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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Feel like giving up. Seems to be gettin me no where, despite of being genuine and verified. Am assuming there's loads of single men like me out there feeling the same.
Just don't understand what am I doing wrong..!!!
K |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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wont help you having no public pics, and your profile pic being of a womans arse.
maybe read your profile and see if there are bits you can omit or change so you dont have to have such a long one, i dont know.
i lost interest after a while, maybe its ok, just a little bland... |
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"Feel like giving up. Seems to be gettin me no where, despite of being genuine and verified. Am assuming there's loads of single men like me out there feeling the same.
Just don't understand what am I doing wrong..!!!
K"
You need loads of public pics up, ladies like to see before they talk. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep. Pics needed, profile too long and contradicts itself - like about cannot accommodate and it says you can in your details.
Your profile is your shop window. Read it back and say would you meet that person? Hope that helps x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Man up! Its a numbers game mu friend you are one in a one hundred thousand men on this site.........would you bet on a horse with such odds?
Be patient and polite and it will all come good............no pun intended! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You don't want to give fab up
You never want to let fab down
You don't want to turn around and desert fab
You don't want to say goodbye
You don't to make fab cry
You shouldn't tell a lie and hurt fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i have the same trouble.. shit loads of single men on here, plus timewasters make otheres sceptical.. just my opinion "
and you are coming from a different angle, so very valid |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"wont help you having no public pics, and your profile pic being of a womans arse.
maybe read your profile and see if there are bits you can omit or change so you dont have to have such a long one, i dont know.
i lost interest after a while, maybe its ok, just a little bland..."
Thanks everyone for the comments. Changed profile pic. Got public pics and will be uploading some one soon. And also will be reducing down the contents of my profile soon to.
Now let's hope that it helps.
K xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yep. Pics needed, profile too long and contradicts itself - like about cannot accommodate and it says you can in your details.
Your profile is your shop window. Read it back and say would you meet that person? Hope that helps x "
Thanks. Some changes done and wil be making some soon. K xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep. Pics needed, profile too long and contradicts itself - like about cannot accommodate and it says you can in your details.
Your profile is your shop window. Read it back and say would you meet that person? Hope that helps x
Thanks. Some changes done and wil be making some soon. K xx"
Ooooooooh that looks much better. Adding a pic with your top off will do nicely  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You don't want to give fab up
You never want to let fab down
You don't want to turn around and desert fab
You don't want to say goodbye
You don't to make fab cry
You shouldn't tell a lie and hurt fab"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Feel like giving up. Seems to be gettin me no where, despite of being genuine and verified. Am assuming there's loads of single men like me out there feeling the same.
Just don't understand what am I doing wrong..!!!
K"
Getting fed of these sob story , feel sorry for me , gimmie advice blah blah threads .....just think like this ...." What's your luck like in the real world with women "? If it ain't good ....better start working on that as what chance have you got on here ... |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"Feel like giving up. Seems to be gettin me no where, despite of being genuine and verified. Am assuming there's loads of single men like me out there feeling the same.
Just don't understand what am I doing wrong..!!!
K
Getting fed of these sob story , feel sorry for me , gimmie advice blah blah threads .....just think like this ...." What's your luck like in the real world with women "? If it ain't good ....better start working on that as what chance have you got on here ..."
Am screwed then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Feel like giving up. Seems to be gettin me no where, despite of being genuine and verified. Am assuming there's loads of single men like me out there feeling the same.
Just don't understand what am I doing wrong..!!!
K
Getting fed of these sob story , feel sorry for me , gimmie advice blah blah threads .....just think like this ...." What's your luck like in the real world with women "? If it ain't good ....better start working on that as what chance have you got on here ...
Am screwed then "
Thats the point....you may be, the OP hasn't been  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We get the same you know. Maybe I'm too choosy but I'm sure I don't know where all these nice single guys are? Probably knocking on someone else's door  "
maybe if u gave the right address out itd help!!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Feeling a little like this myself.just done a 'near to me'search.few ladies of interest to me but looked at their veris and the guys are muscly,young,handsome and monster cocks.now I'm only one of those 4things.fully understand why girls go for these types.away from fab I connect well with women and respectful but fun company,but being a male whose equivalent of bbw its very hard to attract attention.would love to meet a plus size couple,older more than fine.but how do you compete when any woman on here can have pick of young fit guys? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We get the same you know. Maybe I'm too choosy but I'm sure I don't know where all these nice single guys are? Probably knocking on someone else's door
maybe if u gave the right address out itd help!!!! "
I meant, figuratively speaking, the fab door. guess I should have said so |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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know how u feel geez the only people who make an effort to talk is tgirls n weird men, 99.9% of women i tried getting in contact with are just plain ignorant guess they all looking for some romantic romeo :s , practice some chat up lines and hit a bar mate :P or attend a few clubs.. the girls wont be so ignorant in person you'll get a genuine yes or no :P |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you are doing nothing wrong at all , but you need to be patient . it's a jungle in here which you have to accept , and have a " thick skin " . I have just been told that my cock is " too veiny " !!!! WTF . Suck it up and keep going , there are some great people on here . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i have the same trouble.. shit loads of single men on here, plus timewasters make otheres sceptical.. just my opinion
and you are coming from a different angle, so very valid"
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"Out of every 100 on here 70 are time wasters 10 are fake 10 are ego junkies but keep the faith 10 are genuine.its just ashame theres some sados that use this site just to get them self off."
Where did you get those stats from? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Self pity isn't going to find the path to enlightenment!
Find a profile you like, make note of what it is you like and then put one together along the same lines.
Then know there is probably a ratio of 1000:1 men to women on here.
Also note its not a free brothel but a swinging site. Swinging is mainly couples and is more than just sex, its about naked fun.
Otherwise, find £50 and a brothel and book in for half an hour.
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Out of every 100 on here 70 are time wasters 10 are fake 10 are ego junkies but keep the faith 10 are genuine.its just ashame theres some sados that use this site just to get them self off.
Where did you get those stats from?"
Sydney University |
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"Out of every 100 on here 70 are time wasters 10 are fake 10 are ego junkies but keep the faith 10 are genuine.its just ashame theres some sados that use this site just to get them self off.
Where did you get those stats from?"
speaking to people and seeing for our selfs its a fact theres a lot more ego junkys and timewasters on here than there is genuine people. |
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"Feel like giving up. Seems to be gettin me no where, despite of being genuine and verified. Am assuming there's loads of single men like me out there feeling the same.
Just don't understand what am I doing wrong..!!!
K"
You are probably not doing anything wrong unless you think this site is called instantshag or shagsrus. You have to remember men out number women and couples by many thousands. |
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By *am123Man
over a year ago
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"Feeling a little like this myself.just done a 'near to me'search.few ladies of interest to me but looked at their veris and the guys are muscly,young,handsome and monster cocks.now I'm only one of those 4things.fully understand why girls go for these types.away from fab I connect well with women and respectful but fun company,but being a male whose equivalent of bbw its very hard to attract attention.would love to meet a plus size couple,older more than fine.but how do you compete when any woman on here can have pick of young fit guys?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well for my tuppence worth, it is about persistence, respect, selling yourself n a bit more persistence thrown in. How you do that only you can decide, there are numerous threads regarding this topic. Remaining positive from rejection after rejection you will appeal to some and not to others. The most important part is staying persistent but not disrespectful. Sadly a lot of idiots do put lots of women couples off of meeting single guys but I work on the idea that us good genuine guys will eventually show that we are here and we are all not timewasters. Keep at it good luck. |
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By *am123Man
over a year ago
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"Well for my tuppence worth, it is about persistence, respect, selling yourself n a bit more persistence thrown in. How you do that only you can decide, there are numerous threads regarding this topic. Remaining positive from rejection after rejection you will appeal to some and not to others. The most important part is staying persistent but not disrespectful. Sadly a lot of idiots do put lots of women couples off of meeting single guys but I work on the idea that us good genuine guys will eventually show that we are here and we are all not timewasters. Keep at it good luck. "
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"Out of every 100 on here 70 are time wasters 10 are fake 10 are ego junkies but keep the faith 10 are genuine.its just ashame theres some sados that use this site just to get them self off.
Where did you get those stats from?
Sydney University "
Classic! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"join the club
hard for us single men looking just for a bit of fun but 2 small minority who has spoil it for me 2 meet
cant see me lasting any longer"
really?
with all the socials, a localish club...
I think u need to be more proactive..its certainly not idiots ruining it for u |
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"join the club
hard for us single men looking just for a bit of fun but 2 small minority who has spoil it for me 2 meet
cant see me lasting any longer"
Thats what I said 32 minutes into my last shag |
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"In the same boat as most guys here it seems. Countless efforts to just talk to women without being pushy still gets me nowhere "
Have you considered the fact that your post on here is as long as your profile? Do you think that maybe with a little more information, ladies will be able to make a better informed decision on whether to meet or not? |
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"join the club
hard for us single men looking just for a bit of fun but 2 small minority who has spoil it for me 2 meet
cant see me lasting any longer"
Do you think your profile wording is your very best effort? It might not be other people spoiling things for yourself. |
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I've had plenty of sex meets of this site and so has keenfucktographer. The minority hasn't spoilt it for us. Our profiles are longer than average (cue the witty jokes) and tell ladies all they need to know so they make a decision to meet or not. If your profile has too little information on it, the ladies will decide to look elsewhere.
Your profile is your shop window. Don't have a few mouldy vegetables in the corner, have some bright lights and interesting items to make people stop.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"join the club
hard for us single men looking just for a bit of fun but 2 small minority who has spoil it for me 2 meet
cant see me lasting any longer
Do you think your profile wording is your very best effort? It might not be other people spoiling things for yourself. "
before some 1 bites my head of
i never ask any 1 to check on my profile
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've had plenty of sex meets of this site and so has keenfucktographer. The minority hasn't spoilt it for us. Our profiles are longer than average (cue the witty jokes) and tell ladies all they need to know so they make a decision to meet or not. If your profile has too little information on it, the ladies will decide to look elsewhere.
Your profile is your shop window. Don't have a few mouldy vegetables in the corner, have some bright lights and interesting items to make people stop.
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cheers steve...but to be honest, the profile doesnt have to be particularly interesting at all....the site is only a conduit to seeing who is around...its pretty much a cyber-act......however getting off ones arse and getting to where people are meeting is the key..
I get so fucking bored of explaining this..get out the house show face at a social or club- try talking to people(all groups), and look like ur having fun.
almost anyone complaining while being on the site for over six months or so, that they cant get meets(from the above selected places)...must be either be blind or actually arent up to actually meeting.IMO |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've had plenty of sex meets of this site and so has keenfucktographer. The minority hasn't spoilt it for us. Our profiles are longer than average (cue the witty jokes) and tell ladies all they need to know so they make a decision to meet or not. If your profile has too little information on it, the ladies will decide to look elsewhere.
Your profile is your shop window. Don't have a few mouldy vegetables in the corner, have some bright lights and interesting items to make people stop.
cheers steve...but to be honest, the profile doesnt have to be particularly interesting at all....the site is only a conduit to seeing who is around...its pretty much a cyber-act......however getting off ones arse and getting to where people are meeting is the key..
I get so fucking bored of explaining this..get out the house show face at a social or club- try talking to people(all groups), and look like ur having fun.
almost anyone complaining while being on the site for over six months or so, that they cant get meets(from the above selected places)...must be either be blind or actually arent up to actually meeting.IMO"
Damn now you have let the cat out the bag |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"join the club
hard for us single men looking just for a bit of fun but 2 small minority who has spoil it for me 2 meet
cant see me lasting any longer
Do you think your profile wording is your very best effort? It might not be other people spoiling things for yourself. before some 1 bites my head of
i never ask any 1 to check on my profile
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so the advice isnt valid?
you're correct its others that ruin ur fun.......think I'm telling U otherwise |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"join the club
hard for us single men looking just for a bit of fun but 2 small minority who has spoil it for me 2 meet
cant see me lasting any longer
Do you think your profile wording is your very best effort? It might not be other people spoiling things for yourself. before some 1 bites my head of
i never ask any 1 to check on my profile
so the advice isnt valid?
you're correct its others that ruin ur fun.......think I'm telling U otherwise "
You're keeping us all to yourself. Now open the blimmin' cellar! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"join the club
hard for us single men looking just for a bit of fun but 2 small minority who has spoil it for me 2 meet
cant see me lasting any longer
Do you think your profile wording is your very best effort? It might not be other people spoiling things for yourself. before some 1 bites my head of
i never ask any 1 to check on my profile
so the advice isnt valid?
you're correct its others that ruin ur fun.......think I'm telling U otherwise
You're keeping us all to yourself. Now open the blimmin' cellar! "
I dont want u bursting into flames u sexy vampire cock sucking bitch |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Profile Looks good. just get to a club get Socialising. Or a Social event. Make Some friends and you will be well away"
and flirt with fantastically hot titted women..like her above! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Easy for us as a couple to say but the best attitude to take is...... here for a long time and a good time if it comes along.
What to folk gain from leaving??
Possitives of staying far out go the negatives.
Every one that leaves always comes back because you just never know lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Profile Looks good. just get to a club get Socialising. Or a Social event. Make Some friends and you will be well away
and flirt with fantastically hot titted women..like her above!"
Yes yes yes yes |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Profile Looks good. just get to a club get Socialising. Or a Social event. Make Some friends and you will be well away
and flirt with fantastically hot titted women..like her above!
Yes yes yes yes"
holy fuck she's just came! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Profile Looks good. just get to a club get Socialising. Or a Social event. Make Some friends and you will be well away
and flirt with fantastically hot titted women..like her above!
Yes yes yes yes
holy fuck she's just came!"
You are good |
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By *irtyDee33Woman
over a year ago
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"Self pity isn't going to find the path to enlightenment!
Find a profile you like, make note of what it is you like and then put one together along the same lines.
Then know there is probably a ratio of 1000:1 men to women on here.
Also note its not a free brothel but a swinging site. Swinging is mainly couples and is more than just sex, its about naked fun.
Otherwise, find £50 and a brothel and book in for half an hour.
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Some guys do treat it like a free brothel though and that's what annoys me!!!
Yes it is a sex site but why do some guys talk so much crap just to get a fuck!!!! Sorry think I'm just having a bad morning lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're in a similar boat to many other single men. All these ultra-erotic profiles will have you thinking that Fab is some kind of sexual paradise where everyone gets a piece.
Learn to be indifferent. |
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