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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know this has most probably been posted a few times but before I come off this I would like some advice.
I am a single male who has been on here for 11months now and have only had one meet!
There seems to be an awful lot of single females and couples who never reply back even though I fit their criteria.
Can someone please give me advise? |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
yumsville |
not a clue,
I see people posting for meets all the time - theres a couple that have been on for well over a year that post weekly meets for this and that and are still not verified.
I think you essentially have to just keep with the spirit of it and not get frustrated at people 'trying' it out - when in fact they are either nervous of meeting, in a relationship, overly fussy, only into 1 type and nothing else, talk more than necessary, or want a relationship more than good sex.
It's a shame really - as people to have tastes as to what they want, but when they are only looking for say, hyper muscled, model types.. it makes you wonder - if they have good sex on the back of it, or just enjoy the more 'film maker' type sex..
maybe, put "exceptional" in your profile somewhere lolo |
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Hey!
Bad pics and poor profile sums it up for me. Make the pics happy, fun, welcoming. Not dark background. Psychologically, that means that something is hidden or dangerous. Make it a light background... always smily happy pics. Place the emphasis on 'this is me' rather than 'this is my cock'. Try to get across that you want to be social with a woman more than wanting quick sex.
Make the profile good and interesting to read, fun and welcoming. Make yourself sound like a nice guy, easy to get on with, sociable and confident - but in a round about way.
Good luck!! |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
yumsville |
"Hey!
Bad pics and poor profile sums it up for me. Make the pics happy, fun, welcoming. Not dark background. Psychologically, that means that something is hidden or dangerous. Make it a light background... always smily happy pics. Place the emphasis on 'this is me' rather than 'this is my cock'. Try to get across that you want to be social with a woman more than wanting quick sex.
Make the profile good and interesting to read, fun and welcoming. Make yourself sound like a nice guy, easy to get on with, sociable and confident - but in a round about way.
Good luck!!"
I mustn't sound like a nice guys at all then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know this has most probably been posted a few times but before I come off this I would like some advice.
I am a single male who has been on here for 11months now and have only had one meet!
There seems to be an awful lot of single females and couples who never reply back even though I fit their criteria.
Can someone please give me advise?"
You think you meet there criteria. They obviously don't if they haven't replied. |
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
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Your pics are a bit crappy to be honest! The usual single bloke thing that you can't accommodate will scream 'married and cheating' to many, whether it is true or not! Yoy say you want to go to a club but want a partner - why not go alone and socialise and meet people? Just a few suggestions! goid luck |
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Poor pictures, whinging status, lack of information on profile and cannot accommodate.
Whilst my profile is very specific about what I want, there are a few things that I've deliberately missed out. If you don't hit those things, I'm going to delete.
I personally click on the profile before I read the message, I'd just delete your message based on your profile.
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"I know this has most probably been posted a few times but before I come off this I would like some advice.
I am a single male who has been on here for 11months now and have only had one meet!
There seems to be an awful lot of single females and couples who never reply back even though I fit their criteria.
Can someone please give me advise?
You think you meet there criteria. They obviously don't if they haven't replied. "
This!
I've lost count of the messages that start "I've read your profile and I meet what you're looking for..." I look: erm, no...they don't! |
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"Poor pictures, whinging status, lack of information on profile and cannot accommodate.
Whilst my profile is very specific about what I want, there are a few things that I've deliberately missed out. If you don't hit those things, I'm going to delete.
I personally click on the profile before I read the message, I'd just delete your message based on your profile.
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...and this! 
I too have a couple of additional things I look for/don't want to see on a profile that would interest/put me off meeting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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for me I don't meet anyone over the age of 30 and still get men messaging me who are over that age. I always don't like it when men put cock pics in messages. Just a body shot will do! or sending me a very long paragraph of dirty talking like "I rip your clothes off and shove you on the bed" what is the point? A hello will do |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for the responses everyone, I will take everything into consideration to better my profile, I think the main thing I need to do personally is get my ass to a social and get more veri's
Appreciate what was said
Good luck to everyone on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Forget trying too hard here and go to clubs or partys,ur in london there are loads,there are lots of socials too which are great places to meet people x have a look in organised events in meets sure there be something u would like, |
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"Forget trying too hard here and go to clubs or partys,ur in london there are loads,there are lots of socials too which are great places to meet people x have a look in organised events in meets sure there be something u would like,"
deffinatly!! OP what are you waiting for! Loads of fun to be had at clubs... Plenty close to you!  |
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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago
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"Forget trying too hard here and go to clubs or partys,ur in london there are loads,there are lots of socials too which are great places to meet people x have a look in organised events in meets sure there be something u would like, deffinatly!! OP what are you waiting for! Loads of fun to be had at clubs... Plenty close to you! "
Yes ... go to a few clubs! You'll meet genuine people, avoid no-shows and exaggerated profiles, and hopefully get a few fabswinger contacts. You might even get to play!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know this has most probably been posted a few times but before I come off this I would like some advice.
I am a single male who has been on here for 11months now and have only had one meet!
There seems to be an awful lot of single females and couples who never reply back even though I fit their criteria.
Can someone please give me advise?"
As others say your profile looks fine maybe its the message you send out. |
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