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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Google it !"
I have so many ways, I've tried the g spot and eating out, maybe she actually can't squirt? She orgies through eating hot and when I'm hitting the g spot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Google it !
I have so many ways, I've tried the g spot and eating out, maybe she actually can't squirt? She orgies through eating hot and when I'm hitting the g spot "
maybe you are going to the wrong restaurants.
what sort of food does the g spot serve? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not all women can and most would probably prefer it if you didnt try and do it deliberately.
Just you and your partner relax and enjoy each other and if it happens, it happens. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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umm ask her??!! most women cant so hammering away will leave both parties v unhappy. the ladies who can will generally know how to make it happen...but might not want to unless theyre comfy with you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Google it !
I have so many ways, I've tried the g spot and eating out, maybe she actually can't squirt? She orgies through eating hot and when I'm hitting the g spot
maybe you are going to the wrong restaurants.
what sort of food does the g spot serve?"
What do you mean? Well I've tried the like ball tyoe feeling below like doing a upside down come hitcher thing, The one that makes the girl feel like she's getting fucked but she's not, and the normal come hitcher motion to hit the g spot, non work, she's had multiple orgasms, but can't squirt, maybe she needs to orgy more or she can't? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not all women can and most would probably prefer it if you didnt try and do it deliberately.
Just you and your partner relax and enjoy each other and if it happens, it happens."
Totally yeah. But I thought squirting was supposed to be the best feeling ever?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"umm ask her??!! most women cant so hammering away will leave both parties v unhappy. the ladies who can will generally know how to make it happen...but might not want to unless theyre comfy with you. "
I'll ask her what feels good and what and what not and if she feels she's about to pee, it may be that she's holding it in because after sex she needs the toilet???
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I hate squirting and get really annoyed when a guy seems to be focussing on trying to get me to do it. It does mean we have orgasmed. Just relax, do what she likes and take it from there. If I do squirt, it's when I least expect it! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I hate squirting and get really annoyed when a guy seems to be focussing on trying to get me to do it. It does mean we have orgasmed. Just relax, do what she likes and take it from there. If I do squirt, it's when I least expect it!"
wondering if I'm not good enough or she genuinely can't. My ex could so hmm
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By *loud tenMan
over a year ago
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I have so many ways, I've tried the g spot and eating out, maybe she actually can't squirt? She orgies through eating hot and when I'm hitting the g spot "
maybe you are going to the wrong restaurants.
what sort of food does the g spot serve?
Hahaha my thoughts exactly |
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"I hate squirting and get really annoyed when a guy seems to be focussing on trying to get me to do it. It does mean we have orgasmed. Just relax, do what she likes and take it from there. If I do squirt, it's when I least expect it!"
Doesn't mean we have orgasmed!!!!! Ffs |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have so many ways, I've tried the g spot and oral maybe she actually can't squirt? She orgies through oral and when I'm hitting the g spot: cervix ligament.
maybe you are going to the wrong restaurants.
what sort of food does the g spot serve?
Hahaha my thoughts exactly "
Mis types corrected now |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I hate squirting and get really annoyed when a guy seems to be focussing on trying to get me to do it. It does mean we have orgasmed. Just relax, do what she likes and take it from there. If I do squirt, it's when I least expect it!
Doesn't mean we have orgasmed!!!!! Ffs"
Oh?? A lot of people say it's the best feeling ever?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"An orgasm is the best feeling ever! Squirting/gushing is a totally different feeling! But if you are lucky enough for the 2 things to happen at the same time WOW!"
Well I've done the orgasm part I want to experiment on the squirting. Sometimes I can't even find her g spot!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Once again people being unrealistic because of a fad. As long as both parties are happy at the end of the session does it really matter.
You are no less a man if you cannot make a woman "squirt" or "gush" and the same applies to the woman.
Too many people focus on the latest benchmark of performance.
I blame modern porn for all this "i can do this" mentality, its fun not a bloody sport.
rant over....lol.
Also means there is not a swamp in the bedroom afterwards lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Once again people being unrealistic because of a fad. As long as both parties are happy at the end of the session does it really matter.
You are no less a man if you cannot make a woman "squirt" or "gush" and the same applies to the woman.
Too many people focus on the latest benchmark of performance.
I blame modern porn for all this "i can do this" mentality, its fun not a bloody sport.
rant over....lol.
Also means there is not a swamp in the bedroom afterwards lol. "
maybe you're right |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have so many ways, I've tried the g spot and oral maybe she actually can't squirt? She orgies through oral and when I'm hitting the g spot: cervix ligament.
maybe you are going to the wrong restaurants.
what sort of food does the g spot serve?
Hahaha my thoughts exactly
Mis types corrected now "
You don't know the difference between orgies and orgasms?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really dont like it if a guy tries to make me gush/squirt, if it happens then it happens, but its not an orgasm. I would rather have an orgasm than make a huge mess. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"An orgasm is the best feeling ever! Squirting/gushing is a totally different feeling! But if you are lucky enough for the 2 things to happen at the same time WOW!"
Agree  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love the sensation I get when gushing/squirting and over time it had become easier for me to achieve.
The best thing is to take your time and ask her what feels good and what doesn't. There should be no time limit on pleasure!
I also found in the beginning a "wand" helped brilliantly..!!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have so many ways, I've tried the g spot and oral maybe she actually can't squirt? She orgies through oral and when I'm hitting the g spot: cervix ligament.
maybe you are going to the wrong restaurants.
what sort of food does the g spot serve?
Hahaha my thoughts exactly
Mis types corrected now
You don't know the difference between orgies and orgasms?
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Orgy is a a group
Orgasm is single |
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"I have so many ways, I've tried the g spot and oral maybe she actually can't squirt? She orgies through oral and when I'm hitting the g spot: cervix ligament.
maybe you are going to the wrong restaurants.
what sort of food does the g spot serve?
Hahaha my thoughts exactly
Mis types corrected now
You don't know the difference between orgies and orgasms?
Orgy is a a group
Orgasm is single "
orgy is a group of people having sex together.
Orgasm is when an individual climaxes.
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A lady I play with on a regular basis can sometimes gush if she is relaxed enough and the mood takes her. I certainly don't try to make her, it just occasionally happens. But we always have a thick towel on the bed when playing, just incase  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Was is the best way to make a girl squirt!
Fill her mouth with water and slap her cheeks  "
haha an imagining that now
I gush and squirt. My current partner unleased the floodgates and now it happens all the time if I am relaxed enough |
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"Once again people being unrealistic because of a fad. As long as both parties are happy at the end of the session does it really matter.
You are no less a man if you cannot make a woman "squirt" or "gush" and the same applies to the woman.
Too many people focus on the latest benchmark of performance.
I blame modern porn for all this "i can do this" mentality, its fun not a bloody sport.
rant over....lol.
Also means there is not a swamp in the bedroom afterwards lol. "
I think I love you ! I am a squirter but wish I bloody wasn't as it seems to be what defines a good shag to a lot of blokes!
As you say, inexperienced guys see it in porn films and expect it to happen . But turn that around, men in porn films have impossibly long dicks, so, I expect every guy will present me with one of those then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My advice to you would be stop listening to people on here and stop replicating what you see on porn.
You cannot develop your own skills by listening to others, experiment to see what works with whatever girl you are with. Take note of how she responds, try and focus on her body language, her sounds etc.
Squirting is just a fad, started in porn and replicated by people because they believe it's the 'in' thing. Since first posting on this site I have seen a major increase in the amount of squirting women.
Dont focus on hype, work on reading body language and signs of arousal. If she's having a good time then does it matter, it's not about how many times she orgasms or how much liquid she expels  |
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"My advice to you would be stop listening to people on here and stop replicating what you see on porn.
You cannot develop your own skills by listening to others, experiment to see what works with whatever girl you are with. Take note of how she responds, try and focus on her body language, her sounds etc.
Squirting is just a fad, started in porn and replicated by people because they believe it's the 'in' thing. Since first posting on this site I have seen a major increase in the amount of squirting women.
Dont focus on hype, work on reading body language and signs of arousal. If she's having a good time then does it matter, it's not about how many times she orgasms or how much liquid she expels "
This
Most intelligent post I have read for a long time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Once again people being unrealistic because of a fad. As long as both parties are happy at the end of the session does it really matter.
You are no less a man if you cannot make a woman "squirt" or "gush" and the same applies to the woman.
Too many people focus on the latest benchmark of performance.
I blame modern porn for all this "i can do this" mentality, its fun not a bloody sport.
rant over....lol.
Also means there is not a swamp in the bedroom afterwards lol.
I think I love you ! I am a squirter but wish I bloody wasn't as it seems to be what defines a good shag to a lot of blokes!
As you say, inexperienced guys see it in porn films and expect it to happen . But turn that around, men in porn films have impossibly long dicks, so, I expect every guy will present me with one of those then? "
its not just that, i have spoken to ladies that are basically attacked my men who think that sex is about pounding away as hard as you can till they cum.
What ever happened to sensual build up and build up and build up, till......sometimes the release is almost painful in its intensity. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My advice to you would be stop listening to people on here and stop replicating what you see on porn.
You cannot develop your own skills by listening to others, experiment to see what works with whatever girl you are with. Take note of how she responds, try and focus on her body language, her sounds etc.
Squirting is just a fad, started in porn and replicated by people because they believe it's the 'in' thing. Since first posting on this site I have seen a major increase in the amount of squirting women.
Dont focus on hype, work on reading body language and signs of arousal. If she's having a good time then does it matter, it's not about how many times she orgasms or how much liquid she expels
This
Most intelligent post I have read for a long time."
ditto, listen to her voice and body, a moan is good, and keep an eye on her toes, curling up is a good sign.
here endeth the lesson, lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not all women can and most would probably prefer it if you didnt try and do it deliberately.
Just you and your partner relax and enjoy each other and if it happens, it happens."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"umm ask her??!! most women cant so hammering away will leave both parties v unhappy. the ladies who can will generally know how to make it happen...but might not want to unless theyre comfy with you. "
Not true in my experience, have met many ladies who say they can't but by the end of the party they all have lol (not all liked it I may add) |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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"Google it !
I have so many ways, I've tried the g spot and eating out, maybe she actually can't squirt? She orgies through eating hot and when I'm hitting the g spot
maybe you are going to the wrong restaurants.
what sort of food does the g spot serve?
What do you mean? Well I've tried the like ball tyoe feeling below like doing a upside down come hitcher thing, The one that makes the girl feel like she's getting fucked but she's not, and the normal come hitcher motion to hit the g spot, non work, she's had multiple orgasms, but can't squirt, maybe she needs to orgy more or she can't?"
I would much rather orgasm than squirt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"what is this latest obsession with wantin to make females squirt, guys are never satisfied lol "
if the lady is happy, i am happy.
Never selfish always a gentleman, the ladies cum first, well hopefully.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if the lady is happy, i am happy.
Never selfish always a gentleman, the ladies cum first, well hopefully.
and if she didnt but really enjoyed herself? "
As long as she left happy then thats ok. there is not a scorecard in my mind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Google it !
I have so many ways, I've tried the g spot and eating out, maybe she actually can't squirt? She orgies through eating hot and when I'm hitting the g spot
maybe you are going to the wrong restaurants.
what sort of food does the g spot serve?
What do you mean? Well I've tried the like ball tyoe feeling below like doing a upside down come hitcher thing, The one that makes the girl feel like she's getting fucked but she's not, and the normal come hitcher motion to hit the g spot, non work, she's had multiple orgasms, but can't squirt, maybe she needs to orgy more or she can't?
I would much rather orgasm than squirt. "
Agree with this ^^^^^^^^^^^. Many men think squirting is orgasming which it isnt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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ind you most women who have had children have a weak pelvic floor so squirting tends to be accidental leakage, which most would rather avoid, so your working against bladder problems ! and fear of peeing themselves, hardly something to try and achieve |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not all women can and most would probably prefer it if you didnt try and do it deliberately.
Just you and your partner relax and enjoy each other and if it happens, it happens."
I don't nor want to so check with the lady first |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ind you most women who have had children have a weak pelvic floor so squirting tends to be accidental leakage, which most would rather avoid, so your working against bladder problems ! and fear of peeing themselves, hardly something to try and achieve "
Exactly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes i think its fairly safe to say we are all different.
I hate squirting nearly as much as i hate someone trying to make me. "
Without a doubt agree!
Wish men would just stop this bloody focus on something thats so not all that.
Seems to be more of a misguided ego boost for them than about pleasure for the woman. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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have had plenty of meets where the focus is on getting V to squirt, and its not great as it leaves her skin in bits afterwards, so we cant have fun on our own later on.
we like the squirting thing, but it aint everything.
much prefer people just enjoyed the play without setting themselves goals and acheivements |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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what is with all the pre-occupation with squirting/gushing.
Some women will be able to totally relax & do it others won't. It is a myth that the guy needs to go at it like a kango hammer to make it happen. It can be achieved with 1 finger on the right spot. It's about watching the body language & reactions to subtle changes.
I think at the moment there is too much focus on this & puts pressure on a woman to to do it. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Rather than squirting and worrying about giving a woman pleasure, go back to the good old days, worry about your own orgasm, then light a fag and wait for your woman to get a pot of tea and some cake for you, I mean you have spent 20 minutes with her, that is usually enough for most women, they need to get on and do laydee things, like cleaning and cooking.
I doubt you will ever hear any woman say, " you didn't make me squirt"
They are more likely to say, " that was amazing, you are soo good at sex" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Rather than squirting and worrying about giving a woman pleasure, go back to the good old days, worry about your own orgasm, then light a fag and wait for your woman to get a pot of tea and some cake for you, I mean you have spent 20 minutes with her, that is usually enough for most women, they need to get on and do laydee things, like cleaning and cooking.
I doubt you will ever hear any woman say, " you didn't make me squirt"
They are more likely to say, " that was amazing, you are soo good at sex""
Do you do this? |
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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago
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"Was is the best way to make a girl squirt!"
Firstly its men who are obsessed with making women squirt / gush, some women arn't that keen on it, your other half could be one.
If she isnt get somebody in with magic fingers, once she has done it once it becomes a lot easier.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ind you most women who have had children have a weak pelvic floor so squirting tends to be accidental leakage, which most would rather avoid, so your working against bladder problems ! and fear of peeing themselves, hardly something to try and achieve "
I love ur posts |
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It is not piss!
I love the feeling it gives me when I squirt and for me it is an amazing feeling, but it's not the be all and end all in sex. Also having a guy so determined to make you squirt is sometimes not the most pleasant, porn has a lot to answer for, and not in a good way lol
To orgasm is much better but if you can manage the two together, now that is a totally mind blowing experience, in my opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am of course perfect, I always leave a man satisfied and with empty balls.
And a cup of tea with cake?"
I don't have any electric in my dungeon, I do suggest guys bring a flask if they want a hot drink, I usually supply mars bars and bottled water, work , rest and play |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Men should be men and women should be grateful "
You make me laugh .
If ya didn't I'd come and find ya and punch ya.
However Lovehoney I am grateful to YOU as you keep me supplied with toys and orgasms these useless men cannot do on their own  |
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How do you MAKE a woman squirt? I don't want anyone 'making' me do ANYTHING.
There are an increasing number of men that are fixated on 'making' a women squirt - like it's a badge of honour (the "I guarantee to make any woman squirt" brigade)and they mistakenly think that we women 'must' do it in order to be fulfilled. Wrong!. I've never squirted and don't particularly want to - a good old fashioned orgasm is sufficient for me. I don't need some bloke going at my foof with their fingers like some Dynarod operative thanks all the same.
I think the bottom line is that every woman is different and you can't generalise and say a certain technique for pleasuring a woman will pleasure EVERY woman. How about focusing on who you're playing with, treating her like an individual, trying different things and going by body language cues to ascertain if she's actually enjoying it rather than thinking 'I have to hook my finger this way and rub that way because someone on an internet site told me it's guaranteed to make her squirt'.
When it comes to sex, enjoy the journey ... don't just race for the destination. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"every woman is different "
not sure where that came from, we are all the same 90% water only difference between people is timing, we will all have the same experiences in life, just at different times.
we are all programmed to survive and reproduce. |
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"Once again people being unrealistic because of a fad. As long as both parties are happy at the end of the session does it really matter.
You are no less a man if you cannot make a woman "squirt" or "gush" and the same applies to the woman.
Too many people focus on the latest benchmark of performance.
I blame modern porn for all this "i can do this" mentality, its fun not a bloody sport.
rant over....lol.
Also means there is not a swamp in the bedroom afterwards lol. maybe you're right "
No maybe about it, he's spot on. You can tell the inexperienced men raised on X hamster. |
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"My advice to you would be stop listening to people on here and stop replicating what you see on porn.
You cannot develop your own skills by listening to others, experiment to see what works with whatever girl you are with. Take note of how she responds, try and focus on her body language, her sounds etc.
Squirting is just a fad, started in porn and replicated by people because they believe it's the 'in' thing. Since first posting on this site I have seen a major increase in the amount of squirting women.
Dont focus on hype, work on reading body language and signs of arousal. If she's having a good time then does it matter, it's not about how many times she orgasms or how much liquid she expels "
***Applauds*** |
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Some guys just seem to have a knack for making me do it very quickly. Doesn't mean I have cum or even that I'm very aroused though generally if it's got to that stage I suppose I usually am. Seems to come down to technique and the basic truth that not every woman can. Not sure why it should be the main focus though or make anyone feel like a failure if they can't. Not even sure if I like it to be honest, as some guys seem to think that you are read for anything after that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Squirting is piss
All that fooking mess yuck
It 100% isn't piss . If it is it's not squirting , it's having a piss .
Says the man "
Ha ha I was going to say that..!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Squirting is piss
All that fooking mess yuck
It 100% isn't piss . If it is it's not squirting , it's having a piss .
Says the man
Ha ha I was going to say that..!!"
lol funny |
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over a year ago
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"I hate squirting and get really annoyed when a guy seems to be focussing on trying to get me to do it. It does mean we have orgasmed. Just relax, do what she likes and take it from there. If I do squirt, it's when I least expect it!"
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"I hate squirting and get really annoyed when a guy seems to be focussing on trying to get me to do it. It does mean we have orgasmed. Just relax, do what she likes and take it from there. If I do squirt, it's when I least expect it! "
on the bus, having a laff at something on telly, or in the aisles at tescos |
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"I hate squirting and get really annoyed when a guy seems to be focussing on trying to get me to do it. It does mean we have orgasmed. Just relax, do what she likes and take it from there. If I do squirt, it's when I least expect it!
on the bus, having a laff at something on telly, or in the aisles at tescos "
don't forget sneezing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hate squirting and get really annoyed when a guy seems to be focussing on trying to get me to do it. It does mean we have orgasmed. Just relax, do what she likes and take it from there. If I do squirt, it's when I least expect it!
on the bus, having a laff at something on telly, or in the aisles at tescos
don't forget sneezing "
Try not to sneeze unless you have a tena on ! |
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"How do you MAKE a woman squirt? I don't want anyone 'making' me do ANYTHING.
There are an increasing number of men that are fixated on 'making' a women squirt - like it's a badge of honour (the "I guarantee to make any woman squirt" brigade)and they mistakenly think that we women 'must' do it in order to be fulfilled. Wrong!. I've never squirted and don't particularly want to - a good old fashioned orgasm is sufficient for me. I don't need some bloke going at my foof with their fingers like some Dynarod operative thanks all the same.
I think the bottom line is that every woman is different and you can't generalise and say a certain technique for pleasuring a woman will pleasure EVERY woman. How about focusing on who you're playing with, treating her like an individual, trying different things and going by body language cues to ascertain if she's actually enjoying it rather than thinking 'I have to hook my finger this way and rub that way because someone on an internet site told me it's guaranteed to make her squirt'.
When it comes to sex, enjoy the journey ... don't just race for the destination."
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Squirting is just a fad, started in porn and replicated by people because they believe it's the 'in' thing. Since first posting on this site I have seen a major increase in the amount of squirting women.
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That is just bollox, what about the people that have experienced it before seeing it in porn? |
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"My advice to you would be stop listening to people on here and stop replicating what you see on porn.
You cannot develop your own skills by listening to others, experiment to see what works with whatever girl you are with. Take note of how she responds, try and focus on her body language, her sounds etc.
Squirting is just a fad, started in porn and replicated by people because they believe it's the 'in' thing. Since first posting on this site I have seen a major increase in the amount of squirting women.
Dont focus on hype, work on reading body language and signs of arousal. If she's having a good time then does it matter, it's not about how many times she orgasms or how much liquid she expels
This
Most intelligent post I have read for a long time."
Ditto. Further enhanced by being in English that conforms to the norms of grammar and punctuation! |
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"Squirting is piss
All that fooking mess yuck
It 100% isn't piss . If it is it's not squirting , it's having a piss .
Says the man
Ha ha I was going to say that..!! lol funny "
Let's get him and all of us piss all over him then let's see what he has to say then ? |
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Squirting is just a fad, started in porn and replicated by people because they believe it's the 'in' thing. Since first posting on this site I have seen a major increase in the amount of squirting women.
That is just bollox, what about the people that have experienced it before seeing it in porn?"
I'm one (self taught, empty bladder, not piss). |
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Squirting is just a fad, started in porn and replicated by people because they believe it's the 'in' thing. Since first posting on this site I have seen a major increase in the amount of squirting women.
That is just bollox, what about the people that have experienced it before seeing it in porn?"
Before porn, I don't understand that. |
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"Squirting is piss
All that fooking mess yuck
It 100% isn't piss . If it is it's not squirting , it's having a piss .
Says the man
Ha ha I was going to say that..!! lol funny
Let's get him and all of us piss all over him then let's see what he has to say then ? "
Yes lets lol |
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"Squirting is piss
All that fooking mess yuck
It 100% isn't piss . If it is it's not squirting , it's having a piss .
Says the man
Ha ha I was going to say that..!! lol funny
Let's get him and all of us piss all over him then let's see what he has to say then ?
Yes lets lol "
U hold him down and I will piss on him and make his bed wet so it smells of piss for days to come |
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"Was is the best way to make a girl squirt!
Fill her mouth with water and slap her cheeks "
Made me laugh out loud. I nearly dropped my phone in the bath. Hehe.  |
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"Personally I'd rather have a good ole fashioned orgasim then have my cervix rammed into gawd knows where by a squirt making obsessive!
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If they were ramming your cervix to try and make you squirt you need a better selection process. |
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"Personally I'd rather have a good ole fashioned orgasim then have my cervix rammed into gawd knows where by a squirt making obsessive!
If they were ramming your cervix to try and make you squirt you need a better selection process."
Maybe I do, that g~spot is a biatch to find lol |
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Here is the answer . Shove your cock in her ass without an foreplay or lube . It's a guaranteed squirt . Can the moderator please close this post now ....PLEASE !!!  |
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Might be boring for you if you've been on here for a while but if the OP is a forum newbie he won't have seen all the previous ones would he...?!
Forums are supposed to be inclusive not exclusive |
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"Not all women can and most would probably prefer it if you didnt try and do it deliberately.
Just you and your partner relax and enjoy each other and if it happens, it happens."
best advice |
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"Might be boring for you if you've been on here for a while but if the OP is a forum newbie he won't have seen all the previous ones would he...?!
Forums are supposed to be inclusive not exclusive "
Ok so what's the answer to the post , we are all ears |
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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago
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"Here is the answer . Shove your cock in her ass without an foreplay or lube . It's a guaranteed squirt . Can the moderator please close this post now ....PLEASE !!! "
You have been on fab for 3 weeks, best of luck.............think you are going to need it. |
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"Might be boring for you if you've been on here for a while but if the OP is a forum newbie he won't have seen all the previous ones would he...?!
Forums are supposed to be inclusive not exclusive
Ok so what's the answer to the post , we are all ears "
there is no answer.
the advice given about not concentrating on it too much is the closest you will get.
however, to lambast someone for asking a question that has been asked before, doesnt make you big or clever.
it happens every day.
there are only so many topics you can come up with before they become stupid, then i guess you would be moaning about people posting stupid topics... |
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Don't worry about making women squirt, just enjoy mutually satisfying sex. If it happens great, if not...does it really matter.
Squirting is the new anal. Three years ago every other message I got was "do you do anal". Now it seems to be just a normal thing to do it and every other message is "do you squirt". Like many have said it's just the latest porn inspired fad.
I wish a new on would come along because I for one am bored of the squirting obsession. |
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Theres two rules to making a lass squirt and have her come back for more.
First rule: never reveal everything you know!
Second rule: ...................................... |
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over a year ago
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"Don't worry about making women squirt, just enjoy mutually satisfying sex. If it happens great, if not...does it really matter.
Squirting is the new anal. Three years ago every other message I got was "do you do anal". Now it seems to be just a normal thing to do it and every other message is "do you squirt". Like many have said it's just the latest porn inspired fad.
I wish a new on would come along because I for one am bored of the squirting obsession."
Latest news in.
The latest big thing is.
Having a bloody good time whilst you happen to be naked, everbbody must try it nowwwwwwww, |
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"plus, 2 of the 3 posts you have created have been asked many many times.
you got some fair responses for them, so stop being an arse."
Ok fair point I guess . At least I can take you guys seriously as you have a proper profile with pictures on here .
I won't respond to silhouettes |
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"plus, 2 of the 3 posts you have created have been asked many many times.
you got some fair responses for them, so stop being an arse.
Ok fair point I guess . At least I can take you guys seriously as you have a proper profile with pictures on here .
I won't respond to silhouettes "
Sorry did somebody say something, as we dont reply to people with zero verifications |
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"Might be boring for you if you've been on here for a while but if the OP is a forum newbie he won't have seen all the previous ones would he...?!
Forums are supposed to be inclusive not exclusive
Ok so what's the answer to the post , we are all ears "
I have no idea what the answer is lol!
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"plus, 2 of the 3 posts you have created have been asked many many times.
you got some fair responses for them, so stop being an arse.
Ok fair point I guess . At least I can take you guys seriously as you have a proper profile with pictures on here .
I won't respond to silhouettes
Sorry did somebody say something, as we dont reply to people with zero verifications"
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I found my ability to gush and squirt in the situation where love and lust combined for me in a now long lasting relationship. While it is true all of us ladies differ the basics of the "skill" anatomy must be a learnable skill, all the ladies we have met have got more than wet so my mans life study of the female form has been perfected! The nicest thing is that far from being cross or jealous we have found that their partners/husbands simply want to see it happen again and for Barry to use me to show them the basics. Wish we could charge for classes,we would be rich by now, but I cant see our village hall moving the yoga night for us to move in!! It is a truly amazing and empowering to watch the thrill on guys faces, especially when you splash them. On a housekeeping/practical note we use disposable bed mats...or we would never be invited back! Dont know where you play but if you get to Yorkshire do join us at Youtopia and regardless of my personal chemistry towards you, to play or not, Im delighted to show you Im on a crusade for all women at least to have the opportunity to try and see if they like the sensation and to what extent their body responds. A couple of guys are on the same lines as my man and we have met two very special ladies, who while helping me explore my bi side, knew instinctively the "trigger" - a big surprise! Its a great gift to give and receive - the more people who know about it and understand the better! |
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Myself and several friends must be trend setters!! My squirting is only one type of orgasm I have, but a firm favourite and Id never seen it in porn when I started the sexual discovery over 20 years ago! |
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If you are not interested in squirting then why keep coming back to this forum...we are delighted to share our experience and knowledge. Leave the comments free for those who are happy to further their fun/skills. ps We might try your "recommended" up the arse trick...but I fear that a whole/hole different concept!!!
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If you are not interested in squirting then why keep coming back to this forum...we are delighted to share our experience and knowledge. Leave the comments free for those who are happy to further their fun/skills. ps We might try your "recommended" up the arse trick...but I fear that a whole/hole different concept!!!
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Hi boredom for me as a multi orgasmic female is the boring guys with no clue about womens bodies, who think they do! No wonder so many females are bored with sexual partners and lack of orienteering! |
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Oh yuk....no its not piss, it smells sweet and is clear, the main problem I have after a long time of orgasms where most involve squirting is that (same as a sexually aroused guy) I can stop a play session desperate for a wee, but until my system settles down it is impossible to do so. Feel free to come see my man and I play and then after about 10 mins hear the force of my wee that has been waiting in the wings! Cant say I would want to do the peeing thing...thats not a female orgasm thats going to the loo....the two are totally different, the first is for fun, the later for emptying my bladder!!! |
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On a practical level we use a couple of disposable bed mats. I have been a squirter most of my sexual life so have learned to tie that in with clitoral orgasms, I dont drink, drugs etc...this is the worlds greatest and cheapest "high"....free!! wish I could show more people how my my partner achieve them, often continually for hour or two, usually have to call a halt as I need a wee and cant do that till system settles and I get very hot with a heart rate of a thoroughbred race horse at full pelt!! Whatever anyones level of fun if it pleases them and their partner no one else matters. |
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See you at Youtopia then to meet us! My man is the magic fingers and I love being a demo to show the doubters its not a porn film makers trick, not me peeing and not an urban myth. Love to share our good fortune!! |
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I thought the whole point of the original question "how can I do it/learn the skills/help my lady achieve it was a request for advice and to listen to peoples experience and knowledge on the matter. Yes you can develop your skills (male and female) by listening and comparing notes with others, that is one of the pleasure of swinging the honesty and openness of like minded folk. Happy to say my advice to a friend helped her and her man achieve, (rightly or wrongly) their personal ambition to squirt...took 5 mins (after 8 years of hoping for, not working for, but hoping against hope...had given up!), now they can pretty much do it as and when the mood takes! you do need to take disposable bed pads if visiting another home or you wont be invited back!! |
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It does to me, since I discovered the sensation, it combined with say a clitoral orgasm has to be one of the seven wonders of the world! If it stopped for emotional or physical reasons that would be a great loss. It is really a mind blowing sensation! Wish I could show everyone the logistics of it, so those who want to try can...its all about skill/knowledge/trust and being prepared to experiment together |
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Why do people think a gushing/squirting orgasm has anything to do with wee??? I have my fun and then have to wait 10-15mins (same as a guy after sex) to let body settle down before I can wee, then usually with gusto! Squirting is fun and happy for people to watch sex play...pee is private behind closed doors! |
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"An orgasm is the best feeling ever! Squirting/gushing is a totally different feeling! But if you are lucky enough for the 2 things to happen at the same time WOW!"
Sorry ... forgot to attach to the quote ... for those of you still paying attention ..... Absobloominglutely |
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As said further up the thread this seems to be 1 of these new fads that's came about due to porn and has given folk unreasonable ideas of what's normal. I've had a few women gush, 1 if them in particular extremely heavy but I can't recall ever having someone squirt across the room like a karcher jet wash like in pornos. What I can recall tho is a former FB asking me to make her squirt as 1 of her pals had bragged that she could squirt so the FB thought there was something wrong with her. I tried reassuring her that not everyone can or will do it and knowing her pal she was likely exaggerating her abilities. However squirt is what she wanted so I'd to set about the task. Try as I might I could not make her squirt. Was the worst sex we had and left her feeling inadequate and me feeling pretty crap too. My advice us don't focus on what happens in porn, just relax and do what you both(or more) enjoy and whatever happens will happen.
Speaking of notions from porn, can folk refrain from spitting on cock's please?? |
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"Oh yuk....no its not piss, it smells sweet and is clear, the main problem I have after a long time of orgasms where most involve squirting is that (same as a sexually aroused guy) I can stop a play session desperate for a wee, but until my system settles down it is impossible to do so. Feel free to come see my man and I play and then after about 10 mins hear the force of my wee that has been waiting in the wings! Cant say I would want to do the peeing thing...thats not a female orgasm thats going to the loo....the two are totally different, the first is for fun, the later for emptying my bladder!!!"
CORRECT , it is NOT Piss . it is totally clear and does taste sweet . Very similar to my Pre Cum , which is also totally clear liquid . |
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"My advice to you would be stop listening to people on here and stop replicating what you see on porn.
You cannot develop your own skills by listening to others, experiment to see what works with whatever girl you are with. Take note of how she responds, try and focus on her body language, her sounds etc.
Squirting is just a fad, started in porn and replicated by people because they believe it's the 'in' thing. Since first posting on this site I have seen a major increase in the amount of squirting women.
Dont focus on hype, work on reading body language and signs of arousal. If she's having a good time then does it matter, it's not about how many times she orgasms or how much liquid she expels "
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"Oh yuk....no its not piss, it smells sweet and is clear, the main problem I have after a long time of orgasms where most involve squirting is that (same as a sexually aroused guy) I can stop a play session desperate for a wee, but until my system settles down it is impossible to do so. Feel free to come see my man and I play and then after about 10 mins hear the force of my wee that has been waiting in the wings! Cant say I would want to do the peeing thing...thats not a female orgasm thats going to the loo....the two are totally different, the first is for fun, the later for emptying my bladder!!!
CORRECT , it is NOT Piss . it is totally clear and does taste sweet . Very similar to my Pre Cum , which is also totally clear liquid . "
Not a another pissing post |
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"Personally I'd rather have a good ole fashioned orgasim then have my cervix rammed into gawd knows where by a squirt making obsessive!
If they were ramming your cervix to try and make you squirt you need a better selection process."
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