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By *loud ten OP Man
over a year ago
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Hi guys, I've got a friend that comes to early sometimes only lasting 2 to 5 minutes. Has anyone got any advice for me......I mean him as to how he can contain his excitement and last a bit longer.
And I will be sure to pass all your useful tips over to him 
Thank you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tell him to stop wanking over porn...  "
always thought too much wanking made you last longer as it desensitises your extremities.
if you, er, i mean your freind, cant repeat, then maybe use a delay spray, or possibly have a wank a while before you have sex, and hope it makes you last a little longer.
good luck to you, er.. him. |
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By *loud ten OP Man
over a year ago
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Delay spray hay! Sounds like a good idea. Yes I, I mean him has no problem repeating but isn't it a bit of a let down on the females part. Or do girls find it a turn on knowing they have done a fantastic job? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Delay spray hay! Sounds like a good idea. Yes I, I mean him has no problem repeating but isn't it a bit of a let down on the females part. Or do girls find it a turn on knowing they have done a fantastic job? "
suppose as long as you, he, can go again, i dont see what the problem is.
like a chinese meal, small portions but a lot of courses. |
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Brave of the OP to raise the question(no pun intended) its a genuine issue for many. Much of it is in the head. Distraction techniques like reciting football teams alphabetically in your head are often suggested, but sex is meant to be fun not a chore. If that's how long you last then that's how long you last. Indulge in lots of foreplay with your partner to make sure they get satisfaction. Take it slow not everyone wants a jack hammer approach. Enjoy it and relax. If people judge you then so what |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tell him to stop wanking over porn...
always thought too much wanking made you last longer as it desensitises your extremities.
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haha,,,,,, My inference was directed at the OP omitting to mention anyone else being present during the activity leading to ejaculation.... |
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By *loud ten OP Man
over a year ago
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"Delay spray hay! Sounds like a good idea. Yes I, I mean him has no problem repeating but isn't it a bit of a let down on the females part. Or do girls find it a turn on knowing they have done a fantastic job?
suppose as long as you, he, can go again, i dont see what the problem is.
like a chinese meal, small portions but a lot of courses."
Lol yes I suppose so |
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By *loud ten OP Man
over a year ago
Sutton coldfield |
"Brave of the OP to raise the question(no pun intended) its a genuine issue for many. Much of it is in the head. Distraction techniques like reciting football teams alphabetically in your head are often suggested, but sex is meant to be fun not a chore. If that's how long you last then that's how long you last. Indulge in lots of foreplay with your partner to make sure they get satisfaction. Take it slow not everyone wants a jack hammer approach. Enjoy it and relax. If people judge you then so what "
A good point well made I will be sure to pass this on |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tell him to stop wanking over porn...
always thought too much wanking made you last longer as it desensitises your extremities.
haha,,,,,, My inference was directed at the OP omitting to mention anyone else being present during the activity leading to ejaculation...."
d'oh!
once again madam soxy, you have outdone yourself lol |
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"Delay spray hay! Sounds like a good idea. Yes I, I mean him has no problem repeating but isn't it a bit of a let down on the females part. Or do girls find it a turn on knowing they have done a fantastic job? "
Personally I don't find it a let down, I like a lot of foreplay and if a man cums quite quickly its just a good reason to continue with the fun. Its often the guys reaction that can determine how it all works out  .
I would say though that if you're using delay spray or delay condoms they leave an awful taste in a ladies mouth and make her tongue and throat a bit numb  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You need to train your dick and mind not to cum. It is more of a mental thing and most the time when guys cum too soon is because they are getting too excited in their mind.
Here’s what you should do to train yourself…
When you masturbate don’t cum at all! Every day take an hour or so out of the day to practice the art of not cumming too soon. Sit down to masturbate and each time you feel yourself coming close to losing it, just stop! Then repeat over and over again but DO NOT finish off by cumming. Ideally you want to do this every day and only allow yourself to cum once in a week. It’s gonna be quite hard, but once the hours up just pull up your pants and stop! DO NOT WANT TO WATCH PORN WHILE DOING THIS!
This will make you more aware of when you’re close to cumming and you will be able to just back off or slow down when you’re fucking. Also when you’re with someone having sex, you might want to focus on something else from time to time to calm your mind. Try to just calm your mind by looking at the ceiling, the paint on the walls, a picture hanging on the walls etc. anything that can take your mind away for a second and bring your arousal levels down. Sounds stupid but it does work.
May take a while to train yourself, but soon enough you will be able to control your urge to cum.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi guys, I've got a friend that comes to early sometimes only lasting 2 to 5 minutes. Has anyone got any advice for me......I mean him as to how he can contain his excitement and last a bit longer.
And I will be sure to pass all your useful tips over to him
Thank you x "
U sure it's your friend ?
It's always the invisible friend lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Fluoxitine (prozac) its and anti depressant but can be prescribed to people who suffer from premature ejaculation tho, but you I means your friend will have to got to the doctor tho |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When I was younger I starting dating a girl who was incredibly tight. That added to the excitement of someone new meant I didn't last particularly long...
We ended up uaing foreplay to get through this. She loved blowjobs and cum so we saw no harm in doing a crap load of foreplay til I finished the first time.
Second time round I lasted a lot longer.
Try that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fluoxitine (prozac) its and anti depressant but can be prescribed to people who suffer from premature ejaculation tho, but you I means your friend will have to got to the doctor tho"
I can back this up (T). I was prescribed Fluox for depression a while ago, and although I didn't suffer from premature ejaculation, I did find that it took me noticeably longer to come, even when I was bringing myself off. A lot of the time when playing with others I would say in advance that it was highly likely I wouldn't come at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi guys, I've got a friend that comes to early sometimes only lasting 2 to 5 minutes. Has anyone got any advice for me......I mean him as to how he can contain his excitement and last a bit longer.
And I will be sure to pass all your useful tips over to him
Thank you x
U sure it's your friend ?
It's always the invisible friend lol"
no, it's his friend..
"down there"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fluoxitine (prozac) its and anti depressant but can be prescribed to people who suffer from premature ejaculation tho, but you I means your friend will have to got to the doctor tho"
you don't need drugs OR a poster of Margaret Thatcher on the ceiling  |
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