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"Why do people cancel social only meets at the last minute?
I guess I'm lucky they had manners to cancel and let me before I step out of the house  "
I have had this. Just take it in your stride and move on.
Some single guys on here seem to forget respect and expect sex on first meet. I always arrange a social meet first and if this can not be respected then they don't deserve me.
Simples
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over a year ago
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He realised he wasn't going to get laid and found it too much like hard work not the insta shag he expected.
I had similar, originally invited to his for coffee which I declined and said I'd only meet in public first. He then cancelled saying I wouldn't be his type lol... |
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"Did they give a reason? Perhaps something came up.
Yes he said that he couldn't promise to keep his hands to himself and he didn't want to hurt me.
Then you have your answer. "
I thought that. Seems guys can sometimes never get anything right whatever they do. |
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"Did they give a reason? Perhaps something came up.
Yes he said that he couldn't promise to keep his hands to himself and he didn't want to hurt me.
Sounds like you had a lucky escape  "
I think he was being honest and don't see what the problem is. |
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By *eerise OP Woman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"Did they give a reason? Perhaps something came up.
Yes he said that he couldn't promise to keep his hands to himself and he didn't want to hurt me.
Sounds like you had a lucky escape
I think he was being honest and don't see what the problem is. "
Fair dos |
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"Did they give a reason? Perhaps something came up.
Yes he said that he couldn't promise to keep his hands to himself and he didn't want to hurt me.
Sounds like you had a lucky escape
I think he was being honest and don't see what the problem is. "
Nor I! |
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"Why do people cancel social only meets at the last minute?
I guess I'm lucky they had manners to cancel and let me before I step out of the house "
At least he cancelled. I'm left to figure it out... |
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By *eerise OP Woman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"Why do people cancel social only meets at the last minute?
I guess I'm lucky they had manners to cancel and let me before I step out of the house
At least he cancelled. I'm left to figure it out... "
I'm sorry to hear that hun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can see where he is coming from but do men on here have so little control? Makes us little better than apes. ...sad sad and almost embarrassed to have a cock |
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Ive had it happen to me by a couple mailed them to say i was just leaving got halfway there and got a text to say they did,nt want to meet single guys any more |
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"Ive had it happen to me by a couple mailed them to say i was just leaving got halfway there and got a text to say they did,nt want to meet single guys any more"
Thats just bollox and down right rude |
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By *eerise OP Woman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"Ive had it happen to me by a couple mailed them to say i was just leaving got halfway there and got a text to say they did,nt want to meet single guys any more
Thats just bollox and down right rude"
Wait!!!! So they knew you were single from the beginning....Some people are out of order |
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"Ive had it happen to me by a couple mailed them to say i was just leaving got halfway there and got a text to say they did,nt want to meet single guys any more"
That isn't fair, they could at least have messaged you before you left, very rude.. The only good thing is that they didn't leave you sitting somewhere waiting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've cancelled 2 this week as I just wasn't well enough to go! What I thought was a simple cold seems to be flu!!! Thought I would be fine when I planned them but it wasn't to be!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That sounds like a married guy fantasising. Got his meet fixed and then realised he was scared his missus would find out"
I love how some people can come to some conclusions based on just a few words. |
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"That sounds like a married guy fantasising. Got his meet fixed and then realised he was scared his missus would find out
I love how some people can come to some conclusions based on just a few words. "
happens to me, so based on experience I will conclude what I like OK  |
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"That sounds like a married guy fantasising. Got his meet fixed and then realised he was scared his missus would find out
I love how some people can come to some conclusions based on just a few words.
happens to me, so based on experience I will conclude what I like OK "
ive even stepped into a meet...and 100% sure the female half hasnt even seen me...wonder where those dirty chats with the xxx's came from........... |
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"That sounds like a married guy fantasising. Got his meet fixed and then realised he was scared his missus would find out
I love how some people can come to some conclusions based on just a few words.
happens to me, so based on experience I will conclude what I like OK "
What a married guy let you down , really  |
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"That sounds like a married guy fantasising. Got his meet fixed and then realised he was scared his missus would find out
I love how some people can come to some conclusions based on just a few words.
happens to me, so based on experience I will conclude what I like OK
What a married guy let you down , really "
you are so anal sometimes... |
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"That sounds like a married guy fantasising. Got his meet fixed and then realised he was scared his missus would find out
I love how some people can come to some conclusions based on just a few words.
happens to me, so based on experience I will conclude what I like OK
What a married guy let you down , really
you are so anal sometimes... "
Mmmmmm anal |
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I had one Tuesday. Messaged in the morning giving me a choice of two pubs to meet in at two o'clock. I replied. No response. Messaged him at one to say I needed to know where before I set off. Never heard back..... |
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"Ive had it happen to me by a couple mailed them to say i was just leaving got halfway there and got a text to say they did,nt want to meet single guys any more
Thats just bollox and down right rude"
Agreed! That's how some get their kicks unfortunately. |
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Human Truffle
There are nice Men out there it works both ways some women are very rude and crude so worry not just sort the wheat from the chaff and well done ladies for sticking to social meet only first . |
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"Human Truffle
There are nice Men out there it works both ways some women are very rude and crude so worry not just sort the wheat from the chaff and well done ladies for sticking to social meet only first ."
I agree I'd never not turn up and the social thing is both safe and makes it personal. ....want a shag ring a hooker |
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"That sounds like a married guy fantasising. Got his meet fixed and then realised he was scared his missus would find out
I love how some people can come to some conclusions based on just a few words. "
Only a hunch. Thought they were asking.for opinions??
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By *eerise OP Woman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"Human Truffle
There are nice Men out there it works both ways some women are very rude and crude so worry not just sort the wheat from the chaff and well done ladies for sticking to social meet only first .
I agree I'd never not turn up and the social thing is both safe and makes it personal. ....want a shag ring a hooker"
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"Human Truffle
There are nice Men out there it works both ways some women are very rude and crude so worry not just sort the wheat from the chaff and well done ladies for sticking to social meet only first .
I agree I'd never not turn up and the social thing is both safe and makes it personal. ....want a shag ring a hooker
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