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my 28 yr old virgin friend
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"Ooh crikey you're a better person than me! I wouldn't want to be responsible to that!! Hope it all goes well tho. Not sure best tactic to adopt to be honest. Just go with it and lead him a bit if he's hesitant I reckon x " Thank you. I don't know what I was thinking but he's been asking for 4 years and I caved tonight. He isn't confident or worldly wise | |||
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"Ooh crikey you're a better person than me! I wouldn't want to be responsible to that!! Hope it all goes well tho. Not sure best tactic to adopt to be honest. Just go with it and lead him a bit if he's hesitant I reckon x Thank you. I don't know what I was thinking but he's been asking for 4 years and I caved tonight. He isn't confident or worldly wise " Actually, are you sure you want to? Caved in doesn't sound like your thrilled by the idea | |||
Have fun and make sure he does too 
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"Ooh crikey you're a better person than me! I wouldn't want to be responsible to that!! Hope it all goes well tho. Not sure best tactic to adopt to be honest. Just go with it and lead him a bit if he's hesitant I reckon x Thank you. I don't know what I was thinking but he's been asking for 4 years and I caved tonight. He isn't confident or worldly wise Actually, are you sure you want to? Caved in doesn't sound like your thrilled by the idea" oh I like him, he's a lovely man but at first he lied a lot. I understand why but I felt he only wanted me through lack of options. Then I found out who he really was and why he lied. I just don't want his first experience to be nothing like he expects | |||
"Take control in a slow, gentle way. Ease him into it. Don't be nervous, be confident. " I'm usually very confident but because I know he's badly nervous I feel sick. I want him to gain confidence and be more sure of himself | |||
"A friend of my old boss was still a virgin in his late 30's. Till we all pitched in for a lovely lady in Ibiza to pop his cherry!! Haha!! X" lol he said he doesn't want to be a 30 yr old virgin. I would hate for him to go to a prostitute | |||
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"tell him how much you like him, have the lights off or dimmed or light a candle, ask him just to stroke your body, when he does stroke you say something positive, then you stroke his body and i think things will just naturally progress. " Yes but make sure his pants are off first, else they will be ruined | |||
"tell him how much you like him, have the lights off or dimmed or light a candle, ask him just to stroke your body, when he does stroke you say something positive, then you stroke his body and i think things will just naturally progress. " We kind of agreed on that same thing. I just hope he doesn't get the shakes or hyperventilate | |||
"tell him how much you like him, have the lights off or dimmed or light a candle, ask him just to stroke your body, when he does stroke you say something positive, then you stroke his body and i think things will just naturally progress. Yes but make sure his pants are off first, else they will be ruined "want a pool on how long he lasts?? Ohh that was so wrong of me!!!  | |||
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"my first time was an odd experience i literally try to eat the pussy, poor girl she hates me now. blunt honest answer just let him or guide him to stick his cock in your warm pussy and he will be speechless "I already told him he doesn't have to give me oral or anything he doesn't want to do. He isn't too well endowed and he's stressing about it. I told him its ok, which it is. He might turn out to be a natural. He doesn't watch lots of porn, thankfully | |||
"tell him how much you like him, have the lights off or dimmed or light a candle, ask him just to stroke your body, when he does stroke you say something positive, then you stroke his body and i think things will just naturally progress. Yes but make sure his pants are off first, else they will be ruined
want a pool on how long he lasts?? Ohh that was so wrong of me!!! "Silly me assumed he'd have his kit off! Don't worry if he comes too quick just say 'BOOM'!!!! | |||
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"my first time was an odd experience i literally try to eat the pussy, poor girl she hates me now. blunt honest answer just let him or guide him to stick his cock in your warm pussy and he will be speechless
I already told him he doesn't have to give me oral or anything he doesn't want to do. He isn't too well endowed and he's stressing about it. I told him its ok, which it is. He might turn out to be a natural. He doesn't watch lots of porn, thankfully "You're doing the right thing - reassure and praise, confidence building etc. | |||
"tell him how much you like him, have the lights off or dimmed or light a candle, ask him just to stroke your body, when he does stroke you say something positive, then you stroke his body and i think things will just naturally progress. Yes but make sure his pants are off first, else they will be ruined
want a pool on how long he lasts?? Ohh that was so wrong of me!!! "Why don't we line up and have a race | |||
"tell him how much you like him, have the lights off or dimmed or light a candle, ask him just to stroke your body, when he does stroke you say something positive, then you stroke his body and i think things will just naturally progress. Yes but make sure his pants are off first, else they will be ruined
want a pool on how long he lasts?? Ohh that was so wrong of me!!!
Why don't we line up and have a race "lol winner gets what?? | |||
"tell him how much you like him, have the lights off or dimmed or light a candle, ask him just to stroke your body, when he does stroke you say something positive, then you stroke his body and i think things will just naturally progress. Yes but make sure his pants are off first, else they will be ruined
want a pool on how long he lasts?? Ohh that was so wrong of me!!!
Why don't we line up and have a race
lol winner gets what??"Messy pretty quick lol | |||
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"tell him how much you like him, have the lights off or dimmed or light a candle, ask him just to stroke your body, when he does stroke you say something positive, then you stroke his body and i think things will just naturally progress. Yes but make sure his pants are off first, else they will be ruined
want a pool on how long he lasts?? Ohh that was so wrong of me!!!
Why don't we line up and have a race
lol winner gets what??
Messy pretty quick lol"ohhh that kind of race
That could be fun. Who should we ask?? | |||
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"What day you meeting him OP?" Sunday afternoon | |||
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"What day you meeting him OP? Sunday afternoon " Are you sure he's shy? I mean you were both able to discuss what was going to take place without no embarrassment. | |||
"In all seriousness this may not be a good idea. There is a massive chance that he doesn't quite understand the difference between love/sex and NSA sex. Being a virgin to be quite honest massive might be an understatement. Most of us get this problem in our teens and get over it,but at his age,it may seriously mess him up. " I've known him 4 years. He knows I'm not available for anything other than this. His culture means his parents have a big influence in his life. In a few years when he has finished his exams they will expect him to get married and settle down which he will do. It's just sex, he's never shown any signs of anything other than that. He just wants to have sex with me | |||
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"What men say and what men think are two different things, However, trust your judgement and hope he enjoys it, " thank you . I hope he does too | |||
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"A friend of my old boss was still a virgin in his late 30's. Till we all pitched in for a lovely lady in Ibiza to pop his cherry!! Haha!! X lol he said he doesn't want to be a 30 yr old virgin. I would hate for him to go to a prostitute " Everything in that paragraph is so wrong. Hope you enjoy. Let us know how it went. I wouldn't back you. You're stunning | |||
"Has booked a hotel for us this weekend. Now, I haven't been a virgin for 30 odd years but I know he is nervous. I'm hoping he doesn't back out. I would male views on how I should approach this as I don't want to put him off sex for life. He's shy, not kissed a woman ever or seen one naked in the flesh. I'm worried I will be too much for him. Should I take control or leave everything up to him ?" If he's nervous you'll probably need to lead him slowly I'd suggest let him undress you and touch you whilst you slowly do the same to him Respond to his touches and give him the confidence that what he's doing is right - if he's not quite touching the right place gently move him It feels like you need to make the evening sensous - low lights, a glass of chilled wine - seduce him & make him feel special | |||
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"It may be emotional for him ! But as long as you are ready for that you will be fine x good luck and please come back and tell us how it went xx " thank you. If he doesn't back out I will let you know how it went x | |||
"It may be emotional for him ! But as long as you are ready for that you will be fine x good luck and please come back and tell us how it went xx thank you. If he doesn't back out I will let you know how it went x" He's lucky too as you have lowered your age limit a "lot" for a him. Good luck though. I know another victim you can have. That's if you enjoy it the first time around, lol | |||
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"just take control he will love it" Speaks from experience | |||
"just take control he will love it Speaks from experience "you know me so well!!! lol or were you the virgin who loved it? | |||
"just take control he will love it Speaks from experience
you know me so well!!! lol or were you the virgin who loved it?"Sadly I wasn't. Think I would have remembered a lady with a great figure taking control of me | |||
"Be prepared for the likely eventuality that he won't be able to get an erection out of the excitement. Sometimes it happens. Let him play with your breasts (if you're OK with that) if he still can't get an erection this time and then perhaps agree to meet another time to attempt again." I didn't think of that. He has full use of my whole body if he wants it | |||
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"It may be emotional for him ! But as long as you are ready for that you will be fine x good luck and please come back and tell us how it went xx thank you. If he doesn't back out I will let you know how it went x" I'd email you but I'm blocked. I've been there twice now...you have to consider why he's a virgin at 28? Don't expect much and give him time to relax. It's about him, not you as a person or you as a pair, just about him. | |||
"It may be emotional for him ! But as long as you are ready for that you will be fine x good luck and please come back and tell us how it went xx thank you. If he doesn't back out I will let you know how it went x I'd email you but I'm blocked. I've been there twice now...you have to consider why he's a virgin at 28? Don't expect much and give him time to relax. It's about him, not you as a person or you as a pair, just about him." One of my friends' brothers is in exactly the same situation, but he's such a nice guy. I keep pointing out that this will change to a degree once he's got his nuts. I wonder if he's thought about that before, since older virgins have the liberty of observing the sexual attitudes of others. | |||
"I'd say give him a bj and let him shoot his load coz that won't take long. Then do the gentle stroking etc all over, let him play with you and he'll get back up again and totally able to last longer Have fun and make sure he does too
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"Has booked a hotel for us this weekend. Now, I haven't been a virgin for 30 odd years but I know he is nervous. I'm hoping he doesn't back out. I would male views on how I should approach this as I don't want to put him off sex for life. He's shy, not kissed a woman ever or seen one naked in the flesh. I'm worried I will be too much for him. Should I take control or leave everything up to him ?" Im a virgin too.....can I please have some help too lol | |||
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"Sounds a hell of a lot of hard work for a shag to me: fuck that (or not) for a game of soldiers! Sympathy shags, deflowering virgins, stressed to the point you feel sick and need to ask advice: what's that all about? If his mummy let's him out to play can't see this as a Mills & Boon moment, and op I honestly can't see what's in it for you." his mummy doesn't know. I get to spend a night with a lovely friend,even if nothing happens. I always give everything when I'm with a man, never been afraid of hard work | |||
"Sounds a hell of a lot of hard work for a shag to me: fuck that (or not) for a game of soldiers! Sympathy shags, deflowering virgins, stressed to the point you feel sick and need to ask advice: what's that all about? If his mummy let's him out to play can't see this as a Mills & Boon moment, and op I honestly can't see what's in it for you. his mummy doesn't know. I get to spend a night with a lovely friend,even if nothing happens. I always give everything when I'm with a man, never been afraid of hard work" I think I prefer your attitude, Naughty !!
Jane x | |||
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"Tell him your there to be with him, to have a nice time, if he has a soft moment just cuddle n kiss etc, maybe bring a toy he can use on you, so he doesn't feel its all on him to pleasure you. Just try to enjoy it and have him enjoy it" thank you. Toy is a good idea, will do that | |||
"Sounds a hell of a lot of hard work for a shag to me: fuck that (or not) for a game of soldiers! Sympathy shags, deflowering virgins, stressed to the point you feel sick and need to ask advice: what's that all about? If his mummy let's him out to play can't see this as a Mills & Boon moment, and op I honestly can't see what's in it for you. his mummy doesn't know. I get to spend a night with a lovely friend,even if nothing happens. I always give everything when I'm with a man, never been afraid of hard work I think I prefer your attitude, Naughty !!
Jane x"I am naughty, that's why he wants me | |||
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"would take it at his pace to start with, otherwise he may well run to the hills. once the action starts maybe do what takes your fancy, by all means, cuz obviously he knows what you are about and wants the experience, but try not to overload his senses with too much too soon. jesus, if i had tried everything i had done over the years the first time i did anything i would have spent the next few months trying to figure shit out lol" I think I'm just going to lay flat on the bed and not move for a while lol fully dressed | |||
"would take it at his pace to start with, otherwise he may well run to the hills. once the action starts maybe do what takes your fancy, by all means, cuz obviously he knows what you are about and wants the experience, but try not to overload his senses with too much too soon. jesus, if i had tried everything i had done over the years the first time i did anything i would have spent the next few months trying to figure shit out lol I think I'm just going to lay flat on the bed and not move for a while lol fully dressed "sounds a bit like me wife | |||
"Has booked a hotel for us this weekend. Now, I haven't been a virgin for 30 odd years but I know he is nervous. I'm hoping he doesn't back out. I would male views on how I should approach this as I don't want to put him off sex for life. He's shy, not kissed a woman ever or seen one naked in the flesh. I'm worried I will be too much for him. Should I take control or leave everything up to him ?" You can always take control but at a relaxed pace with him to be fair he not seen naked woman before so maybe something negligee type attire before full on nude lol | |||
"would take it at his pace to start with, otherwise he may well run to the hills. once the action starts maybe do what takes your fancy, by all means, cuz obviously he knows what you are about and wants the experience, but try not to overload his senses with too much too soon. jesus, if i had tried everything i had done over the years the first time i did anything i would have spent the next few months trying to figure shit out lol I think I'm just going to lay flat on the bed and not move for a while lol fully dressed "lol, i think maybe somewhere in between that, and ripping his clothes off, would be good lol | |||
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"would take it at his pace to start with, otherwise he may well run to the hills. once the action starts maybe do what takes your fancy, by all means, cuz obviously he knows what you are about and wants the experience, but try not to overload his senses with too much too soon. jesus, if i had tried everything i had done over the years the first time i did anything i would have spent the next few months trying to figure shit out lol I think I'm just going to lay flat on the bed and not move for a while lol fully dressed
lol, i think maybe somewhere in between that, and ripping his clothes off, would be good lol"he might surprise me and greet me naked, rip my clothes off and throw me on the bed!! Oh I hope he does | |||
"would take it at his pace to start with, otherwise he may well run to the hills. once the action starts maybe do what takes your fancy, by all means, cuz obviously he knows what you are about and wants the experience, but try not to overload his senses with too much too soon. jesus, if i had tried everything i had done over the years the first time i did anything i would have spent the next few months trying to figure shit out lol I think I'm just going to lay flat on the bed and not move for a while lol fully dressed
lol, i think maybe somewhere in between that, and ripping his clothes off, would be good lol
he might surprise me and greet me naked, rip my clothes off and throw me on the bed!! Oh I hope he does "Haha well you never know !!!! But its very unlikely !! Have you talked to him since you arranged it? Have you talked about what he is expecting? Or how he feels? | |||
"would take it at his pace to start with, otherwise he may well run to the hills. once the action starts maybe do what takes your fancy, by all means, cuz obviously he knows what you are about and wants the experience, but try not to overload his senses with too much too soon. jesus, if i had tried everything i had done over the years the first time i did anything i would have spent the next few months trying to figure shit out lol I think I'm just going to lay flat on the bed and not move for a while lol fully dressed
lol, i think maybe somewhere in between that, and ripping his clothes off, would be good lol
he might surprise me and greet me naked, rip my clothes off and throw me on the bed!! Oh I hope he does
Haha well you never know !!!! But its very unlikely !! Have you talked to him since you arranged it? Have you talked about what he is expecting? Or how he feels? "he's working today, I will chat to him later. He changed the subject last night to bread baking lol | |||
"would take it at his pace to start with, otherwise he may well run to the hills. once the action starts maybe do what takes your fancy, by all means, cuz obviously he knows what you are about and wants the experience, but try not to overload his senses with too much too soon. jesus, if i had tried everything i had done over the years the first time i did anything i would have spent the next few months trying to figure shit out lol I think I'm just going to lay flat on the bed and not move for a while lol fully dressed
lol, i think maybe somewhere in between that, and ripping his clothes off, would be good lol
he might surprise me and greet me naked, rip my clothes off and throw me on the bed!! Oh I hope he does "oh yes. i can see it now.. walk in, he grabs you in his arms. unfastens your dress and lets it drop to the floor removes your bra and panties, stands back with a look of lust in his eyes. throws you back on the bed you look at him, and say provocativley 'now what are you going to do, big boy?' and he replies 'dunno, thought you would suggest summat now' lol | |||
"would take it at his pace to start with, otherwise he may well run to the hills. once the action starts maybe do what takes your fancy, by all means, cuz obviously he knows what you are about and wants the experience, but try not to overload his senses with too much too soon. jesus, if i had tried everything i had done over the years the first time i did anything i would have spent the next few months trying to figure shit out lol I think I'm just going to lay flat on the bed and not move for a while lol fully dressed
lol, i think maybe somewhere in between that, and ripping his clothes off, would be good lol
he might surprise me and greet me naked, rip my clothes off and throw me on the bed!! Oh I hope he does
Haha well you never know !!!! But its very unlikely !! Have you talked to him since you arranged it? Have you talked about what he is expecting? Or how he feels?
he's working today, I will chat to him later. He changed the subject last night to bread baking lol "he is on the right tracks. still all about getting summat to rise lol | |||
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"Must admit he sounds like a bullshitter to me. "He very well could be. So could I or you | |||
"would take it at his pace to start with, otherwise he may well run to the hills. once the action starts maybe do what takes your fancy, by all means, cuz obviously he knows what you are about and wants the experience, but try not to overload his senses with too much too soon. jesus, if i had tried everything i had done over the years the first time i did anything i would have spent the next few months trying to figure shit out lol I think I'm just going to lay flat on the bed and not move for a while lol fully dressed
lol, i think maybe somewhere in between that, and ripping his clothes off, would be good lol
he might surprise me and greet me naked, rip my clothes off and throw me on the bed!! Oh I hope he does
oh yes.
i can see it now..
walk in, he grabs you in his arms.
unfastens your dress and lets it drop to the floor
removes your bra and panties, stands back with a look of lust in his eyes.
throws you back on the bed
you look at him, and say provocativley 'now what are you going to do, big boy?'
and he replies 'dunno, thought you would suggest summat now'
lol"I'll be impressed if he can throw me on the bed, he's shorter than me lol | |||
"would take it at his pace to start with, otherwise he may well run to the hills. once the action starts maybe do what takes your fancy, by all means, cuz obviously he knows what you are about and wants the experience, but try not to overload his senses with too much too soon. jesus, if i had tried everything i had done over the years the first time i did anything i would have spent the next few months trying to figure shit out lol I think I'm just going to lay flat on the bed and not move for a while lol fully dressed
lol, i think maybe somewhere in between that, and ripping his clothes off, would be good lol
he might surprise me and greet me naked, rip my clothes off and throw me on the bed!! Oh I hope he does
oh yes.
i can see it now..
walk in, he grabs you in his arms.
unfastens your dress and lets it drop to the floor
removes your bra and panties, stands back with a look of lust in his eyes.
throws you back on the bed
you look at him, and say provocativley 'now what are you going to do, big boy?'
and he replies 'dunno, thought you would suggest summat now'
lol
I'll be impressed if he can throw me on the bed, he's shorter than me lol "never watched karate kid? dont have to be big, you just have to be off guard and off balance lol | |||
"would take it at his pace to start with, otherwise he may well run to the hills. once the action starts maybe do what takes your fancy, by all means, cuz obviously he knows what you are about and wants the experience, but try not to overload his senses with too much too soon. jesus, if i had tried everything i had done over the years the first time i did anything i would have spent the next few months trying to figure shit out lol I think I'm just going to lay flat on the bed and not move for a while lol fully dressed
lol, i think maybe somewhere in between that, and ripping his clothes off, would be good lol
he might surprise me and greet me naked, rip my clothes off and throw me on the bed!! Oh I hope he does
oh yes.
i can see it now..
walk in, he grabs you in his arms.
unfastens your dress and lets it drop to the floor
removes your bra and panties, stands back with a look of lust in his eyes.
throws you back on the bed
you look at him, and say provocativley 'now what are you going to do, big boy?'
and he replies 'dunno, thought you would suggest summat now'
lol
I'll be impressed if he can throw me on the bed, he's shorter than me lol
never watched karate kid?
dont have to be big, you just have to be off guard and off balance lol"lol he's Chinese,probably a master in Origami | |||
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"What time are you pinching his cherry? We are all waiting in anticipation. " Yeah ........we can't wait for the details | |||
"What time are you pinching his cherry? We are all waiting in anticipation. " 3pm. I've decide, after 4+ years of him trying to seduce me I'm going to give him everything he has asked for. If he can't handle me then tough shit. He shouldn't have called it on. I take my sexual encounters very serious, I don't have time to piss about. If he wants an older sexy woman, he's getting one!!! | |||
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"Ah ffs I thought it was tonight ! Back to the colouring in then "tomorrow. If he chickens out do you fancy a roasting?? | |||
"Ah ffs I thought it was tonight ! Back to the colouring in then
tomorrow. If he chickens out do you fancy a roasting?? "2 lucky guys here | |||
"Ah ffs I thought it was tonight ! Back to the colouring in then
tomorrow. If he chickens out do you fancy a roasting??
2 lucky guys here "you're welcome to join in | |||
"Ah ffs I thought it was tonight ! Back to the colouring in then
tomorrow. If he chickens out do you fancy a roasting??
2 lucky guys here
you're welcome to join in "If he backs out. Come to me instead or hopefully you will enjoy it a bit. So you can have the "sameish" experience again. Only better I hope | |||
"Ah ffs I thought it was tonight ! Back to the colouring in then
tomorrow. If he chickens out do you fancy a roasting??
2 lucky guys here
you're welcome to join in
If he backs out. Come to me instead or hopefully you will enjoy it a bit. So you can have the "sameish" experience again. Only better I hope "I don't even know where Carmarthenshire is lol he's really nervous. I think he's going to back out | |||
"Ah ffs I thought it was tonight ! Back to the colouring in then
tomorrow. If he chickens out do you fancy a roasting??
2 lucky guys here
you're welcome to join in
If he backs out. Come to me instead or hopefully you will enjoy it a bit. So you can have the "sameish" experience again. Only better I hope
I don't even know where Carmarthenshire is lol he's really nervous. I think he's going to back out "Dead on 200 miles  . But as i said if he backs out you can come to me. I am the sort that no matter how bad I get. I always stand my ground and turn up, etc. | |||
"Ah ffs I thought it was tonight ! Back to the colouring in then
tomorrow. If he chickens out do you fancy a roasting?? "As long as I'm not the spit | |||
But he was scared to death. The one thing I said made it a better experience for him, I said 'whatever hapens in here is between me and you'. So apart from saying what I did just now, no one knows any more about itExcept he's now ummm...straight curious? | |||
"I had a gay friend decide he wanted to try ladies, he was sooo sweet, very cute But he was scared to death. The one thing I said made it a better experience for him, I said 'whatever hapens in here is between me and you'. So apart from saying what I did just now, no one knows any more about itExcept he's now ummm...straight curious?"Sound like my kind of woman  | |||
"Ah ffs I thought it was tonight ! Back to the colouring in then
tomorrow. If he chickens out do you fancy a roasting??
As long as I'm not the spit "just me and you baby What lube do you prefer?? | |||
"I had a gay friend decide he wanted to try ladies, he was sooo sweet, very cute But he was scared to death. The one thing I said made it a better experience for him, I said 'whatever hapens in here is between me and you'. So apart from saying what I did just now, no one knows any more about itExcept he's now ummm...straight curious?"one of my gay male friends used to say, in his Floridian drawl, If I were to do a woman I'd definitely do you. But he moved back to America so he never did | |||
"I had a gay friend decide he wanted to try ladies, he was sooo sweet, very cute But he was scared to death. The one thing I said made it a better experience for him, I said 'whatever hapens in here is between me and you'. So apart from saying what I did just now, no one knows any more about itExcept he's now ummm...straight curious?
one of my gay male friends used to say, in his Floridian drawl, If I were to do a woman I'd definitely do you. But he moved back to America so he never did "
That's one of the saddest, regretful stories I have ever heard. | |||
"I had a gay friend decide he wanted to try ladies, he was sooo sweet, very cute But he was scared to death. The one thing I said made it a better experience for him, I said 'whatever hapens in here is between me and you'. So apart from saying what I did just now, no one knows any more about itExcept he's now ummm...straight curious?
one of my gay male friends used to say, in his Floridian drawl, If I were to do a woman I'd definitely do you. But he moved back to America so he never did
That's one of the saddest, regretful stories I have ever heard. "he would lean his head on my boobs while his partner was looking, had a fixation for my boobs. Then he went home | |||
"Has booked a hotel for us this weekend. Now, I haven't been a virgin for 30 odd years but I know he is nervous. I'm hoping he doesn't back out. I would male views on how I should approach this as I don't want to put him off sex for life. He's shy, not kissed a woman ever or seen one naked in the flesh. I'm worried I will be too much for him. Should I take control or leave everything up to him ?" Just caught up with this thread. Can't wait to see if your friend keeps his nerve and loses his cherry. Have fun | |||
"I had a gay friend decide he wanted to try ladies, he was sooo sweet, very cute But he was scared to death. The one thing I said made it a better experience for him, I said 'whatever hapens in here is between me and you'. So apart from saying what I did just now, no one knows any more about itExcept he's now ummm...straight curious?
one of my gay male friends used to say, in his Floridian drawl, If I were to do a woman I'd definitely do you. But he moved back to America so he never did
That's one of the saddest, regretful stories I have ever heard.
he would lean his head on my boobs while his partner was looking, had a fixation for my boobs. Then he went home "Why your boobs though? Your figure is amazing all over. Also take your age filters off, lol x | |||
"Ah ffs I thought it was tonight ! Back to the colouring in then
tomorrow. If he chickens out do you fancy a roasting??
As long as I'm not the spit
just me and you baby What lube do you prefer?? "Hmmm there's a new burger sauce variety on the market. It's multi purpose. | |||
"Ah ffs I thought it was tonight ! Back to the colouring in then
tomorrow. If he chickens out do you fancy a roasting??
As long as I'm not the spit
just me and you baby What lube do you prefer??
Hmmm there's a new burger sauce variety on the market. It's multi purpose. "does it have chopped gherkin in it? | |||
"give him my profile details if you turn him gay "lol just noticed this post | |||
"give him my profile details if you turn him gay
lol just noticed this post"Alcohol does have that affect on people | |||
"give him my profile details if you turn him gay
lol just noticed this post
Alcohol does have that affect on people "I am a bit pissed. Alcohol makes me horny | |||
"give him my profile details if you turn him gay
lol just noticed this post
Alcohol does have that affect on people
I am a bit pissed. Alcohol makes me horny "Again turn off your filters and see of we can do something about that | |||
"Ah ffs I thought it was tonight ! Back to the colouring in then
tomorrow. If he chickens out do you fancy a roasting??
As long as I'm not the spit
just me and you baby What lube do you prefer??
Hmmm there's a new burger sauce variety on the market. It's multi purpose.
does it have chopped gherkin in it? "Bloody hope so lol | |||
"give him my profile details if you turn him gay
lol just noticed this post
Alcohol does have that affect on people
I am a bit pissed. Alcohol makes me horny
Again turn off your filters and see of we can do something about that "ok but my fuck bud coming over at 10.30 to get a good cock sucking | |||
"Ah ffs I thought it was tonight ! Back to the colouring in then
tomorrow. If he chickens out do you fancy a roasting??
As long as I'm not the spit
just me and you baby What lube do you prefer??
Hmmm there's a new burger sauce variety on the market. It's multi purpose.
does it have chopped gherkin in it?
Bloody hope so lol"ah fuck the lube, what's wrong with good old spit??? | |||
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"Filters off, now what?? " You now get the chance to officially change your name to Cherry Popper | |||
"Filters off, now what?? You now get the chance to officially change your name to Cherry Popper "funny you should say that, I love cherry lube not popped it yet | |||
"Filters off, now what?? You now get the chance to officially change your name to Cherry Popper "what was your first time like? Mine wasn't great but I was young | |||
"Has booked a hotel for us this weekend. Now, I haven't been a virgin for 30 odd years but I know he is nervous. I'm hoping he doesn't back out. I would male views on how I should approach this as I don't want to put him off sex for life. He's shy, not kissed a woman ever or seen one naked in the flesh. I'm worried I will be too much for him. Should I take control or leave everything up to him ?" Assuming he's telling truth about being virgin lol | |||
"Has booked a hotel for us this weekend. Now, I haven't been a virgin for 30 odd years but I know he is nervous. I'm hoping he doesn't back out. I would male views on how I should approach this as I don't want to put him off sex for life. He's shy, not kissed a woman ever or seen one naked in the flesh. I'm worried I will be too much for him. Should I take control or leave everything up to him ? Assuming he's telling truth about being virgin lol" sadly, he is lol | |||
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"Filters off, now what?? You now get the chance to officially change your name to Cherry Popper
what was your first time like? Mine wasn't great but I was young "Pretty shit to be honest, but same as you. | |||
"Filters off, now what?? You now get the chance to officially change your name to Cherry Popper
what was your first time like? Mine wasn't great but I was young
Pretty shit to be honest, but same as you. "I married my first fuck, didn't get any better. You?? | |||
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"Filters off, now what?? You now get the chance to officially change your name to Cherry Popper
what was your first time like? Mine wasn't great but I was young
Pretty shit to be honest, but same as you.
I married my first fuck, didn't get any better. You??"I've never had him. | |||
"Filters off, now what?? You now get the chance to officially change your name to Cherry Popper
what was your first time like? Mine wasn't great but I was young
Pretty shit to be honest, but same as you.
I married my first fuck, didn't get any better. You??
I've never had him. "he's not very good. You had a lucky escape | |||
"Filters off, now what?? You now get the chance to officially change your name to Cherry Popper
what was your first time like? Mine wasn't great but I was young
Pretty shit to be honest, but same as you.
I married my first fuck, didn't get any better. You??"I married my first fuck too. Loved him for years until he fucked up big style elsewhere | |||
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"Is he on here ? Has he read this thread ? " No he isn't. If he was I wouldn't have posted on here. He is anonymous | |||
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"and still we dont know how it went lol" it hasn't happened yet lol this afternoon. I will report back, no gory details though | |||
"and still we dont know how it went lol" It's not till this afternoon if memory serves x | |||
"Filters off, now what?? You now get the chance to officially change your name to Cherry Popper
what was your first time like? Mine wasn't great but I was young
Pretty shit to be honest, but same as you.
I married my first fuck, didn't get any better. You??"Glad it weren't just me. I only realised how bad it was till I came on here and discovered great sex | |||
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"Hope all goes as well as it can. Looking to forward to hearing how it goes. Not full details but if it happens or not x" Thank you, had some good advice. I keep thinking he will lose his nerve and back out x | |||
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"and still we dont know how it went lol it hasn't happened yet lol this afternoon. I will report back, no gory details though " lol, oops | |||
"Tell him your there to be with him, to have a nice time, if he has a soft moment just cuddle n kiss etc, maybe bring a toy he can use on you, so he doesn't feel its all on him to pleasure you. Just try to enjoy it and have him enjoy it thank you. Toy is a good idea, will do that " | |||
"The things people have said have been interesting to read pick out the bits you think you will need and just tell him to relax as much as he can. At least you know each other xx" I've known him a long time, he knows we don't have to have full sex if he can't the first time. Whatever happens we will still be friends x | |||
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"So is there one less virgin the world?? How did it go??" Yeah how did it go?!! | |||
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Next virgin, please step forward | |||
"There is one less virgin in the world and it went very well "I dunno he's been mailing me on gaydar now...saying he's had it with chicks... | |||
"There is one less virgin in the world and it went very well
I dunno he's been mailing me on gaydar now...saying he's had it with chicks... "You are so mean! | |||
"There is one less virgin in the world and it went very well
I dunno he's been mailing me on gaydar now...saying he's had it with chicks...
You are so mean! " | |||
"Details " | |||
"There is one less virgin in the world and it went very well
I dunno he's been mailing me on gaydar now...saying he's had it with chicks... "piss off | |||
"Hurrahhhhh
Next virgin, please step forward "You can have the next one. I've done my bit for mankind. Next man I get I'm ruining | |||
"Hurrahhhhh
Next virgin, please step forward
You can have the next one. I've done my bit for mankind. Next man I get I'm ruining "I've never actually come across a female virgin on here lol | |||
"Hurrahhhhh
Next virgin, please step forward
You can have the next one. I've done my bit for mankind. Next man I get I'm ruining
I've never actually come across a female virgin on here lol"jesus, i nearly posted something then, and before i pressed enter i could feel the cold breath of admin pressing that time out button lol. step away form the keyboard.... | |||
"There is one less virgin in the world and it went very well
I dunno he's been mailing me on gaydar now...saying he's had it with chicks...
piss off " | |||
"Hurrahhhhh
Next virgin, please step forward
You can have the next one. I've done my bit for mankind. Next man I get I'm ruining
I've never actually come across a female virgin on here lol"I meant male and I didn't meet him on here. Lube up,I'm putting a apb for one just for you | |||
"Hurrahhhhh
Next virgin, please step forward
You can have the next one. I've done my bit for mankind. Next man I get I'm ruining
I've never actually come across a female virgin on here lol
jesus, i nearly posted something then, and before i pressed enter i could feel the cold breath of admin pressing that time out button lol.
step away form the keyboard...."lol I want to know what was on the tip of your fingertips | |||
"Hurrahhhhh
Next virgin, please step forward
You can have the next one. I've done my bit for mankind. Next man I get I'm ruining
I've never actually come across a female virgin on here lol
I meant male and I didn't meet him on here. Lube up,I'm putting a apb for one just for you "Sod that. My arse is sacred | |||
"Hurrahhhhh
Next virgin, please step forward
You can have the next one. I've done my bit for mankind. Next man I get I'm ruining
I've never actually come across a female virgin on here lol
I meant male and I didn't meet him on here. Lube up,I'm putting a apb for one just for you
Sod that. My arse is sacred"don't worry, it will be worshipped | |||
"Hurrahhhhh
Next virgin, please step forward
You can have the next one. I've done my bit for mankind. Next man I get I'm ruining
I've never actually come across a female virgin on here lol
jesus, i nearly posted something then, and before i pressed enter i could feel the cold breath of admin pressing that time out button lol.
step away form the keyboard....
lol I want to know what was on the tip of your fingertips"pampers.... thats all im saying | |||
"Hurrahhhhh
Next virgin, please step forward
You can have the next one. I've done my bit for mankind. Next man I get I'm ruining "next victim, needs ruining & tame lol | |||
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"Has booked a hotel for us this weekend. Now, I haven't been a virgin for 30 odd years but I know he is nervous. I'm hoping he doesn't back out. I would male views on how I should approach this as I don't want to put him off sex for life. He's shy, not kissed a woman ever or seen one naked in the flesh. I'm worried I will be too much for him. Should I take control or leave everything up to him ?" We all started somewhere and god bless you for letting his first time be with you. Id say take things slow, drinks at the bar, laugh and joke bit of touching, hands hugs, giggles and take him upstairs? Why not shower together with lots of kissing?, Maybe followed by a massage for one another?, Im sure you will both have a good night x good luck x | |||
"Has booked a hotel for us this weekend. Now, I haven't been a virgin for 30 odd years but I know he is nervous. I'm hoping he doesn't back out. I would male views on how I should approach this as I don't want to put him off sex for life. He's shy, not kissed a woman ever or seen one naked in the flesh. I'm worried I will be too much for him. Should I take control or leave everything up to him ? We all started somewhere and god bless you for letting his first time be with you. Id say take things slow, drinks at the bar, laugh and joke bit of touching, hands hugs, giggles and take him upstairs? Why not shower together with lots of kissing?, Maybe followed by a massage for one another?, Im sure you will both have a good night x good luck x "She sounds wise as well as she is sexy. | |||
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