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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me the picture on the profile was taken before a fet club. These days I tend to wear a kilt and boots.
crystal tends to wear a corset.
But dress codes vary from club to club and any decent organiser will happily answer questions of what's acceptable |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"a lot of guys where smart clothes trousers and shirt often dark but usually anything apart from trainers and track suit is fine"
Really, Which clubs are they? Some, but far from all accept formal wear but "anything apart from trainers and tracksuits" is a world away from any club I know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"a lot of guys where smart clothes trousers and shirt often dark but usually anything apart from trainers and track suit is fine
Really, Which clubs are they? Some, but far from all accept formal wear but "anything apart from trainers and tracksuits" is a world away from any club I know."
I would say the same ...generally smart, and black for men - women can be a little more creative of course  |
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I've never been to a fetish club but have been to a fetish party at a dedicated venue (it's an adapted cottage so can't really call it a club lol).
I wore a corset, a tutu and stockings and suspenders. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Plus if you are going to TG viewing it as a fet event then you may be disappointed. It is a club night with a fet element but we hear mixed reviews and it appears to be a bit like marmite. And not everyone gets or even respects the fet element. |
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Torture garden is full of posers and beautiful people, all competing for the best costume. Apart from a couple of acts, displays and possibly depending on which one you attend a dungeon, it is pretty much a club night.
I saw and got involved in a lot more play at the Brighton events I've attended then the London ones, the Brighton event is also a lot more friendly. |
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"Which one are you going to?
Maybe torture garden."
We've been to th twice first time we just wore rubber, 2nd wore leatherette trousers and PVC dress. Check out harmony ships or online.
Some just wear knickers,some nude, |
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"If YOU have been to a fetish club.....what did you wear the first time???"
Wear whatever you are comfortable in within the dress code for the first time you go. There's no point spending £££ on outfits if you don't know if you'll go again.
TG has great galleries for past events on their website so check those out for inspiration.
Have a great time! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have been to a specialized fetish club in Birmingham a few times and wore shirt and trousers
And as mentioned above, dark or black seems to be the preferred colour |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We got a nice fetish club on the Cap - Clair Obscure. Very friendly, will even demo (on both of u) plus lend u equipment! In addition to that, food as well! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us there were 2 clubs in Bristol (run by the same lady). Rubber T shirt and leather side laced trousers (bargain from bristol market) for him and rubber mini dress for her - for both clubs. Don't be mean with the talc though or you will suffer lol!!  |
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By *itzWoman
over a year ago
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"a lot of guys where smart clothes trousers and shirt often dark but usually anything apart from trainers and track suit is fine"
Personally I find this attitude lazy. The door bitch shouldn't allow men dressed in what amounts to normal clothing in the club in the first place, as these people are showing they are not true fetishists just a man off the street, have no imagination and probably just want to gawp at people and follow them around. You don't need lots of money, just imagination and insight. Why should the women make all the effort! |
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If you're not sure what the dress code is then maybe ask the club?
If you're just asking for ideas on what to wear then you can generally be as wild as you like....we've seen everything from just wearing a collar and lead to full gimp suits
Basically with the right fetish club you can pretty much indulge in your particular clothing fetish (if you have one)....we do
Mrs Dirty
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By *eepsouthCouple
over a year ago
Bournemouth |
"Which one are you going to?
Maybe torture garden."
Hi and don't mean to be rude but if this is your first time at a fetish club I would not go for TG anything from the entry to the people and very load music packed no where to sit, you would not even be noticed as it's a pose and it's a very hard core fetish club. If your not prudish to see babies and guys with a metal pieces in there mouth to keep it wide open all night then go its a good night out but very different to other more social fetish clubs.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Which one are you going to?
Maybe torture garden.
Hi and don't mean to be rude but if this is your first time at a fetish club I would not go for TG anything from the entry to the people and very load music packed no where to sit, you would not even be noticed as it's a pose and it's a very hard core fetish club. If your not prudish to see babies and guys with a metal pieces in there mouth to keep it wide open all night then go its a good night out but very different to other more social fetish clubs. "
TG is many things but is far from a "very hardcore fetish club"... 
I don't understand the bit about babies or guys with metal in their mouths but it is far tamer than most London clubs from a play point of view. |
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How long is a piece of string depends on you and your attitude and the club I took a Woman to a club dressed only in a karada and a crochet bra i made wasnt long before she was wearing a very different kind of rope bra and boy did here purple brests get noticed |
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"Which one are you going to?
Maybe torture garden.
Hi and don't mean to be rude but if this is your first time at a fetish club I would not go for TG anything from the entry to the people and very load music packed no where to sit, you would not even be noticed as it's a pose and it's a very hard core fetish club. If your not prudish to see babies and guys with a metal pieces in there mouth to keep it wide open all night then go its a good night out but very different to other more social fetish clubs.
TG is many things but is far from a "very hardcore fetish club"...
I don't understand the bit about babies or guys with metal in their mouths but it is far tamer than most London clubs from a play point of view."
The first TG ball I attended there was a couple of adult babies, a couple of men and women on leashes with horse bits in their mouths, but very little play. Even the dungeon was hardly used. I spoke to the door bitch on the couples room door and he said it was quiet in there too.
I love TG parties but if you go expecting hardcore play every where, you are going to be sorely disappointed. |
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By *eepsouthCouple
over a year ago
Bournemouth |
"Which one are you going to?
Maybe torture garden.
Hi and don't mean to be rude but if this is your first time at a fetish club I would not go for TG anything from the entry to the people and very load music packed no where to sit, you would not even be noticed as it's a pose and it's a very hard core fetish club. If your not prudish to see babies and guys with a metal pieces in there mouth to keep it wide open all night then go its a good night out but very different to other more social fetish clubs.
TG is many things but is far from a "very hardcore fetish club"...
I don't understand the bit about babies or guys with metal in their mouths but it is far tamer than most London clubs from a play point of view."
Well we went and we been in the scene for 10 years and seen quite a bit. There was people dressed up as babies in nappies and with dummies also guys with metal that kept their mouth open for other guys to spunk in it. It was a hardcore night the only time we been  .( Salisburycouple can't wait for the 14th x) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I went to one recently for the first time. I was so nervous. I wore all black and had a leather jacket on too.
...i don't really have any fetish wear and i'm not one to wear alternative wear. I just like to wear things that make me feel and look good.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wore a bondage dress which was basically just strategically placed straps with the breasts exposed and my face was painted like Marie Antoinette.
My OH wore a black kilt and a black jacket and a sporran which contained my lipstick  |
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