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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"if people continually get let down, they need to re_iew their selection criteria
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Ive done loads but still no meets keep thinking mabe my pics are let down |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wont my first meet keep getting let downs starting to think site is rubbish depessed ideas   "
Plenty of people meet on here... The site isn't rubbish.
Look a little closer to home. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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take a look at those that are successful and compare their profiles with your own.
you only get what you put in.
its like a bucket.
put some shit in a bucket and wait a week, see what you get out of it.
will still be shit, just maybe a different colour, and a bit harder, but you get my point |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wish you all the best in your future endeavours
Cheers  "
But ... Let me be more constructive.
You don't have anything written in your profile as to what you want, and what you have to offer.
Explain what why you are here, and when messaging try to be conversational and not demanding |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wont my first meet keep getting let downs starting to think site is rubbish depessed ideas "
Your profile says absolutely nothing about yourself, what you like sexually, who you find attractive, what you would like to try with females etc...
You need to look at some other (successful) men's profiles to get an ideas... |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Wont my first meet keep getting let downs starting to think site is rubbish depessed ideas "
i think for 6 weeks and coming up with that conclusion your expectations are way too high....
you get out what you put in..... you used more words in that post than you had in your shop window to the world....
time, patience, basic common sense...
I'm sorry, but only giving it 6 weeks and coming to the conclusion you have says to be you haven't given it time, or shown any patience.... |
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"Wont my first meet keep getting let downs starting to think site is rubbish depessed ideas
Plenty of people meet on here... The site isn't rubbish.
Look a little closer to home."
As the couple say it's not rubbish, it's down to the user. Make the effort, sitting behind a keyboard moaning is not going to help you. Your profile is poor though you might want to re think it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP you have only been on the site for six weeks.... That's not a very long time, this site works well if you use the tools that are put in place for you!
Think about your profile.... Are you selling yourself? There are many more single guys on here than there is couples and single females, so you need to make yourself stand out!
Use the forums for banter, get yourself along to a social or even a club!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"take a look at those that are successful and compare their profiles with your own.
you only get what you put in.
its like a bucket.
put some shit in a bucket and wait a week, see what you get out of it.
will still be shit, just maybe a different colour, and a bit harder, but you get my point"
What a moronic example!!!! Shit in a bucket!!!!! So bad it's funny |
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Like everyone has already said it's your profile. It says nothing of who you are. What your looking for slim females or bbw females or anything you'd like to try like mmf or whatever it is that floats your boat. You need patience lots of patience. Have fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"take a look at those that are successful and compare their profiles with your own.
you only get what you put in.
its like a bucket.
put some shit in a bucket and wait a week, see what you get out of it.
will still be shit, just maybe a different colour, and a bit harder, but you get my point
What a moronic example!!!! Shit in a bucket!!!!! So bad it's funny "
well its hardly going to be a serious suggestion is it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wont my first meet keep getting let downs starting to think site is rubbish depessed ideas "
if its rubbish to you
then why are you still here
an moaning about it wont get you any were either
good luck what you decided |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"take a look at those that are successful and compare their profiles with your own.
you only get what you put in.
its like a bucket.
put some shit in a bucket and wait a week, see what you get out of it.
will still be shit, just maybe a different colour, and a bit harder, but you get my point
What a moronic example!!!! Shit in a bucket!!!!! So bad it's funny
well its hardly going to be a serious suggestion is it "
Not from you lol  |
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The site isn't rubbish, however, the consistent thread that just by being on here guarantees getting your leg over is laughable. If you haven't openly said it, you're thinking about it. Why should being on here be any different to the Vanilla world. People want to meet interesting ( and attractive, and everyone has a different take on what's attractive ) play partners. What ever happened to a little intrigue, humour and persistence! Tailor your profile and pictures to reflect that and perhaps you may have a different _iew. A suggestion....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The site isn't rubbish, however, the consistent thread that just by being on here guarantees getting your leg over is laughable. If you haven't openly said it, you're thinking about it. Why should being on here be any different to the Vanilla world. People want to meet interesting ( and attractive, and everyone has a different take on what's attractive ) play partners. What ever happened to a little intrigue, humour and persistence! Tailor your profile and pictures to reflect that and perhaps you may have a different _iew. A suggestion.... "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wont my first meet keep getting let downs starting to think site is rubbish depessed ideas "
Come to the gym with me fella n well go on the pull bush bash bosh MMF!!! Job done problem solved and the world is at piece |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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l have to agree with some of the others. Your profile needs work. Your spelling needs work. Are you being pro-active? There's a lot of women who like younger men on here. Be polite. I am in a similar area to you and have meets, but it takes time. This may be a sex site, but like everything you get out, what you put in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im getting so sick of these profile threads! Have you ever thought its not your profile an just you as a person? You could have the best looking profile in the world but if when it comes to speaking to another person you cant string 2 sentences together then that could be your problem, i have an average profile, little about myself as a person and what id like to get out of this aswell as what i have to offer, a few simple pics,send half decemt messages and i habe no problem at all, yeah i get knocked back just as Much as any other guy but i dont pester them after or give abuse back, just move on and find someone who thinks on your wavelength, youve been on here a few weeks and calling the site shit when its been around since you thought swinging meant at the playground |
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"Im getting so sick of these profile threads! Have you ever thought its not your profile an just you as a person? You could have the best looking profile in the world but if when it comes to speaking to another person you cant string 2 sentences together then that could be your problem, i have an average profile, little about myself as a person and what id like to get out of this aswell as what i have to offer, a few simple pics,send half decemt messages and i habe no problem at all, yeah i get knocked back just as Much as any other guy but i dont pester them after or give abuse back, just move on and find someone who thinks on your wavelength, youve been on here a few weeks and calling the site shit when its been around since you thought swinging meant at the playground"
Totally agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"take a look at those that are successful and compare their profiles with your own.
you only get what you put in.
its like a bucket.
put some shit in a bucket and wait a week, see what you get out of it.
will still be shit, just maybe a different colour, and a bit harder, but you get my point"
ohhh its a scat forum , ok mine are hard at the moment xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok, I'll start by saying I'm by no means a sex god, but I have had meets, and some awesome ones at that. Your profile is what is letting you down. Your pictures are average at best, you can not accommodate You are not verified and you have no text on your profile. You are up against it as it is with the amount of single guys on here. Get yourself verified even if it's on a webcam, get to a club speak to people and be proactive in your search. Don't send generic "fancy a fuck messages", show interest in peoples profiles and tailor your messages towards it, this will show you've read it. Make your pics interesting and change them regularly, this will catch eyes. This is your shop window so dress it accordingly! You need to stand out from the thousands of bland profiles, which I'm affraid at the minute is the category you are falling in to. Also run your text through spell checker, Havant is where you live. You haven't had a meet! All the best grasshopper! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Wont my first meet keep getting let downs starting to think site is rubbish depessed ideas
Come to the gym with me fella n well go on the pull bush bash bosh MMF!!! Job done problem solved and the world is at piece "
Lol defo bish bash bosh a real good nosh  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any ideas please"
I know a few guys bring a selection of toys along to meets and discuss this with the ladies. Things like vibrators, anal beads and cuffs |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Been doing little work on profile so hope ok also need to know if pics are bad as I don't won't bad pics lol like they are all in bathroom after had a hot steamy shower for some reason they are all in bathroom don't know why tho cheers for the observation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definition of madness is to keep doing the same things and expect different results. Switch it up a bit - different pics, different words, different areas? |
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no wonder you're a 'right stud' - there you go OP, a bit of forum banter goes a long way! Here endeth the lesson 