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Ok ok ok I'm married but other than that is my profile shite?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's shocking. If people aren't put off by the cheating, the stressing of the need for discretion, the desire for daytime meets, the fact you can't accomodate... if non of that puts people off I'm sure they will be sold by the fact that you try and sell yourself by slagging off your peer group. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Cheers for the honesty guys, like I said I'm married, I can't do anything about that, I'm sure there will be others on her in similar situations, men and women, so I'm not overly put off by the married haters. |
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Try trimming before you take pics of your cock. I think the majority of people on here are trimmed at least. No one wants to see straggly hairs all over the place.
Perhaps elaborate on why you want to cheat on your wife. A little honesty goes a long way on here.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Try trimming before you take pics of your cock. I think the majority of people on here are trimmed at least. No one wants to see straggly hairs all over the place.
Perhaps elaborate on why you want to cheat on your wife. A little honesty goes a long way on here.
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That was trimmed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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its ok, nice pictures. though it wouldnt appeal to me much because im not interested in trying new things, have tried them all already, and not into watersports. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not everyone cares if a man is married, i have met some nice married men, theres no need for you to explain why you are cheating on her or to even mention you are married, and not everyone is bothered by a pubic hair.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The only good thing about it is the dressed picture.
Other than that shocking pictures
Can't accommodate
And
YOU'RE MARRIED!!!"
Hello! We all knew that already! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not everyone cares if a man is married, i have met some nice married men, theres no need for you to explain why you are cheating on her or to even mention you are married, and not everyone is bothered by a pubic hair. "
Phew, not everyone is a married man hater! Think I've opened the door to a whole heap of haters here!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The only good thing about it is the dressed picture.
Other than that shocking pictures
Can't accommodate
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YOU'RE MARRIED!!!
Hello! We all knew that already! "
You are asking for feedback on yopur profile (which is now marginally better since my first post btw) and therefore by default asking about getting meets.
And thee fact that you are a married guy who can;t accommodate and can only meet during the day is a considerable factor in both your profile and likelihood in getting meets.
If you don't want criticism for cheating, don't start threads putting your profile in the spotlight and with a defensive opening post. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The only good thing about it is the dressed picture.
Other than that shocking pictures
Can't accommodate
And
YOU'RE MARRIED!!!
Hello! We all knew that already!
You are asking for feedback on yopur profile (which is now marginally better since my first post btw) and therefore by default asking about getting meets.
And thee fact that you are a married guy who can;t accommodate and can only meet during the day is a considerable factor in both your profile and likelihood in getting meets.
If you don't want criticism for cheating, don't start threads putting your profile in the spotlight and with a defensive opening post."
I don't have an issue, I appreciate people's honesty! I already know I'm married so if someone points that out its a bit obvious  |
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Being totally honest I don't have a married men ban but find that with my own limited meeting availability, the chances of that coinciding with when a married man can sneak out for a bit is highly unlikely. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Being totally honest I don't have a married men ban but find that with my own limited meeting availability, the chances of that coinciding with when a married man can sneak out for a bit is highly unlikely. "
Well partially positive then!  |
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First mistake you made was posting on here .
I think your pictures and profile are fine (youve done a better job than some) and im not sure about the sores comment?? but those arent sores  .
Most wont want to meet you as you have a wife but at least your being honest about it. Just have patience . Mrs x |
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"Try trimming before you take pics of your cock. I think the majority of people on here are trimmed at least. No one wants to see straggly hairs all over the place.
Perhaps elaborate on why you want to cheat on your wife. A little honesty goes a long way on here.
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No one has to justify their actions on here: that applies to those cheating banging on about haters!
Op: do your thing, let others do theirs! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"First mistake you made was posting on here.
I think your pictures and profile are fine (youve done a better job than some) and im not sure about the sores comment?? but those arent sores .
Most wont want to meet you as you have a wife but at least your being honest about it. Just have patience . Mrs x"
Thanks mrs. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i have had a look and i can see whats wrong with the profile, its the pic of u in the suit, the collar is wonky other than that profile looks great"
Bugger! Knew it was, I'll swap it out sometime
Cheers |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Love the sink, if it's yours you have good taste, and I could forgive the cheating on the wife bit 
Have to admit I was paying more attention to the sink (it really is lovely) than the op!  "
Hahaha I don't know....... |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"like I said I'm married, I can't do anything about that "
You could but you'd rather cheat. Your decision but don't make out you have no choice.
I'm not anti-married people but I'd rather not assist anyone in cheating and crapping on the trust of someone they are supposed to love.
At least you are honest about it with us, if not with your wife, so we can make informed decisions. |
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"I'd like to know how my profile comes across to other people. (Constructive) Criticism please."
seven out of ten public pictures include a woman, this puts me off when its a single profile but other people might not mind and you need to lose the warning bit at the end its meaningless. Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"like I said I'm married, I can't do anything about that
You could but you'd rather cheat. Your decision but don't make out you have no choice.
I'm not anti-married people but I'd rather not assist anyone in cheating and crapping on the trust of someone they are supposed to love.
At least you are honest about it with us, if not with your wife, so we can make informed decisions."
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
Its not shite, but it hardly stands out either.
The mirror picture looks odd with a disconnected cock sticking out of the bottom edge... and a bit cock heavy for me - one public if you must. And whilst its a lovely sink - I don't like bathroom pictures. Surely you can take some in another location other than in the loo?
profile text says nothing other than the already pointed out married and cheating bit. What can you offer other? What are you good at and what are you looking for? It does sound a bit like any woman will do, and thats not appealing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh this is great thread
I personally don't care about relationship status. We all have our own reasons for being on here and not everyone is so honest
I think you couples need to get over yourselves. The amount of men that message me from a couple profile asking to meet alone and then tell me they are going to delete all the messages so the wife can't see is a every day occurrence.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh this is great thread
I personally don't care about relationship status. We all have our own reasons for being on here and not everyone is so honest
I think you couples need to get over yourselves. The amount of men that message me from a couple profile asking to meet alone and then tell me they are going to delete all the messages so the wife can't see is a every day occurrence. "
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Oh this is great thread
I personally don't care about relationship status. We all have our own reasons for being on here and not everyone is so honest
I think you couples need to get over yourselves. The amount of men that message me from a couple profile asking to meet alone and then tell me they are going to delete all the messages so the wife can't see is a every day occurrence. "
no offence... but you are asking people to basically leave their morals at the door... but it those very morals that people live their lives by....
"honest" is a very interesting word in swinging context, because people seem to be "honest" (well honest enough to give enough information get a leg over) but not "honest" enough to be "honest" with the person they profess to love more than any other.....
I don't think many people want to be implicit in someone elses deceit! and before you say "well its nothing to do with me!" I would suggest no-one would have the "cohones" to say that to the 3rd party!
easy to be ballsy when 3rd party is an anonymous figue... not so easy when 3rd party is a living breathing people staring you in the face...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh this is great thread
I personally don't care about relationship status. We all have our own reasons for being on here and not everyone is so honest
I think you couples need to get over yourselves. The amount of men that message me from a couple profile asking to meet alone and then tell me they are going to delete all the messages so the wife can't see is a every day occurrence.
no offence... but you are asking people to basically leave their morals at the door... but it those very morals that people live their lives by....
"honest" is a very interesting word in swinging context, because people seem to be "honest" (well honest enough to give enough information get a leg over) but not "honest" enough to be "honest" with the person they profess to love more than any other.....
I don't think many people want to be implicit in someone elses deceit! and before you say "well its nothing to do with me!" I would suggest no-one would have the "cohones" to say that to the 3rd party!
easy to be ballsy when 3rd party is an anonymous figue... not so easy when 3rd party is a living breathing people staring you in the face......"
No offence but! I love it when people use that one
Just say it I don't care
When did this site become so moralistic? Thought we all just wanted to have sex? |
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"Oh this is great thread
I personally don't care about relationship status. We all have our own reasons for being on here and not everyone is so honest
I think you couples need to get over yourselves. The amount of men that message me from a couple profile asking to meet alone and then tell me they are going to delete all the messages so the wife can't see is a every day occurrence.
no offence... but you are asking people to basically leave their morals at the door... but it those very morals that people live their lives by....
"honest" is a very interesting word in swinging context, because people seem to be "honest" (well honest enough to give enough information get a leg over) but not "honest" enough to be "honest" with the person they profess to love more than any other.....
I don't think many people want to be implicit in someone elses deceit! and before you say "well its nothing to do with me!" I would suggest no-one would have the "cohones" to say that to the 3rd party!
easy to be ballsy when 3rd party is an anonymous figue... not so easy when 3rd party is a living breathing people staring you in the face......"
Yes, Fabio, we all know your views on the matter. You've said it on every single "married/cheating" thread in the past. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
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No offence but! I love it when people use that one
Just say it I don't care
When did this site become so moralistic? Thought we all just wanted to have sex?"
this site is as moralistic as the rest of the outside world... and I am sure that you are "moralistic" on certain subjects that I may not be......
whether i think you care or not isn't the issue... i just disagree with your opinion and explained why.... isn't that what conversation and forum is about...
am I here to have sex... sure....
am I out to hurt a potentially innocent person in the process... hell no
as i said.. being complicit in someone elses deceit doesn't sit well with me....
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By (user no longer on site)
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No offence but! I love it when people use that one
Just say it I don't care
When did this site become so moralistic? Thought we all just wanted to have sex?
this site is as moralistic as the rest of the outside world... and I am sure that you are "moralistic" on certain subjects that I may not be......
whether i think you care or not isn't the issue... i just disagree with your opinion and explained why.... isn't that what conversation and forum is about...
am I here to have sex... sure....
am I out to hurt a potentially innocent person in the process... hell no
as i said.. being complicit in someone elses deceit doesn't sit well with me....
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I could do with sitting on something right now |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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Yes, Fabio, we all know your views on the matter. You've said it on every single "married/cheating" thread in the past."
and alan... when the topic stops coming up... I will stop saying it....... tend to be the way a forum works..... I am at least that way consistant....
I am not asking you to agree with me... I just put forward a different view based on my real life situations and what impacts I have seen it have....
i've been honest (damn that word!) I did see married people playing away before... I don't now and have explained why since you are a fan of my posts.....
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By (user no longer on site)
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When did this site become so moralistic? Thought we all just wanted to have sex?"
If you are going to ask rhetorical questions of that type, you may want to consider that you have only been on here a very short time and that maybe it is your preconceptions of how many of the site's members perceive cheating that is wrong? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No offence but! I love it when people use that one
Just say it I don't care
When did this site become so moralistic? Thought we all just wanted to have sex?
this site is as moralistic as the rest of the outside world... and I am sure that you are "moralistic" on certain subjects that I may not be......
whether i think you care or not isn't the issue... i just disagree with your opinion and explained why.... isn't that what conversation and forum is about...
am I here to have sex... sure....
am I out to hurt a potentially innocent person in the process... hell no
as i said.. being complicit in someone elses deceit doesn't sit well with me....
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Ultimately for many of us, this site isn't just about somewhere to try and get laid and more an extension of a lifestyle choice.
I am not here to question how others lead their life, but if someone asks me to condone their cheating, or tries to justify it then I have no qualms in challenging them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When did this site become so moralistic? Thought we all just wanted to have sex?
If you are going to ask rhetorical questions of that type, you may want to consider that you have only been on here a very short time and that maybe it is your preconceptions of how many of the site's members perceive cheating that is wrong?"
Oh I see this for you long standing members only? You need to consider that I have been on here on before, seen and hear it all before. No preconceptions used. |
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Yes, Fabio, we all know your views on the matter. You've said it on every single "married/cheating" thread in the past.
and alan... when the topic stops coming up... I will stop saying it....... tend to be the way a forum works..... I am at least that way consistant....
I am not asking you to agree with me... I just put forward a different view based on my real life situations and what impacts I have seen it have....
i've been honest (damn that word!) I did see married people playing away before... I don't now and have explained why since you are a fan of my posts.....
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Hardly a fan. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes, Fabio, we all know your views on the matter. You've said it on every single "married/cheating" thread in the past.
and alan... when the topic stops coming up... I will stop saying it....... tend to be the way a forum works..... I am at least that way consistant....
I am not asking you to agree with me... I just put forward a different view based on my real life situations and what impacts I have seen it have....
i've been honest (damn that word!) I did see married people playing away before... I don't now and have explained why since you are a fan of my posts.....
Hardly a fan. "
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Hardly a fan.
cool... cross you off the xmas card list.... but at least I answered on the topic rather than just attacking me...."
The topic was a request for a critique of a guy's profile, not an opportunity to repeat ad nauseam what you've said so many times before on other threads. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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Hardly a fan.
cool... cross you off the xmas card list.... but at least I answered on the topic rather than just attacking me....
The topic was a request for a critique of a guy's profile, not an opportunity to repeat ad nauseam what you've said so many times before on other threads."
and i answered the points that honey raised...read back!
what have you done? (and yes... they are rolled eyes!) |
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Hardly a fan.
cool... cross you off the xmas card list.... but at least I answered on the topic rather than just attacking me....
The topic was a request for a critique of a guy's profile, not an opportunity to repeat ad nauseam what you've said so many times before on other threads.
and i answered the points that honey raised...read back!
what have you done? (and yes... they are rolled eyes!)"
What have I done? I've tried to get you to give it a rest, as we all know your opinion (no rolled eyes). |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fab seems to be rather marriage averse, other than being married is my profile ok? "
I'm married. Married cheaters aren't flavour of the month but men I've met have varied between married and single. I prefer singles because they can get out easier, it's not so easy for me but I will make the effort to do so |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hardly a fan.
cool... cross you off the xmas card list.... but at least I answered on the topic rather than just attacking me....
The topic was a request for a critique of a guy's profile, not an opportunity to repeat ad nauseam what you've said so many times before on other threads."
He asked for a critque which ypu haven't given... So instead of attacking Fabio maybe you could explain how a 2 paragraph profile, the first of which focuses solely on the fact he's married can be critqued without mentioning it?
And that's ignoring the subject header and opening post which both focus on it too? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh this is great thread
I personally don't care about relationship status. We all have our own reasons for being on here and not everyone is so honest
I think you couples need to get over yourselves. The amount of men that message me from a couple profile asking to meet alone and then tell me they are going to delete all the messages so the wife can't see is a every day occurrence.
no offence... but you are asking people to basically leave their morals at the door... but it those very morals that people live their lives by....
"honest" is a very interesting word in swinging context, because people seem to be "honest" (well honest enough to give enough information get a leg over) but not "honest" enough to be "honest" with the person they profess to love more than any other.....
I don't think many people want to be implicit in someone elses deceit! and before you say "well its nothing to do with me!" I would suggest no-one would have the "cohones" to say that to the 3rd party!
easy to be ballsy when 3rd party is an anonymous figue... not so easy when 3rd party is a living breathing people staring you in the face......
No offence but! I love it when people use that one
Just say it I don't care
When did this site become so moralistic? Thought we all just wanted to have sex?"
I want to have sex but want a connection too with the person involved |
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