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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I will be visiting a club for the first time this week during the day and I'm quite nervous about it.
Does anyone have any advice on this as I really want this to be a nice first visit and I don't want to make a fool out of myself and don't want to be sat there on my own while everyone is having a good time.
Any advice would be very appreciative. |
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Be respectful and ask before touching, wait to be invited, smile and make eye contact, don't follow couples about, tell the manager it's your first time then you might get a 'buddy' to show you round, put a meet up now and go with someone, don't sit in a corner looking sorry for yourself, get up an walk about and chat to people.
Guess what? I've never been to a club but that's what I'd do. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Be respectful and ask before touching, wait to be invited, smile and make eye contact, don't follow couples about, tell the manager it's your first time then you might get a 'buddy' to show you round, put a meet up now and go with someone, don't sit in a corner looking sorry for yourself, get up an walk about and chat to people.
Guess what? I've never been to a club but that's what I'd do. "
Thanks mate. This is very useful advice. I must ask though, do I buy condoms at the club or should I bring my own? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I've just realised that I have a little bag that I carry my swimming goggles in. I could use the bag to put my condoms in and carry it about around my wrist  |
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"I've just realised that I have a little bag that I carry my swimming goggles in. I could use the bag to put my condoms in and carry it about around my wrist "
See? You worked it out! Ps. The goggles might come in useful for close ups of women squirting. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've just realised that I have a little bag that I carry my swimming goggles in. I could use the bag to put my condoms in and carry it about around my wrist
See? You worked it out! Ps. The goggles might come in useful for close ups of women squirting. "
Lol thanks for the tip but I'll be leaving the goggles at home lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Reading this thread maybe it's a bit early for you to be going to a club.
Take some time to read club website FAQ's, based on what you are asking here I guess you haven't done that yet.
All the answers you could ever want are freely available on line so if you have to come ask in here maybe you are not ready yet.
Just my humble opinion  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Reading this thread maybe it's a bit early for you to be going to a club.
Take some time to read club website FAQ's, based on what you are asking here I guess you haven't done that yet.
All the answers you could ever want are freely available on line so if you have to come ask in here maybe you are not ready yet.
Just my humble opinion "
I have had a look on the club websites which had useful information. I did ring up a club at one point asking about prices and they were very helpful. |
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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago
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"I will be visiting a club for the first time this week during the day and I'm quite nervous about it.
Does anyone have any advice on this as I really want this to be a nice first visit and I don't want to make a fool out of myself and don't want to be sat there on my own while everyone is having a good time.
I posted a similar question on the forums. Great advice was given.
http://m.fabswingers.com/forum/clubs/203889
Any advice would be very appreciative."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I will be visiting a club for the first time this week during the day and I'm quite nervous about it.
Does anyone have any advice on this as I really want this to be a nice first visit and I don't want to make a fool out of myself and don't want to be sat there on my own while everyone is having a good time.
I posted a similar question on the forums. Great advice was given.
http://m.fabswingers.com/forum/clubs/203889
Any advice would be very appreciative."
Thanks mate. Looking at your post was very useful |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Expect nothing to happen - just observe the other guys closely , maybe even a few visits watching and learning single guys who play all the time - then you wi be ready |
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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago
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"I will be visiting a club for the first time this week during the day and I'm quite nervous about it.
Does anyone have any advice on this as I really want this to be a nice first visit and I don't want to make a fool out of myself and don't want to be sat there on my own while everyone is having a good time.
Any advice would be very appreciative."
I went to a club last Sunday and I was quite nervous...all you can do is just try to be yourself. Nod at people to acknowledge them, greet them politely if you are in a jacuzzi or sauna...try to make conversation whenever possible but don't force it if you see the cold shoulder...try to roam about in the play areas but not for too long in the same place or where too many men are. That's in my humble opinion though. I hope it helps. Just be as relaxed and authentic as you can x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Don't expect too much, take up offers of tours round the place and try to smile when you can. It won't be easy to relax but try to do so and make an effort to chat to people if you can. Just go have fun and enjoy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've just realised that I have a little bag that I carry my swimming goggles in. I could use the bag to put my condoms in and carry it about around my wrist "
Job's a gooden  |
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Very nice pics and profile ..i hope your first club experience is a positive one. I think the main thing to remember is manners and respect to other ladies and couples and not to expect sex just because you have paid to get into a club ..have fun and let us know how it goes |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks very much everyone for such lovely advice. Its a good thing I always have manners and respect for people. I probably may get a bit shy at first when talking to people but hopefully I should be able to have a good time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If I was you I would try and get a female friend to go with you.
Failing that, don't be afraid to sit at the bar and talk to the bar staff to get you feeling comfortable ...
Which are you planning on going |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If I was you I would try and get a female friend to go with you.
Failing that, don't be afraid to sit at the bar and talk to the bar staff to get you feeling comfortable ...
Which are you planning on going "
I'm planning on going to Cupids. |
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By *leepyangelCouple
over a year ago
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I have met single guys at cupids with my playmate. If you feel a bit uncomfortable, sit at the bar with Kim, she's lovely. Make the effort to speak to the ladies there. Whatever you do .... DON'T prowl!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have met single guys at cupids with my playmate. If you feel a bit uncomfortable, sit at the bar with Kim, she's lovely. Make the effort to speak to the ladies there. Whatever you do .... DON'T prowl! "
Never stand in a dark corner -! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have met single guys at cupids with my playmate. If you feel a bit uncomfortable, sit at the bar with Kim, she's lovely. Make the effort to speak to the ladies there. Whatever you do .... DON'T prowl! "
Never stand in a dark corner -! |
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