any pressure.
No-one should be made to do things they aren't comfortable with, ever. |
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"Can.t believe ya even asking this question
definition of the word NO ? For this poster "
i put it on here cos he was trying to make out its me who is in the wrong so just wondered if i was right to say no to stuff so a big thanks to you
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"its prob i have with single guy from another site getting funny with me,saying i should do stuff that guys want me to for their pleasure , he always wants to cum in my mouth even tho he not like it says that as he licks me and i cum then i should return the favour ."
Guess what I'd say to him?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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do you do things in real life to please other people?
if so then you really should stand up for yourself more lol.
life, as well as swinging, should be firstly for your own pleasure, then secondly for other peoples, but you really have to come first.
if you are unhappy, or uncomfortable doing something then just dont do it.
there are plenty of people who are happy to do things with you and not get all shitty about it, so move onto them and leave the arseholes behind. |
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"its prob i have with single guy from another site getting funny with me,saying i should do stuff that guys want me to for their pleasure , he always wants to cum in my mouth even tho he not like it says that as he licks me and i cum then i should return the favour ."
Swinging is all about mutual fun and Pleasure, if he feels like that tell him to go to a Brothel and pay the ladies there |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
Its about Respect ,,, people have boundaries,,
other peoples boundaries may be different to yours,
your boudaries ,,, so respect them or find someone who will, |
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"its prob i have with single guy from another site getting funny with me,saying i should do stuff that guys want me to for their pleasure , he always wants to cum in my mouth even tho he not like it says that as he licks me and i cum then i should return the favour .
Guess what I'd say to him? "
Off Fuck? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i admit i have been daft enough to do things i didnt want to do because i was talked into it or just felt like i was suposed to and afterwards i felt ashamed of myself for being so feeble.
now i say what i dont like and will only do what i want to do and i am enjoying myself much more, i still get men sometimes who try and change my mind but i am more careful about who i meet now. |
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"i admit i have been daft enough to do things i didnt want to do because i was talked into it or just felt like i was suposed to and afterwards i felt ashamed of myself for being so feeble.
now i say what i dont like and will only do what i want to do and i am enjoying myself much more, i still get men sometimes who try and change my mind but i am more careful about who i meet now."
good for you |
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do i have to do things i not want to do or like just to please a guy ??
Are you as an adult asking a question like this seriously? or is it a joke?"
no not a joke you see this guy was coming over sat only i cancelled as ive got a bit of an irritation in my water so he suggests coming over anyway and i give him a blow job or hand job so i says no you see thats what my ex would do so was wondering whether its rite to say no to things as this guy getting shirty with me as made me question my morals |
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By (user no longer on site)
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do i have to do things i not want to do or like just to please a guy ??
Are you as an adult asking a question like this seriously? or is it a joke? no not a joke you see this guy was coming over sat only i cancelled as ive got a bit of an irritation in my water so he suggests coming over anyway and i give him a blow job or hand job so i says no you see thats what my ex would do so was wondering whether its rite to say no to things as this guy getting shirty with me as made me question my morals "
Its his Morals that need questioning, he obviously has no respect for you and all he wants is sex, no mater what you think or feel.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sounds like a dick, block and move on. Plenty of people out there who'll treat you like a human rather than a fuck doll, so they're not worth the effort"
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By (user no longer on site)
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do i have to do things i not want to do or like just to please a guy ??
Are you as an adult asking a question like this seriously? or is it a joke? no not a joke you see this guy was coming over sat only i cancelled as ive got a bit of an irritation in my water so he suggests coming over anyway and i give him a blow job or hand job so i says no you see thats what my ex would do so was wondering whether its rite to say no to things as this guy getting shirty with me as made me question my morals
Its his Morals that need questioning, he obviously has no respect for you and all he wants is sex, no mater what you think or feel.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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go tell him 2 do 1 hun he not respectful in any way ,,there r far more decent guys out there ,,dnt do any thing u r not comfy with ,,,gud luk with the water infection ,n hope it dnt turn out 2b thrush ,,,get sum antibiotics from doctor ,,,happy swingin,n block the arsehole out ur life ,,  |
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